A Month Old Boy
Hello friends.. I want to share something. Please mujhe galat mat samajhna. Meri shadi 2016 ki Feb me hui thi aur mere husband bohat loving and caring hai. I love him so much and he loves me more. Hum in laws ke saath rehte hai. Meri saas boht dominating hai aur ek toxic personality hai. Unko mujhse humesha se hi problem thi. Per problem kya hai woh ajtak pata nhi chala. To main and mere husband ne socha ke baby ke aa Jane se shayad unka Mann badal jaye. Toh humne baby le liya. Mera son one month old hai. Main aur husband ek dusre ko time nhi de pate. Hum dono aab guilty feel krte hai. Hamara life khatam. Abhi to hum enjoy bhi nhi kiye the life me. Kisi aur ke pressure me baby kabhi nhi Lena chahiye. Hum dono hi depressed hai. Baby hum bhi chahte the but itni jaldi nhi. Kya hua galat hai?
you'll find many negative if you continue to look for it. look at the brighter side of your situation. you have a loving husband, you are so blessed to have a baby. many people have to wait for years together. arrival of baby is not end of your life its the beginning of the most beautiful adventure. you'll learn how to get time for eachother and make those moments special. let your mil take care of the baby while you have your time out.
Hello Ladies, How much “Cloudnine” Hospital charges for delivery? What will be the total cost(approximately) Cloudnine Banglore ?Is it worth to have a delivery plan in “Cloudnine” ?I am 1st time becoming pregnant and me and my husband are planning for finance. We don’t have any knowledge of this. Please suggest. I am going n my 5th week pregnancy. Where to have all the checkup and all ? Is local hospitals okay for normal check ups and for delivery can I go to Cloudnine ? I know a good Doctor from one small Hospital.But my husband is refusing that hospital( since it’s small an he dint like the ambience) Pls pls suggest what is better.Thanks in advance
Doctor are good at such hospitals.. Especially at cloud nine they are really specialist than expected.. But some what expensive only.. You won't feel it's a hospital while staying there.. If you don't bother about expense means you can go there.. Or else check some other hospitals with your known gynecologist
Amniotic fluid (liquor amnii) is the clear or slightly yellowish liquid surrounding the fetus in the uterus.The amniotic sac of a pregnant woman contains the amniotic fluid which plays a vital role in the proper development of the baby. Amniotic Fluid Composition It mainly contains water, fetal wastes (mainly urine) and fetal skin cells. Amniotic Fluid Origin and Production: The fluid is produced by the mother’s placenta during the first trimester and the early part of the second trimester, until the baby’s kidneys are mature enough to take over the task. The baby swallows the fluid as they “breathe” and then excretes it again as urine, thus maintaining the constant circulation of the fluid. However, the urine making up the fluid is not pure waste material as the majority of the fetal waste is passed through the placenta to be filtered by the mother’s kidneys. What are the Functions of Amniotic Fluid? It fulfils various purposes apart from protecting the baby inside the womb by forming a cushion around it. Helps with the uniform growth of the body parts and organs of the baby.Assists with the proper bone and muscle development Allows the baby to move inside the uterus Prevents the amniotic sac wall from sticking to the baby Breathing it in and out while in the uterus ensures proper lung growth of the baby The swallowed fluid creates urine and helps with the production of meconium (earliest stools of a newborn infant) Allows the digestive system of the baby to develop properly Prevents the umbilical cord (responsible for carrying food and oxygen to the fetus) from being squeezed Maintaining a constant temperature to keep the baby healthy Amniotic Fluid Levels Normal Amniotic Fluid Levels amniotic fluid picture Its volume continues to increase until the 34th to 36th week of pregnancy when the amniotic sac contains around one quart fluid on average. The fluid volume then gradually goes down until the time of delivery. Having too much or too little amniotic fluid during pregnancy may lead to various health conditions and complications related to childbirth. The amniotic sac breaks during or before (rare cases) labor draining the fluid through the vagina. This is commonly referred to as the waters breaking. Low Amniotic Fluid Levels Amniotic fluid deficiency during pregnancy can lead to a Oligohydramnios, which increases the chances of complications like premature birth and various birth defects (like hypoplastic lungs) in the newborn as well as miscarriage and stillbirth. There are generally no symptoms of low fluid levels apart from the belly being smaller than it should at a certain gestational age. Risk factors include gestational diabetes, hypertension, high blood pressure and preeclampsia. The treatment mainly involves fetal monitoring using regular ultrasounds. High Amniotic Fluid Levels Excessive amniotic fluid level in the uterus is known as polyhydramnios which can lead to symptoms like difficulty breathing, excessive weight gain and edema. Various factors may be responsible for elevated fluid levels, such as maternal diabetes and infectious conditions as well as fetal abnormalities. The extra amniotic fluid may leak through the vagina in some rare cases. Complications associated with polyhydramnios are similar to oligohydramnios as they include preterm labor, premature rupture of membranes, stillbirth and various congenital problems (cleft palate, Down’s