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4 Months old boy
14m ago

Hello momies want to share a problem with u.... Im too much upset..... I came to my parents home to attend a function.... My sister has also come. She has a beautiful... Fair... Nd handsome baby of 2 years. My baby is 5 months old.... U know mommies i am neglected... My baby complexion is wheatish and he is weak also.... No one is talking with my baby... 😢.. All r busy with my sister's baby. Whole day only i take care nd give time to my baby... Even when my baby cry no one come to see him... Really feeling very very bad... Agr mera baby fair or sunder nhi h what was his or my fault... 😞😞 my sister is very selfish usne love marriage kr li nd jb maine apne bare mai batya tha then she said. Nhi nhi tu mt kr sb bolege ki ek ne jaisa kra waise hi dusribkr rhi h.... Or maine emotional hoke arr. Marr. Kr li.....mere itne gnde inlaws h i can't tell u mommies...i always sacrifice for others... Iam not happy at all my hubby is an angry man 😾. All r selfish even parents too.

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Third Trimester
2h ago

Hi, I don't know if this is the right platform to put my words.Actually i got married 3 years back and I am planning for baby but I don't know should I go ahead and plan for baby as I don't know and not sure should I plan it or not as I don't any sex life as it should be after marriage. I spoke to my husband but he tell he loves me and all but when it comes to making sex he doesn't take intrest i doubts if he loves me but he cares a lot for me.Now i am in situation I don't know what to do as stay,leave him or continue as I don't know the reason why is he like that before marriage he use to talk about sex all time but I told lets go for it after marriage but after getting married he doesn't remove topic can anyone help?

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May be he's going through some physical problems... M experienced beciz the same case was wid me... I was in a. Relationship of 6 years.. In starting my boyfriend was so romantic but later he stop taking initiative.. For 3 months his behavior was so rude.. He ignored me.. Then one day i asked him very politely what's the problem.... He said he's having physical problem.. After marriage you wont be happy as my power of sex drive is completely stopped.. Most of the guys dese days suffer from this problem.. He refused to marry me as he wants me to be happy.. Without physical relation marriage will not be successful.. Hi penis was stop working.. Den i took him to doctor.. Doctor sed its normal.. Because of tension stress it happens... I requested him to marry as i ll never force u foe sex.. I just want to live with you.. Now see.. On this 29th it will going to b 1 year of my marriage and god had blessed me with a little angel... M sure your husband may be suffering from the same problem... Support him make him happy.. And this problem no longer will be there..
1 Year 2 Months old boy
6h ago

Hi Pls help me.my husband is software engineer.we have completed 2 years of marriage.i have 14 month baby.but my husband doesnt show interest in me.he avoid me always.even he doesn't get physcl with me.when i pravoke him then he start but only 1 or 2 times in month I m feeling vry alone. Pls reply me

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Second Trimester
6h ago

Hi, I'm 17 weeks pregnant. My baby hasn't started to kick till now. Every one in the society are making fun that my baby will turn out to be a lazy kid. I'm not a slim woman and I have had belly fat since my childhood. Can this be the reason for me not feeling the kick? I visited my doctor a week ago and she said everything is fine and in 10 more days she has asked me to get a scan done. But due the jokes of the neighbours, I'm feeling very stressed regarding the baby kicks. What should I do?

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Dont worry about these comments, just wait till you cross 24 weeks! It will be a roller coaster ride! You just enjoy your journey with the baby and don't stress yourself with these comments. I myself felt proper kicks and jabs after 26 weeks so you can't be sure when it starts for every person
6 Months old boy
6h ago

Helo mommies...my baby is 7 months old..m planning for copper t...does it has many side effects...pls share ur experiences...m scared of heavy bleedim n all..but my husband wants me to go for copper t

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Third Trimester
8h ago

I am again copy paste my ques here. i hardly get one answers on my ques or sometimes no answer. please answer me...I m mother of 9 months old baby. c- sec delivery. yar bht weight gain ho gya h. pregnancy se pehle se leke abi tak me 14 kgs badh gya h. uper se sagging tummy and breast. mere dlvry k tym pe b meri mom ne hi sara help kiya. as such my father is heart patient to meri mom meri zyada help nhi kr payi. jaise ki sare log itne lucky nhi hote . i m one of them. meri Mil ne bilkul b aake meri help nhi ki... dlvry k 1 month bad hi muje sara khud dekhna pada. ghr or baby to sambhal liya jaise taise karke but khud k liye bilkul tym nhi nikal payi. any mom who can give nice tips to weight loose & share your experience of weight loss journey after delivery . i really wants to loose my weight now because post partum fat is really stubborn. abi nhi krungi to bad me jayega nhi. please help me.

