It is indeed heartbreaking when you finally come to an acceptance that your spouse has fallen out of love with you. It gets worse when you realize that your love life didn’t have the fairytale ending that you expected and that your marriage is OVER for good.
It’s not like one day you wake up to find your man falling out of love with you. He must have dropped a billion subtle signs which you might have missed out on. Most of us don’t want to face the fact that it is really over so we choose to overlook and ignore signs radiating out from the man. Just because he makes love to you or kisses you, doesn't mean that he’s in love with you. Expressing love can be through different acts of communication and not just through an act of physical intimacy.
Here are 5 red flags you should watch out for:
He becomes more fickle minded with his words and actions. Its like, if he’s angry at you and says horrible things to you like he wishes that you were dead or just never there in his life etc..and suddenly the next day he’s waiting to make love to you. If he doesn’t have personality disorders, then you should definitely watch out for this sign.
2.Holidays, anniversaries..what’s that??
When surprises and gifts don’t even flow in during your anniversaries or holidays, it could be a sign that he might be falling out of love with you. If he doesn’t even remember or doesn’t make the effort to remember the important dates of your relationship, that’s a sure shot sign that he has lost interest in you.
3. “It is because of YOU!!”
The root cause of all problems begins with you. When all the quarrels end up in blame games, and he puts it all on you, he is definitely out of love with you. When you try to talk and explain what the matter is and he refuses to listen, just understand this one thing straight- by doing this, he is looking for reasons to walk out on your marriage/ relationship.
4.No efforts from his side
If you ever find yourself making all the sacrifices in your relationship and he is least bothered about it, it is high time you realize that he doesn’t want to make it work. He barely listens to what you have to say.
5.He constantly criticises you
He is never happy with anything you do, be it your sense of dressing, the way you’ve put your hair or the way you’ve cooked food. He just never stops complaining about it. He only wants to find faults in everything you do. This is a clear-cut sign that he is done with your marriage and doesn’t want to be with you at all.