syndrome). Treatment or monitoring often includes weekly ultrasounds and karyotyping. Amniotic Fluid Index Chart Amniotic fluid index or AFI helps to estimate the amniotic fluid levels in the uterus for determining the fetal well-being. It is included in the biophysical profile of the fetus. The AFI (usually expressed in cm) is determined by performing ultrasound (ultrasonography) examination of the uterus. Certain procedures are used by doctors for determining the AFI with the “single deepest pocket” and the four-quadrant technique being most commonly used. The latter technique involves measuring the deepest vertical length of the fluid pockets separately in each quadrant to calculate the total fluid volume. Complications Associated With Amniotic Fluid Apart from the above two complications, amniotic fluid abnormalities can lead to the following conditions as well: Amniotic Fluid Embolism (AFE) A rare condition in which the amniotic fluid as well as some fetal materials such as hair, fetal cells and other debris enters the mother’s bloodstream through the placental bed, triggering allergic reactions. The principal symptoms are shortness of breath, sudden decrease in blood pressure, seizures, nausea, pulmonary edema and cardiovascular collapse. It can lead to life threatening complications such as severe neurological damage and even brain death. Amniotic Band Syndrome (ABS) A group of birth defects generally occurring when certain body parts of the growing fetus gets caught in thin strings or bands within the womb. It occurs when the inside membrane of the placenta ruptures while the outer one remains intact, causing the stringy pieces to float around in the fluid. Sometimes, these pieces can entangle around the growing baby, cutting off the blood circulation in certain body parts (commonly the fingers and toes). Associated birth defects include short or absent finger or toe, cleft lip, cleft palate and club foot. Surgery in the utero to disentangle the strings is the most common and effective treatment option.  Chorioamnionitis (Intra-Amniotic Infection) Also known as amnionitis, it is a bacterial infection of the amniotic fluid before or during labor. E. coli, anaerobic bacteria and group B streptococci are some of the most common causes of the infection. Associated complications include heavy blood loss during and after delivery, c-section delivery and bacteremia (bacteria in the blood of the mother and the baby). Meconium Aspiration Syndrome Sometimes, the baby passes their first feces (meconium) shortly before delivery which then mixes with the amniotic fluid. Meconium aspiration syndrome, occurring when the baby inhales this mixture into the lungs, can lead to various congenital conditions (chronic lung disease, hearing loss, limpness at birth) and even death of the infant. Amniotic Fluid Tests and Analysis Amniotic fluid analysis involves collecting a fluid sample from the mother’s abdomen (amniocentesis) to assess the genetic health of the developing baby. The fetal cells in the fluid help to determine the risk of any genetic defects. Amniocentesis test is also useful for gender determination. Vaginal pH tests can also help to detect various fetal abnormalities. The amniotic fluid pH level ideally ranges between 7.0 and 7.5 while the upper vaginal pH remains between 3.8 and 4.5. So, a pH test strip showing pH levels above 4.5 may indicate ruptured membranes. Other tests used for detecting fetal abnormalities and fluid leakage include fern test and nitrazine paper test. Regular fundal height measurement can also help to ensure proper fetal growth and detect any change in the fluid levels. Signs of Leaking Amniotic Fluid Amniotic fluid leakage through the vagina can indicate certain serious complications during any pregnancy stage. A constant feeling of wetness due to continuous vaginal discharge is the main sign of leaking amniotic fluid. However, sometimes it might be quite difficult to determine whether the dampness is occurring due to fluid leakage or is simply caused by excessive sweating or urine leakage (mainly during the third trimester). The following points may help to detect a fluid leakage: The smell of the vaginal discharge can help to determine if it is amniotic fluid as the fluid has a characteristic sweetish smell rather than the normal ammonia odor of urine. The amniotic fluid may be cloudy or have a light yellowish or greenish or brownish (in case of meconium syndrome) coloration which can help with the identification. Sometimes, the discharge may have a pinkish or reddish tint due to blood in the amniotic fluid, which may indicate some fetal abnormality. However, some women may have clear amniotic fluid (which does not help with the identification of the discharge). How to Increase Amniotic Fluid Levels? Certain medical procedures are used for temporarily increasing the amniotic fluid levels for managing the conditions associated with low fluid amounts. Amnioinfusion : It allows increasing the quantity of amniotic fluid by instilling a saline solution into the amniotic sac. Maternal Re-Hydration : This procedure involves rehydrating the mother’s body using oral and IV fluids. Due to this reason, pregnant women with low amniotic fluid levels are often asked by their doctors to drink lots of water. Amniotic Fluid and Stem Cells Experts have recently proved that considerable amounts of stem cells are present in the amniotic fluid. These pluripotent cells are capable of differentiating into various tissues (skin, cartilage bones, muscles), a property that may prove useful for medical applications in the future.
