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Second Trimester
16m ago

Hello everyone Thia is my second pregnancy and I'm 16 week pregnant. Mujhe baby K movement kb tk feel hogi. One more questions when my hubby also touch to feel the 👶 movement .in my 1st pregnancy I'm at my mother home till 2.5 month and he didn't experience the baby movement this time again I'm going to my mother's home at starting of 6 month.please tell me something is Thia possibles to feel movement before I'm going to motherhood home

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Third Trimester
25m ago

Meri 20 days pehle cesarean delivery hui hai..my mil says that I can eat gond ki pinni dry fruit ghee after 40 days of delivery else I will gain so much fat that cannot be reduced. Even my husband says so..Please suggest

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A Month old boy
2h ago

hii mam muje ek questin karna hai... meri delivery ko 2 month huiee cizer mera husband ke saath physical hua hai maine ipl goli liya hai??? muje dar lag raha mai pregent to nhi hogi na??mai ky kru??? plz help me

7 Answers
Its good that you took ipills tablet. But still you may get pregnant. Its not 100% safe. So you should do home pregnancy test on 28th day. Thus you can remove your doubts. Its better to do pregnancy test after 28 days from the intercourse. Then only the pregnancy test result will be valid. So I recommend you to wait till its 28th day. Keep your fingers crossed. Take care. Don't go for unsafe sex again 😊
6 Months old girl
2h ago

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Second Trimester
2h ago

I am 6 month pregnant , My husband ask me to take 1-2 peg of alcohol in party last night but I refused can I take beer or whiskey this time in little quantity plz guide me

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U shouldn't take alcohol in pregnancy.. Not even occasionally because I read that if we r planning for baby at that time also both husband and wife should avoid alcohol or smoking, so that u may have a healthy pregnancy.. So, how u may have alcohol while u r expecting.. It will definitely harm ur baby and in some cases it causes disability in babies. So, please say no to alcohol, smoking or any type of hard caffeine.
Few Days old boy
3h ago

Infants ko jaundice hua hai kaise pata chalta hai ghar pe? Mom ko thyroid ho to kya baby ko jaundice hona compulsory hai?

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Third Trimester
3h ago

Hi I am in big confusion plz help me To day i want to hsptl and again they did pregnancy test and they confirmed that I am pregnant so nurse said com in evening doctor will come at 7.pm But now my husband relitevs saying to take time and do abortion but my husband saying of ur 4.or 5 weeks pregnant than do carrying if ur 2.3 wks then don't carry I don't know what to do plz help me after how many days this pregnancy will be confirmed rplz waiting for reply

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4 5 weeks or 2 3 weeks doesnt matter. both are same things. you and your husband sit and discuss why you must carry and why u must abort.. the logical reasons for both. and take a combined decision. in early pregnancy anyways, abortion can be done only with medicines. confirmation is very easy. goto a chemist and get urine for pregnancy tests from 2 3 brands. test all of them with early morning urine sample. these days, lal path labs are available near majority of places. just go there and tell them do your test for pregnancy, they give the report by evening if sample given in morning. and the report is accepted by all doctors. your doctor wont tell you to repeat the test if u do it in lal path.
Third Trimester
5h ago

Meri shadi ko sirf 1 year hua tha aur main pregnant ho gyi thi. Meri saas ne baby ke liye pagal kar rakha tha. Woh mujhse bilkul pyar nhi krti thi. To socha chalo iss bahane pyar to milega. Mujhe beta hua hai. Pote ki aane ki khushi woh bohat khush hai. Magar main apni old life husband ko bohat miss krti hu. Uske saath so bhi nhi pati.. Guilty sa feel hota hai. Uska sapna tha hum pehle life ko enjoy karenge. But kya ho gya😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢 I am not happy for being a mom.. I can't believe myself

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Oh.. Trust me each woman feels d same just after delivery for sometimes and Dats is time when we also need our husband the most.but u know what everything in life has two sides positive nd negative! It depends what we look at more. see just in a year you got a baby, ur mil is happy nd she would b going gaga on him.. If she is so loving nd happy, you spend time with hubby. You baby we grow soon nd u would b still young nd hot.. Jokes a part but u didn't have any complication due to late pregnancy nd age issue. With experience I would say baby makes husband wife relationship stronger! So just cheer up and don't feel guilty for missing ur old life or not being happy, we r human nd have all kinds of feelings.
6 Months old boy
6h ago

My husband doesn't do baby chores at all. If for 5 minutes I want to go to bathroom he keeps screaming my name to come back. If I ask him to take baby for some time he says he is tired after office work and can't deal with baby crying. He says when baby is older and sensible then he will do father duties. If baby is almost falling down trying to stand up, he calls me to look after baby but he won't pick up the baby. In whole 24 hours maybe he plays with baby for fifteen minutes. Are all husbands like this? I'm getting frustrated every day.

