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3 Months old boy
11m ago

I am feeling so bad even to share this issue but my husband s attitude has been changed after the baby. I left my job after conceiving so he feels that I do nothing at home, he always toned me tumhe kuch kaam to hota nahi hai though I have baby and household work, maine nanny lagai hai as helper for cooking after my delivery but I will remove her after sometimes till my recovery, I feel so depressed to hear this that I do nothing and enjoy at home, I cannot even join job since baby is so small. But I am tired of listening him too.

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Ask him to take paternity leave...and handle baby. You just feed the baby and sleep. He'll come to know the work you are doing. I would suggest you to first talk to your husband clearly and openly that you don't like taht and you get hurt when he say so.
3 Months old boy
32m ago

Dear moms, I am very depressed. My MIL always shows her good side to my husband and my husband always goes to her for everything.. He trust her more than me.. Shadi se pehle Wo Mujhe bohot pyar karte the Par jab Main yaha aayi to realise hua ke wo apni mom se bohot zyada attach hain.. Aur Mujhe meri mil se jealously hone Lagi.. Aur mere gussa bhadta Chala Gyaa.. as a result mere husband k Sath conflicts aur MIL se nafrat Ho gayi.. Aaj bhi baby k baad Bhi sab same hain.. Main Apne husband ko apni taraf Karna chahti hu Par MIL ko dekh kar kamzor pad jati hu..please koi solution do main kaise Apne husband k Mann me jagah bana sakti hu Aue Wo Mujhse Itna door kyu hain Jabki main to unki wife hu

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how can u seprate a child from mom?? u too have baby think if other tries to grab him from u.. how ull feel?? all mom's are good infront of their child wether it's son o girl.. u dnt trust ur mom?? u dnt love ur mom now after marriage?? u r not attach wd ur mom in ur difficult tym?? den how can u think dat he should leave dis all behind n only love u.. dis is pure selfishness dea.. ur jealousy mind is creating more space for him to go away from u.. n d result u knw very well wt u r going through.. stop dat first.. everyone is having problem wd mil dea.. coz even mil think same as u think on opp position.. try to b nice instead of divesting his love towards u.. be presentable all d time wen he needs u.. set ur mind on good things n spend ur time wd mil too so ull understand her better.. agar banti nahi to chodd do n even try to ignore instead of taking seriously.. be clear n speak out more.. letting everything inside will harm ur inner space.. hope u understand.. if u think my post is not worthy.. try to ignore dis too 😋🤣😜
3 Months old girl
5h ago

Hello I know aap Sab aise ques Roz parhte ho but still I m sad so much in my heart...I am a love marriage girl in intercast..jab Mai preggy this to mere bhanji k shadi me gyi thi waha par hubby ka kch jhagra hua Meri nanad se bcoz she always discontent from everyone. And she blamed me and Meri khub burai b ki apni frnd aur mere husband k frnd ke samne...ajsi waisi hai...sab Meri Badi jethani ko bahut pyar karte hai but no one wants me ..Mai 9we mahine se mayke me hu...kbhi koi phone b nhi karta puchhta bhi nahi mujhe ..Meri jethani Jo ki sabki ladli hai sabki fav hai wo b ajtak khud phone nahi ki Mai hi karti hu...mere husband bahut achhe hai mujhe bahut pyar karte hai aur support bhi karte hai. Mai Kya karu abhi wo bahut din Tak mayke me hi the mere liye ab wo mere sasural gye hai saas bolti hai use yaha nahi laana hai..waha koi na mujhe puchhta hai na Meri beti ko...mujhe bahut bura lagta hai..husband bhi bolte hai jab Tak baby small h mummy pas raho Aram se...

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First Trimester
5h ago

Mere husband or meri love marriage Hai .. Mujse bahut superior h by look ,by nature . 10 month huve Hai shaadi ko .. Kuch din pahle pta chala ki pregnant hu .. Risky pregnancy h .. Pahle ek baar miscarriage huva usme ek tube n kuch uterus ka hissa chala gya ... Es pregnancy k servival k chance 30-40% Hai .. Or es baar ager kuch gadbad ho gyi toa shayad doctor kahde ki ab bacha plan nhi kr sakte .. Bachadaani ka or hissa kat gya toa aage kuch nhi ho sakta ..mere husband pura time utube p search krte rahte Hai ki muje kya khana chahiye ..list bnaate h .. Raat ko 4 baar utth k mujse puchegey ki main thk hu .. Mere sleeping position check krte rahte h ki thk position m souuu .. Ager Yeh bacha chala gya enka dil tut jaayega ... Progistrone capsules p hu .. Bhagwaan es baar sath de de bs .enko dukhi nhi dekh sakti ....mere saas sasur sab bechare hope lgaaye baithe h .. Main kabhi khush nhi rah paaugi ager apne husband ko ek bacha b na de paayi toa ...muje Yeh bacha chahiye ...

