Every next day we come across jokes that are centred towards wives. Sometimes we laugh at them, sometimes we argue over them but most of the time we forget about them and then we move on. It was recently, that I came across one such forward written by Sir Amitabh Bachchan which presented a different viewpoint on the wife. He presented a beautiful and admirable side of her.
That read stayed with me because I am a wife myself. We always strive to be good at everything that we do and when it comes to a happy marriage and married life, the strive gets stronger. let us understand a happy marriage by focusing on wife first. In this article, we will find out the qualities of a good wife and we would discuss in detail how to be a good wife?
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Support His Friends And Encourage His Friendship
There is a tendency to give up friends when men get married. Which in no way is the right thing to happen? An important thing that you can do to be a good wife is to give him time to spend with his friends. Encourage him to hang out in his company. This would make him feel happy and carefree and when husbands are happy they keep their wives happier.
Say "NO" To Nagging
Wives and nags go hand in hand they say. And if you feel that you may also be one of those nagging wives than it's time for introspection and correction. Frequent complaints in a relationship can cause unnecessary rifts between you and your spouse. Because of your complaining nature, your husband might start avoiding you. This may lead to complications in your married life. So, it is best to stop nagging especially when you aim to be a good wife. Instead, you prefer to talk to your husband and explain him your point in a polite way.
Gratitude is a wonderful thing to give and to receive. It is said that gratitude impacts our life by engaging our brain in a virtuous cycle. This, in turn, strengthens and solidifies human’s ability to work-life balance. Tell your husband he has been your pillar of strength. Tell him you are thankful to him for being around through all ups and downs of life. This would make him consider that you are the best wife a man can ever think of.
Compliment Is A Must
Whether you are married recently or you are married for years, you should never stop complimenting him. Compliment him for his new shirt, his pair of new shoes or his new haircut. Do not miss a chance of complimenting him whenever it's genuine. This would make him feel secure and wanted and you simply the best wife.
Take A Break From Your Phone
When your husband wants to talk to you or wants to discuss any subject, it gets important that you put your phone away for a bit. This would make him feel that he is respected and valued. He will appreciate your this gesture and would automatically feel more connected to you.
Love Is Meant To Be Expressed
Love forms the pillar of good husband and wife relationship. Do not hide it from your husband. If there is anything that you want to hide from him than hide your anger, not your love. Expressing love will make your relationship stronger and your married life beautiful. Spend quality time with your husband, go out for a date, enjoy a sport together, watch movies together; so on and so forth. Celebrate all your important days, gift him on his special days. All these will make you a better wife and his love for you will grow deeper.
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Encourage Him To Be Healthy
Happy family life stands on a happy health. And it begins with you when you take the charge. Help your husband in choosing a healthy lifestyle without being bossy about it. If you are the cook of the family then make sure that you arrange healthy meals for him. When it comes to healthy lifestyle, encourage him to accommodate a fitness regime in his routine. Make sure that you join him in his spree. When you both as a couple chose to live healthily, there are various things that you both would do together and share. Whether it's going for a morning walk or joining a sport, you both will get quality time to spend together. This would boost good husband and wife relationship.
Let Your Husband See His Best Friend In You
You husband may have many friends around him but make it sure that he finds his best friend in his wife i.e you. Best friends support each other, understand each other and love each other unconditionally. They function as a team. Be his cheerleader when he takes step towards his goal. Give him the confidence that ‘come what may’ you will always be there and your relationships are hard as a rock. This will make your husband more attracted to you, he will love you more and would always consider you as a good wife.
Possess All The Qualities Of A Good Wife
Be affectionate, caring, warm, generous, positive and understanding. Learn to keep his secrets. Be reliable and dependable. Make sure that your husband feels confident about you. When he comes home, welcome him with a smile, helps him relax, give him a massage. Support his success and failures equally. Stand by him in his difficult days. Cherish his dreams and trust him for everything he does.
As your married life progresses, your relationship gets stronger and your responsibility as a good wife increases. However, being the best wife is not as difficult as you may have imagined. To be a good wife all you need to do is understand your husband, be his best friend, support him, make time for intimacy and communicate clearly with him. This would ensure you of all the qualities of a good wife.