1 Year Old Girl
I do not gel with my in laws, we have completly diffrent mind set. They are very consevative and i do not expect anything from them and i try to keep them happy. But they want me change completly and this suffocates me. Anyone expericing the same and how r u dealing with it?
in such cases u should clarify ur stand on any controversial topic within 1 or 2 yrs of marriage .thats my view. initially u may feel u hv hurt dem or even insulted dem to some extent bcz u may deny view/rebel/ do not do things according to their wishes but frankly u will loose ur whole Identity if keep on agreeing to things which ur in laws says blindly.. keep in mind dat whenever u present or say should hv valid & reasonable point in it.. this may even convince ur in laws sometimes..for support u cn talk to ur husband before abt ur thoughts. difficult but possible....
the thing is.baby tends to get a familiarity with the things he/she hears loudly outside womb n in general that interest is carried forward wn he is outside. for example,i used to listen to music whole day on TV, so as my baby heard the songs always,she still loves music a lot. it's a pacifier to her n she even recognises different music of the songs n react. About reading n all- u just get urself a calmness by reading spiritual books. a positivity n many things to shoo away fears or negativities. so that way it's gud. not that ur baby will also b spiritual or good charactered if u read them. about watching porns- till the time it's not loudly played on TV or phone etc. it won't affect as baby can't hear it. but emotionally,as u get high with its ending,ur hormones n ur desires change. make sure that u don't do anything which can make ur baby feel uncomfortable inside. otherwise it's all ok. Thinking about sex is not A Characterless thing. And one could only get the urges after puberty only. So once in a while, it's OK with ur headphones on
Dear pregnant ladies if u r not feeling the baby movements or kicks for more then 2hours pls asap go to hospital dont ignore and dont listen to ur MIL😈........ Rush to hospital whatever is the time... Y im writing this here. Today when i went for checkup there one lady came with 39weeks pregnant and she wasn't feel baby movements for 3days and the 1st day only she told to her MIL but she didnt take care of it.....after 3days she told to husband when doctor checked there is no heart beat and movements in baby so pls dont ignore😢i really feel pity for her.............she only know the pain......
We cant blame the MIL or anyone here Just follow ur mind and be careful about each and every minute thing Do not go with APP opinions or anyone pls always be in touch with your doc Only she would know whats right and wrong NO ONE can understand no matter how experienced they are every pregnancy is different Esp with movements I have seen ladies asking questions in what to do movement nhn hua What to do I am bleeding What to do I am feeling weak Ladies all these symptoms are like an alarm Stop asking those questions here and JUST GO TO THE DOC Even if its silly thing I ALWAYS ask my doctor no matter what it is because its my BABY
11 Months Old Girl
One of my frnd got to know her pregnancy at 10 weeks or so. Her doc didnt advise her for level 1 scan or any blood test. After talking to me, she gotta know this n today had anamoly scan n found there is no nasal bone at all, at 20w 4days. She is advised to hv quadruple test Plz let me know if anyone had this even at 2nd trimester, n what was the result
3 Months Old Girl
I'm really crying while writing this. Please reply friends. My baby is in Neonatal Intensive Care Unit (NICU) right after birth due to breathing problems. It's his 6th day now. I want to breastfeed him, but doctor suggested not to feed him directly. I was told to pump milk manually in bottle and that they will feed my baby with a tube. But when I manually pump milk, just a few drops of milk comes out. It is not enough to fill the bottle. My breast is becoming tender and painful. I want to feed him but can't do anything.
Please be strong. It might not work for you at first. You need to try every few hours to get your body to realize that it's supposed to make milk. At first, nothing may come out. This is normal.The first milk that comes out is colostrum. Colustrum is the most important milk you can give a newborn and is often called “liquid gold". There is very little colostrum, the first time you actually get something out, it might be so little you think it’s not worth it. Give it to the NICU nurses anyhow. They’ll get it out and give it to your newborn. A newborn’s stomach is as small as a thimble, or smaller in our case. Don’t give up. Try again in several hours. You just ask help. Either your nurse or one of our lactation consultants will help you set up the pump and position it on your breast. If this is a new experience for you, be sure to ask questions and try to relax. Read all the instructions about your pump before using it. The more you pump, the more confident you’ll feel. To make your pumping session more effective, pump in a place where you feel relaxed and comfortable. Have everything you need within reach, including something to drink. The following tips may help stimulate let-down: Gently stimulate the nipples before you begin.Eat or drink just before pumping and while pumping.Massage your breasts before you begin and periodically during the pumping session. Think of your baby, pump in the baby's room, look at a picture of your baby while pumping or smell an article of your baby's clothing. Just try to divert mind while pumping and you will find more milk and keep on pumping don't give up. Don't worry dear everything will be fine.