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I am facing same problem dear, my doctor told me to walk as much as possible... avoid junk food...
4 Months old boy
8h ago

Alhamdulillah ...my baby have completed 4 months now ..my mil says Woodward's gripe water is good n safe to give baby for digestion and stomach problem and she says she had given to all her children in dere childhood ..is it really safe and good to give to my baby ..I'm confused

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Woodwords gripe water ... DEADLY POISONOUS COCKTAIL for your child .. while the company may ridicule by saying its a 150 year old proven safe formula ..but if we peep in carefully in to the history .. gripe water itself is a SCAM and rejected by its originating country USA because it used ALCOHOL which was banned for child consumption .. so now 10-15 years back the alcohol in woodwards gripe water is replaced by more DEADLY CHEMICAL PRESERVATIVES lets analyze them . 1) BRONOPOL .. it is the most deadly bromine containing chemical used in woodwords gripe water .. BRONOPOL is never used in edible food anywhere in the world .. only used in cosmetics and external medication.. it is disinfectant and antimicrobial for example dettol and povidine iodine are NEVER used in food because of their known toxicity if taken internally ..similary bronopol cannot be consumed or added to food .. but thanks to the GOVERNMENT OF INDIA it has given permission to add bronopol to child medicine !! Are indian children used as GUINEA PIGS to see the effect of bronopol in food ?? Bronopol acts by releasing FORMALDEHYDE which is a notorious CARCINOGEN !!(cancer causing substance) Bromine present in bronopol acts as ANTIANDROGEN ..it destroys the testosterone stem cells of male children making them sterile gay transgender after they grow up .. 2) methyl paraben , ethyl propyl parabens.. these chemicals are known for carcinogenesis and human endocrine disruptors and also proven to decrease the male sperm count and motility!! 3) sodium benzoate .. same toxic effects as parabens.. i can see evil intention in adding triple doses of benzoic acid...to gripe water ( 1 methyl parabenzoic acid 2) propyl parabenzoic acid 3 sodium benzoate ) ..as paraben is a short form for parabenzoic acid!! and they never mention the exact amount of chemical preservatives added all the chemicals have common poisonous effect.. decreasing male fertility in children and cancer the world elite super rich people have a hidden agenda ..to decrease the world population.. various nefarious methods are used to achieve their goals .. they poison the most commonly used food substance ..for example drinking water is poisoned by chlorine in india and other third world countries. .and fluoride is added to drinking water in america and European countries .. bromine is added to mineral water kinley aquafina etc natural sea salt is poisoned with iodine ..! and now after seeing the ingrediants of gripe water it is clear that even the children are not spared for more detailed description see attached photo...
4 Months old boy
8h ago

Mazi baby 6 months chi honar ahey ata 8 divsane baby la ata mi 5 vya mahinyat Pani suru kel ahey kren khup kordi padtat lips pn baby ata ratri zoplyaver sakali utheparent laghvi kret Nahi sakali uthlyaver Ch laghvi krtoy .ani see pn 3 4 dives kret Nahi Kadi Kadi baby chiket laghvi krete Kay zal asel please help me..

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dr kade gheun ja ani dr cha salla ghya
1 Year 10 Months old boy
9h ago

Hello mommies wats the feedback of motherhood hospital banshankari branch bangalore

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2 Months old boy
9h ago

Hi mommies, I have given birth before 3 months ago.from the day I conceived my husband avoided sex as he is afraid of affecting baby. Now also I am feeling so depressed that he is avoiding physical contacts like hugging , kissing and he is not interested in me. I am in mom home and he is coming to see us every day. Ours is a love mrg. I am missing him every day. He is not talking over phone nor messaging me personal.if he talks also, his subject is about baby.when i discussed about this to him,he said that I am behaving like a teenager .I am not under postpartum depression. I am happy about everything apart from his behavior.please advice.

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First Trimester
9h ago

Hi I have thellasaimia trait whereas my husband has no trait of thellasaimai his report is normal. Is the baby free from this disease? do we need to worry?

4 Answers
If you just have a trait and u are not suffering from thalassemia and your husband has no traits then the chances are your baby may be normal or may also carry trait...but the baby will not suffer from thalassemia.. But be sure to bank stem cells...just in case... thalassemia is curable by stem cells
Few Days old girl
9h ago

What is the use of gardenal syrup in infants ?

