Questions on Toddler
1 Year 1 Month old boy
Hi mom's, How are you managing work life and baby care, am very much confused. I have to join office soon in order to help my husband financially. But thinking of the baby I tried hiring a maid but changed 4-5 maids but no use they are care less when we are not around. Both my mil and Mom are working so they can't help me . They told me to keep my baby in their house so that they will take care but me and my husband can't live without him. The left over option is daycare. But my question is will they take good care?. Because I heard so many bad stories. My baby doesn't eat well I have to make him watch TV and force feed him. Will they do the same . Am very much worried Yar, some times I feel like quit the job but my husband needs financial support😭😭.please help me mom's how are you managing. Thanks a lot in advance.
Mumma do check out day xares. If you have decent budget, day cares gives cctv coverage as well. Visit daycares near your house you will know your preferences, On feeding, Mumma force feeding and distraction feed are not good for babies. Let them eat and explore food. He will eat if he is hungry. Initially he may not want to eat but will start having it a day or two
I am mother of 13 months toddler and 6 months pregnant. When I informed family about second pregnancy, I told them it will be tough to continue with small kid. They all said we will help. We will hire nanny and take care. 3rd month had bleeding so was in rest till 5 month now my sugar levels are high so have to walk. To make our life easier we moved to apartment from individual house last week, where there is walking track nd other amenities. Now my inlaws are saying no need of nanny nor maid we can aaramse look after the kid. I m feeling hectic boz now my mil fully into kitchen. So running behind baby is me. In this running I m forgetting to take my tablets of sugar n not able to prepare diet food for myself to keep sugar under control. My breakfast timings will be 11 n today tho 12.15. Daily I cry boz I feel m not doing justice to second baby by not taking care of myself nor first baby by not looking her properly. I hate myself.
Hi dear. During pregnancy I came to know that am having low blood pressure nd also am hcv sero positive. Both has no treatments, only I should take care of myself by having healthy food.nd also am having a subchorionic hemorrhage(blood clot) so doctor suggested me to take complete bed rest. Even after doctored warned me, I just did my personal works, like cooking, cleaning house with mop, etc. Just 2.5 mnths after delivery I came to my husband's place. He is in Indian airforce, so there is no fixed timings for his job. He should be ready 24/7. And as a new mom, I dunno anything at first but I alonely taking care of my baby. From mrng to nyt am the only person to take care of my baby nd same time to keep track on my health also. Now he is 11 months old, when ever he sleeps i vl prepare bf, lunch nd also household chores. And at evening I will take him for walk nd followed by Park also. But yeah every women is different, someone may tired after doing a little, nd some others may not. But in pregnancy how much actively u doing ur personal nd ur baby care is good for ur health. Ask ur husband to keep maid atleast from 8 months. By that time you feel so tired coz of growing tummy.
4 Months old girl
Hi mommies..I have 2 daughters..both born through c section..my younger one is 4.5 months old..to be frank, I din get time to take rest after my second delivery, was behind my toddler..now I have a severe backpain..exactly at the end of spinal cord..am unable to walk once I get up, let it be from bed, sofa or floor..pain is unbearable for few minutes..I haven't faced anything like this during my first delivery..anyone gone through this..please help..
1 Year 4 Months old boy
Hi mommies! Has anyone kept their baby in daycare or play group? My baby is 16 months I wonder if I should start keeping in play group for few hours. Ladies please share your experience and cons is any.
7 Months old girl
I'm really worried..… my first son is 2 years 6 month old...He started speaking only after 2 and now he sings rhymes speaks more words sings cine songs asks for everything plays well sleeps well...I put him in play school last week one week he was okay after that he started pushing and touching hardly other kids eyes and if they are elder then make them to laid down and sitting and playing on them and he never listen to their teachers words ...But at home he get scared if I scold or saying some cockroach ll come don't do this that..In play school they are telling difficult to handle him...Wat should I do now...I told them to tell if you do like this then some animals insects ll come nu...Coz he get scared of those stuffs...But am worried should I change school or wat should I do..I ve another 7 month old baby..So give me suggestions ...
Don't worry your kid will start behaving well soon. My neighbour's son is also 2years 8 months old. Earlier whenever he came to my house he used to hit my daughter . He behaved same in his play school too. Daily me and his mother used to teach him not to hit anyone or else no one will play with him. Now he comes to my home but never hit my daughter. You just daily put in his mind that he should not hit others. He will soon understand.
2 Year 2 Months old boy
hey moms. i used to apply himalaya powder on my baby’s full boby and on diaper area fir jb pta chla k diaper area me bilkul nhi lgana chahiye powder to i stopped immediately. but kisi kisi ne kaha k body pe b nhi lgana chahiye . well, i m in canada to powder ki zarurt b nhi lgti . i apply lotion on him. but i m coming to india and vaha bht garmi hai. if after bath baby k body me powder apply karun to, koi prob to nhi hai. and kon sa powder best rahega in summer jo without talc ho. i heard sebamed is best in summer. little thanda thanda hota h vo. but kya vo without talc hai. ya uska alava kuch or best please suggest me.my toddler is about to complete 2 years now.
