Questions on Parenting
Hi Moms, my 35 week is just started and in whole pregnancy me and my husband, never had sex and I don't feel like having I dnt know why....still normal delivery possible?
2 Months old girl
Hello friends Hope you all having good time with Ur little ones and enjoying motherhood :) I have a question for how much duration baby massage should be done before bath? I do my girl's full body massage for approx 20-25 minutes. Is that okay ? Or it should be increased? Plz let me know your views. And any tips relating to massage / bath would be more than welcome. Thank u :)
Hello moms mera 7 month chal raha h kya is time sex thik rahega qki 7 month me sex bilkul nhi hua aur ab husband thoda naraz se rahte h chidchida pan rahta h to kya sex se koi prblm h
Hii mom my 9 month is running.after 2 month my husband is coming.actually I m living at my mom's house.after 2 month cam we do sex or not .my nine month is going to complete on 5 march.plz suggest....
3 Months old girl
Hi all I m asking stupid question but it serious. actually I have 4 months baby girl my delivery was normal. After that I m not interested in physical relation.my husband want to bt I don't want. I can't understand what's the problem.is it normal
it happens sometimes... it takes time to come out of the trauma of pain which she faces after her delivery i.e sleepless nights and days, take care of baby 24/7 restlessly ... for me it took 8months to come out of the vaginal stitches pain and the mental pressure to take care of baby.. .... so it happens but only u can come out of it , don't let ur personal life get affected , request ur husband to understand ur current situation and wait for few more days & hope he understands .... stay happy dr..
Hello moms ... I am 13 week pregnant. Nowadays I m very sensitive to smell. Whenever My husband smoke and drink I feel very uncomfortable. Also I feel uninterested in sex. Now he is complaining that I m fed of him and I m frustrated. Actually I really love him very much and I need him every moment. Main unka samjha nhi pa rhi hun.. what should I do ..... Plz advice....
Reading all the stuffs about mil.. sometimes I feel there should be a law which shouldn't force women to stay in mil'shome rather they can stay in a home freely an take care of both side parents when needed..Many women get depressed because of this.Recently one of my friend came to India after 1 year and like every child she wanted to visit her parents like her husband wanted to meet his parents but due to our so called rules they had to go to her MIL's place first and after few days she went to her mom's place
Plz help me..i am 13 weeks pregnant and because of my bodily changes and no sex, my husband has started an affair 😣😣 I have heard his few sweet talks on his phone..now he talks going outside the house..he is on his phone all the time..now he stays out on Sundays also..when asked he said its office work..what to do 😣😣 not ready to take care of me or listen to me
your husband is not having affair because of your pregnancy or no sex.. he is having an affair because he doesn't love and respect your marriage and relationship... first try to understand it is not because your pregnancy or changes in your body.. a loving and loyal person will always love even with the flaws of her or his beloved.. so dear.. fight for yourself because it is not only about you but also about Baby
For me now 8 month started.. my parents took home near to my in laws home...can i shift my inlaw home to my home as its 15 min distance.. pls suggest in 8 month shall i move or not ...i m bit confuse
4 Months old girl
m feeling depression bcz of this.. it was love marriage. he loved me alot. now its 4 month. his behavior is so hurting. we did so much fighting for this. now m done. i don't want to talk with him. and want to go my parents home. its unbearable the way he id being careless or not interested to listen what i feel. m doing right?
1 Year 4 Months old girl
Hi mom's please help me I don't know what to do my in laws are very bad people there front face is something and real face is something they do so much if acting in front of my hubby even hubby trust them only not me even though I show there behavior with proof he don't trust my in laws do such emotional acting as if I am bad and make me I am very bad my husband is very close to them not to me he is with me for name sake not leaving me to live my life independent not even good with me by hearing my in-laws n his brother words my husband hit me even he torn mangalsutra, he left govt job by my in-laws n now doing in private, my in-laws try to finish my daughter I am saving my daughter from them daily struggle here if I say this to my parents they say what c as n we do you only adjust and go I don't have any support they pressurise me to do job by TV if I go to job they may do anything to my daughter plz help me plz I am in very much trouble
Few Days old girl
Deleivery k bad white discharge hota h kya mje 8 days periods hue ab mje white transparent discharge ho rha h lambi line jitna
6 Months old boy
My 6 month baby fall from bed . Thodasa roya fir khel rhatha or dudh bhi thikse piya. But muze dr lg rhahe. Kharpe hm dono he or husband kamse bahar gyehe. Muze kya krna chahiye? Hubby ko btaungi to vo bhot gusa karenge. Vo bhot pyar krte he babyse. Kya muze une btana chahiye?.
