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1 Year 4 Months old boy
3h ago

Hi vr shifting to Hyderabad from Bangalore because for my hubby job sake. My baby is 1.5 months. It's totally new place. Bangalore is our native all my relatives r here baby is adjusted n he ll enjoy with my cousin's n my husband cousin's. Even Bangalore weather is cool than Hyderabad. Vr staying in-laws he ll enjoy with them going walk n outside. All my relatives n friends r telling u stay in Bangalore with baby. Ur hubby can shift. I am totally confused Wat to do either go there r let's stay in Bangalore. Wat shall I do

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According to me , you can stay in current place with your mom for another month till your husband settle down in Hyderabad . Finish your 3 months vaccines & go . Once baby becomes 3 months it’s quite easy for you to handle .
3 Months old boy
5h ago

My husband's brothers wife I mean in jethani is very devil type Lady....she always have problem from me... If I go out somewhere or even at my mom's place she starts shouting at my mil that why they send me,so because of her my father in law doesn't allow me to go anywhere..,,she wants me to do all the work,if she doesn't see me in kitchen then she starts asking my mil that where am I...she is so jealous of me ND never helps me in any work,,..now I m at my mom's place as I delivered before 3 months ,,I have to go after few days n m so stressed that how LL manage to do kitchen work,,see baby and my extra work bcoz no one is there to help me.....how to deal with that bitch don't know....

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u r not alone.. don't worry.. and also u know your situation better so find a solution to it. some ppl just can't see others happy
10 Months old girl
9h ago

My husband never says for sex ..... I m frustrate now after pregnency ee had sex only 2 time. But he is used to watch porn on mobile but never says fir sex. Abhi to mujhe onse baat karne ko bhi mann nhi karta isi ignorance ke karn maine karwachauth ka fast bhi chod diya kyu rakhi os insan k leye fast jisse meri paresh nhi..... Barat bone lagi hai ab os se mujhe dil karta hai khi bhag jayu os se door apni beti le kr

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First Trimester
9h ago

I m 10week pregnant mere husband baar rehte job p main sasural m hu kbhi kbhi sonchti aisa to k mere husband kisi or s relationship m ho KU kafi time s intimate nai hue kaise pata karu k husband n mere Siva kisi or s relationship banaya ya nai Kya koi test hota ya koi tips

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Third Trimester
9h ago

Hi guys...just wanted to ask one question...one of my friend has 1 baby of 2 years and after that she got affair with someone and got pregnant with that guy...now she want that baby to be born but she is worried that kahi koi aisa test to ni hota jisse pata chal jaye ki ye baby uske husband ka ni kisi or ka h..kya karna chahiye aise me ...ek baby ko janam dena h plz uski help kare..

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this is insane 🙄 having an affair after marriage is a sin, having an affair after marriage and a kid is a sin, getting pregnant with that guy is the biggest of all crime your friend has totally cheated her husband.. why is she still in her marriage then? for what? just because she wants monetary benefits or a shelter on her head after doing so much of wrong to that poor guy? n u being her friend, should give her some enligtment, not support her... she wanting that child is also a signal that she is connected to that man... n regarding the test, yes there r tests, if her husband suspects something wrong, there r tests to find out... it's a simple blood test that checks the DNA of the parent n such things can't be hidden... the truth will shine out someday God bless her with some good intellect!
1 Year 6 Months old boy
11h ago

Dear friends I'm really sad on my mothers behaviour. During pregnancy n after delivery 10 months I stayed at my mom's home. Also me and my husband and husband's family was not in good terms during my pregnancy and even after delivery. That time I had some financial issues also. One day my mom's money 5000 rupees went missing. My brother and father is also there. That time she insulted me by saying me to look in my hand bag. She told her money will be in my handbag in front of my brother and father. Even they scolded her for saying so. Why my mother is behaving like this I donno. She just hate me I think.Then I went to my hubby home. Now problems are solved with hubby.Now she wants me to come here every week. But I'm not feeling any love for her.