1 Year 2 Months old girl
Anyone shift there house within city with toddler...plz rply how u manage ..how u pack all ur stuff...i knw mover n packer..but small nd personal things to hum pack krte h..packing md unpacking
1 Year 7 Months old boy
3 Year 7 Months old girl
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1 Year 4 Months old girl
Few Days old boy
I want some sleep.. i am totally exhausted with 2kids.. one toddler and one newborn.. one doesnt sleep at night and other in day.. feeling like a zombie
hey , take help of somebody . ur newborn baby wants u more so adjust yourself wth him. if ur newborn baby dnt sleep in night den sleep wth him in day . hire maid fr wrk n prepare food only.. Give the responsibility of ur toddler to someone else like ur mil or ur mother . After few months ur newborn set his schedule automatically.. dnt take stress . this tym will pass soon..
6 Months old boy
My hubby going far for 2 days for official purpose..i am alobe with 2 kids..toddler and 6 month baby..how could i manage everything..toddler always hyperactive and wont even sleep during afternun..baby very cranky wants to be in my arms always..hubby asking me to come with him with 2 kids..bt i cant go bcoz it may affect the health of kids..bcoz my toddler doesnt eat outside fud and baby also is on homemade semisolids..plz tell me wht shld i do
6 Months old boy
I want to tell something to all moms here..today i saw a video in which a baby was brutally abused and beaten by the lady who took care of her in daycare..i dont knw in which place it happened..bt its in INDIA..as a mom i cant see it without getting tears..that baby is so small crawling baby..not even learned to walk..plz moms dont give ur baby to daycares and rush to make money..be with baby atleast till baby can talk and say what all happened to him/her..u can make money aftr 2 or 3 yrs..within 2 or 3 yrs if u take break from career its not gonna make u poor..noone will luk or love ur baby like u do..even if its mil or ur own mom..u gave life to baby and plz see it as ur responsibility to be with baby during initial 2 or 3 yrs..i dnt want negative comments..bcoz am writing this with broken heart aftr watching that video..and if u watch it u will also feel the same..am damn sure..
few days back some lady posted a question about leaving 7 month old baby to creche.. looking at my kid I wondered how could a woman be such strong to leave a small kid in stranger's hand. there might b many reasons for her to look for such options but according to my thinking babies should be the first priority no matter what. . really felt bad for the kid. p
5 Months old girl
10 Months old boy
Hey Mommies!!My kid starts preschool this year.I need help from moms who have already started school.What are all the things ul have to send with your kid to school( apart from lunch and books which is obvious)?And if the school is from 9:30-12:30 what routine do u follow? Like when do u get the kid to wake up,naps and bed time.Thank u so much!!
Hi dear...my daughter is going to school since she was 18 months old. First ask the school what are the basic things they want in kids school bag. My daughter takes a hanky, lunch, books, water bottle, extra pair of clothes and 2 underwear in her bag. If your kid still wears diapers give a bag for soiled diapers. She wakes up anytime between 8-8.15am...she brushes her teetj by herself now else my husband used to help her. Most of the days i just wash her hands, legs and face and put uniform and send... some days I bathe and send. Right after her brush she drinks her milk...which takes anytime between 2 mins to half an hr😋 and in between i make her ready for school. by 8.45am she needs to be ready. My husband used to drop her toll she was in playgroup now she goes by van. She comes by 1 pm. I keep the water for bath ready and her lunch ready before leaving home to pick her up and as soon as she comes I bathe her and feed her lunch. She sleeps by 2 pm and wakes up between 4-4.30pm. I give fruits at around 5pm, then milkafter an hour then she has some snacks or salads. Around 9-9:30 pm dinner and by 11-12 go to bed. After she gets up o. the evening till she sleeps in the night... she doesn't sit for more than 5 mins... she is very much hyperactive and keeps me busy. We do homework after 8 pm.
1 Year 6 Months old girl
2 Year 3 Months old boy
Hi my baby strted speaking 21or 22 month ..now he 27 months .. he is repeating after me ..till what age he does like this ..on his own he says many words ..toys name , food name ..
1 Year 3 Months old boy
Daycare, what is the right age? I wanna start working.. n at the same time give my baby the best of everything!
4 Months old boy
2 Year 1 Month old girl
1 Year 6 Months old boy
2 Year 3 Months old boy
2 Year 3 Months old boy
My baby is 2.5 month now he is not started speaking yet... Not he understands command and basic things... whenever he gets excited he flaps his hand...low eye contact..I am not getting what is the problem please help me
7 Months old girl