Questions on Parenting
2 year 1 month old girl
28 minutes ago
4 months old boy
an hour ago
I gonna quit my IT job to take care of my baby. Is that ok. My husband is financially settled since he is onsite. Is my decision good? Pls reply. How many quit your job???
Yes dear its absolutely ok...quitting jobs for your baby for some years is absolutely fine..you are financially settled too..always remember ,career is important no doubt but your baby is also v.v important for u..kuch lamhe life me phirse nhi aate..inhe ji lo..abhi apke baby ko aapki jarurat he...enjoy each n evry movement wid him..aftr 4-5 years you cn again start ur career..tab tak wo thoda bada n samajdar ho jayega...aaj aap uske liye time na do to kahi bis saal baad aaisa na ho ki uske paas apake liye time nhi hai...m sorry if i took it too emotionally...but i think ur decision is correct
an hour ago
My husband is too much inclined to my in laws. Its good that he loves them.But very often whenever my in laws talk against me he will never be in my support. If I talk anything against them he scolds me like hell. Ours is love marriage.What kind of love is this? This makes me hate my inlaws even more. Now its heights I am 7 months pregnant. I have concieved after 6 years of my marriage after so much struggle. My FIL doesnt want my MIL to come to me. My husband is blaming me for this. My mother is old and sick so she cant help me much. I cant take her support. Dont know whts going on in my life. My anger is increasing day by day...its not gud for my baby...
hello dear..mri bhi love marriage hui ..nd mere hubby bhi after marriage vo nhi rhe jo pahle the...maine bhi bhut mushkil tym dekha..bhut royi hu...khud ko pura bdlna pda...bhut dukhta ab tk mn...mee hubby to ab tk apne ghar valon se darte hai...isi dar ke karan vo mujhe khin ghumane bhi bhut km le jate hai..pahle bhut roti thi..ab rona km kr diya..kyuki kuch nhi milta rokr..nw i m a mother of baby boy..socha tha ab pyar bad jayega but he is always buzy with baby...meri taraf to koi dhyan nhi unka...bt i thank god to bless me baby....or dear wife kbhi vo jagah nhi le skti jo unki mamma ki hoti hai
A month old girl
an hour ago
Did anyone have applied for baby passport?what are the documents needed?and how many days it takes to Come passport?same online form will be filled or there is any other online form for kids?If father is out of country and if spouse name is mentioned only on wife passport not on husband so is there any special document required?Also how can i apply for baby aadhar card?
an hour ago
Hello momies.. today i am asking something about my nature.. muje gussa bahut ata h.. and mere husband muje console karne k wajaye mere gusse ko badate hi jate h. Meri kuch expectations hai.. me unki har kaam me support karti hu.. unki taraf se as such koi support nahi milta. Bas unka sochna yeh h ki vo kaam jo pese kamane k liye vo karte h. Vo humare hi liye to hai. Par iske ilawa b bahut kuch hota h. Kese samjhaun unko apni feelings. Aur mein 3rd trimester start hua h. Mein koi tension nahi lena chahti. Muje khush rehna hai. Kese khud ko khush rakhun. Kya karu plzz suggest me.
2 hours ago
Hi, I'm 17 weeks pregnant. My baby hasn't started to kick till now. Every one in the society are making fun that my baby will turn out to be a lazy kid. I'm not a slim woman and I have had belly fat since my childhood. Can this be the reason for me not feeling the kick? I visited my doctor a week ago and she said everything is fine and in 10 more days she has asked me to get a scan done. But due the jokes of the neighbours, I'm feeling very stressed regarding the baby kicks. What should I do?
Don't be stressed out, they innocently making fun, all the neighbors and relatives do that, and even they may be don't know that u don't like it..and first of all baby will start movement, it can be between 17 to 22 weeks, then kicks will be start. It's depends on person to person. So easy.....and enjoy the present moments...and don't take ppl so seriously, u can also make fun with them, they don't meant to hurt u dear...
4 hours ago
Hello. I had a fight with my husband few days back. I got very angry at that time and now we are not talking for a few days. He doesn't even show any care for me anymore. I feel like i am alone during this important time of my life. He jsut gets up in the morning get ready and go to work and come back in the night and eat and watch tv and sleep. We dont say a word to each other in 24 hrs. I dont understand what to do. He doesnt realize that i am pregnant and need him at this time. I feel very sad and depressed. Pls suggest me some ways so i can come out of this depression bcoz i dont want to let my baby suffer. I keep crying whenever there is no one ar ound and even at night when everyone is sleeping.