5 Months Old Girl
My hubby is not at all loving he is bsy in his own world he don't like hug kisses having dinner lunch together he don't like chatting calling wht should i do its 3 years completed my marriage i fight lot try to change him but no improvement we have baby also he plays with her he is very caring for his parents but with me not all.
hi dear..my hubby is also same. I was also very tensed by this kind of behavior but then I started to ignore it shifted my focus my studies and friends. it's been 9 years since my marriage but my husband is still the same. now I have 1 and half years of son.now hes my world. sometimes it does bother me the behavior of him. but now I have started to fight for my love and attention and care that I deserve from partner instead of ignoring him or shifting my attention towards any other things.. because until and unless we'll demand and fight for what we want and crave for how another person will come to know or give us. so I think communication is the key.and in the first place give him that care and love that u want from him. I hope he understands😊😊 happy ,blissful and Romantic married life♥️♥️
1 Year 7 Months Old Boy
My brother in law marriage is near .. As my baby is younger still demands bm ..n i Have to work a lot in marriage m scared how will i manage n there r so many traditions in our cast like in front of gents do parda .. Dnt sit on bed in front of elder sit on floor in front of old ladies or Mil .. How will i manage 😭😭😭😭😭😭n my baby dnt go wth strgers he dnt leabe me at all
start weaning...stop day time breastfeeding. start from now if he demand divert his mind give something to eat.. start self feeding. let him make mess he will learn gradually. try to make him social. take him to park so that he at least start playing with other kids. you can take other family member's help. let your husband handle baby for some time during marriage function.
6 Months Old Boy
Hello.mom.anyone who live abroad can tou pmease tell me whuch milk you used to make curd for your 6 month baby. Here only tetrapack is available.so.please help.me which one should.i buy like skimmed low fat or full fat to make his curd .
11 Months Old Girl
Hi dear mommies out here.... I got a msg from tinystep tht this app is gonna closed soon..... Is it true....?? If so i wana thank all mommies out here who helped me during my pregnancy period and much more..i cant explain how helpful it was... Bcz it was my first pregnancy and i had no idea abt nything related... Thank you so much... And Love you all... ♥️♥️♥️ God bless all ur little one's too. ... 😊❤️
Watching porn during pregnancy can effect baby? From some days I'm addicted. I can't help it out. Please help me.
It does not affect your baby at all. In fact, by making you feel good, it's actually good for you. Orgasms in the last month could lead to contractions. Other than that, there is absolutely no harm in it. Don't feel bad or ashamed about this. This is perfectly natural because of all the hormones we are swimming around in. Have fun :)
5 Months Old Boy
Hello mommies.I want to share a horrible experience faced by a friend of mine.Plz do not let your baby engage her time in tv or mobile.It not just coz of eyes.My friend used to use tv and mobile for feeding her baby, for getting some self time, for keeping her baby not crying etc. now her baby who is 1.5 years at present is in half coma. She kept neglecting the idleness of her baby. One fine day the baby didn’t feed for the whole day, that day she took him to her ped. Her doctor and 2more peds told her that the baby mind which was in rapid development stage is completely locked only to tv and mobile and her organs which are brains driven will work only after being stimulated by tv/mobile.For babies tv/mobile are just colorful moving patterns that keeps their brain focused.But babies brain is not made to b focused at one thing. It should be diverted and exploring. Right now the baby is hospitalized and being tube fed. And is under counseling. May god give strength to her and her baby
Very informative. These days Kids are not easy to handle so we have started giving phones to distract them but this is not the solution. Instead of giving them phone/tv we can read them some stories or play with them or involve them into something else. I know this is not easy but we have to bring new ideas to keep them away from technology. I would like you all to share some interesting ideas which could help distracting them.
1 Year 4 Months Old Boy
Hi dears .. I stopped breastfeeding my baby sterday but my breast so heavy and it's paining what can I do to reduce or stop the milk flow. Plz help me frnds. Some saying keep jasmine flower, others saying that keep neem leaf it will stop soon . what is the best way to solve this problem? ..
11 Months Old Girl
My 11 month daughter is vry attached to my mom. Actually after delivry i spend 7 month at my parents house. My mom was always there to look after her... Now my dauhter thinks my mom is her mom. Now Whenever she see my mom on video call she wants her. She cries vry badly for her. Mujhe os pe tars aata hai kya kru kaise ose khush kru....wo meri mom k bin nhi reh pati
4 Months Old Girl
Guys, today I shouted My mil since because she sarcastically asked whether milk is coming from my nipple... I couldn't control my temper.. I told her not to talk like this in front of me... She used to say everyone my milk is not sufficient for lo. And she was urging me to start semi solids now itself.. My baby is just 4 months completed and her weight is gud. Having all this in my mind I scolded her. Now she is blackmailing that she is going to native tomorrow itself... As I have to join back my work, we took her to Chennai with us. Because of my temper, she is telling like this now. I feel bad.. My hubby does not know abt this yet. I don't know what is going to happen once he comes back from office... Was I wrong???
