Questions on Parenting
6 Months old boy
Moms.. Very personal question..pls Pls respond.. Kya koi apni mil k Sath relations kharab hone ki wajahse alag Rehne Laga hai..matlab hubby Aur wife Sath me rahe but mil k ghar se alag..mere aur hubby k beech me bohot problems hone ki wajahse main mayeke aa gayi thi aur hubby hamare baby k liye mil ka ghar chhorne ko ready hai.. Par Mujhe in baato ka darr hai k Kahi Waha Ja kar hubby k Mann me mere liye nafrat na Ho jaye parents se alag ho kar aur hamare jhagde na bhad jaye..mujhe baby ko acha tension free environment Dena hai ab..
Dear your absolutely right. We are all human beings he will leave his mom for you now then later he will keep telling that he did this and he did thst and when even a small fight happens between you both he will think of going back....... Even though some mother inlaws are hell to stay with still we must never separate a child from his parents becsuse God has made them parents and God has made him her child..... She may behave bad for whatever reasons but still if you want to do the right thing for yourself and your marriage you must always try to bring the blood bonds together no. Matter what... This will not only raise you in the eyes of your husband but also in thr eyes of your mil ki when she could go even then she dint thst means she will be indebted but don't expect her to be nice even after that just our actions should be thoughtful and caring always
4 Months old girl
Plz don't mind if my question is not subject oriented but read full and answer me friend. I m married for 4 yrs and my husband is loving and caring. But he did sex with me maximum two or three times in a month even after marriage. He made me understand that it's normal. I saw him interest and refused. Believe me it hurts. Now I m mom of 4 months old baby and more than one year we are not physically attached.(doctor advised no sex during pregnancy n 3months after c sec) Not even a single kiss or tight hug. It's 4 months gone and we are still not get close for a single moment. I never show interest because of my past experience. Is this normal friends? What to do and how to deal with this?
Sorry to ask such question early. But I can do something early. My age is 30 my husband is 33. I had C-section. I heard that Minimum 2yrs gap is needed to conceive again. At that time my age will be high. Will my husband have stamina. What to do? How soon can I conceive. I was interested in twins. I don't know how to conceive twins since we don't have any family history. Is that possible?
hi dr dnt wry men r capable of getting children evn at 40 so dnt wry and as per ur wish twin pregnancy is so easy aftr 30 yrs of age a report says cos egg production will be high aftr 30 yrs and abt twin pregnancy we cant predict dr or we cant do in any artificial ways some foods may hlp yu to get twin pregnancy wana try it YAM ( karunnai kilangu ) Yams are a rich source of progesterone and phytoestrogens, and this may lead to hyper-ovulation. Therefore, the high amount of yams in their diet was reported as a probable cause of twin or multiple births. CASSAVA ( maravalli kilangu ) Most women release one egg during ovulation and twins are possible in case the egg splits into two after fertilization or if two separate eggs get fertilized. cassava may help a woman release more than one egg during ovulation. Include Folic aid in ur diet : Avacoda, spinach, brocolli and asparagus are a good source of folic acid too. You may take twice the amount of recommended dosage of folic in pregnancy if you are trying to conceive twins. Increase ur dairy intake lyk milk butter cheese include carbohydrates are a good option if you want to plan for twin babies. Carbohydrates are good for your body, and it is a good idea to include complex carbohydrates rather than including simple carbohydrates in your diet. The food items such as beans, grains, and vegetables are a great source of complex carbohydrates. You are not only more likely to have twins with this kind of diet.
6 Months old girl
Hello mummies i hav 2 beautiful daughters i stay abroad wen ever my in laws see my daughters thy pass comment tat my daughters r not lik me (mother) thy r lik my sis in laws my husband als agree wit them i get so annoyed m alone taking care of my kids doing so much to them without any help or maid n end of d day thy praise themselves which hurts me how shud i deal wit tis.. Is thr anyone els came across such situation share ur experience Thanku
ohhh they say on video call ? or stay with u in abroad? if just on call, then ignore. kya 10-15 minutes ki call k comments ko Dil pe Lena. be happy , Ur daughters r with u and u r raising them per your wish and what u think is right for them. don't take such things to heart. we have to ignore many things to be in happy state of mind. 🤗
I need ur suggestions..., i can't able to take decision, I m in confusion,. I am 8months pregnant, me and hubby are staying in metro city, because of pregnancy I resigned job. Recently my hubby joined new company which is far from our home (2hours journey). Mil is staying in another city where new company is near to that place( 30 minutes journey). Now hubby is staying with mil. My bad time, I am staying alone. 3 months back, mil faught with me and my father. So I can't able to go to mil house. I feel very depressed. Hubby always listen to mil words. And if I go to my father home, hubby ll not come to my father home. I am very much worried, crying from past 20 days. Please help me,,, what is the solution for my problem?