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Third Trimester
7h ago

Yenakey marriage aagi three years aaguthu idhuvaraikkum nan consive aagala treatment yeduthum no use.but yenakkum yen husbandkkum yella test normal.yengalukku naturala systemla consive aga any tips pls

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மாதவிடாய் முடிந்தபின் முதல் 15 நாட்கள் தாம்பத்தியம் வைத்துக்கொள்ளுங்கள். தாம்பத்தியம் முடித்தவுடன் உறங்காமல் மீண்டும் ஒருவர்க்கொருவர் கொஞ்சி விளையாடுங்கள். குழந்தைக்காக தாம்பத்யம் என்ற மன அழுத்தத்தை விட்டு உங்களது அன்பை பெருக இணைகிறீர்கள் என்றெண்ணுங்கள். dinner ku வெளியே சென்று மனதை relax செய்யுங்கள். No stress .
Third Trimester
9h ago

My husband is too much inclined to my in laws. Its good that he loves them.But very often whenever my in laws talk against me he will never be in my support. If I talk anything against them he scolds me like hell. Ours is love marriage.What kind of love is this? This makes me hate my inlaws even more. Now its heights I am 7 months pregnant. I have concieved after 6 years of my marriage after so much struggle. My FIL doesnt want my MIL to come to me. My husband is blaming me for this. My mother is old and sick so she cant help me much. I cant take her support. Dont know whts going on in my life. My anger is increasing day by day...its not gud for my baby...

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agr mil na hoti to bhi to aapna dyan rakhte na??? main 7 month ho gye. meri mil or mom dono h. i don't expect anything. bcz muje hi hurt hota mil k karn. so be urself... u can do anything.... or har bat per husband se lda mat kro.. time aane per moka dekh k situation smjaya kro. kudh per le kr dekhna har situation smj jati ho??? nai na. mood dekh k react. be calm. gussa kamjori matt bnao
Second Trimester
11h ago

Hi, I'm 17 weeks pregnant. My baby hasn't started to kick till now. Every one in the society are making fun that my baby will turn out to be a lazy kid. I'm not a slim woman and I have had belly fat since my childhood. Can this be the reason for me not feeling the kick? I visited my doctor a week ago and she said everything is fine and in 10 more days she has asked me to get a scan done. But due the jokes of the neighbours, I'm feeling very stressed regarding the baby kicks. What should I do?

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I am 14 weeks pregnant, my mom told me that we can feel the baby movements between 16 to 25 week. If it is first pregnancy you might not feel baby movements till u reach closer to 25 weeks. In second pregnancy you can feel the baby movements around 16th or 17th week. Also we should remember everyone's body type is different from each other. So don't worry about this. Just be happy and have a wonderful pregnancy.
Third Trimester
11h ago

Now I am 7th month pregnant. Just started 7th month. My dr told me that sleep on my left side but when I turned on my left side my baby kicking in my left side so that I sleep on lay back side is it good or bad for me nd my baby. One more question can I do this time intercourse with my husband is it harmful for me nd my baby. Please give me some suggestions from Dr nd mom's

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2 Months old boy
11h ago

Friends! I wanna share one thing with u. I hv a baby boy. He is just two months old now. I breast feed him. Whenever he cries or I m away, my MIL offers her breast to him n baby starts sucking her nipple. She is doing like this since he is born. Even my baby sucked her nipple first before me, because my nipples were flat, he was unable to latch n milk was also not coming.. whenever I see her feeding my baby, even though milk doesn't come, I guess she likes it. I don't know why but I don't like it. Mera khoon khaulta h aur main kuch ker nhi pati. One day I told that this way feeding the baby when milk is not coming, is not good, I heard. She replied that she had been doing like this with all my husbands' cousines n his neices. Plz tell me what I should do k wo ye krna chod den.