think from her perspective.. she came for you and baby leaving her native place and she asked not to Blame you but just to ensure that baby is getting full or not.. and at her time weaning used to start early in 4 months so she just need to be counselled about it so you better apologize not just because she is elder and she deserves respect but also she loves your baby and remember it is always better to leave baby with mil than a maid or daycare
4 Months Old Boy
There is no such difference between government and priate vaccines.Few difference are as follows: Cost of vaccine: There is an escalating cost of vaccines in private sector where as the govt vaccines are cheap. The govt vaccines are far less compared to private ones.few are about one sixth the cost of private vaccines. Quality: Quality check will be as WHO standards in both in private and govt sector.But the problem with govt vaccines is their way of transportation and storage.majority of vaccine failure occurs during the phase of transportation and storage.overall both are similar. Number of vaccines: Govt provides only basic vaccines as per WHO schedule but the private sector provides additional recommeded vaccines. for more info: https://raisingtwinsblog.com/2015/07/19/article-on-different-dpt-combination-vaccines/
9 Months Old Boy
Hey all, i feel.so bad nowadays, i get souch tempred...i was taking all the time table for my baby..n he used to eat and sleep like that..now from 2 weeks he is became too chidchid..like not eating properly, not taking proper sleep...always cries in the nite..checked with doc everything is fyn.. Due to this i feel like no interest in my child..i feel that he is becoming so lean day by day..wat to.do..he is not taking bottle also..n bm is not coming like before..tried everything for top feed..but no work... Wat to do yaaar...pls help...i m too much tensed and feel that baby mene kuch jaldi plan kar liya
I will only suggest you to have patience. all babies do like that. we just need lots of patience. your baby must have some problem try to find it. may be teething, irritation in gums, gas trouble most babies went on nursing strike refuse to eat. it's very common at this age. keep trying. taking tension and getting angry will not work in baby's case. we have to act according to baby.
1 Year 9 Months Old Boy
Hey mommies, just want to SHARE SOMETHING, my boy is not complete 2years yet.. he s 20months old .. but he is counting numbers n reading alphabets .. first he start counting 1 to 10 now he s start 1 to 20 numbers 😱in sequence and he knows all alphabets correctly he s saying that again and again .. oh god I m feeling glad as well as shocked too.. how today’s generation is so cleaver and intelligent? .. he s doing all this things before 2 years which took me 4,5years of my life 😂😂... he knows rhymes also .. he try to say that but can’t .. he s trying to talk .How’s ur experience mommies? I m really glad to hear .
ya today's generation is very smart and intelligent..my daughter started reading map when she was just 2.6 years old. used to tell her every body parts reads all her books nearly 25 board books I bought for her. she memorize everything which I tell her only once...I think this generation is amazing...few days back in fb I read one post about a child he memorize all countries with their capital national anthem and many things and hold Guinness records...god bless to your baby...
11 Months Old Girl
after reading answers of daily eating schedule of babies, I'm like😞.how can u all manage to give this much food with very small intervals. as my baby is not taking anything. like my baby wakes up at 9 am i give her wheat porridge by 9.30 then at 11.30 i giver her some snacks like tomato biscuit chikoo apple but she's not eating anything. then at 1 pm i give her roti n curd. then after sleeping, at 4.30 pm i give her banana milk smoothie then at 7pm some snacks like biscuits mamra fruit khakhra anything but she is not eating. then at 8pm i give her paratha dahi or khichdi. then at 10.30 onwards bm only.her weight is 7.150 kg
Same here Kajal.Mine thoughts were also same as how well many mothers r maintaining a proper eating schedule for babies & babies r fed at short intervals.My baby regularly eats only rice with ghee or any curry .Rice is the only food she is interested eating daily.She is interested in other food only if she is hungry , otherwise she won't eat & also no proper sleeping schedule , some days never sleeps & some days will sleep morning & evening , sometimes sleeps only in afternoon.So every day is a suspense for me whether today my baby will eat properly or not.Hats off to all mothers & babies for keeping proper eating & sleeping schedule😊
1 Year 3 Months Old Girl
😨Hi moms plz plz help me how to stop breast feeding.. I'm not offering as feed but my baby needs it to sleep. She drinks for 15 min n she fells asleep. But the problem is even in day time naps also she cries in middle for every half n hour ( some times for every 15 min also). Then again I have to breastfeed her to sleep. Night time it's becoming innumerable times I have to nurse her to make her asleep. Due to this im not going any where not attending any marriages bcz in sleep also she needs me many times which is not possible out side of home. Plz help me any one faced the same situation... 1. How to make her sleep for atleast 1.5 hr without having need to be breastfed in middle ( her tummy will be full she needs only for sleep). 2. How to stop breast feeding???
don't breast feed whenever baby ask. fix proper time. baby will get used to it. give bf before sleep, but in-between sleep if baby wakes up don't feed. try to make her sleep by lying near her. just tap her or you put in your lap and sing song or put in your shoulder and tap her. the best easiest way is you may use thottil (julla). give baby enough food before sleep.