4 Year 6 Months Old Boy
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Hey all, wud like to share one more issue here itself. that this cudnt b the only reason for not getting answers to other parenting questions. it's been a previous problem as well, when all this mess wasn't there. I had been a user since long n I know people always complaining that they hardly get any answer,including me 😔 the thing is forum isnt sorted in a proper way it shud b.. firstly most hyped post Come up.. then v see the questions as per our frnd list or followers thirdly, there is no sorting criteria like it comes in latest to oldest. it just comes up randomly. so if one question is raised, it might go very low in the scrolling n once unanswered or less answered, it will remain the same. even I never got more than 2-3 replies wnever I put my question. so this mess wasn't the only cause to it, it's a general setback of tinystep which shud b looked after as well. thanks to all for ur helpful alliance in getting this mess end.
10 Months Old Girl
Can I give tea to my 10 months old baby? My in laws insisting me to give tea to her from 7 months .. Bt l didn't gave till now..
10 Months Old Girl
Hello friends...My baby is 11 months old. I missed my periods so I took home pregnancy test twice and both came as positive. I don’t kw how this happened we took precaution during intercourse after delivery hardly we would have had 4 times intercourse. Also I delivered my princess after 4 years of trying. I am confused I kw I n my husband have decide. If any if you faced this situation Plz tell me wat all you considered to come to decision. I have given blood samples for beta hcg.
6 Months Old Boy
hello friends, mere periods every month 14 ko aate h Feb 10 ko hamne bina protection ke sex kiya or mere periods nai aaye h kya pregnancy ke koi chances ho sakte h periods se 4 days pahle unprotective sex se?
7 Months Old Boy
7 Months Old Girl
I am freaking out. I observed that there is piles kind of thing in my anus(externally). I rushed to doc. Doc said its not piles as far as its not paining or bleeding or anything else. Doc said wo thoda se maas bahar ko agaya hai. Theek hojaega. Bt i m nt satisfied with doc. Piles nai hai, to hai kya ye , and its big. Size of a kidney bean atleast. Hlp me , if anybody went through it. How to cure?
Hello dear same I got next day of my delivery and it was like very big I too thought it’s a pile but dr said for some ladies after delivery it will come but in a week it will go and she gave ointment and gave one liquid.in a tub full of warm water add that liquid and we have to sit for 10 mins I did this three times in a day and after that I’ll Apply ointment and den and der I’ll wash that area with hot water just in 3 days it went so try it and don worry and I’m sorry I forgot that liquid name
1 Year Old Boy
Very very urgent!! Please answer mommies!! My sister in law is pregnant and got admitted in hospital, her 6 year old son is coming at our place to stay as she has no one there to look after. My concern is that he got swine flu in 1st week of feb, though he is fine now, but i am a lil worried as i too have a 1 year old baby. Is there any chance we can still get flue from him though he is fine now?
5 Months Old Boy
Hi momies sorry to ask personal question but need help, I hv came to my mother home, my husband doesn't call me .. he rarly call just to see our baby.. but no phone calls to ask abt me.. I called him 3 times today he did not pickup. I told him I won't call him again he also dint call back . We have issue,, thanks to my mil and sis .. but I feel so hurt that he does not care about me..I am tired of caring him and nothing in return ! I also feel like not caring and not to call too.
leave him n enjoy with ur baby if u want go somewhere else then u go with baby be dynamic in my relative one aunt has same problem she leaved thinking of hubby she took her son everywhere that she wanted to go she is enjoying her life individually if her husband want to join with them she allows him if not she will enjoy
6 Months Old Girl
I dunno this may sound silly .but I have seen many of u posting that u have been missing being with ur husbands and they are far away from u,either they stay abroad for work or they are at their home and wives at mom’s place during their initial months after delivery. Mine is a love marriage though,i do love my husband a lot.Been staying at in-laws place for few weeks & then few weeks at mom’s place .This time I really stayed here for a month at mom’s place and I really don’t feel like going away from mom and getting back to my in-laws. My mom keeps her home tidy and everything in place.But there everything looks messy all the time.Even if I try to keep it clean no one cooperates to maintain it the same way. I wish to move along with my husband and stay. So once a while even my mom can come stay with us as well as my in-laws .I just feel I need our own space. At my mom’s place I have the freedom to anything I want but @ in-laws even in terms of taking care of my baby I get criticised
5 Months Old Boy
4 and half month mai baby ka w8 7 kg tha...but aftr that baby ko pneumonia ho gaya...ab baby 5 and half month ka hai and w8 6 .5kg hai...w8 baht kam ho gaya....what to do for gaining w8....abhi 15 days aur mra feed lega fir swmi solids strt kar dege hum....ye semi solid se increasw hoga ya mre breast milk s?