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hi dear...Gardenal that is phenobarbital syrup is given in the treatment of infant seizures or fits in first case... secondly it is also given in the treatment of neonatal jaundice.never use this medication without doctors prescription ..and also watch the baby for excessive drowsiness , vomiting,etc,
Third Trimester
10h ago

Hello everyone.....meri dilivry date doctor ne 10 June btayi h....mean 10 June Ko 9 month complete ho jayenge....meri àajkal rat Ko nind Khul jati h...sochti rhti hu kya n kese hoga bhut e dr lgta h...1st baby h so.....mere husband careing h but man m dr.... please help...SB normal ho jayega na....

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hii.. meri due date 27 may h. meri raat ko nid tut jati h. same situation h bcz meri 1st pregnancy h. iska bss ek hi solution h aap positive socho khush rho tension mt lena. aapki doctor aapko jo advice de isi ke according chle. negative logo se dur rhe. sb thik ho jayega ☺
Second Trimester
12h ago

Hello ladies m 24 weeks pregnant n stay in abroad i have my in laws visited me n i hav too much work load m unable to take rest will it effect my baby or me and my husband s not supportive he dont even ask weather i ate wat i need or how i m i feel so stressed n depressed how should i handle tis situation..

4 Answers
hi dear 1st you should avoid stress dear and depression also not good during pregnancy it's show effect on baby dear once talk to your husband he may understand your problem dear every problem have a solution
5 Months old girl
14h ago

My baby is five months old..for first four months she was completely on BM..but after forth I went to my husband's place there I started to give her fm due to low supply..for past two weeks she refuse to suck my milk and now she is totally on fm..Now I again want to give her my BM whether it is possible to make her suck again and also I want to know that after two weeks giving my BM to her is safe for her health or not.. till now I having little amount of BM and I trying to increase it... please frnds give me some suggestions..

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A Month old girl
15h ago

Part 1 my baby girl is now 1 and half month old. Till the date of delivery i was at my home with my husband. After delivery i came to my mom dad's place. Now my husband missing my daughter that's why he is calling me back. Buy i don't want to go so early. As he is not at all supportive. He don't even help me, nor he does his own work. My baby is small now, and my mom dad are taking good care of me. If I return i need to handle my baby and do his work plus household work. And the main reason is on Friday and Saturday night he goes to hangout with his friends, sometimes comes home in very bad condition(drinks) that too late night. In my whole pregnancy he used to come home in the morning itself on weekends. He thinks he is enjoying his life. He is not understanding of his responsibility. And if I argue with him on the same, he don't like it and scolds me saying that m stretching the topic. I should not interfere in what he does. He says he loves me but I can't see in his behavior.

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No need to go to his house! Sometimes we are thrown into these circumstances where god judges our patience and 6 years is a long time to understand a man and his interests. He can’t love the fruit without loving the tree!! If he loves your daughter he has to be responsible enough to love you and care for you. If he did not mend his ways in 6 years what do you think will he change in another 6 months! When it comes to relationships we tend to give a lot of time to men that he might change but same doesn’t happen with women. Once a woman commits a mistake she is labelled as a bad wife, daughter in law, mother etc! Just be at your parents house and don’t move an inch from there! If he pleads also then just don’t put the axe on your own life. Let your body and mind heal. You need time to get back to normal after delivery and take care of your daughter. Take care and be strong.
Second Trimester
16h ago

M pregnant and mera 4rth month chl rha hai. Mera blood group A- hai.and mere husband ka O+ .to negative blood hone se kya hota hai.mujhe clear nhi hai.plz suggest me

4 Answers
during your delivery, aapko ek injection lagega. Dr bta denge. purane time me jab ye injection develop nahi hua tha tab problem hoti thi, negative blood group vali mom can bear only 1 child with positive blood group. 2nd child life threatening hota tha. but ab injection lag jata hai to u can have as many babies as u want.
Third Trimester
17h ago

Hiiii... I am 28 weeks prgenant , my husband was really caring for me till dec , on 30 dec 2017 he lost his elder 31 yrs old brother due to some mishapping can’t explain in public, after that the nature of my husband changed, he left me , not at all caring even he didn’t even bother dat I am pregnant, d wording of my husband is u r working earning and educated so u can manage but my other family members need me. He always use to scold me wid bad words , my mental condition is like I should commit sucide, but thinking about my baby, I tried but failed . Please suggest some positive response

2 Answers
i think u shud take some time out for both of u.. may b a day outing n talk frankly to each other..
2 Months old boy
20h ago

Hi, My baby is 3 months old. He is on breast feeding. But the problem is with husband's grand mother. When ever baby cries she comes and check whether milk is flowing through. And she repeadly tell to everyone that I don't have enough milk and baby is always hungry. My baby has enough pee count also gaining weight. But she is irritating and asking to supplement with formula all the day. I am really stressed.

