Questions on Parenting
I am 6 month pregnant , My husband ask me to take 1-2 peg of alcohol in party last night but I refused can I take beer or whiskey this time in little quantity plz guide me
U shouldn't take alcohol in pregnancy.. Not even occasionally because I read that if we r planning for baby at that time also both husband and wife should avoid alcohol or smoking, so that u may have a healthy pregnancy.. So, how u may have alcohol while u r expecting.. It will definitely harm ur baby and in some cases it causes disability in babies. So, please say no to alcohol, smoking or any type of hard caffeine.
A Month old boy
Hi f rds... help me... again a personal help... I m a mother of 1 month old baby. Now i m staying in mom home. My mom indirectly saying to all that i will go to mother in law house at 1 1/2 month from there to work place where me and husband live alone. I was shocked. I planned to stay atleast 3 month, so that i become to handle alone. But wen i here this its hurts , I thought i go and somehow I handle alone.one day she asked which date going to mil home at 1 1/2 month, I asked r u asking me to go with 1 1/2 month baby. Till 7 month preg I was alone with husband .. she didn't bother to help me. Even after that she doesn't bother to give me nutritious.. I accept she have knee problem but every time i eat food some how.. some days she give me good food. but someone come home she say i keep kasayam and give i give that that. I go to baba temple many time baba prasatham only satisfied by Hungry. she say u should become steady and cook ...now too. Is i m taking her in wrong way ?
Hi Don't worry... I had my first pregnancy in USA.. our elders visa got rejected and reached to a point in pregnancy no flight journey.. there is no other option except to handle it alone with hubby. Do not get panic and think that we women cannot do. WE CAN... yes we went to pregnancy and baby classes and learnt all that's necessary.. my husband was able to take only 1 week leave and he had to rush to the office.. it's all alone me who handled new born, feeding, oil massage, baths, bottle cleaning etc etc. My hubbys work started to be more pathetic that he could not help me after coming from office.. my friend helped me in cooking for a month.. after a month my baby born I started cooking. We cannot afford maid in USA. So it's me and hubby who use to do all the work and manage baby. Weekends he use to take care of cleaning house and laundry. It's not something that we cannot handle.. build confidence and do it yourself.. it might be messy but you can do it.. situations will make us impossible also possible. USA household work is easy but India is little difficult.. talk to your husband and keep maid.. so that you can avoid household works completely and focus on baby.. you can do it dear... all the best.. Coming to your mom you should be knowing what's her problem is.. think think. If you think it's financial problem why don't you discuss with your husband and help her?? If it's her health problem why can't you keep a maid in your moms place?? So that work will be less and she can help you just with baby.. there is one more point too.. are you contributing your share of work?? Sorry I have observed my cousins try to not contribute there share and expect everything their mom to do.. at this age they might not be able to do so. Share of work I'm talking about is with baby not household..
5 Months old girl
Hi.i came bck 2 my home from my mon home after 5 months of delivery my husband brother stays with us .He never spoke with us unless he has work he stays with us like a paying guest since 2 years no emotions no feelings from his end for us.he plays with my husbands cousin son,but till 2day he even nt gave a smile with my daughter unless anybdy asks him to do.tdy i am in my kitchen doing wrk my daughter is on d floor he ignored watching tv n den went to his room looked at his ph.he don't even help household activities.if I speaks he gives 1 wrd answr.my hus knows but can't do anything.my fil says let him do wt ever he do don't bother.no mil. Am i wrong expecting some responsibility towards us?? I am tired of showing affection towards him.pls tell me what to do
4 Months old boy
I have 3 SILs All of them have changed a lot.. They used to like me so much before I became pregnant..Nw they dnt seem to be happy day they are going to be aunts. One of the SIL has spoken so ill about me to her boyfriend Wch I heard.and was really shocked as she was very good and I compared her to my own sister. My MIL is also not bothered about what she said and my husband asked me to ignore her as I'm pregnant..Nw he is not talking to her. I really feel so uncomfortable staying with her under one roof..The other 2 SILs also talk behind my back Wch I told them not to do it and whatever it is to directly tell me. Pls tel me what should I do in this case. Im so so irritated with all there stuffs..
Hi guys, i am on my 30 week. From today morning i feel my panty wet. Its transparent discharge. Is there something to worry about?
1 Year 6 Months old boy
Hi moms i have 18 months old baby boy and i want baby girl also but seriously muje delivery se bhut darr lgne lgaa h jab se mera beta huya h mei ek baby girl be chahti hu meine apne hubby se be baat ki h or infact hum dono ka hi decision h ki hum 1 baby girl adopt kregge plzz moms tell me ki mera ye sochna wrong h kya? Kya mei adopt kr sakti hu plzz tell me or kaise my husband is also agry with ne in this decision
Hi doctor, I am trying to get pregnant. I had done USG scan which is normal. I am sharing the semen analysis report of my husband. Kindly interpret and tell whether the parameters are normal. Semen analysis: Abstinence period- 5 days PHYSICAL EXAMINATION: Volume- 2 ml Colour- Greyish white Viscosity- Normal Liquefaction time- 30 minutes CHEMICAL examination: pH- 8.5 Fructose- Positive MICROSCOPIC EXAMINATION: Aggregation seen- Nil Agglutination seen- Nil SPERM MOTILITY: Total motility- 40% Progressive motility-30% Non-progressive motility-10% immobility-60% Sperm concentration: (sperm count)- 12mill/ml Sperm Morphology: Normal forms-60% Abnormal forms-40% Abnormal heads-20% Abnormal mid-pieces-15% Abnormal principal pieces-05% Excess Residual Cytoplasm- Occasional Pus cells- 10-12 Epithelial cells- Nil Red Blood Cells- Absent Organisms-Absent.