3 Months Old Boy
My delivery experience Its my first baby. After crossing 40 weeks, there was no labor pain only mild cramps. My gynic ask me to get admitted the same day at 8 pm. I was shocked because I was expecting that she will ask me to wait for 3-4 days but she said if u ask me I will recommend to get admitted so we did what she said as she was an expert. They induced me with gel at 9. Initially, I had period like lower back pain on both the sides, the pain was coming and going. Slowly, it was increasing. They gave me hot rubber bottle to ease the pain. I was uncomfortable. I frequently used to press the button to call the nurse so she scold me. I used to walk in the room and do deep breathing as I didn't feel like lying on bed, I did initially when they attach that machine to my tummy to monitor baby's heart rate but later it was not possible for me as I had PUPPP and itchy skin. In the last hour I felt like where should I go. As I was so sleepy (due to nervousness and excitement...
I didn't take rest the whole day, by the evening I prepared myself mentally and did my remaining packing) and the pain was intense in the last two hours(it was only coming but was not going) and now the pain was in the middle part of my lower back. I felt like sitting on the floor of bathroom, sat on the toilet seat, at one time I felt like pushing and I did it once. I was begging for epidural then the nurse told me there are side effects of epidural. Then by the time doctor came and did internal. It was so.... Painful that I was not letting her to do so. My husband was in the room. She showed him baby head and I was fully dilated, there is no time for epidural. They gave me oxygen mask and asked me to push. Within 3-4 pushes baby came out(there was not much pain while push) at 3:23am. I got tear and 5-6 stiches. The pain was gone as soon as he came out. It was such a relief. I had pain for 5-6 hours. Doctor said that labor duration was too short, it is rare in first pregnancy. Baby was 2.47kgs. I can never forget this experience my whole life. At last I shall say ladies.... Don't get scared of normal delivery. U can do it, we all can do it. We r made by the nature to do so. I have experienced it. Just believe in urself.
12 Months Old Boy
Hei dears. Have you ever notice that whenever we came to our mom's place the baby is very active energetic and only needs our mamma. Because my little one was very energetic when im visiting my home. Every five minutes he goes in search of my mother. He only needs my mom for everything. Only comes to me when he is sleepy or hungry. His every milestone happens in my house. But when im going to my in-laws house he is not like this. He goes to everyone's hand but not that much energetic. He is not in search of my mil, whenever he goes with her after five minutes he in search of me. But in my house he always busy with my mom. Eventhough we meet her once in a month, but when my mom touch him he laugh like he miss her hugges her kiss her. Nothing happens with my mil when we go back to husband's house. Im very much happy that he remainds my mom he miss her. And their bond is very strong and lovable. Has anyone experienced this,?
2 Months Old Girl
Peehar se 2 months delivery ke baad bache ko lekar husband ghar gayi hu( not inlaws house) means jaha me mere husband ke sath rehti hu vo ghar... without visiting inlaws house and our kuldevi.. kya iss waja se baby ko health issues ho sakte h kya.. coz me jabse aayi hu yaha,, mere baby ko kuch na kuch ho hi raha h... Please please please answer.
This depends on your belief system. Not going to in laws house will not cause any harm to baby. Even I have family temples where we need to take new baby; my nephew was born premature so we took him there much later and he was fine. So do make it a point to visit your Kuldevi but it can be at a time when you & baby can travel without discomfort.
3 Months Old Girl
My baby loses loses 100 gram of her weight...she is on fm...kya karu..plz suggest?? Is it normal or matter of concern..she is active at her best??
Few Days Old Boy
Today I want to share my delivery experience...my pregnancy days was awesome... I miss those days yarr..😃😃 On 21 Jan my USG done and it shows breech position of the baby... Dr told cs Karna padega normal nhi Hoga less chance h k baby ghume ab 36 weeks me... On 24 Jan midnight I had backpain till morning... And then I wake and do house hold chores.... Movement of baby was very dull... In night around 8 I had stomach contraction.... Hard and soft ho rha tha stomach 10 10 min me... At 9 stomach contraction 1 1 min me home lage... Then I called Dr she said take warm milk with extra sugar and rest on left side... I do the same and movements hue but dull.... After half an hour contractions ho hi rhe the.... Then again I called Dr she said come to the hospital... V rush hospital at 11.... Nurses examine me and said it's labour contractions.. tab tak I feel halke halke labour pain... Dr examined and said it's labour... Abhi Raat ko hi surgery karenge.... Mil and hubby with me... Contd....