Hi momies I wanted to share something since it's really personal but can not share with anyone , since it's my second pregnancy but still not very much connected with my husband generally I don't care but since I m again pregnant I realized it that he doesn't care me ,he comes home eat food and sleep saperat room ,do not ask me for anything whether I m facing any problem , during my first trimester I was not well he used to shout me for not doing house hold work he uses to abused me sometime that I am not capable to look his house properly we are not leaving with family so I m managing evething by my own ,I used by buy food me but don't cares.i really not able to understand what Will be going in future if after delivery I was not able to manage my both the child then ,I m really scared.
dear kindly find out is he is happy with your pregnancy?? or any financial stress or something on his mind?? sometimes men are not able to share there stress and then they started behaving like this.. which is very common.. I will suggest do whatever he likes.. and try to talk and convince him call me if u need detail guidance <PhoneNumberHidden>
5 Months old boy
I have a personal qiestion...me n my husband did love marriage 5 yrs back n nw we hve 6 months old son..my mil is truely a devil...she throws us frm his place after two years wedding..nw we r seperately living on rent from last 3 yrs...my husband is running gym n we have v.limited salary to run house...i was working before but after pregnancy i quit n nw taking care of my child...but my husbnd fights wid me n says m gud for nothing jst go n work...earn money..i cant work nymore n fed up of paying house rent...after marriage also i worked for 2 yrs n he was sitting at home n doing nothing...he abuses me....his mother is after my life....my father is no more my mother is very old..if i leave him whr wil i go i cant even work at dis stage cant leave my son what do i do?? Plz help
forget everyone else. now ur hubby n u have ur own family n only u two can make efforts to correct the current situations. 1) it's ur husband's responsibility to finance the home primarily n not urs. make him understand this. 2) I know it's very difficult but u can try for some daycare options after a month or two wn ur baby starts having semi-solids. n den u can go for a job- if that wud actually help u big Enuf. 3) as ur mom can't support u den Dont make her tensed by telling ur situation. 4) no need to think about MIL. u r not living with her. the house rent is pinching ur pocket. u can also look for Any cheaper option as well
A Month old boy
Hello friends..mine z love marriage..my in-laws not accepted my marriage..we hav not planned for baby vy thinking that if we get a baby dey vl come to us atleast for baby..i got a baby boy with in an year of my marriage..bt still dey r not talking to me and dey have not seen my baby also in dese 2 months.. dey r taking to my husband and asking him to take trf to thier place leaving me and my baby..bt my hubby does not do that i know..bt how can i change my inlaws?? My husband z d only son to them..he z having a sister who z very selfish and hates us more dan parents(dunno y..!!) Me n my hubby were colleagues in same ofc..still both r in same institution at diff places doing a reputed job.. Pls suggest how can i change my in laws.. Till now i hav not gone to their place.. They hav not told about my marriage to their relatives til now..mine z an inter caste marriage ..
what kind of parents they r? they r encourgaing a father to leave his boy. what kind of husband n wife they r who r asking a husband to leave his wife just bcz they don't like u? I understand that these kind of people don't like all this but how can they ask ur hubby to leave u. n it's even good that u don't live with them. bcz in such a home, even hubby uses to get pissed off between parents n wife. n even hubby gets distant. as u both r doing well in ur life n those parents don't deserve a son whom they r asking to leave his own son, no matter wt. nobody has got that right. I m even more astonished as their generation literally craves for a grandson n even after that they r not melted. U r never going to b accepted as they don't even want to see their grandson. u can imagine their hatred n insensitivity towards u n baby. they want u to b left behind with their son's son, not even thinking thT what is the fault of that small baby? so just leave them. ask ur husband lovingly if he wants to meet them occasionally or he wants to do anything as a son(responsibilities only). ur hubby will definitely b touched n will love u more for this. n also u will b knowing his heart out as in the starting, men don't express generally n then they taunt later in life. so better ask him wt he wants n leave the idea of going to ur in laws ever.
6 Months old girl
Plz help me mommies...6months I stayed at my mothers home.yesterday I came to my mil home.My baby is very active and very cute.My mother and father treated my baby as a little princess. But mil is saying that we should massage baby very hardly so that baby’s legs will be straight.i got cry while my baby doing bath.plz mommies suggest me wheather to bath my baby very smoothly or hardly.i need every mom’s suggestion plz.
