A Month Old Boy
Hi f rds... help me... again a personal help... I m a mother of 1 month old baby. Now i m staying in mom home. My mom indirectly saying to all that i will go to mother in law house at 1 1/2 month from there to work place where me and husband live alone. I was shocked. I planned to stay atleast 3 month, so that i become to handle alone. But wen i here this its hurts , I thought i go and somehow I handle alone.one day she asked which date going to mil home at 1 1/2 month, I asked r u asking me to go with 1 1/2 month baby. Till 7 month preg I was alone with husband .. she didn't bother to help me. Even after that she doesn't bother to give me nutritious.. I accept she have knee problem but every time i eat food some how.. some days she give me good food. but someone come home she say i keep kasayam and give i give that that. I go to baba temple many time baba prasatham only satisfied by Hungry. she say u should become steady and cook ...now too. Is i m taking her in wrong way ?
Hi Don't worry... I had my first pregnancy in USA.. our elders visa got rejected and reached to a point in pregnancy no flight journey.. there is no other option except to handle it alone with hubby. Do not get panic and think that we women cannot do. WE CAN... yes we went to pregnancy and baby classes and learnt all that's necessary.. my husband was able to take only 1 week leave and he had to rush to the office.. it's all alone me who handled new born, feeding, oil massage, baths, bottle cleaning etc etc. My hubbys work started to be more pathetic that he could not help me after coming from office.. my friend helped me in cooking for a month.. after a month my baby born I started cooking. We cannot afford maid in USA. So it's me and hubby who use to do all the work and manage baby. Weekends he use to take care of cleaning house and laundry. It's not something that we cannot handle.. build confidence and do it yourself.. it might be messy but you can do it.. situations will make us impossible also possible. USA household work is easy but India is little difficult.. talk to your husband and keep maid.. so that you can avoid household works completely and focus on baby.. you can do it dear... all the best.. Coming to your mom you should be knowing what's her problem is.. think think. If you think it's financial problem why don't you discuss with your husband and help her?? If it's her health problem why can't you keep a maid in your moms place?? So that work will be less and she can help you just with baby.. there is one more point too.. are you contributing your share of work?? Sorry I have observed my cousins try to not contribute there share and expect everything their mom to do.. at this age they might not be able to do so. Share of work I'm talking about is with baby not household..
If anyone don't mind I am sharing my personal problem.I have a daughter of 10 days via C-section.I got married in Jan 2017.it was a love marriage from starting I am facing so many problems related to my in-laws my husband never supports me.Now my daughter is born she is not healthy and her skin color is dull my husband refused to take her or help me whn I need it.He always try to prove his family that he has not changed after marriage or will not change after baby.. His sister always comments on me. And praise other he always shouts at me to prove that his priority is his family.If I asked about sinitizer he said don't be oversmart and when his sister asked abt it he bought it.Like I am educated enough to take care of me and my baby.But he always treats me like an uneducated one. His sister staying with us to help me.She only gives bath to my baby not helping me. Even when ever giving me food she makes faces.baby wakes up at night and she never helps me and shows like she did evrythng
i can understand your pain. there are alot of crooks in this world who still think a daughter has to be fair enough to be the part of the family. please do not rely on anyone for anything. start doing things by your self. you can bath your baby at the sink or can wipe her body through a damp cloth. i hope you are educated, get yourself a job because i think if your husband can put you down inspite of loving you than he can be harsh to the baby girl too. you are yourself enough for your own baby. no matter your baby is dark or fair you will have to be there for your baby. stay strong and motivatedm. plan your life, plan how you want your baby to grow up. do you want her to see how her mother is boeng treated at home? ...please think twice before staying with such ppl. i am saying this because even your husband is playing games with you. you are a mother now and have greater responsibility so please be sure about what you do.