ignore mil. concentrate on Baby and ask your hubby to arrange rented apartment their near office. .. and if he can go to his mother's home you also go to your father home. after all you are living alone here too. see if you show you don't give a damn to him and his actions probably he will respond and ask you to come back
10 Months old boy
Hii... i am very much worried that my baby boy who is 10 momths old forgets me when he sees his dad....what does it means?? Verymuch worried... everyome around says he doesnt need u amymore😓😓
A Month old boy
Hi moms, Need your suggestions. My husband went UK and this Jan and he ll b back on Dec. My lil one is 3 months old.is it a good idea to join with him in UK for the remaining months along with my kid? I am worried about the climate there and it should suit my baby. Also if I am in India i have some ppl to help me for house hold chores .but in Uk except my hubby I have no one to support. Also I have c section which needs time to get recovered. Please post ur opinion
i can see that almost everone advised u to go but i wll suggest otherwise reason: he is gone for limited time he wl b back in december its almost feb... u wl only go there for 4-5 months then back to india. for that u have to incurr so many expenses n life in UK is not that easy. travelling wl b hectic. better u ask ur husband to visit u in between for long vacation. dont take otherwise but people go to foreign countries to make more money in short term n with family saving r very less. so if its temporary phase for only 6-10 months i advise not to go. i m currently in US n i badly want to go back to india. i have a 2 year old toddler n 4 month old baby. My toddler hardly goes out of the house to play bcoz of weather n if u go to the park too u hardly see any other kid. 0 social life so i want to go back so my kiddo can play with other kid n make friends. Indian grocery iteams r costly too
9 Months old girl
Want to share something yar Koi Aur hai ni jisse kru share... I know this is not the place pr app Sab humumar Ho humesha advice dete aye Ho... Hiding my name Kal Raat husband Aarti kr rahe the TV K saamne khde hoke to meri baby ko adat h unke pass Jane ki jab Wo arti kre... To wo Rone lgi to mene unhe bola pkd lo ro ri h... To age se hubby kehte Teri Taange tooti h tu hi leke khadi Ho jaa. To Mene bola wo Apke pass Aane ki zidd kr ri h to gusse me kehte Tera baap ni pkdta roz me hi pkdta hu... Tujhe Dfa hona h hoja Jidhr b Dfa hona h Mujhe Aarti K time koi disturbance ni chaiye. Kal se me unse baat nahi kr ri. Kal me soi b Alag room me. Kya isme galti h meri h frnds.mukhe ab Aage Kya krna chaiye
1 Year 1 Month old girl
Hi mommies am looking for some suggestions for my problem which is as below. I am a working mother of one year old kid. I stay in different city from my husband let's say it 'X'. My FIL stays in city 'Y' and husband in city 'Z'. After completion of my maternity my MIL left my FIL for the sake of kid and stayed with me and it's been 7months she stayed and took good care of my kid. But now she wants a break and want to go back to FIL with my kid. As in my city there are no facilities of day care. As soon as my husband discuss this thing I burst like anything on him for not leaving my child as its difficult for every mother. Husband stays in metro city where there are possibilities of mine of getting job. My FIL will get retired in 2020 after that we all can be together only if I get the job. Now ladies please tell me If am overreacting or shall I allow them to take my child away from me as I will be left all alone in my city.
better u look a job in city z. shift there n ur bby in day care. if u see the option there, but not opportunities right now, shift without job if u can. that way u will also b able to spend some quality time with ur bby n hubby for few days/months at least. n I believe ur MIL wud also come after some time as its hard for grandparents to stay away once they have lived with their grandchild. in 2020,u all stay at d same place
Few Days old girl
Hello mommies jst want to share my happiness with you 🙂 after 2 years of marriage blessed with a baby girl😘 feeling amazing as I had an luv marriage and nw an Jo b meri baby ko Dekh rha hai wo bol rha hai that she is a Xerox of her father👨👩👧my wishes to all of you 🙂
A Month old girl
Hi moms, i had c sec.. I love my motherhood but Don't know feeling very sad. I'm totally fed up with all these... Please mujhe a bathao ki single moms ke liye kuch help hotha kya? Mujhe na mere husband se alag rehna hai q ki vo mujhe dhoke se shadi karliye... Depressed person hai suffering from 18 yrs... Shadi ke 6 months badh patha chala & unke ek ear loss hai. But shadi se pehle thoda prblm hi bole the my b ghar walonko kch bathayi nhi ear ke bare me & unhone b promise liye the ki na bathane ke liye. Shadi ke 1 month badh apne parents ke against hoke alag kar diye unki mom depressed 24/7 bed pe leti rehthi hai. My mom ke pass hu. Unko unke mom ke pass rakhi apni ghar ki chabi mere pass rakhi hu. Q ki vo kuch frnd ke sath ladki ko room laana chahthe hai. Iske bare me poochetho vo girl mere liye nahi frnd ke liye bol rahe hai. Vo frnd ko beti hai. Ab vo mujhe pasand nahi karthe. Beti se milne weekly 2 times aathe hai.. unke aur mere ghar ka rastha only 3min. my utni clever b nahi hu!