Few Days Old Boy
Will miss this app too much and all helpful loving mommies .Both my pregnancies got too much help from the app . a big thanks to all.
3 Months Old Boy
Hi friends mera baby abhi 3 month ka h aur wo only breast feed karta h fir bhi usko dast aane lagte h kya khau mai ki uska pait sahi rhe please suggest me
11 Months Old Boy
Moms..I am becoming mentally unstable..left the job for baby..lots of issues due to mil with hubby..mumma’s boy..everyday fights..I can’t have an control on emotions..want to die or take divorce..but don’t want to spoil child’s future..my anger goes to 100 percent on every single thing..what to do how to calm down..when I try to become normal my husband is enough to take me back a girl with bad anger
10 Months Old Girl
My husband never says for sex ..... I m frustrate now after pregnency ee had sex only 2 time. But he is used to watch porn on mobile but never says fir sex. Abhi to mujhe onse baat karne ko bhi mann nhi karta isi ignorance ke karn maine karwachauth ka fast bhi chod diya kyu rakhu os insan k leye fast jisse meri parvah nhi..... Nafrat hon e lagi hai ab os se mujhe dil karta hai khi bhag jayu os se door apni beti le kr
2 Months Old Boy
Friends! I wanna share one thing with u. I hv a baby boy. He is just two months old now. I breast feed him. Whenever he cries or I m away, my MIL offers her breast to him n baby starts sucking her nipple. She is doing like this since he is born. Even my baby sucked her nipple first before me, because my nipples were flat, he was unable to latch n milk was also not coming.. whenever I see her feeding my baby, even though milk doesn't come, I guess she likes it. I don't know why but I don't like it. Mera khoon khaulta h aur main kuch ker nhi pati. One day I told that this way feeding the baby when milk is not coming, is not good, I heard. She replied that she had been doing like this with all my husbands' cousines n his neices. Plz tell me what I should do k wo ye krna chod den.
your MIL is trying to make a bond with your child such that he gets close to her and not you. Please stop it. You are a mother first and then a wife or daughter in law. your responsibility as a mother comes first. n you have the sole right over your child more than anyone else. be bold. it's about your child. if you don't do it today you will repent it for the rest of your life. one more thing you are not alone. there are many MIL who does the same. Say NO to her. Ask her to stay away from your child.
9 Months Old Boy
7 Months Old Girl
A big thanks to all of you , i am deeply grateful to this app and to all of u beautiful mommies for taking out time to answer queries. All the best to all pregnant women, may god bless u all with smooth and joyous delivery.
the thing is.baby tends to get a familiarity with the things he/she hears loudly outside womb n in general that interest is carried forward wn he is outside. for example,i used to listen to music whole day on TV, so as my baby heard the songs always,she still loves music a lot. it's a pacifier to her n she even recognises different music of the songs n react. About reading n all- u just get urself a calmness by reading spiritual books. a positivity n many things to shoo away fears or negativities. so that way it's gud. not that ur baby will also b spiritual or good charactered if u read them. about watching porns- till the time it's not loudly played on TV or phone etc. it won't affect as baby can't hear it. but emotionally,as u get high with its ending,ur hormones n ur desires change. make sure that u don't do anything which can make ur baby feel uncomfortable inside. otherwise it's all ok. Thinking about sex is not A Characterless thing. And one could only get the urges after puberty only. So once in a while, it's OK with ur headphones on
Hello moms... 9 month pregnant.. n m very sad not bcoz of baby m so much exicted to see my baby.. but aj meri Nand ghar ayi thi or m raat ko sotey time bio oil lgakr soti hu Maine aj tak kbi itching nai ki still mjhe stretch marks Aa gye h both side me.. m oil lga rhi thi suddenly meri Nand ki Najar mere pet me padi she said chee bhabhi apka pet kitna ganda lga rha h meri nabhi puri black ho gye h or aas paas ka area b I don’t know ye sb kaise hua phle nai tha mjhe ye sb.. mjhe bht bura lga ek toh puri pregnancy Maine kitna kuch face kiya wo I know agar mere neck black ho gye face dull ya pet black ho gye ya stretch marks Aa gye h isme meri kya galat mjhe aaj unka reaction bht bura lga. Meri height 5’7 h or pet jyda nai nikla hua h niche ki od nikla h usey b dekh kr bolti h ki apke Baby healthy nai lg rha mjhe Keoki apka pet kam nikla h jb ki 31 week me ultrasound report me baby ka weight 1767g aya tha.. doctor said ki Baby weight is ok. But aj mjhe bht bura lga jb wo mjhpe hasi.😞
Ignore all the negative people and there negative comments.. think about your baby and all the positive aspects related to motherhood.. about black naval and the area around, its very common dear. It happened with me also and happens with every expecting mother. Stretch marks reminds you that you are a mother.. once you give birth you will yourself start loving them too..