1 Year Old Girl
Please reply. My baby poops in diaper at night and i came to know about it in morning,her vagina is red with swelling, she cries a lot during urine passing otherwise playing, please reply, I'm scolding myself for this carelessness
3 Months Old Girl
2 Months Old Boy
plz don't close this app... as u said q & ans forum i'll get but what about growth chart and tracker information...it"s an mom's community... why r u closing this app without anyones permission... somewhere some1 pregnant and just mom are there ... it's like a mom's family if u close this app we thought u play with our immotion..... ????
5 Months Old Girl
After delivery am at my mom's home. My husband loves me and my lo. He is a very nice person bt only prob in my life is my MIL. It feels like she is not at all happy with my lo. Nver calls n on my back complains to my husband that "beta Teri wife Hume call hi nahi karti Teri beti kaisi hai Hume pata hi nahi chalta". At this point I think they shud call n ask abt my lo if they r really interested. Well it's true I didn't call her coz of her behaviour after my delivery which my husband is nt aware of. Now my husband asked me ki 2-3din main video call Kar liya karo unhe. He said so sofly that I was unable to say no to him. But from inside I never want to call her. Still am thinking wen u don't care about my child then y should I call u. Also the 2nd thing coming in my mind is that he is forcing me for this against my will. Though he too never calls my parents. I will remind him to call then only he will call. I want say him u too shud call my parents as they r taking care of ur lo.
If we understand one simple thing that we should never complain about aur in laws to our husbands and never expect anything from in laws, then our lives would be much better. Why we fail to understand that in laws can never ever care about bahus of their family and they will always command respect come what may. Don’t try to belittle them in front of husbands because if someone had tried to belittle our parents then we would have also felt bad. Just go with the flow. Husbands are very bad at socialism. They are not conditioned like females. That’s why they don’t make calls to our parents unless we ask them to but that should not be a big deal. They atleast care about us and their children. You have to let go of many things to be at peace with life. Just make some changes here and there and you will see that all is not that bad. If your in laws feel superior when you call then just do it and satisfy their ego atleast you will be at upper level by doing it. Don’t harbour negative feelings about anyone. You are lucky that they are not staying with you. Calls will not do any harm to you so go ahead call them and just go with the flow.
Hi mommy muje aap sabhi se kutch puchna h thoda funny bhi h😀😁 mera 7month chal raha h mera baby specially night time me bahot active rehta h bus aisa feel hota h jaise wo bahot jyada active hoga after birth aur jab me us se baate karti hu to ache se response dega aur jab ushke dady tummy pe hath rakhte h to stop ho jata h aur response nahi deta h 😃😂😆poor hubby wo kehte h abhi se tum dono ne team bana rakhi h mare khilaf 😀😆😆😄 kyu itna activ h wo aur baby aane ke baad mare hubby lonely feel karenge aisa lagta h confuse hu me baby aur hubby ke bitch race lagegi mommy kishki aur wife kishki unke liye Maine hamesh fraind wife se bhi badhkar hu Kya me baby aane ke baad bhi aise hi relation banakar rakh paungi🤕😭😢😪
7 Months Old Boy
Hello moms.. As we came to know that tiny step is closing its app.. Brfore it closed i want to thank each n evry mom.. Who helped me throughout my pregnancy nd nw in ma motherhood.. I asked many questions but all were always der to clear my doubts..i got many good frnds also to whom i am on phn contact also...i want to spcly thnx Monika vashisht shilpa goyel priyanka bhatia divya roshni sinha u all hv answered my endless question.. Thnx alot to everyone for helping.. God bless u all..