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I think you should contact your doc and let her know this things and ask her to favor u in this case n ask your husbnd to visit with u... bcoz it will harm u n ur baby too.. if he will not hv milk then he will be weak n his immune system will not develop. N for u... you will feel pain in your breast n it can create complications... let ur husbnd knw.. go for u tube or articles to give examples... n ask ur mother in law to stop this nonsense things.. bcoz this is ur baby.. it is not just abt feeding it is about hvng contact with ur baby... creating a bond between u n ur baby... if she dnt like this comment that is also fine ... dnt give ur baby to her... avoid her presence.. be happy n feel strong for ur baby... you should take one step forward for this
Third Trimester
14h ago

Guys I have a v stupid q prob. I was living alone with hubby for 2yrs n now MIL has come to stay after baby. I miss my old space n hate the fact that she does unnecessary household work while j struggle with the baby. She hardly ever woke up in the night during first month n my husband thinks it's fine m. I developed health problems because u never got to lie down n hubby thinks it was my duty n it's nothing great. I can't live with fake smiles when I'm not comfy with someone. Y do v have to sacrifice our happiness.

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From your statements it doesn't look like your mil is doing anything to trouble you. Regarding the loss of self space- You should be thankful to her that she chose to come and stay with you. May be she is not helping you with the baby day in day out but she is probably taking care of other chores. Regarding getting up at night- sweetheart welcome to mommy world! It was your and your husband's decision to bring a child, then why are you expecting anyone else to be there to handle the rough parts. Moreover your mil has already gone through this stage in her life (maybe multiple times ) is it right to put her through that phase again? NO! Grandparents are there to support you don't take them for caretakers. Be grateful of her participation. It is not mandate to be completely involved may be your mother might behave similarly. Yes as a new mom we crave for relaxation,if Nothing at least a hour long undisturbed sleep acts as boon but project these expectations to your husband and no else. More importantly these trivial issues are not because of your mil it's basically the exhaustion and sleeplessness taking a toll on you. This is what makes us irrational at times. Compose yourself. Keep your thinking clear. Getting irritated by someone means you are giving them power to control you. Do things as per your convenience, politely convey your thoughts to your husband and even mil. If you face any issue don't whine don't complain rather work to resolve it. And yes to a happy self zero down your expectations. You ll feel lighter and lot more happy. Stay blessed.
1 Year 4 Months old girl
14h ago

Hi mommies..you all would be investing hugely on disposable diapers.But there are lot more to know regarding diapering.If you are interested to explore it more, I am creating a group.Let's discuss it more!!

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3 Months old boy
20h ago

Is there anyone who is staying at your dad gifted home ( not hubby's home) with your hubby??? I stay in my dad's gifted home with my hubby and baby.. so asking who else is staying like me

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My husband's house is in Mumbai so we are staying here at my dad's house as my husband's office is in pune and my husband is paying a rent for that house as it's against my husband's principles to stay for free in my dad's house. ☺
Second Trimester
20h ago

Hello , I am 5 month pregnant but I want to know can I do sex with my husband in this time period ? Is this safe for my baby

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Few Days old boy
22h ago

Hi friends.. I just need a platform to share my feelings.. I'm a mom of few days old..From second day of my delivery my mil started behind me to feed baby whenever he cries.. then she took doubt that I don't have adequate milk n thus baby cries frequently.. listening to mil frequently husband also started saying same thing.My husband attended the delivery counselling session where doctor gave him idea about postpartum depression. When I talk to him about this that I don't like such behaviour he said not to blame his family about not taking good care of baby.. they know everything well..Now from few days he is not talking well with me.. he easily get angry on me on small things.. I know time is the only solution for this.. but being very emotional person it's very difficult to handle.. I took a chance by talking to husband about this but it didn't work so just found a way to share feeling..Being a working and independent woman it's really difficult to go through such phase..