1 Year old girl
3 Year old girl
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1 Year 2 Months old boy
Hi all it's a personal question... My FIL talks badly and uses abusive words for my parents and my relatives... nd dis is happening repeatedly... How to deal with such a person? I do not want to talk with him again... because he has no right to talk bad about my parents or relatives... But everytime my MIL creates emotional drama n makes me talk to him... Now I don't wish to goto my in-laws place nor do I want to talk to him... my in-laws keep visiting us often... Please tell me how to avoid him
My mother in law is saying dat from the day of birth till next 45days baby has wear used clothes..means no new clothes..how to convince her..I don't want my baby to wear clothes of some one else..my husband also tried to convince her but she said a big NO..how to convince her..m staying away from my family..nd my mother in law is wid us..wat to do..plz give me some ideas
3 Months old boy
My husband want second girl child after 4 yrs. But I m not willing to have. Nothing we saved till now for my son itself. Wat to do
7 Months old girl
3 Months old boy
Everyday my husband and me have problem quarrel each other. All becoz of mil. He want me to behave to my mil same as mom. But I hate her. Irritate me lot. My mil want me to give baby to her to take care in all situation.. if u do so she do too much so I handle on my own. Everyday something something she say to her son. Even though he supports me to her but come and quarrel with me. Mil problem I handle. But becoz of her we fight I do No to pacify my hubby ... help me
Hi sister's Mera 26 week running h or baki suruaat k 3 month me mere husband bahut care karte the pr 3 mahino k baad wo meri bilkul bhi care nahi karte.mujhe bahut akelapan mehsoos hota h.bus rona hi aata h or ab to unhe meri kisi takleef se koi fark ni padta.kya karou me ap sub bataiye
2 Months old girl
Hi all, I have 2 months old baby. When I went to mil place all my in-law and husband relative are lifting my baby and and showing very much affection. I feel very possessiveness tat baby will go away from me to them, feel like they will separate my baby from me......
it's very normal feeling, every mom feels like that, we need to control our feeling as we want baby to mingle with others as well. don't worry too much and let ur baby enjoy with all relatives. I had baby after 8 yrs of marriage and we have just 1-2 of my husband side relatives staying in our city and i was so possessive abt my baby that I even didn't allowed my husband's relatives to touch him..but later I realised they also want to bless my baby and if I don't allow they to touch, how will they feel abt me...so next time when we went to there house I myself have given my baby in there hands..they became very happy...
3 Months old girl
How early should I conceive aftr cesarean. Nw am 4mnth old to cesarean my husband saying vil plan for second your health is ok he said..reply suggest
Hi All, I have a 3 months old baby. From day 6 after my delivery my sister is complaining like I am not doing any work apart from baby. She is staying at my house for 10 years since her marriage. My mom had leg pain so I am completely taking care of baby at night as well. My sis was complaining to my dad like I'm here for my needs only, and he is also supporting her. I wanted to go to my hubby's place from 1st mth itself but he is in abroad and he is asking me to go to my MIL's place. My MIL used to complaint a lot and expects me to do work without taking rest. Now she told she will take care and I don't have to work but still I have to do some work if I go there and I can't stay comfortably. So I'm planning to go to my elder sis's place for 10 days during her holidays. I am washing mine and baby's clothes myself despite my back pain and I am feeling guilty for sleeping at day time. Sometimes my baby will not sleep for the whole night. Other things are also Der. Don't know what to do
4 Months old boy
Helloo moms. I am a working woman in IT sector. I joined after my 6 months maternity leave a week before. My 5 months baby is with my in-laws who live 4 hrs away from my place. I will get to meet my baby every weekend but still I am not satisfied and not able to bear the seperation even for 5 days. If I get "work from home" in my company, shall I bring the baby with me??? my husband and my mil says that I would not be able to keep my baby properly and should leave with them for atleast 2 years. But i am not able to concentrate on my work at office. I want to keep my baby with me and work from home. please suggest me moms. are my thoughts wrong??? i m very much distressed and keep thinking about my baby because i alwaysfeel that my baby will be happier if he stays with me. please help me. please give me some suggestions. my confidence has gone down.
Oh mine plz stay with ur baby he needs u n breastfeed for infant is very imp nthn can replace that I m sure ur parents they really take good care of them but it's ur child n the attachment would be missing plz explain to ur mil n hubby that u can handle n tc of ur baby ...even m not sure wat to do after the ML coz for me it's just me n my hubby so changes r high that I vill leave my job for some time coz my priority is my baby...m really feeling bad plz it's a humble request get ur baby home with u
8 Months old boy
I nd my husband do not use condoms while doing sex as it causes itching n irritation in vagina. But he doesn't ejaculate inside he hold n ejaculate outside. So is that OK to be protected as I dun want baby now our 1st baby is 8 months old
7 Months old boy
My baby is 7month old. From 2 month my baby sleep well at night. But nowadays from 15 days he does not sleep well at night. Wakeup many times .not teething symptoms yet.sometime sleep well.i think my husband wakes up him.because he does not like that i live with him.he want that i should be live with my in laws.both family had big big quarrel when my baby arrives. My husband like to live bachelor life.what is ur opinion? What happens with my baby. I do household work so i sleep well. What will be reason for it. Please urgent need.from 15 days i came to live with him.
12 Months old boy