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I know you hurt becoz of your mom's behavior. I don't know the reason behind it but I can feel that may be she is regretting now. may be she wants to sort everything. i will not suggest to go every week but at least visit her once. try to forgive her just for yourself. do not keep hatred in your heart it can affect your health. as everything is sorted between you and your husband then enjoy your life with your family. be happy always.tc
5 Months old girl
Oct 16

After delivery my husband has no interest in me now my baby also 4 month old still my husband come from office play with baby & on his phone wht ever i asked only he answer wht should i do.he talk to his parents more than 1 hour on phone i love him lot & i want him To love me.if i say he shout & say i find his mistakes.pls help

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6 Months old boy
Oct 16

Hi dear,its my personal problm plz suggest mai kya kru . Mere husband mujhe pyar to bahut krte but kvi kvi bahut rude ho jate .avi kuc din pehle hi usne mere mummy papa didi ke samne bahut hi roughly tarike se bat kiy chila2 ke like mai tumhara gulam nhi hu jo tumhare har bat sunu etc2 aise harkate wo pehle v kr chuke hai . Mujhe us din se unse bat krne ka v man nhi krta bt i have 5 month baby . Plz suggrst

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4 Months old girl
Oct 16

What to use to protect babies from mosquitoes? I have mosquito mesh at home and use a net when baby sleeps but still this can't be used all the time. There have been a few mosquito bites. I live in Chennai and with all the rains mosquitoes have only increased. Please suggest any infant safe method.

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Odomos can be used as a repellent.
7 Months old boy
Oct 16

Dear mummies,, ek question tha.. My husband sometimes checks his ex girlfriends fb profile just to know their status but he doesn't talk to any of them,, kya yeh OK hai,, kya aplog k husband aisa krte hai or aap normal ho inse ? Plzz reply I am in tension

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hahha.. let it be.. may be he is getting satisfaction that how his lyf is better with you.. ❤ be positive.. and be happy 😄
1 Year 3 Months old girl
Oct 16

Hello mommies... M too much tired from my life .. Mere hubby salary ka 80℅ papa ko dete hn... 20℅ m khud k ar bche k khrch... Mushkil s manage ho pata. 20 salary h.. 10000 cash papa ka... Baki 5000 bc(wo b papa ko milti bad m) 4000 khud k pas rkhte jisme 2000 travel m chla jata unke.. Daily updown me.....2000 bchte.. Jisme 500 mjhe dete, baki 1500 m bche k diaper wgaira.. Khane k chiz etc.... Hubby k 3 unmarried bhai bhr rhte.. Wo b apni sari salary parents ko dete.. Bs ek chota bhai h yha jo pdhta. Meri mil hr tym mjhe yhi tana deti.. Inke bhai yha hote to inke kpde bnte,hubby k samne acha bnti(Shadi h yha mama ghr..Hr shadi m hubby bnwate th.. Is bar bhai ko dena pda to bnwa n pae.Unhe b pta h itni income h bnwa skte hn.. Sb) papa ko 10000 dene k bad hmari shopping krwa di thi.. Meri r baby ki... Tbsw muh foola h... Mera khna Y h. Jb hubby ar devar rupee dete hn.. To bnwao usi me se.... But jo 20 ℅ hubby hmare khrch k lie rkhte hn... Uspe b mil k nzr h.. K usme s bnwae.kya kru mai

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1 Year 1 Month old boy
Oct 16

My baby is 1 year 1 month old... Still does not have single teeth... Anybody faced this issue.. My husband also had got teeth after 1 year it seems.. But am worried..

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Hi dear....don't worry at all. mt both kids got their 1st teeth at 13th month only. My baby is almost 15 months and she has inly 4 teeths now. Till 18 months baby can get 1sy teeth anytime. Most importantly, getting teeths late doesn't mean baby has any deficiency... just that this milestone is bit late.
8 Months old boy
Oct 16

After being mom i feel like i am all together diff person...before baby i used to get hurt wen husband used to scold or i used to get too emotional for him... But after having baby i feel.like if he is not there then also no problem, and if he is here then well n good. Its not like that we dnt love or he doesnt care.he is too caring husband n father i have ever seen...still i feel something missing. Like we dnt like before we used to..we dnt watch movie, netflix together.. I just miss my self yaar...my baby is also so coperative, he doesnt bother me alot..still i feel emotionally baggage... Pls.help mommies..

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1 Year 5 Months old girl
Oct 16

Hi moms i have big problem please help me. My baby girl is 17 month old but wo toys ke sath rarely khelti baki all time ghar me mere piche ya dadi ke piche ghum ke bs chilati rehti hai tv aur mobile kabhi kabhi dekhti hai but wo 1 min ke liye b bethti nai hai kya kru i m fed up and tired

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Few Days old girl
Oct 15

Hello moms. Please don’t take me wrong. I delivered a baby girl on 16 jan. I love my princess very much but i find it very difficult to cope up with the routine. I feel very depressed and guilty because i am unable to give breast milk to my princess as my lactation (milk production) is very poor. No one is here to help me. I have maids around me but i cant trust them much. My MIL is a very toxic personality . She do not take care of my baby for a single minute. But start pretending as soon as my husband arrives at evening. I just want to know how much time it will take me to adjust in this new life. Is it normal or i am not a good mother?