8 Months Old Girl
2 Months Old Boy
Placenta delivers nutrients and oxygen from the blood of the mother to the blood of the baby. The placenta covers a wide area and is connected to the uterus of the mother. The umbilical cord connects the placenta to the baby. The front area of the uterus is considered the anterior; the back side is the posterior; the fundal is the top wall; and the sides of the uterus are the right and left laterals. It doesn’t matter which area of the uterus the placenta situates itself, but if the lower portion is too far down it can make it difficult for the baby’s head to descend when it is time for the birth. Having a posterior placenta means that it can cause the mother to experience excessive bleeding while pregnant as well as while giving birth. What Is Posterior Placenta? When the placenta of a mother attaches itself to her uterus on the back wall, it is considered a posterior placenta. This area of the uterus is right near the spinal column of the mother. When the egg is fertilized, it remains close to that area of the uterus and grows from there. The “posterior” represents the back and the “anterior” means the front. What the posterior placenta means is the uterus positions itself among the pelvic bones of the mother. As the baby begins to grow, so does the uterus. The placenta attaches itself to the uterine wall. When it attaches to the posterior, it is considered a posterior placenta. Is Posterior Placenta Normal? Both an anterior and a posterior placenta are normal for both the baby and the mother. When it is in the vertical location of the uterus, this makes it a placenta posterior. When the placenta is on the back wall towards the upper portion of the uterus, it is considered the placenta posterior fundal. This is considered the best location for the baby to be in as it allows the baby to move into the anterior position just before it is born. While it faces its mother’s spine, the crown of the infant’s head is able to make its way towards the birth canal. How Does the Placental Position Change? When a woman is pregnant, an ultrasound is implemented to find out exactly where the placenta is and what its location to the cervix is. It is normal for the placenta to change throughout the pregnancy. Midway through the pregnancy, the placenta takes up 50% of the space on the surface of the uterus. At the 40 week mark, the placenta only takes up from 17 to 25% of the surface of the uterus. It’s not that the placenta is shrinking; it’s that it grows more at different times of the pregnancy. By the third portion of the pregnancy, the head of the baby begins to prepare for labor by descending down to the pelvic area. The lower portion of the uterus begins to thin out from the pressure that the baby’s head is putting on it. This is when the placental attachment looks like it is beginning to rise. When to Worry About Placental Position When the placenta grows in the direction of the cervix, it is called placenta previa and it could be a cause for concern. The placenta has a chance of detaching itself from the unstable portion of the cervix towards the lower portion of the uterus. This could cause premature labor and complications as a result of heavy bleeding. Usually there is nothing to worry about if a scan that is taken in the beginning of your pregnancy determines that your placenta is located at the bottom of your uterus. The placenta will be moving upwards as the pregnancy advances. Later on in the pregnancy this position of the placenta could cause problems. Placenta previa means that the cervix has become obstructed and the baby may not be able to be born vaginally. Placental abruption occurs when the uterine wall is stretched towards the second half of the pregnancy resulting in excessive bleeding. It is important to keep an eye on the location of the placenta throughout the pregnancy to determine if the mother will be able to deliver her baby vaginally or if she will require a Caesarian section.
1 Year 2 Months Old Girl
My baby girl is 1.5 years left feed recently she forgot how to suck nd i wanted this only so m not gng to give her again so now the prob is tht she wakes at night alot but i dont have feed nd she dsnt take bottle so aise situation mein kya karoo bottle try ki hai sje dsnt suck nd even water also dont suck feed dont tale gets up cry alot what to do
terrific situation dear. u can make baby used to to sipper bottler or non spill cup. baby i dont know why wakes at night. but i am sure they don't wake because of hunger. i give my baby a sterilized piece of wash cloth whenever he wakes up. he chews on it and then goes back to sleep. i have stopped night feed since he got 10month old. infact he himself stopped taking it and used to cry out loud if i tried to disturb him in sleep. i think these days my baby is waking up because of teeth errupting all over his gums. takecare.
A Month Old Boy
Hello friends.. I want to share something. Please mujhe galat mat samajhna. Meri shadi 2016 ki Feb me hui thi aur mere husband bohat loving and caring hai. I love him so much and he loves me more. Hum in laws ke saath rehte hai. Meri saas boht dominating hai aur ek toxic personality hai. Unko mujhse humesha se hi problem thi. Per problem kya hai woh ajtak pata nhi chala. To main and mere husband ne socha ke baby ke aa Jane se shayad unka Mann badal jaye. Toh humne baby le liya. Mera son one month old hai. Main aur husband ek dusre ko time nhi de pate. Hum dono aab guilty feel krte hai. Hamara life khatam. Abhi to hum enjoy bhi nhi kiye the life me. Kisi aur ke pressure me baby kabhi nhi Lena chahiye. Hum dono hi depressed hai. Baby hum bhi chahte the but itni jaldi nhi. Kya hua galat hai?
you'll find many negative if you continue to look for it. look at the brighter side of your situation. you have a loving husband, you are so blessed to have a baby. many people have to wait for years together. arrival of baby is not end of your life its the beginning of the most beautiful adventure. you'll learn how to get time for eachother and make those moments special. let your mil take care of the baby while you have your time out.
