Baby 38weeks having both kidney swelling 17cms any serious pblm plz answer

I don't understand the logic behind delivery expenses to be taken care by women's family?? The baby actually belong to the Men's family...he will bear their name, then why women's family should be responsible for delivery expenses?

Hello momies... My daughter is 1year 3 months old .. she has 6.4 hemoglobin 😞😞 don't know the reason... M uska bhot dhyan rakhti hu .. but abhi recently usne jadh nikali h.. jisme usko green white loose motions lge thy wd some traces of blood.. uske baad se bhot week hogyi h ... Wen she was 7-8 months old uska hb 9.5 tha... And now it's 6.4 😩 itna km kaise hogya