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hello dear.. don't be so disappointed.. I m mom of a 7 month old baby and I exclusively breastfeed my baby for 6 months.. but for that I had to fight a lot n under go a lot of stress as my mil n my fil n my neighbor (who didnt bf her baby) kept on pressuring me for giving the baby fm.. according to them I wasn't producing enough my milk.. but I could understand that my baby wasn't crying out of hunger.. then I started doing frequent visits to my babies doctor n whenever I used to visit I kept on asking the doctor that is he getting enough milk or not n his doctor would tell me everything that ur child is absolutely alright n he is doing great with his weight (I mean gaining perfect weight).. but it was too tough for me to convince them.. they were like doctor talks no sense..my mil used to say I feed all my kids fm and they were so chubby n my baby is not.. whenever my baby used to cry they were like 'look he is not getting enough milk so he is crying out of hunger' then I started convincing my husband.. I told him everything.. initially he was supporting his parents saying they handled more babies n they will know better.. but I request him to ask his friends, colleagues and who ever he trusts that what is better for a baby bm of fm.. after his research he was convinced that I should continue with bf.. and he asked his parents not to force me in this matter.. n along with all this I used to have foods which r good for increasing bm and I used to drink 6-7 ltr water a day.. that's how I won my battle.. while parenting u ll get plenty obstacles which u ll have to cross with patience n determination.. good luck n be stress free.. stress could be a reason of low milk flow..
9 Months old girl
Oct 15

Hi mommies sorry for irrelevant question. Does any one know how to complain on neighbors uncleanliness online? My parents are in a village. And neighbors dumping all garbage especially cow dung and all in front of our house which is an open area. We told them politely but they r not listening. Is there any way to complain so that authorities can come and check. Am worried of mosquitoes and dengue is spreading here

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4 Months old boy
Oct 15

Mein ya mere husband jb bhi khana khate hai mera baby itne interest se dekhta hai.. aur jaise hum natak karte hai uski taraf uske muh ke pas kuch le jate hai toh wo bht shauk se muh kholta hai.. kya use mein kuch thoda de skti hu.. he is 4.5 months old

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After 5 months you can try giving.. actually doctors say that when baby starts showing interest in food we should give them little and start with semi solids..
4 Months old girl
Oct 15

Dear mommies pls suggest my.husband used tp share everything with his parents if i say dont share out personal talks then he fight with me wht should i do it feels he is not love with me.Infact his mother dont like my clothes to hang in washroom so he remove my clothes bcoz his mother dont like

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10 Months old boy
Oct 14

Hi mom's mera baby boy hai 10 months ka uske me raat me diaper pehnati hu sote samay. Isse koi problem to nhi hogi use age jake. Mere husband mana kr rhe the. Ki use mat pehnao use problem hogi bade hoke.

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1 Year 1 Month old girl
Oct 14

Pura medicine khatam hua 1 week hua abhi tak baby ki Sardi ja nahi rahi kya karu , husband bol rahe hai dr ke pass jakar, medicine se usko aur cough hoga , ajwaun ka stem doh , kya karu baby bahot chid chid karke ro rahi hai pls remidies batao ,nasal drops bhi dalne nahi deti

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1 Year 4 Months old girl
Oct 14

Hi Moms, My baby girl is of 16 months old. As I'm a working woman i leave my baby with my mom's house. She take care of her daily.I visit her daily. And for every 20-25 days my MIL comes from village she will take care of her. Im lucky to have that someone is there to take care of my Baby. But my prblm is my child behaves different when she is with my MIL. She won't come to me. I play with her. I try to take her to my arms but she starts crying. She not even take food with my hand. But she goes to my husband. She starts crying if my husband goes out. But wen i go out she won't look at me atleast. She not even goes to my mom also. I can't understand my child behaviour and sometimes it hurts me alot. I give her everything whatever she asks.like chocolate. Mobile, etc. I thnk y mil have some magic which attracts my child. Plz help me to overcome from this pain. My child behaviour will be Good when she stays with my mom. But why she is different wen she stays with my mil?