21 Answers
Do gopal santan stroat prayer. Its v effective prayer, will protect u and ur baby. Msg me personally I will send u that prayer.
7 Months old boy
5h ago

Just wanted to share something 💞 I know many are sailing with me. I gave birth to my love in May and since that day I have fought every day a new battle. My baby was in nicu and then he had to undergo few treatments which broke me a lot and then started the main thing. I was just house arrested, was always at home with my baby. It’s not that my husband didn’t offer help. He helped but I wasn’t really ready to accept the fact that my baby has changed my life. I used to be a big movie buff. Used to watch every flop se floppiest movies but after baby have not watched a single film let alone go anywhere good. Added to all these my baby’s sleep pattern has never let me sleep more than 3 hours at any nights since May. Only Saturday and Sunday I sleep little longer as husband takes care. Rest in comment..

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I have been going through many negative thoughts these days. Even frustrated but then I get to see few moms who are also dealing with more graver issues than I am. I feel good after answering them getting to know them. I sometimes feel that I fail my baby then look at him smiling at me and I realise that NO a mother can never fail her baby. She will have fire to give her baby warmth. Really a big salute to those moms who are doing everything for their babies and still braving all odds 🙏🏻💞
4 Months old boy
9h ago

Hello all Mere do bacche h ek beti 23 month ek beta 4 month...me husbnd ke dath rehti hu akele: sbkaam krti hu problem ye h ki meri beti potty train ni hui h abhi tk so me diaper lagati hu...is wajh se hr waqt husband bolte h ki tmse potty trsining ni karayi jaati h iski tm kuch krna ni chati unko ghr bhi saaf chaiye...maid hum laga ni skte me kys kru yaar thak jaati hu pura din kwwm krte krte to isilye diaper laga deti hu ...unko ghr bhi saaf ...m f3ling so depressed kbhi kbhi itna rona aata h

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3 Months old boy
9h ago

I came to my husband's work place.. My baby not sleeping properly here.. My husband left home at 7.30 in the morning and came by eve 8.. I am handling my baby alone.. How to set his sleep patten again.. He is in 4 th month

4 Answers
Baby will take time to Adjust.. I suffered too.. came to hubby place when baby was 3.5 months... so relax.. sleep with him.. for some time.. baby sleeps well with Mom... wake-up early and finish all ur house hold works.. I woke up at 5 Am.. massage him.. morning and night... before sleeping..
First Trimester
12h ago

Mere husband kah re Hai ki daily egg diya kregey mere ko ...usme protein hota Hai bahut jyada ...faayda dega ...kya boiled egg khana chahiye pregnancy k initial phase m...main egg shaadi s pahle khaati thi ...PR last 1 year s nhi khaya ....thk rhega ??

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yes.. he is right.. me too took egg daily during full pregnancy period... but make sure egg is fully boiled.. half boiled egg is dangerous in pregnancy.. as u r not eating egg from one year so u should start gradually.. pehle weekly one fir week me 2 then every alternative day and then take daily... good luck.. 👍
3 Year 8 Months old boy
12h ago

19 october ko mjhe period hua normally and after that 30 october ko mjhe phir thodi si bleeding dikhi uske baad se mjhe period nahi hua abhi tak or main us time apne husband se phisical touch me n thi main 8 nov se phisical hui maine urine test kiya 2 bar but negative hai last maine 26nov ko check kiya tha ab smjh nahi aa raha q nahi period ho raha

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Try retesting again. And if still you get negative than you should see a Gynecologist and get your self a check if nothing to worry, than just wait. And if you are positive with the test then also you should visit the Gynecologist and discuss your options with your husband as well. Be Happy !
Third Trimester
14h ago

Hi frds...enaku delivery ai one month achu. Naa slim ah irukan so beer kuducha odambu varum nu soldraga nu enoda husband kudika soldraga but bf pandran kutty yathachu pblm varum ah....beer kuducha odambu varum ah..pls suggest me frds..

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Beer kudicha gundu aana adhu healthy udambu kidayadhu sis. Health vida appearence important kidayadhu. Ungaluku udambu weight poda ethanayo health drinks eruku ipo market la. Advancements niraya eruku.Unga gyno kita kelunga avangalae safe options soluvanga. Breastfeed panrcha if you drink it will affect baby sis.
Third Trimester
14h ago