Tum apne hubby se is bare me bhot pyar se baat karo or apni sari feelings unko btao ...coz dear is time kisi bh tarha ka stress tumhre liye or baby k liye thik nh he is time tum dono ko thoda har wo cheez jis se jhagda ho avoid karna chahye ...apne hubby ko bolo k ye tum dono k life ka golden time he so sath me ise njoy kare or unko btao k is waqt tumko unki mently or phisycly bht zarurat h apas me baby ko lekar bat kiya karo...! Dntwry jab tum unko pyar se bologi to sub thik ho jaygi tum dono ko apne baby k health k liye ek dusre ko support karna chahye ye or uske luye ek dusre ko samajhna zaruri he is time par okhy dear All the best
2 months old girl
9 hours ago
Today a huge fight occurred between me n my husband. He said "Bhaag yahan se" i hate u, get lost...and many things. I am upset.
11 months old girl
14 hours ago
Ufffffff.... Kl se ignore kr rhi hu Hubby ko.... No talk at all... Na wo bat kr rhe h na m... Aur ab lg rha h ki ek are mna ni skte... Huh.... Kaise hote h ye husband.. Ache mood me khud khte h ki m kisi se jada der gussa nhi rh skta... 1-2 hours me Fir se bat kr leta hu... Yha 24 hours se jada ho gye h aur Mr. Ko abhi b bat krne ka koi mood nhi LG rha.... Kash aaj Sunday na hota... Sara din eyes k Samne insan rha pr ek word tk na bola hm dono ne.... Siway very urgent things like khana... That's it.... Mera aaj ka Sunday bht ajeeb guzra.. Hey Friends.. Aap sbka aaj ka din kaisa rha....? How's ur hubby mood with u...? Kya kya kiya aaj...? Ghr pr rhe....? Ya roam....? Ya something else...?
Husband wife me jhagda common hi n o bahut sweet hota hi n kisi na kisi ko tu harna padta hi dear n aap hi baat karlo kuch ni hoga n agr ni karsakte tu kuch aysa karo ke o hi baat karle ok n mere husbi bahut sweet caring loving hi n o mujhe thuda zoor se baat kiye tu bhi mai naraz hojati hon tu o hi sorry kehte hi n mujhe kabhi naraz ni rehne dete n meri awaz se hi pata chal jata hi ke mera mood kaisa hi n mujhe thuda headache bhi hua tu bahut pareshan hojate hi n daily office jate waqt special bye kehke jate hi n I love my husbi more than my life..... Don't worry aapke husbi baat karenge inshallah
14 hours ago
Hi.. Mujhe Samjh nhi aa rha ki Mai galat hu ya sahi pls help. Mere husband ki bilkul aadat nhi h saving ki Jo bhi Bachta h wo kbhi kisi relative ko de dete h kbhi kisi ko ghar kharch k liye bhi nhi sochte. Mai kuch kehti hu to ladte h ki Mai jalti hu unke relatives se ghar walo se. Kbhi Mai kuch maangu to kehte h khud job krogi tb Lena apne liye Jo tumko chahiye. Inke mrg se pehle k loans the kuch uske liye Maine apne ghar se paise liye wo bhi in hone loan na de k relatives pe uda diye Mai kuch Kahu to ladte h bht.
Aap apne husband ko pyar aur thande dimag se samjhao ki abhi baby key baad aapke kharche badh jayenge hosital ka kharch medicine baby essential to saving karna jaruri hai aur aapko yeh soch kar tension hoti hai aur yeh baby key liye accha nahi hai aap apne relative ka khyal rakho pr ussey pehle apne baare mey bhi socho if still woh nahi samajhte ho to apne bado sey baat karke is problem ko solve karo
15 hours ago
Hello Friends, Mere husband govt.sector me job krte h isliye job k karan unke pass kai calls aate h. Kuchh calls Lady's k bhi hote h aur kai bar dekha h kafi der tk bate hoti h but wo bhi mere samne nhi bs mene mobile me dekha h call history, Jab kbhi unka no.busy btata h to kahte h tumhe hi lga rha tha aur jb mai dekh leti hu details to kahte h ha jaruri call tha.aur hmesa mere ese question pe kahte h ki meri life me tumhare alawa koi nhi h aur mai unki bato se emotional ho jati hu.aur trust bhi kar leti hu. Lekin mujhe unka mobile busy aana bilkul achha nhi lgta.mai esa doubt pahle nhi krti thi but jabse unki ek galti mere samne aai h tab se mai un pe doubt krne lgi hu, samjh hi nhi aata ki kese khud ka man shant rkhu, mai pregnant hu isliye bhi sayad bahut c negative chije aati h mere man me , Mere husband ko mai smjh hi nhi pa rhi hu. Sawal krti hu to lgta h shak kr rhi hu.to kya kru friends smjh nhi aa rha kuchh bhi, kbhi kbhi man me khud ko khatm krne jese bhi vichar aate hai,
15 hours ago
Hi everyone I am very stressed due to my husband behavior he beat me yesterday night my 9th month is running is stress harmful for my baby I realy don't know what should I do I don't want to live I don't understand to decide
16 hours ago
I hav heard that if we preserve the stem cell it is usefull for siblings as well as father ,I m concerned for my hudband he is alcoholic if it will in any way is useful for him den I will definetly go for stem cell banking.just need to know how is it helpful,as alcoholic person had to go thru liver and kidney problems.