A Month old boy
Hi.. m really stressed out.. please dont judge me.. my baby is 1 month old.. me and my husband decide to hire nanny as we are alone.. this is my first baby.. MIL has other commitments but she s ready to take care of the baby during the day. I am planning to resume to work in few days.. i will be usually gone for max 4hrs in the evenings. But here the problem is i am not able to trust the nanny i am really really insecure. As my baby is exclusively on bm she handsover the baby to me only in the night even when he iz not even hungry. Sometimes in the night he s little cranky and my nanny is not even able to handle him. He keeps crying. He sleeps in my arms or my hubby's.. i feel its totLly waste of money keeping her. Bcz i have to constantly stay around my baby.. so many times it has happened that my baby s shirt is wet and she doesn't even notice it.. what do i do.. inpite of paying her so much me and my hubby are awake till 3.30 every night.. contd..
11 Months old boy
4 Months old girl
yar ye husband esa kyu karte hai? meri pehli anniversry thi. aur us din hi mere husband 9.30 p.m ko aye. i mean seriously esa koi krta hai. koi celebration nai. 1 sal me to humari kitni ladai.. kabhi kabhi esa feel hota hai k sala mrg karne ke bad aur bachha ane ke bad koi value hi nai rakhte. bat bat pe ladai. me kuch puchti hu to bhi gussa mere pe. kabhi kabhi lagta hai k me ek toy hu. jese chahe ese khelte hai. esa sochti hu ki kahi akeli chali jau esi jagah jahs santi mile
11 Months old girl
Hello guys plz give me valuable suggestions as i cant share my problem with any 1... My husband was very nice until my daughter was born after that he became so rude in everything he always think i don't have brain always try to find mistakes in my work..and he hit me 3 4 times n 2 3 days bk he hit me again v hard on my face..i was leaving home at that time only but it was 3 am so thought not to bother my parents.. M having 11 month daughter n m 3 months preg now,so i always think about my children's future n stop myself from leaving his home..i can't share my prob with my parents coz they will get tensed for me day n night... aesa nahi hai my husband is always like this he always fulfilled my wishes n loved me but his anger is something i can't handle anymore what should I do i don't know..how i will live with this person who always scold me but on the other hand i don't want my children's to be a burden on my parents as well.
Few Days old boy
Dear mom My baby is one month old. He is on bm. I feel pinching pain in breast on one side at particular point which I can't bear. I have enough milk for baby and breast is not hard and no lumps. Im crying. Pls help me. Suggest me home remedy. Why this is happening? Why my body is always having some problems and why I can't live in peace and enjoy my motherhood.
Hi friends enaku 56 days boy baby irukan.feed panna sum time milk varala.azhudhete irukan thunga matran.1 hr 10 time paal kudikuran analum azharan.3 days ku munnad doctor pathan avaga baby ku milk paththalanu solli enaku tablet koduthaga.but baby ku edhuvum tharala 120 days edhuvum thara koodadhunu sollitaga.analum baby azhudhete irukan milk paththa matigudhu enna panrathunu theriyala.cow milk edhachu tharalama.
hi dr milk pathala nu pls dnt go fa fm orcow milk cos athu kuduka arambuchtu bm koranjudum strtng la kastama tha erukum but rry to feed frequently try to increase bm thrugh ur food dr frst and fore most thing to increase bm is to feed ur baby frequently evn though milk is not there cos bm increases only wen the baby sucks sucking increases bm then eat well and healthy foods lyk hav a spinach imprtntly drumstic spinach daily in ur food wch hlps in high milk secretion have paal sura fish have garlic milk daily ngt add galact granules in tall gls of milk twice a day have all kind of veggies rch in fibre have calcium tablets wth gyno suggestion thn hav mutton in ur food have dates and oats in ur diet eat roasted bengal gram it has high protien so kindly hav all these in ur diet and increase ur bm sisy cos bm is only thing child needs upto minimum of 6 mnth wch hlps in their grwth and create immunity pwr. if too bm is nt increased thn consult ur gyno and feed fm..tc
2 Months old girl
hi en baby ku 68 days aachu nanum en husband m color ah than irupom porakum pothu nalla color ah iruntha but ipo skine tone fulla kammiyakirichu skine tone increase panna enna pannanum evlo nall ku apram pannanum
hi dr babies epo erukratha vachi color predict pana mudyathu dr en ponnu porantga po she was blk but now she faded lookin pinkish at 7 mnth so dnt wry color increase pana babies ku ipo onnum pana mudyathu.. kulika soap la use panama kadalamaavu payathamaavu manjal kalanthu kulika vaninga sis pothum since ur brst feeding take fruits a lot and spinach tc..
