Hello mommies. Plz Answer for my question.is oats burn calories in baby's. Can i give it to my baby or not? I am in confusion

Which is best cooker for babies.. steel or aluminium?? I'm really confused.. in Google both r having pros n cons.. n copper based also having cons.. so how I choose for my baby.. someone is telling aluminium cooker is bad for health.. nd somone says steel cooker is bad then how to choose.. plz plz gv ur advice.. it's about my baby health I dnt want to take risk.. if I use in high flame will it get poison??

I was not in good terms with my father and my in-laws family knew it. I never told my mother or anyone about the things I faced in my sasural. But I have started feeling that my in-laws thinks I have no-one to support either than my husband so they can say anything to me. My SIL did something and I was upset but they told me ki sastro me likha hai ki ghar ki beti ko ijjat kro and ignore kro. I was unable to understand that instead of telling her something they supported her. I am not able to come out from this incident. Now I think I should tell my mother and brother about it and let them talk to my in-laws as they feel I have no-one. Should I do this? Please tell me how to handle this situation?