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Hahahahaaa..... there's always someone in every home to comment on bm amount. Well dear, if you know your milk is enough for your baby and he's gaining weight..... don't stress & yes you may choose to feed him in closed room. Just tell your in-laws or if the situation worsens, visit your doctor and tell his comments at home. It may help you. Good luck👍
Third Trimester
20h ago

Hii I know I can share my feelings to dis place , I am 28 weeks pregnant, I tried to commit sucide but I failed because I had thought about my baby , reason dat my husband lost his elder brother in dec 2017 due to some mishapping can’t share in public , in my family my husband is having working father working sister one younger brother and mother . Rest his elder brother was married having two kids . Dis is my first and last pregnancy, after dis incident my husband left me alone , and didn’t bother about my pregnancy he started scolding me so much bad words , I know his mental condition is not good , but the words of my husband really painful for me, he says u r educated independent and working can manage alone . I am not saying dat be with me always , but u can talk some caring and lovalble words to me . In this condition I am trying my level best to support him finniaclly emotionally. But I am getting d worst , how should I react , I am fed up

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Dear you need a positive energy. So, surround yourself with positive people. You may go to your parents if feasible. This time is very crucial for you and baby. You know very well about your husband's mental condition, so you can' t blame him or even make expectations (at present). The first & foremost concern at present is yourself and your baby. The arrival of baby may put a positive impact on your husband. Take care of your mental health as well. You are strong enough to control your suicidal impulses. Talk to someone you feel will support you, if you feel suicidal again. All the best!!💐
Second Trimester
22h ago

hiii everyone I have anterior low lying placanta Dr ne bed rest bola h pr mai akele rehti hu husband k sath. maid effort nhi kr skte hm do logo ka khana krna pdta husband kafi supportive h saare weighted kàam wo kr k ofc jate pr ek ek hrs subh Shaam khana mujhe bnana hota h thoda bhut roughly kàam Kya koi complicactions ho skte h mera 4th month chal rha h

2 Answers
u cn do light kitchen work like cooking for half hr or so but other heavy household work like cleaning, dusting, washing shud be avoided..
6 Months old boy
22h ago

I am having 6 month of baby.In 5th month I get periods now this month I didnt get periods I meat wit my husband this month 4 to 5 times so I worried abt again I wil pregnant are wht pls suggest

1 Answer
u sure that u have safety coitus there is no prblm ... if not chance to be pregnant ... be careful u reach 35 days then take a test from home ....
Second Trimester
Apr 24

Hi friends I want to share all my pains...I feel really I m unlucky y bcz no one understands me properly especially my family everyone will use me wen dey want but no one s ready to help me but I m lucky to get good hubby..I was taking care of my grandma n my sister wen dey need but today everyone hates me n everyone likes my sister..my whole family loves my sister n hates me my mom died wen I was small my family doesn't like my mom so now dey don't like me..I m feeling y I came to my parents house...I really hate Dem a lot... feeling so depressed...

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dear even my mom taking care more and little bit my husband also he don't know more care and my father aged iam suffered for him he hurt me so much even he care me but hurt me I don't want to leave in this house but I don't have any another option I can't bear this some time but time will change everything
A Month old boy
Apr 23

How to get rid of worms during motherhood

1 Answer
Eat lots of bitter things like bitter guard, if you can consume bitter guard or karela juice that would be best. Or you can eat raw garlic 1 to 2 cloves, carrot, pineapple juice. And apply coconut oil with 1 or 2 drops of tea tree oil(if possible or coconut oil alone is also okay) daily on that affected area at night.
Third Trimester
Apr 23

My mother in law is saying dat from the day of birth till next 45days baby has wear used clothes..means no new clothes..how to convince her..I don't want my baby to wear clothes of some one else..my husband also tried to convince her but she said a big NO..how to convince her..m staying away from my family..nd my mother in law is wid us..wat to do..plz give me some ideas

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there is no harm to use old cloths I also want to use my niece's cloths but my baby was premature and so tiny that I have to buy new cloths for her tell your mil to properly wash with dettol then you can use
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