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I know it hurts...but its a very common thing. I have been through this and what worked was my mil telling my daughter to go to me. I'm not working and stay 24x7 with my kids... still they have special attraction /bond towards my mil. She's very good and loves my kids a lott... but still it hurts when kids do this. I take it positively that my kids get their grandparents love and grandparents too feel lucky to get pure love with pure heart from my kids. Being positive towards this attitude of kids and making your mil understand this and tell her to tell your daughter to come to you is the solution that worked for me. Now also we are doing the same when my mil visits us in holidays.
Third Trimester
Oct 14

Mai 7 month pregnant hu.... Mai ek private company me kam krti hu or mere husband bhi company mai job krte hai... Mere husband hmesha mujhpe daut lete hai... Mere office Ka ek Mera frd mere ghr ke pas reheta hai.... To mai kabhi agr bahot der huyi to uske Sath jati hu... Or aaj mera pet morning se mujhe bahot tight LG rha tha.... Fir bhi mai chlke stop tk gyi... Local se office aayi... Wo mere table ke pas baithta hai... Mai aakar jaise baithi... Mujhe ulati ho gyi... Or Dinbhar bhi mai chair pe Achhese baith nhi PA rhi thi... To usne mujhe ghr Chhod diya... Mere ghr me mere sas sasur or nand rehete hai... Bt Koyi kuch kam nhi krta.... Maine aake khana banaya... Barton saf kiye... Zadu pochha kiya... Khana khake aayi... To ye daru pike aagye or merepe chilla ke Mujhe Marne lge... Mere pet ko dhakka Lga hai... Or Mera pet halka dard ho rha hai

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dear... aap hubby nd family ko samjhane ki koshish kro.... ki aap dono k beech kuch nhi h.... or aap jab aise logo k beech ho to aap he adjust kro... kyuki aap pregnancy me ho aapko harm na ho isiliye aap us office boy se dur rho... jb ye log nhi psnd krte h to aap inlogo ko itna jldi to badal nhi sakti ho filhaal k liye aap adjust kro... nanad ki help lo saasu maa ko samjhane ki koshish kro... thk ho jayenge sab... nd aapko thoda or sambhal k rahne ki jarurat h.. pet me chot lgi h or dard h to dr se milo.. kahi koi problem na ho... dr ko ye baat btana ki pet me chot lgi thi... dr se chipana nhi...
1 Year 2 Months old boy
Oct 14

Mera beta h 1year.2month ka weight 8.4 beti h 2year7 weight 11kg dono under weight dono hi kuch nahi khana chahte meri nand ki beti h ek 10 kg ek 14kg dono mere hi baccho ki age ki.. Ab sb mjhe susraal me khte hai me baccho ka khayal ni rkhti.. Sara din me dono ke peeche padi rehti hu khilaane ko. Bt wo khana ni chahte.. Husband se help ki koi ummid krna bekaar hbunka apna issue h mjhe ki me unhe waqt ni deti. M feel depressed day by day.. Roz din me ek baar me rone lgti hu... Koi ni h samajhne wala mjhe.. Ghr ka kaam baccho ka kaam m feel like a full time maid. Uspe bhi husnad khush ni becoz unko sex krna hota h. Jo daily ho nahi pata.. Ab jhgra itna bad gaya h ki wo hr baat pr chillate h bs... Hr baat meri buri lgti h... I dont know ki bacche husband ab kese manage keu... Plzzzz help me

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Third Trimester
Oct 14

Hi sis na ippo 6month pregnanta iruke.5month Anomaly scan la nanjukodi kila irukunu sollitanga.athunala restla tha iruke.hus kuda intercourse vachukala.sariya wrk panndrathu illa.enaku normal delivery aguma pls sollunga sis.1pregnancy enaku twin baby enaku normal delivery than achu.ippo pregnancy. Husband kuda intercourse la illena normal delivery aguma pls sollunga sis

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hi sis enakum same prblm irunthuchu dr a intercourse venamnu solluvanga and heavy work pannathinha athu automatic ah sari akirum 7 month scan la sari akirum ithu normal than so don't worry and enaku c sec than aachu but intha reason ka ga ila delivary time mutinjum pain varathala c sec so atha pathi ethum nenaikathinga
Third Trimester
Oct 13

Hi friends. Iam in big trouble. Iam staying in my job place n here iam with my 1 n half months old baby. Nobody to look after me. Now husband had 15 days holiday he came n tomorrow he is going back.since everybody is telling dat one should not go to hubby place till completion of 2months. Iam staying here. But after my hubby goes tomorrow I hv to live alone with baby. My baby cries at night. I'm not understanding hw to manage alone. Although maid will come day time for house work but night time I hv to stay alone with baby. Nobody is coming here to help me. Pls tell hw can I manage with my baby. Now also I'm not getting time to sleep. N if hubby goes hw to manage. He is not extending his leaves also. I feel everybody left me at dis important time Pls help wt can i do

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if no one is supporting you then why you listening to them. do what is convenient for you. if you feel that you can travel and go to your husband's place then go. as I have no idea if it's long distance journey or how is your health pls consider everything and decide accordingly. at the end only you need to manage everything. so do what you felt right. stop bothering what ppl suggest. tc
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