8 Months Old Girl
Hiii...pls help..pahle rat me meri baby 2,3 bar uthti thi feed krao fr so jati thi..lkn abhi 2 3 din se hr ghnte rone lg jati h ar feed demand krti h..what to do
Hai friends. Today I'm very sad. bcz yesterday is my due date but today I met the doctor. She asked me y u not came yesterday and I replied no sign of labour pain and all. And she said ok come to hospital on friday evening and admit. Then saturday I ll do the delivery. So we should go for hospital on Friday.but my baby is very healthy and my report also normal. So please suggest me friends what I should do and I'm very worried about that.??????
There is no problem ma. My due date was on 7th of August bt labour didn't start. I wasn't really scared cos my sis-in-law told me delivery is either 2wks before or after d due date. And during my docs appointment on 3rd of August, my doc specifically told me dt if my labour doesn't come on d 7th I should still come for my appointment which was on d 10th. So contractions really started on 8th Tuesday night very painful bt no sign of blood spot or even water breaking thank God my mum was around she told me its not yet time so she asked me to walk round in d sitting room so after doing dat d pain subsided. So on 9th it was intense and I saw blood spot so I went to d hospital and I was told it hasn't reach d cm dat since my house is not far from d hospital its better I go back home instead of being admitted. So I went back home and on d 10th which was my next appointment I went to see my doc. He checked me and said anytime from now if d labour starts I should come but if it doesn't start I should come to d hospital by 6:00am in d morning n he will induce me. So I went back home bt later dat night I had to go back to d hospital because d pain was something else. On getting to d hospital d nurse checked and asked me to lie down dat d cm hasn't reached so I just laid there in pains. I stood up n walked round d room in pains. Before 6:00am my doc was around n he checked me n told me it hasn't reach. Was in pains for hours till almost 1pm when I gave birth to my princess. So in essence don't be scared just go see your doc so you can be admitted if need be bt don't be surprise your labour can even start before then. Then you can go even then. Pray too. And take care of yourself. Don't have negative thoughts cos everything will be okay.
Watching porn during pregnancy can effect baby? From some days I'm addicted. I can't help it out. Please help me.
It does not affect your baby at all. In fact, by making you feel good, it's actually good for you. Orgasms in the last month could lead to contractions. Other than that, there is absolutely no harm in it. Don't feel bad or ashamed about this. This is perfectly natural because of all the hormones we are swimming around in. Have fun :)
Dear pregnant ladies if u r not feeling the baby movements or kicks for more then 2hours pls asap go to hospital dont ignore and dont listen to ur MIL😈........ Rush to hospital whatever is the time... Y im writing this here. Today when i went for checkup there one lady came with 39weeks pregnant and she wasn't feel baby movements for 3days and the 1st day only she told to her MIL but she didnt take care of it.....after 3days she told to husband when doctor checked there is no heart beat and movements in baby so pls dont ignore😢i really feel pity for her.............she only know the pain......