5 months old boy
16 hours ago
hi everyone. .just wanted to ask u all something. .. Wat would u do when your husband doesn't respect your parents. you get so pissed off. u just remain silent for your children sake
Why you have to be silent for kid. What you gonna teach them .. that it's okay for girls parents to be abused ? Or you thinking about financial support ? Anyhow he has to support financially for raising up baby .. it's important for you to think what is right and what is wrong . Take a stand and see result if he understand than good u choose a person who atleast to see good or bad prospective. But after taking stand if he take on ego and not apologize for it then u will get to know other colours of it husband behaviour.
4 months old girl
16 hours ago
Hi mummies......I am alone managing my twins baby whole day....my husband is making food for us with my little help...sometimes not possible by him..And I am filling hungry frequently....can't eat maggie, pasta and outside food during breastfeeding... please suggest me some healthy snacks or food names which we can prepare quickly and can store for few days....if possible please tell me recipe....please help me
Same situation with me....😐😐sach me bahut problem hoti h ....Main to khana v khud hi banati hu...Manage krna muskil hota h.. Husband ko office v jana hota h...All day baby ko attention dena...Ohh ..Soya h to thik warna ...,😂😂...maine poha ko peanuts ke sath bhun ke rkha hua hai..Iske alawa mathri v bana skte ho....Kaju fry krke rkho......maine kheer v ache se bana ke rkha hua h ..Usko freeze me rkha hua h...Iske awala fruits v rkhe h.. Morning me main aksar...Masala oats,Oats kheer,chura milk and gur mix krke,sabudana khichri,poha e.t.c ye sb recipe jaldi bnte... Dopahar me rice dal.. Veggies or salad ..,curd ,khichri,night me husband ke support se kuch v mood hua bnaa lete h...Agar need puri krni ho to baby jb soye aap so jao...Me aise hi kr rhi.....
4 months old girl
21 hours ago
Mere husband ka kisi or se affair hai shadi se phle se. Jb hm honeymoon pr gye tb unhone mujhe apne affair ke bare ke bare me thoda btaya bola ki ek ldki h unko pasand krti h bt next day vo ldki jha hm ghumne gye the vha aa gyi or husband mujhe akele chhod kr uske pas chale gye usi ke pas the. Fir husnand bole vo unka past tha ab khuch nhi maine trust kr liya mai pregent ho gyi fir mujhe kai bar pta chala vo usse bt krte h gift dete h..fir meri beti huyi mujhe lga sudhr jayenge bt vo usse relation khtm hi nhi krte usse milne jate h uske pas rat me bhi rukte hai..means mere husband hmse pyar nhi krte..mere inlaws apne bete pr bhut trust krte h vo nhi manege.mai mai apne parents ko bta ke unhe tension nhi dena chahti.mai kya kru..akele hoti to koi bt nhi ab ek beti bhi hai mujhe khuch smjh nhi aa rha mai kya kru..plz ap log meri help kre...husband ko hmse koi matlab nhi h akele ghr ka pura kam krte h beti ko bhi dekhte h koi help nhi krta kya kru...