8 Months old girl
I am so much tensed. My baby is 8 months old. During 8th month pregnancy se hum dono me personal koi relation nhn h kyunki last pregnancy k 2 month me meri condition aisi thi ki muje sex kya hath bhi nhn lgvana acha lgta tha tb hum sath nhn sote the. Or ab uss vja se wo mujebulate hai pr husband wife wala relation nhn h. Maine bhut bar mnaya pr wo nhn mante. Wo bde bete sath sote h. Kya kru kuch smj nhn aa rha. Muje aisa feel hota sayad unka bahr ki trf dyan h. Pls give suggestions
What is there to be tensed you talk to him that you miss being intimate. Also explain to him that it’s not like last time and you don’t feel like keeping off him. Most importantly why do many wives assume that their husbands have affairs if they don’t show interest in sex! It can be the same reasons for which women say no namely tiredness, stress, added responsibility of kids etc. Maybe at this time he does not want it just like you did not last time; it’s not just women who don’t want sex sometimes but men too. Rather than assuming his intentions you need to have an open discussion with him on this.
Hi! plz mujhe suggest kriye main kya kru. Mere husband bar bar mujhe rented house me bina rent diye samaan ke sath chhor ke chle jate hn... Kbhi toh boht achhe se rehte hn kbhi ekdam dushman jaise behave krne lgte hn, mere gharwalo ki aur meri har jagah boht insult krte hn, responsibility ke naam pe apne parents ke pass bhag jate hn, main agr inke parents se support ke liye bolu toh wo bolte hn ki humne ise disown kr diya h. Mere inlaws humesha mere parents ko jhukne ki condition rakhte hn. Ab main apna samaan lekr apne parents ke pass reh rhi hu kyuki mere husband ghar ka taala tod ke apna samaan le kr apne parents ke pas chle gye. Apni job bhi bar bar chhor dete hn, apne parents se meri aur mujhse apne parents ki boht burai krte rehte hn, sbke relations kharab kr diye hn. Mujhe in logo ke sath apna aur apne baby dono ka future boht insecure lgta h. Meri tabiyat puchne ke liye ek call ya msg bhi nahi krte. Main boht zyada depressed rehti hu. Kya kru meri life spoil kr di h...
A Month old boy
Hi moms , I am planning to hire a nanny for my 3 months old baby . I don't have anyone to help me .My husband also went London . I am all Alone to handle my son. Please suggest ur opinion.
4 Months old girl
Mere husbnd n mai mere mom k bldg me hi rehte hai...jab se preg thi tab se mummy k yha sab khna hota hai even dilivery bhi unhone ki baki sab vo hi krti hai mere hubby ko tifin bhi deti hai...mere husbd ko achi salry hai but kuch dino se mai dekh rhi hu vo sare paise jo hai apne ghr pe dene lga hai mere mil ko...maine kabhi usko toka nhi ki tum mat do rs n all but jbhi mere ghr ka vo khta hai to ek rs bhi mummy ko help nhi krta mere mom n dad hi sb mange krte...i hd discussed abt my fd abt this to mere fd n suggest kiya ki kahi or rehne ko ja krke usko bhi smjne de family kya hoti hai...wht to do...i had discussed with hubby also muje aise lg rha hai tum kamte ho lekin sirf ghr k liye mere n baby k liye nai...rent pe rehte hai hum log toda room vaigaira lene ka socho to usne ignore kiya...pls tell m mom wht to do...upar rehne jati hu mom upr bhejti hai khna daughter hu krke baby hai krke sab kuch choti moti chize vo lake deti hai muje...iska faida huby le rha hai wht to do...nedd help
3 Months old girl
Hi moms.. When my baby will be 4.5 months old we will be going back to inlaws place. Thing is I have been Co sleeping with her in my bed since day 1. Put her in cradle only for day time naps. Even when husband comes visiting I give him another room. Now when I go back the bed there is queen size and how will we 3 sleep? Should I invest in a crib? How do you all manage?
1 Year 10 Months old boy
Hi mom's My son is crying a lot suddenly,I don't know reason,he is 2years old and he has 13000white blood cell count,my husband didn't bring antibiotic 4weeks before test it is,so I can't understand the reason
10 Months old boy