Hi mommy muje aap sabhi se kutch puchna h thoda funny bhi h😀😁 mera 7month chal raha h mera baby specially night time me bahot active rehta h bus aisa feel hota h jaise wo bahot jyada active hoga after birth aur jab me us se baate karti hu to ache se response dega aur jab ushke dady tummy pe hath rakhte h to stop ho jata h aur response nahi deta h 😃😂😆poor hubby wo kehte h abhi se tum dono ne team bana rakhi h mare khilaf 😀😆😆😄 kyu itna activ h wo aur baby aane ke baad mare hubby lonely feel karenge aisa lagta h confuse hu me baby aur hubby ke bitch race lagegi mommy kishki aur wife kishki unke liye Maine hamesh fraind wife se bhi badhkar hu Kya me baby aane ke baad bhi aise hi relation banakar rakh paungi🤕😭😢😪

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same used to happen with me. but they gel well with daddy. the moment she hears father's voice she makes aaa noise though she's just 17 days old. yes she used to react to music.
3 Year 12 Months old boy
15h ago

HELP HELP...Need help. .want to keep spy on my husband. .I think he is going around with someone. ..how to track him. .?

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A Month old boy
16h ago

My 3 year boy is addicted to tea..what to do..i tried everything..i buyed boost and mix it in milk..i have it to him and said its tea..but he is not drinking that..morning and evening we prepare tea in our house..my mom,dad and hus need tea..from that he drinks..how to change this habit and make him drink milk

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1 Year 8 Months old girl
17h ago

hello mommies i have a question,plsss reply jajur krna..my husband has a problems of premature ejaculation, 30 sec ke andar hi ho jata hai...aap me se kisi ke hubby ka ye prblm hai ka?aur apne kya treatment liya hai iske liye???plss reply krna its important

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First Trimester
17h ago

Hey moms I am 13 weeks pregnant I conceived through clomid and follicular study.my gynaec was in Bhopal who gives treatment to me.now my husband and me shifted in Ujjain.I am consulting here now.here my 2 USG has done first for heart beat and second nt scan .now I am going to Bhopal after two weeks for seeing my doc there can I do one more usg there because next time we will not go there and i really want that my bhopal gynaec done usg and told me everything is fine i really trust them.is it harmful to my baby.

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dear its actually not needed. if nt scan test is all normal then dont worry. nxt scan is done in 20th week. dont go for one more scan so soon. i also conceived through same as u did. relax and just eat healthy and think good. u can consult your gync there obv
1 Year old boy
19h ago

Am feeling my husband had affair with other women I had doubt even my MIL also telling me. Wt to do

2 Answers
make him to spend more time with ur children.and give him extra time to communiccate happy memories.open old days photos and talk about those moments. creat positive atmosphere in home dear.it will work.
A Month old boy
21h ago

Hlo Dears !!!...Pls answer me..nd read it fully...Iam a graduated...iam a middle class fmly...My Dad was working in dubai ...He go to Dubai in 1999, when i was 2 years old...Till he was working in dubai😢!!!..He only came one mnth per two years😢😢!!!..I feel Worry about him bcus he loss him life for my fmly😢!!..So now i want to help him in financially...But, My hubby does not allow me to go to job..Nd iam interest in writing ..Nd i wrote many articles as gud nd my teachers also wish me to became a writer...pls say dears ..wht i do..how to i became a writer...

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Hi afrin.. I am a content writer and you can ping me anytime for any kind of knowledge and help.. Firstly you need to find out your subject of interest and then you can try so many freelance websites.. You can even start a blog of your own.. I will only say that it takes a lot to become a successful writer but you have to be patient and keep trying..
Third Trimester
21h ago

Mera pelvic exam hua tha...Wahi internal check up Saturday 8 dec ko.. to uske bad se mujhe bht hi light brown type ka discharge rha... But ab mujhe watery discharge ho ra h prso rat se... ekdm transparent water jaisa...jb uthti hu bed se tb ekdm leak hota h..Aur aaj se mujhe pain b ho ra h hlka hlka...Mtlb cramps type ki hoti h pressure type ki..Aur back pain b ho jata h unhi cramps k time pe....Bht km der k liye.... Fir thik b ho jati hai... To isko mai kya smjhi k delivery time aa gya hai???

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ha ji aapka delivery tym h aap Dr me pass jao
6 Months old girl
Dec 11

Hi beautiful mommies, need ur valuable suggestions and motivation. I am an IT professional and have 5 years experience.. My maternity leave will going to complete by this month.my parents and in laws not in the situation to come and take care of baby..By thinking all the other options finally I have decided to take career break till my baby turns 18 months. I love to take care of my baby and I know my baby needs me more than I needs job at this situation. But thinking about baby's future and my career perceptive I have to join back. I have a fear that later I can join back to wrk or my career will end here.. So much negative thoughts. Plz moms need ur suggestions.