Same problm mery sath bhi thi but mujhy mery hubby ny shaadi se phly sub bta diya tha shaadi k baad 1st night pr us ldki ka ph. Aya nd mery hubby ny cut kr diya dubara aya fir unhony mujhy diya mainy baat ki or smjhaya k aaj k baad ph. Na kry humari shaadi ho gai h but wo ldki fir bhi puri raat ph. Krti rhi or hr roj krny lgi mery smjhany ka koi asr us pr nhi tha fir mainy hubby k ph. Se uska no. Nikala or apny bhaiyo ko de diya mery bhaiyo ny uski aisi wat lgai k din raat tng krny lgy usy usny no. Change kr liya mainy fir nikal k dy diya fir ek din mainy usy itna bhla bura sunaya k tu randi type ldki h tujhy tera ptti kuch nhi deta kya jo mera ghr brbaad krny p lgi h tbhi wo boli m to yuhi krungi ph. Tujh se jo bnta h bna ly mainy usy raat ko ph. Krna shuru kr diya ek din usky hubby ny utha liya ph. Or bola kon to mainy sari baat btai bus fir kya tha agly din madam ka ph. Aya ulti sidhi boli mainy kha tery hubby ny mujhy apna no. Diya h kru usy ph. Bus wo din tha or aaj ka din usnydubara na kbhi ph. Kiya or na hi apny mayky aai uska ptti usy mayky bhejta hi nhi or andr hi rkhta h or khi aany jaany bhi nhi deta bura to lga mujhy but kya kry aisi ldkiyo ko khula chor dy to dusro k ghr brbaad hoty h
a day ago
can anyone plzzz clear-out my confusion am right or possessive tracking my hubby...am 33 weeks pregnant mere husband mera bahut khayal har choti c baat ka dawa se lekar mere rest karne tak ka...may be itta dhayan mere mother side family b ni rakh sakti...but there is one prblm...hubby dawa dekar khane pine ki harchij dekar chale jate h mere sath na baith te h na mere sath rat me sote h...jaise intrest na raha ho ab ..mere bahut man krta h unke sath akele me wakt bitane ka. ..hug kiss aisi hi choti choti chije jo muje bahut khusi deti h..bt m kahti hu gussa ho jate h.kabi kabi lgta h wo sirf mere body ka dhyan rakhte h mere man ka ni.24 ghante mai dusare rum me wo upar rum m rahte h..mai seedhian chadh ni sakti...plzz suggest me
dont think negative ho sakta h hubby koi complications nhi chTe pregncy m jun itni care kr rhe h which mean k wo is pregncy ko ache se niklna chate h but pir b unse baat kro k tume kuch time b saat mai cahye spend krnr ko mere hubby b same b wo unhone whole pregncey intercourse avoid kiya h koi problem na ho baby ko pr time spend jaur krtr h btr h unse baat kro negtive soch k baby pr effect mat dalao
9 months old girl
a day ago
1 year 9 months old girl
2 days ago
I m so hurt yar.. Rakshabandham krke main apne ghar gyi thi parso or meri dono nanad bhi yha aayi thi.. Pta nahi badi ko kya dikkat hai mujhse humesha bitch krti hai.. Meri saasu maa ache se rahe mere sath bardasht hi nahi hai usko.. Humesha bhadkati hai.. Saas ko khti hai ki mai koi kaam nhi karni.. Har Hafte mujhe na ye kapde chahiye.. Mai uski reeas krti hu jabki vo meri reeas krti hai.. Jeene hi nhi deti.. Itna ganda bolti hai.. Duniya ki aage aise show krti hai ki jaise kitna pyar hai mujhse.. Khegi ek hi toh bhabhi hai meri.. Or piche se itna ganda bolti hai.. Husband sun toh lete hai par unhe didi k bare me sunna acha nho lagta. Kya karu yaar stressed rehti hu. Dimag me ghumti hai baatein
I wld say k aap ki nanand v koi nanand hogi uske sath v aisa hi hota hoga actually fact is bahu is considered as naukrani but beti ghr aa kr maharani yehi prb h to sasural se chhot kr naukrani aati h mayka tb ja kr kuch din ka chutkara milta h n mauka milta hai to act like a maharani ek ye v baat hai k chahe apna pati kitta v pyar krta ho pr bhai agr wife k liye kuch kr le to nando ki fatt jati h k behen ko chhor biwi k liye kr rha arre yaar q na kre nw biwi is his respo nt u ... u r smbdy else respo har ek larki bhai se expecttn hata data hubby pr tikk kr rhe pr no bhai bhabhi ki waat lagani hi h kitte lig lalchi hote h k pati se v mile n bhai se v mile .... lalchi nande jahannam bana deti h ghar
2 days ago
Hi frnds...last tym I told abt my husband and as u pple told dnt allow him for sex..i did the same bt thngs r getting worse..he stopped giving money also now...he comes n jst sleeps n leaves..vnever I ask him smthng he says I dnt hv money to give u...wht shld I do..frm 31st I vl b 7 months pregnant..i dnt knw wt i shld do..cn I do abortion I missmy parents bt i cnt go to them also..my parents r nt so rich..kya key me I feel to suicide really I'm totally broken nw I dnt vnt to live he cnt keep my baby also happy..aaj tk usne mje ek bhi baar nahi pucha wt I feel to eat or how is my health plz frnds hlp me me Kya kru..atlst pray for me to God..shayad tum log ka baghvan sunn le aur sb thik krde..😔😔😔
I feel very bad and helpless when i hear these kind of things. When people start realising imp of a women. We r the one who is resppnsible fr creating the universe. We r the one who left her parents home to run husb's home. Ur huby has mother and may be sis too. I think he fgt that. We do sacrifices in every phase of life. No one can understand what we feel. But dt ever think about suicide. U r not a coward. U r durga n kaali. U have enough power to deal with it. Be positive and strong. Baby is ur power. Live life n positive. Sex is not everything. Love is everything but ur huby dt understand this but pls dt go fr abortion.