4 Months Old Girl
God bless u All friends 😘😘😘😘😘😘😘 bohat help ki sab ne meri thank you All ,is app ko band nahi hona chahiye 😔😔😔😔😔😔
3 Months Old Boy
My husband's brothers wife I mean in jethani is very devil type Lady....she always have problem from me... If I go out somewhere or even at my mom's place she starts shouting at my mil that why they send me,so because of her my father in law doesn't allow me to go anywhere..,,she wants me to do all the work,if she doesn't see me in kitchen then she starts asking my mil that where am I...she is so jealous of me ND never helps me in any work,,..now I m at my mom's place as I delivered before 3 months ,,I have to go after few days n m so stressed that how LL manage to do kitchen work,,see baby and my extra work bcoz no one is there to help me.....how to deal with that bitch don't know....
1 Year 6 Months Old Boy
Dear mothers confused in personal life, hideing my name to avoid messages. I hv baby of 19 months since baby is born my husband has lost interest in me we are like a stranger in room I tried to provoke him but nothing is working no physical touch. I came across one person in office who is interested in me and we started dating he has caled me to his home tomo to spend sometime please help Shal I go or not go as I hv developed feelings for him
I dnt know how can we help a immature lady... ofcourse sex is important in a relationship but why the hell some ladies take it to ur head if not satisfied??? i came across the same situation question that she is thinking abt divorce bcoz "lack of sex"..but u r very advanced that u found amother man and ASKING SUGGESTION IN A PUBLIC FORUM...Wow......why to live as a stranger in the room??? only sex is carried on in the room??? and u r mentioning everything happened in "ur room"...anywaz...This place is not the caring room for couples... Juz tell ur husband that "since he is not interested in u, another man showed interest on u, and u too had developed feelings for him and u r gng to date with him"...Great future for u lady.. "Tinystep please dont approve des typ of questions in forum"..
6 Months Old Boy
My son is 6 months old can we give cypon syrup as one of my friend said it would help in increasing the weight
CYPON SYRUP: Cypon Syrup - Composition and Active Ingredients Cypon Syrup is composed of the following active ingredients (salts) Tricholine Citrate (275 MG) Sorbitol (2 GM) Cyproheptadine Hcl (2 MG) The complete list of uses and indications for Cypon Syrup is as follows: weight gain in kids Liver Disorders Occasional Constipation Asthma Symptoms In Adults Mild And Uncomplicated Hives Allergic Reactions Seasonal Allergies Side-effects of Cypon Syrup: Consult your doctor if you observe any of the following side-effects, especially if they do not go away. Dizziness Confusion Gas Diarrhea Excess Of Glucose In The Bloodstream Severe Allergic Reactions Continuing Constipation Rectal Bleeding Unusual Swelling Weakness Abdominal Bloating Vomiting Abdominal Cramping Anal Irritation Stomach Cramps High Level Of Sodium In The Blood Osmotic Diarrhea Seizure Ringing In Ears Fast Or Pounding Heartbeat Bruising. Cypon Syrup Contraindications: Hypersensitivity to Cypon Syrup is a contraindication. In addition, Cypon Syrup should not be taken if you have the following conditions: Acid-base imbalance or diabetes Allergic reactions Anuria Fructose intolerance Hypersensitivity Narrow-angle glaucoma Premature infant Severe heart or kidney problems Cypon Syrup - Drug Interactions Fluoxetine Phenelzine Sodium polystyrene sulfonate. make sure you do check with your doctor before using any medications.