...contd surgery ki tyaari shuru ki and at 12:10 am I was in OT.... they give spinal anaesthesia and started surgery... in whole surgery I shivered.... then after feww minutes I listen suction sound... my heart beat was in neck bcz I know next sound baby Ka Hoga... and baby k rone ki awaaz aane lagi. .. that moment was awesome.. my Dr told after few minutes k beta hua h... then after few minutes nurse show my son with red sweater and red cap... omg omg.. awesome moment... then Dr told baby k neck k around cord thi jisse vo exhaust ho Gaya tha... isiliye movement dull ho gye the... 1 hr oxygen me rakha baby ko .. v both were in recovery room... first my hubby come to visit us... he was come with teary eyed... not able to speak in happiness... he see baby for 5 min then slowly ask me r u ok... then my mil come she was also super excited... then fil and in last bil... I delivered baby boy on 26 Jan... I feed him next morning with the help of nurse... CS ho Ya normal baby ko dekhte hi Dan bhul jaate h.... baby ki awaaz sunte hi bus man karta h k yehi sunte raho..... jinka CS hona h Yaad rakhna suction ki awaaz k baad baby ki awaaz aati h... be prepared... good luck all expecting ladies!!!!
3 Months Old Boy
6 Months Old Girl
Hello moms, help me. Till now someone used to assist me to clean baby poop. They used to hold baby. I used to clean baby poop. Now I'm leaving for my husband work place. I have to manage all alone. How to clean baby poop all alone single handedly?? My baby is rolling. Not yet sitting. So please suggest me accordingly.... Thanks ..
haha... reminds me of my days.. keep 2-3 dry sheets n wipes handy... if baby is wearing langot or pants n has pooped in it.. first try placing baby on mat.. with one hand hold baby's legs . n quickly with right hand.. remove wipes only after that remove the langot.. as baby myt mess up.. then clean baby properly first.. then place baby on some safe place.. I had got a playpen.. so I used to place baby in the playpen.. then clean all the mess.. if baby is cranky for sleep or food.. then I use to transfer everything as it is.. in bathroom n first attend to baby's need.. then do the cleaning stuff.. ps.. use baby wipes to clean your hands as well.. post cleaning.. as u can't leave baby unattended n rush to bathroom for cleaning your hands.. I hope my tips help you.. gud luck mumma
Hello ladies!!I had miscarriage in November’18, i have pcos and irregular periods. Today i got my periods after taking cycloreg. I want to concieve soon, what should i do?My doctor said you are only 25 no fertility medicines required just try naturally. Please advice me
Based on my experience don't take too much medicines. Have fun, stay stress free, eat healthy. Don't have sex to just conceive. Be relaxed dear. My words might be common. Even I got baby after 5yrs of struggle. I was also fed up with medicines, scans, test. Finally I conceived normally. I ll help you with some tips. 1. Be relaxed n stress free 2. Have plenty of water 3. Pomegranate daily 4. Red banana both if it is available in ur area 5. Flax seeds in the first half of ur cycle 6. Sprouted green gram daily a handful 7. Have medicine for stomach worms from gyn 8. Consult doc if you have any abnormal white discharge
2 Months Old Boy
Mene baby toh plan kar lia lekin mein use kaise sambhalungi.. mujhe toh basics bhi nahi aata.. 2-3 mahine mein baby aa jaega phir kya hoga.. kahin mein use koi harm na kar du.. new born ko kaise rakhte hai aur phir badme jaise jaise wo bada hoga use kya khilana hai kya nahi.. mein pta nahi kaise karungi.. so scared..
Dear questioner, I’m 22 weeks pregnant🤰feeling exactly the same...although I’m 24 years not so old not so young but still I feel what if after arrival of baby I won’t be able to manage the baby work...I don’t have any one in my husband’s family I have mom dad in my family but near my parents house my relatives are so trouble creators..when I come to my parents house after 2 days on my bday my mom organised Satyanarayan Pooja and invited my both the bua and there daughters and just after the Pooja my badi bua and her daughters one by one all asked me when you’ll go back....I replied to first two questions but when the third question poped I got frustrated and rudely asked my cousin what you all want I should not stay here....my parents are happy for me but I don’t think my relatives are...they come and ask such foolish questions...today my another cousin came and asked me....what do you eat that you have miscarriage every time...I just had one miscarriage...his words hurt me Since Evening I’m thinking that I can’t stay here for long as my relatives will not let me live peaceably....them how I will manage my baby without any support I have not even once experience baby care..not even spent a day or two with new born I’m worried what if i don’t wake up at night to feed every two hours...what if I failed to give proper massage to my baby The condition my relatives have created at my parents house is forcing me to go back to my home...Although my parents never did anything Wrong but the relatives are hurting me daily.... But if I go back to my place there will be only two of us...although I have maid but no family member I know there’s no point of discussing at this but since evening I’m so worried and frustrated too