6 Months old boy
Is mother is only responsible to care of the child even she is not feeling well. There is no responsibility of father too.
3 Months old boy
Feel so lonely...tired of taking care of baby without husband help.... 10 hr maid se Kitni umeed Kru,wo kaam bhi Kare,baby ko bhi dekhe,not possible...mil is of no use (god's grace ki wo separate floor pe rehti h)...bt is it only a women's responsibility to look after baby...husband gets tired,don't I? He gets ill, can't I?...he was someone else,bt after baby he has changed...a lot...Nd m depressed and feel alone...
Dont get stressed or feel lonely, look at the tiny new creature you created your baby is a miracle and gift of God. I would suggest All that happens, happens for good, Stay calm, Time heals everything. I think your husband is becoming more responsible for securing you and his baby future and in this hurry burry life he gets tired, Some guys love their family but are weak in expressing, they want to help but they cannot. So just hope for the best and think of all the good things God has blessed you with, Compare your life with those who are suffering and feel satisfied with the wonderful life you have. Lastly I would suggest Keep yourself busy with either work or hobbies, learn some useful skills. Once your baby has grown up use your skill get into work and prove yourself keep that essence of being Independent and make your hubby proud. Woman can do anything and everything possible. Proud to be a woman who can do multiwork single handedly.
Hi all , I m blessed with a baby girl for the second time on Oct 31 . I never had the feeling of having a son for sure, but after having my second daughter I m feeling really sad that I m not having a son. Previously I never had that thought but after my second kid all my relatives , including my mom and mil r very disappointed that it's a girl . I never differentiate b/w boy baby or girl. For my elder daughter I never had that feeling and I never had an idea of having a second kid, but since my parents and in laws compelled that there should b 2 kids we planned for 2nd after 6 yrs but now all r telling that y it's not a boy. Feeling very sad... I don't know what my hubby expected too but he tells that he never expected anything any kid is fine for me. Please encourage me. I don't know y I m sad .
you should not be. cz first of all its something which is not in our hands, so no need of thinking any thing, Second, girls are better than boys as i feel and nowadays even its a boy or girl both are same, people use to say for sons cz daughter go after marriage, sons will be at home, but nowadays none of them are there permanently with you, and Girls daughters will always be more loving and caring than sons that ia for sure. just be happy dear, you have god's gift, just treasure it as you did for thr first one
I am pregnant with twins and I am having a bad fight with my in laws at this stage. They have insulted me a lot today. Blaming me and making me cry. my husband has business and if I tell him he will support me but he is very hyper and it will lead to bigger household fights. I am 9 weeks pregnant. What should I do? They are animals. They behave very rudely with me today. I don't know what to do
Sorry to hear that you are going through a tough time while it should be the happiest time in life.. My sincere advice is stay away from stress.. stress will directly affect your babies since it can release certain hormeones which are not good for babies.. If you are stressed too much it will result in increased blood pressure and that too will adversely affect your babies.. They might be jealous of you.. These mils are born to blame us.. Good that your husband supports u.. You will have 2 more to support you in life if u stay happy and healthy..
9 Months old girl
I’m mom of 7 month baby and recently joined back work. My in laws r taking care of baby but I just amNot able to adjust home and work . Not able to adjust with in laws living. I’m guilty about leaving my baby and not happy with something or three other my MIL does. I’m always stressed at home also coz iv so much to do. Have no time for myself. N feel guilty that at home also iv to do some or the other work and can’t give as much time to baby as I want. My hubby blames me for not being relaxed with his parents and for finding faults with their manner of care. I feel so lonely and burdened and guilty. Please help.
Hi I was also sailing in a same boat.. facing similar situation.. after delivery I joined back my office when my daughter was 3.5 months old. faced imbalance between personal and professional both. I used to stay with my mom's place as she was taking care of my daughter and my husband used to stay with his own mother. only weekend was the time he used to visit my mom's place to see me and our daughter. staying for longer period was not acceptable and I chose to go back to home and decided to come in weekend at my mom's place as she was looking after my daughter. that journey was so impossible for long time as after being a mother it's really difficult to stay apart from little one. I decided to leave a job and chose work from home opportunity with renowned company that provides me flexibility to work as per my convenience and am able to look after my family. also earning a decent income. so don't feel repent.. it's better to choose a right for you and your little one. Having a baby for every mother is a blessing. let's live rather than missing the phases and precious moments of baby. stay blessed and happy always!