Amniotic fluid (liquor amnii) is the clear or slightly yellowish liquid surrounding the fetus in the uterus.The amniotic sac of a pregnant woman contains the amniotic fluid which plays a vital role in the proper development of the baby. Amniotic Fluid Composition It mainly contains water, fetal wastes (mainly urine) and fetal skin cells. Amniotic Fluid Origin and Production: The fluid is produced by the mother’s placenta during the first trimester and the early part of the second trimester, until the baby’s kidneys are mature enough to take over the task. The baby swallows the fluid as they “breathe” and then excretes it again as urine, thus maintaining the constant circulation of the fluid. However, the urine making up the fluid is not pure waste material as the majority of the fetal waste is passed through the placenta to be filtered by the mother’s kidneys. What are the Functions of Amniotic Fluid? It fulfils various purposes apart from protecting the baby inside the womb by forming a cushion around it. Helps with the uniform growth of the body parts and organs of the baby.Assists with the proper bone and muscle development Allows the baby to move inside the uterus Prevents the amniotic sac wall from sticking to the baby Breathing it in and out while in the uterus ensures proper lung growth of the baby The swallowed fluid creates urine and helps with the production of meconium (earliest stools of a newborn infant) Allows the digestive system of the baby to develop properly Prevents the umbilical cord (responsible for carrying food and oxygen to the fetus) from being squeezed Maintaining a constant temperature to keep the baby healthy Amniotic Fluid Levels Normal Amniotic Fluid Levels amniotic fluid picture Its volume continues to increase until the 34th to 36th week of pregnancy when the amniotic sac contains around one quart fluid on average. The fluid volume then gradually goes down until the time of delivery. Having too much or too little amniotic fluid during pregnancy may lead to various health conditions and complications related to childbirth. The amniotic sac breaks during or before (rare cases) labor draining the fluid through the vagina. This is commonly referred to as the waters breaking. Low Amniotic Fluid Levels Amniotic fluid deficiency during pregnancy can lead to a Oligohydramnios, which increases the chances of complications like premature birth and various birth defects (like hypoplastic lungs) in the newborn as well as miscarriage and stillbirth. There are generally no symptoms of low fluid levels apart from the belly being smaller than it should at a certain gestational age. Risk factors include gestational diabetes, hypertension, high blood pressure and preeclampsia. The treatment mainly involves fetal monitoring using regular ultrasounds. High Amniotic Fluid Levels Excessive amniotic fluid level in the uterus is known as polyhydramnios which can lead to symptoms like difficulty breathing, excessive weight gain and edema. Various factors may be responsible for elevated fluid levels, such as maternal diabetes and infectious conditions as well as fetal abnormalities. The extra amniotic fluid may leak through the vagina in some rare cases. Complications associated with polyhydramnios are similar to oligohydramnios as they include preterm labor, premature rupture of membranes, stillbirth and various congenital problems (cleft palate, Down’s syndrome). Treatment or monitoring often includes weekly ultrasounds and karyotyping. Amniotic Fluid Index Chart Amniotic fluid index or AFI helps to estimate the amniotic fluid levels in the uterus for determining the fetal well-being. It is included in the biophysical profile of the fetus. The AFI (usually expressed in cm) is determined by performing ultrasound (ultrasonography) examination of the uterus. Certain procedures are used by doctors for determining the AFI with the “single deepest pocket” and the four-quadrant technique being most commonly used. The latter technique involves measuring the deepest vertical length of the fluid pockets separately in each quadrant to calculate the total fluid volume. Complications Associated With Amniotic Fluid Apart from the above two complications, amniotic fluid abnormalities can lead to the following conditions as well: Amniotic Fluid Embolism (AFE) A rare condition in which the amniotic fluid as well as some fetal materials such as hair, fetal cells and other debris enters the mother’s bloodstream through the placental bed, triggering allergic reactions. The principal symptoms are shortness of breath, sudden decrease in blood