A month old boy
2 days ago
2 months old girl
2 days ago
I have to travel with in-laws ( without husband ) for approx 4hrs by car with my 3 month baby. I am giving BM only to baby. But while travelling I won't be able to give BM. Should I start giving FM to baby? In-laws are not so concerned about baby. That's why I thought of FM. One more doubt, breast feeding in driving car is possible?
Your in laws are human and thy understand baby's need. wear clothes in wch you are comfortable to feed your baby. carry a nursing cover or duppata to cover if you feel awkward. Don't be ashamed or shy away from breastfeeding your baby in public. Be proud of it. I have fed my baby in all possible public places and in front of strangers. What is there to hide. Like everyone else eats food so is your baby having his.
10 months old girl
2 days ago
I always kept restricting my in laws n husband for not giving any outside food to baby. but they don't listen. even my sister In laws come n do the same,so I m left like an overthinking mom. but is that anyways right to give anything anywhere to a 10month old baby n who is already not gaining much weight. I always feared for any infection she might get from outside food, n not only outside they can give it wn it was already kept in fridge for 2-3 days. wtever n however I do, they do it. also they don't take care of AC, not even after I bath her.if I oppose I shud leave n den after taking care for hours, I will have to cook n all. now my baby got stomach infection just bcz my SIL gave her tandoori parantha made at a local dhaba n my MIL gave old fridged milk sweet. n even if my hubby listens all this, he doesn't do anything. in fact he proves me wrong like u r just excessively taking care of baby. guys tell me,if a 10m old baby should b given food like this n dt too in rainy season
Hey dear, I faced similar problems though much milder than yours. Try to take your in-laws to the pediatrician when going for next appointment to the doctor and ask the doctor as if curious in front of your in law's about what to give and not to give to ur baby. When doctor will put it firmly in front of them they will be able to accept the situation in better way. Normally parents have already given such things to their kids at that time and think it's good for today's kids too without understanding today's chemical laden foods and think mothers to be overly protective or rather stupid. And for ur husband, I am sure he might have access to Internet. Ask him to check on internet on whatever thing to feed the baby or not. He himself will slowly understand the situation. Try to be calm in such situations. I know it's easier said than done but there is no use losing temper over it and making situation worse. Take care.
1 year 11 months old girl
2 days ago
Hi mera beta 2sal ka h aur uske legs thode mude hue h per chalne me koyi problm nhi h ache se chlta leg thode fela ke chlta h bas aur bolta bhi nhi h mummy papa dada chacha nana mama bolta h per isaro me sab samjhata h koyi problem to nhi h kb bolega aur legs ke liye doct se consult karna padega kya pls answer the question...
2 days ago
Hii frnd muze meri Ek personal bat share karna he mere husband out of India rehte he wo mere godbharai k function k liye aye the function hone k bad nxt day Maine mere hubby la me check kiya to muze kch mess dikhe ....it's a conversation with prostitute n mess are like ur charges n body type pic n address of that girl .....wo sb Maine pada n main shock ho gai wo sb dekh k n Maine hubby se bat krna band kr diya 2 din tk bat nai ki fr maine unhe bataya wo mess k bareme to wo chid k bole wo unke frnd ne kiye hoge unhe b us mess k bareme me kch pata nai he.......ar ghusssa ho k chale k Gaye ...frnds main 5 th month me mere mom k ghar agai n wo udhar Ek frnd k sth rehte he....meri shadi ko 1.5 yr hua lkn itne din me Maine aise kch observed nai kiya tha even wo sutti k din me b muze chod bahar nai jate he ....lkn wo messs dekh k muze bht upset lagta kch samaj nai raha ky kru plzzz help me
I would like to tell u that nobody in this world is own. All are just selfish. So u too be selfish. Ignore everyone just enjoy. Just keep urself happy. Jo karna chahti ho bs Kar lo. Unke saath Jana chahti ho to der mat karo. Agar vo nahi le k jaate to unko yaha shift hone ko bolo. Fir b koi natiza na nikle to araam se unko bula k bitha k baat clear krlo. Gussa mat dikhao.pehle smjhao. Fir jo sahi lge kardo.