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Same happens with me. I M also not having enough feed to keep the baby fully fed. Instead if talking to your husband. Talk your mother in law and tell her how you feel. I did that I will give top feed because I don't want to keep the baby hungry.
First Trimester
Oct 20

I'm 2 months pregnant as of now. Last week I was admitted in hospital due to bleeding but by God's grace the babies are fine. Known friends n relatives are suggesting me to have sex with my husband as sex would avoid infections. But me and my husband thought to stop having sex till I deliver. I'm not sure what to do.. I'm scared and unable to decide because of the bleeding last week. Is sex mandatory during pregnancy?? Please suggest

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First Trimester
Oct 20

Today me and my husband are very upset as we are expecting positive result but I got my periods and we both shattered now. Don't know what to do we are trying since last 3 years undergoing through lot of treatments but no result. :( :( :(

7 Answers
see dear the more u run towards one thing u will never get it ...when u stop running behind it , it automatically comes to u !! its my personal experience one of my friend she is 38 now she is been trying to conceive from the time she turned 30 she did if IVF twice , she has thyroid and Pcod .. twice IVF failed she lost hopes of getting pregnant after 8 yrs one morning she got was feeling vomiting suddenly it clicked her if this is pregnancy she did check twice on the pregnancy kit and both came positive she couldn't believe .. she gave birth to a baby boy at the age of 36 and baby boy that to naturally and baby boy is now all grown up. so even if late u will definitely get what but u will get the best dnt wrry have faith in god there is always a door open but we dnt see it .. coz we are so upset when we see the first door closed .. Dnt worry just follow God's will may be this is not the right time. .god has planned something better for u. .Tk care n stay blessed. .!!
First Trimester
Oct 20

Hi Moms, sorry but I just want to share my problem here I am 26 now and married sine 4&half yr now we had arrange marrage, We are trying to convince sine last 3&half year but not succeed yet it kills me. And on other side my MIL Don't like me at all sometime she behave good but sometimes she is like monster once she said to my mom & dad ki "Maine apni beti ka baccha dekh liya Abhi meri Kuch iccha baki nahi hai usko baccha ho ya Na ho". Though my husband has is alone son she is saying all this. My mom, dad are so upset and me too. How to deal with this kind of women? My hubby saying ignore her but till when I can ignore her?

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Ignore till she is with you . This is only Mantra. We Indian bahus have to bear all this .even in this modern era. No option . Most women still struggling with this kind of life. I am also one of them. Husband can't help . They can't say no to their mother. But yes they can say anything to us. Even I m looking for answers like you my dear
Third Trimester
Oct 20

hi moms.mera 8 month 3 week start hua hai.me yaha mere hubby or father in law k sath rahti hu.muzse ab kam nhi hota or m mummy k ghar jana chahti hu pr hubby kehte hai ki 8 month m kahi bahar nhi jate esliye next month m jao.pr m yaha ubha gayi hu. es vajah se hamare zagde bhi hote hai...es month travel karne se problem hogi kya...please help me ...what can I do

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ask your doctor visit with your husband she is the right person to guide both of you and pls don't make it issue and fight with your husband try to be happy always your stress can affect baby as well all the best
First Trimester
Oct 20

Hi, since yesterday day my husband is fighting with me unnecessary he's so irritating even he's arguing and fighting over pity issues. I'm not feeling well since day before yesterday that day he acted very sweet, cared about me gave me stuff to eat and drink but since yesterday he's acting so rude I cried a lot. What can I do? I m so worried. I'm 5 days 6 days pregnant.

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speak to him and try to sort out as someone have to start the conversation. let him understand ur point of view.
2 Months old boy
Oct 20

First of all happy new year frnds. Bt i m very sad today. Bcoz my inlaws r not good to me. Wo log ko hmesha me nahi bt meri devrani hi achchi lagti he. Kyoki wo look bhot achchi he. Bt i m not.so they not like me.mera jo devar he use sab ghar me jyada age rakhte he. Mere hubby ko value hi nahi deta.. Hum vese to alag hi rahte the pr meri delivery k bad me apne sasural me hu.to vo mujse mere khane ka kharcha bhi mangte he....mene ek month diya dusri bar dena abhi baki he.. Mere devar job nahi krte the aur devrani bhi... Lekin un dono ko abhi5 month pahele hi job mili.. Wo log bina paise diye 4 yr se meri sas sasur k sath hi rahte the.. Jb un dono ko job ayi to bhi wo paise nahi dete.. Wo to thik pr meri godbharai k jo mere nam k paise aye wo bhi nahi diye..uski bhi koi bat nahi. Pr ab jab meri devrani ko twowheeler lena tha to mere sasur ne adhe paise diye. Muje bura is bat ka lagya he ki wo mere apne paise bhi muje nahi dete aur devrani ko uski cheez lane me ghr k paiso ki madad krt h

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