Mistakes, you say? Is there even a wrong way of making love if you are enjoying it? Well, there’s no wrong or the right way but there are a few things you can do to enhance the experience altogether. Here are a few mistakes you might be making without even realizing it.
1. Not being generous enough
Of Course, it’s okay to be a little selfish when it comes to seeking pleasure. But it’s also nice to be on the giving end rather than the receiving side once in awhile. Make sure that your partner enjoys the experience as much as you intend to and don’t shy away from doing things for them. Your husband will go crazy if you volunteer to do something just for them, no return gift expected ;)
2. Not talking about what you want
In the beginning, it might be difficult to voice out your desires and fantasies aloud but it is necessary. It is practically impossible for your partner to read your mind and do what is expected of him if he is unaware of what you want. If you’re not comfortable with graphic detailing then at least do tell him what you want in general. Maybe you’re uncomfortable with a position or you’d prefer to the be the one calling shots - he’ll never know if you never tell.
3. Not smiling and laughing
People have a misconception that passionate sex is all serious with you and your partner lost in each other. But the fact is that there is nothing more beautiful than 2 people comfortable in their skin laughing and having a good time as they make love to each other. After all, sex is about pleasure and smile is one of the most basic pleasures of life.
4. Not trying out new things
We get that you might be hesitant towards trying out new things in the bedroom, but it’s always better to do something and regret it rather than regret not doing something. So whatever your partner or your heart desires, go for it. It might end up being the best thing you’ve ever done.
5. Not making eye contact
Eye contact takes the entire sexual experience to a whole another level. It creates a deep connection between you and your partner and helps you stay in the moment. Although it will make you vulnerable, it’ll be all worth it. Don’t close your eyes or focus your attention on other things; eye contact is intimate and sensual - Two things that are a must when it comes to making love.
6. Not Focusing on the journey
Sometimes you might be so lost in paying attention to the finish that you’ll forget about the journey altogether. It’s a lesson not just when it comes to life but also sex. Of Course, sex is amazing when it’s accompanied by the O and it’s better if the G is hit but it’s the experience that counts. So clear your mind and stay in the moment with your partner.