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Hi dear, I am also sailing in the same boat. just see if you can get sabbatical leave by any chance for few more months. You can start looking for other means of earning side by side which doesn't require to much time commitment. I know saying is easier than implementing but we can give a try. All the best.
3 Year old boy
Dec 11

hi all the helpful moms ... my son is now 3 yrs young ..m facing the same problem .. that my husband is not cooperative.. he wants all work ready... he dont help me in any kind of work ..he always remains busy in games ... kuch kaam krna pad jaaye to chillate h .. chhote chhote kaam like light off krna tv on krna door close krna tak bhi wo mujhse krwate h... baby ko mai dekhu ghar ka kaam bhi karu ... har cheez ka dhyan mai rakhu ??? irritate ho gyi hu .. what a ir responsible person he is .. kaam bhi inka tiring wala nahi hai ... isse bhi badi hadd to ye h .. he wants mai hi oiling bhi kru ... wrna oil hi nhi lgate kbhi ...last week to limits hi cross ho gyi ... i said i need hair cut ... bole mehul ko sath hi leja .. parlour me mai hair cut karau ya baby ko dekhu ( meraa baby ek jagej nahi baithta .. idhar udar bagta h ) kyaaaa kruuuuu plz help :'(

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Third Trimester
Dec 11

Hi Friends, I know this is not right platform to asking this tyo of questions but I am clue less now pls try to understand me , while my pregnancy my mil and Fil had too much harassment me like was not getting any help from my Mil side and when I was irritated I used to tell them that my doctor told me for bed rest and she did every possible thing k mera miscarriage ho jaye now I don't want to live in my husbands home I mean I want to seperate from them bfoz since last two years what ever I had bear I only know that my husband is saying that we will shift in foreign after 2 years what should I do pls help me friends.

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6 Months old boy
Dec 11

Hi moms.. I writing this note with tears ..My husband and I have just had our first baby, a son, 6 months ago. He is our pride and joy and we both love him to pieces! However, no matter how much I try to be exciting and fun for my son, he seems to always want Daddy. I have even thought maybe I will never be as fun as my husband to him and took on the nuturing role - but nothing changed. I LOVE how my husband is with our son and wouldn't change a thing between them. But sometimes (like now) it really does get to me how much our son prefers his dad to me. There are times when my son wont even look at me in the eye (for anything!) and as soon as he see's daddy, is completely engaged and happy looking at dad. Has this happend to any of you other moms?

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This happen with me daily as soon as my daughter see her dad she totally forget me and refuse to come to me even not let me touch her but I take it in fun way I purposely touch her tickle her and I say to my husband that my duty is over not its your turn to look after baby n ya I feel lil relaxed as handling her whole day is a tiring job I would suggest you to take it easy don't feel sad feel their love and bond play with them and ya relax do some rest don't worry baby no matter how much they love anyone at the end of the day they need their mom only
A Month old girl
Dec 11

Hello frnzz! M writing ths post wit loadss of sadness.. I hav cum to my mom plce aftr delivery n my baby is 1 month old now n am suppose to go bck aftr 6 month bt d problem is am feeling like my husband has changed v stay in sepearate house and it is near by mom house n lst week it ws our wedding anniversary.. I made baby to sleep and went to wish hm wid gifts he ws happy bt he ws lik he sent me vryy soon frm thr and y'dy hs phone ws busy i askd him to giv hs bt he ws nt at all ready to giv n finally did smethng n gave d phone.. As though it is near by he ll cum to c us at night n he hs his own business he cn cum n go wenever he s fry bt he doesn cum here.. If he cum he ll leave in 5 min alwyzz hs call ll b busy.. He doesn call me.. Am in total confusion whether to believe hm o nt o am over analyzing thngs i dnt knw.. Wt shall i do frnzz if he s in contact wit othr.. Shall i leave hm????

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don't think so much negative.. right now U need rest N take care of ur baby.. aftr baby, some changes are happen to hubby definitely.. I had feel the same.. that's bcz I went to hubby's home early.. though I had c section.. my suggestion is if ur moms home is near from ur place so btr to stay at hubby's home.. if U both live together, I'm sure all this problms dubut will goes away.. stay happy..tc
2 Year 10 Months old boy
Dec 11

Hii ladies.Actualy since from 1 week i am in tension bcoz my father in law is not coperative.As i m working .my mother in law takes care of my son .bt my father in law always try to hit my son or he always keep my son in terror.now He want to go native place for a change and want to take my son and my mother in law with him bt i m not ready to send my son with thm bcoz i dont trust my father in law so for ths once he make me sat in front of all family members and he told me we wl be taking ur son with us i said u go i wl put him in day care til u both r back for ths answer he came and try to beat me and frnds my husband is in abroad i had a word with him also he said we wil go and buy some flat bt not rght nw later .plz suggest me wht to do.

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3 Months old girl
Dec 11

Hello my baby is 3months 4days old and she is 6kgs now ..me and my husband bought 2 packets of diapers (4-8kgs) without knowing each other and there is no exchange.. in how many months baby can increase 8kgs?

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