We cant blame the MIL or anyone here Just follow ur mind and be careful about each and every minute thing Do not go with APP opinions or anyone pls always be in touch with your doc Only she would know whats right and wrong NO ONE can understand no matter how experienced they are every pregnancy is different Esp with movements I have seen ladies asking questions in what to do movement nhn hua What to do I am bleeding What to do I am feeling weak Ladies all these symptoms are like an alarm Stop asking those questions here and JUST GO TO THE DOC Even if its silly thing I ALWAYS ask my doctor no matter what it is because its my BABY
I'm really crying while writing this. Please reply friends. My baby is in Neonatal Intensive Care Unit (NICU) right after birth due to breathing problems. It's his 6th day now. I want to breastfeed him, but doctor suggested not to feed him directly. I was told to pump milk manually in bottle and that they will feed my baby with a tube. But when I manually pump milk, just a few drops of milk comes out. It is not enough to fill the bottle. My breast is becoming tender and painful. I want to feed him but can't do anything.
Please be strong. It might not work for you at first. You need to try every few hours to get your body to realize that it's supposed to make milk. At first, nothing may come out. This is normal.The first milk that comes out is colostrum. Colustrum is the most important milk you can give a newborn and is often called “liquid gold". There is very little colostrum, the first time you actually get something out, it might be so little you think it’s not worth it. Give it to the NICU nurses anyhow. They’ll get it out and give it to your newborn. A newborn’s stomach is as small as a thimble, or smaller in our case. Don’t give up. Try again in several hours. You just ask help. Either your nurse or one of our lactation consultants will help you set up the pump and position it on your breast. If this is a new experience for you, be sure to ask questions and try to relax. Read all the instructions about your pump before using it. The more you pump, the more confident you’ll feel. To make your pumping session more effective, pump in a place where you feel relaxed and comfortable. Have everything you need within reach, including something to drink. The following tips may help stimulate let-down: Gently stimulate the nipples before you begin.Eat or drink just before pumping and while pumping.Massage your breasts before you begin and periodically during the pumping session. Think of your baby, pump in the baby's room, look at a picture of your baby while pumping or smell an article of your baby's clothing. Just try to divert mind while pumping and you will find more milk and keep on pumping don't give up. Don't worry dear everything will be fine.
11 Months Old Boy
Please reply moms..I really need your suggestion..Anyone knows a girl who get remarried after her divorce and having a baby with her first marriage..what are the chances of success..I heard k doosra aadmi kabhi Wo papa Wala pyar Nhi kar pata baby ko.,aur aisi marriages Nhi chalti h Zyada ???
dear.. here i would share my personal experience. i lost my mom when I was 4 years. my dad remarried and my step mom also had one child from previous marriage her husband was dead in accident. after marriage my mom come to our house along son. but my father never loved her. my mom was vry upset with this behaviour but se could not divorce to my father. bsc there were two reason first... my step mom has also step mom and she was bad lady. so after divorce no place was living secondly my mom got pregnent with my dad's child. so she has to live with my father. so she took decision and send his son to his dada dadi house. it was vry difficult for her but she did this for his son 's future. but still after all this my step mom loved me alot like her own daughter.....she is great lady...
Few Days Old Boy
I have a 21 days old baby boy ever since I am discharge from hospital I was having lot of fight with my husband due to over interference of my in laws, in laws wanted me to give baby to them and they would raise in their own way and we're insisting in me giving formula milk and not breast feeding so that they can give formula milk to my baby by keeping him with them but I didn agree and was in lot of stress due to daily fights with husband and in laws, just 2 days ago another bomb came in my life when my husband confessed to me that in last 2 months of my pregnancy he got into an affair with his office colleague and even had sex with her coz due to my sensitive pregnancy entire 9 months Dr asked us to not have sex.. I'm extremely broken and shattered with this act of my husband he has broken up with that girl and is begging me to give him another chance but I'm not able to accept how he could cheat on me when I'm pregnant with his baby I don't know what to do now
their generation even hates if v give anything except breastmilk.this is first time I m hearing that they don't want to get him breastfed. that's a lifelong gift he could get. u don't listen to anyone in this case, as ur supply will get diminished with Lesser demand. if possible,stay with ur parents for sometime. about ur hubby, it's really bad he did n m sure he did that only after being frustrated of not having sex. it's unforgettable n due to wtever reason he confessed, it was wrong n worst as u were carrying his own child n for his sake, u both sacrificed many things, sex is such a pity thing any parent cud sacrifice. if u stay with him, just make him clear that u can't trust him anymore n he has to b a good father now. with time,notice him n don't let him know any positive thought u think of him. he shud b punished for sometime this way. give him so much responsibilities of baby,that he realises wt it takes to upbring a child n den I m sure he will regret from soul for wt he did. if u think u can't ever forgive or trust him, shift to ur parents house for some months n see how ur life goes n how he changes. all the best dear. ping for any support required.