pressure, seizures, nausea, pulmonary edema and cardiovascular collapse. It can lead to life threatening complications such as severe neurological damage and even brain death. Amniotic Band Syndrome (ABS) A group of birth defects generally occurring when certain body parts of the growing fetus gets caught in thin strings or bands within the womb. It occurs when the inside membrane of the placenta ruptures while the outer one remains intact, causing the stringy pieces to float around in the fluid. Sometimes, these pieces can entangle around the growing baby, cutting off the blood circulation in certain body parts (commonly the fingers and toes). Associated birth defects include short or absent finger or toe, cleft lip, cleft palate and club foot. Surgery in the utero to disentangle the strings is the most common and effective treatment option.  Chorioamnionitis (Intra-Amniotic Infection) Also known as amnionitis, it is a bacterial infection of the amniotic fluid before or during labor. E. coli, anaerobic bacteria and group B streptococci are some of the most common causes of the infection. Associated complications include heavy blood loss during and after delivery, c-section delivery and bacteremia (bacteria in the blood of the mother and the baby). Meconium Aspiration Syndrome Sometimes, the baby passes their first feces (meconium) shortly before delivery which then mixes with the amniotic fluid. Meconium aspiration syndrome, occurring when the baby inhales this mixture into the lungs, can lead to various congenital conditions (chronic lung disease, hearing loss, limpness at birth) and even death of the infant. Amniotic Fluid Tests and Analysis Amniotic fluid analysis involves collecting a fluid sample from the mother’s abdomen (amniocentesis) to assess the genetic health of the developing baby. The fetal cells in the fluid help to determine the risk of any genetic defects. Amniocentesis test is also useful for gender determination. Vaginal pH tests can also help to detect various fetal abnormalities. The amniotic fluid pH level ideally ranges between 7.0 and 7.5 while the upper vaginal pH remains between 3.8 and 4.5. So, a pH test strip showing pH levels above 4.5 may indicate ruptured membranes. Other tests used for detecting fetal abnormalities and fluid leakage include fern test and nitrazine paper test. Regular fundal height measurement can also help to ensure proper fetal growth and detect any change in the fluid levels. Signs of Leaking Amniotic Fluid Amniotic fluid leakage through the vagina can indicate certain serious complications during any pregnancy stage. A constant feeling of wetness due to continuous vaginal discharge is the main sign of leaking amniotic fluid. However, sometimes it might be quite difficult to determine whether the dampness is occurring due to fluid leakage or is simply caused by excessive sweating or urine leakage (mainly during the third trimester). The following points may help to detect a fluid leakage: The smell of the vaginal discharge can help to determine if it is amniotic fluid as the fluid has a characteristic sweetish smell rather than the normal ammonia odor of urine. The amniotic fluid may be cloudy or have a light yellowish or greenish or brownish (in case of meconium syndrome) coloration which can help with the identification. Sometimes, the discharge may have a pinkish or reddish tint due to blood in the amniotic fluid, which may indicate some fetal abnormality. However, some women may have clear amniotic fluid (which does not help with the identification of the discharge). How to Increase Amniotic Fluid Levels? Certain medical procedures are used for temporarily increasing the amniotic fluid levels for managing the conditions associated with low fluid amounts. Amnioinfusion : It allows increasing the quantity of amniotic fluid by instilling a saline solution into the amniotic sac. Maternal Re-Hydration : This procedure involves rehydrating the mother’s body using oral and IV fluids. Due to this reason, pregnant women with low amniotic fluid levels are often asked by their doctors to drink lots of water. Amniotic Fluid and Stem Cells Experts have recently proved that considerable amounts of stem cells are present in the amniotic fluid. These pluripotent cells are capable of differentiating into various tissues (skin, cartilage bones, muscles), a property that may prove useful for medical applications in the future.
11 Months Old Boy
Hey Moms, Suggest me good buiscuit for my baby. I am giving him Parle G now. Also, Can I give give him 2 chapati in a day. One in Dinner and one in Lunch.
1 Year Old Boy