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Third Trimester
3h ago

Can anyone talk with me or help me in someway. I had a miscarriage a week ago , I have a 14 month old boy which I love but my marriage is hit rock hard. My relationship with my in laws as well as my husband is suffering, I was a working women once , worked with big companies and but he told me to leave my job so I did and had a love marriage thought I will be happy forever with the men I loved but no I couldn't lived up to their expectations, I was outspoken, I was independent with what I believe. I did tried to change myself but from inside I was not happy, but I use to believe that my husband would understand me but he too started to blame me that I am breaking up the family, I am in so much pain that I am all broken from inside. My self esteem is hurt, I am dying.

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ur word... “i did tried to change myself from inside but i am not happy “ how could u be dear ..??? if someone loves u he will never tell u to change neither u feel that u have to change... they will accept u how u r ... y he wants to change if he loves u at that time when u r in ur own way... listen if u want to be happy ... then first love urself... always respect urself... its a very thin line between ego and self respect ... understand that... and never let anyone to HURT U.. TO HURT UR SELF ESTEEM..!!!! and start job again.. be independent .. a person who loves u always motivates u to success ... to be career oriented..!! 💐 may god blesss u...
Third Trimester
3h ago

Hello...Frnd...Plz hlp me.... meri beti ko 1 one month ke bad book amul milk dene lg gai the....Half milk and half water..... lakin ab uske fever hai...To dr ne bilkul mna kr diya amul ka milk...Lakin. Mere husband or saas smj hi nhi rhi......

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1 Year 11 Months old girl
4h ago

Hi friends. Today dr said incomplete abortion. Abortion me pain hota hai kya.. Bhaad me rest ki jrurt hoti Hai. My husband v disappointed..

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3 Year 6 Months old girl
6h ago

Any one plz suggest some gifts nd surprise for my husband

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Third Trimester
7h ago

Hi I am in big confusion plz help me To day i want to hsptl and again they did pregnancy test and they confirmed that I am pregnant so nurse said com in evening doctor will come at 7.pm But now my husband relitevs saying to take time and do abortion but my husband saying of ur 4.or 5 weeks pregnant than do carrying if ur 2.3 wks then don't carry I don't know what to do plz help me after how many days this pregnancy will be confirmed rplz waiting for reply

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Generally, pregnancy can be confirmed by 45th day from the onset of the previous menstrual date. My cycle was 33 days and I waited 45 days before confirming it... Mine too is an early pregnancy... We'd not even completed 4 months since marraige. Yes it's wise to take time before a baby comes in... But we can still get close after an early pregnancy. My husband and I are proof of the same. We too thought of ending the pregnancy in its early stages bt quickly decided against it.. Because, it's not the kids fault for growing in our belly. We should have been careful. Now that she/he's here, give it a chance... If it's destined to grow along side your developing marital life, it will grow... Don't discard it... After all, later who knows if we may regret the abortion... But surely, we would not regret continuing the pregnancy. Trust me when I tell this, feeling the baby and your tummy grow, fighting against ever increasing dress sizes will bring you more closer... Cherish this pregnancy... Relatives will have a whole load of craps and comments... You do what's right... Don't heed to everything they say.. There are people who end one pregnancy and worry later in that they don't conceive again. The mushroom like burst of fertility clinics stand proof for the same. When you get a kid naturally, why would you want to risk a later conception with unnecessary medical aid and wastage of money, time, effort, self confidence and peace? Think we'll before any decision... Hope you take the right decision and have a happy pregnancy... 😊
Third Trimester
7h ago

All ladies will be schocked..This shouldn’t happen even to my enemies.i am 26 yrs now and almost in 12th week of pregnancy. My mother is forcing me not to have Kids reason is she just got baby boy( he is 2yrs now ). My parents are financially very poor. Before marriage and after marriage also I helped them financially very much and in fact I opposed for their baby when my mom was conceived. But everything got changed when my parents got “baby boy” they neglected me very much and they told me not to get Married because I was the only earning source.my father is not working. I got Married with my expense,after marriage also I am helping my parents financially . But still my parents are scolding me that I m not helping financially anything to them and they are cursing me for not looking after to their baby boy( my brother of 2 yrs age ).They are asking me “why you want baby ?” And telling me to take my brother to my husband house and look after him only. How much is this correct?

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I don't understand why ur husband didn't say when they were planning a kid, u wud had told them that it is not ur responsibility now, at least after a kid at this age, I want to say fix a amount which u can give them for a month n after then tell them, I will not give extra, n u plan ur baby for ur happiness, I hope u will take appropriate action
5 Months old girl
7h ago

After delivery am at my mom's home. My husband loves me and my lo. He is a very nice person bt only prob in my life is my MIL. It feels like she is not at all happy with my lo. Nver calls n on my back complains to my husband that "beta Teri wife Hume call hi nahi karti Teri beti kaisi hai Hume pata hi nahi chalta". At this point I think they shud call n ask abt my lo if they r really interested. Well it's true I didn't call her coz of her behaviour after my delivery which my husband is nt aware of. Now my husband asked me ki 2-3din main video call Kar liya karo unhe. He said so sofly that I was unable to say no to him. But from inside I never want to call her. Still am thinking wen u don't care about my child then y should I call u. Also the 2nd thing coming in my mind is that he is forcing me for this against my will. Though he too never calls my parents. I will remind him to call then only he will call. I want say him u too shud call my parents as they r taking care of ur lo.

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If we understand one simple thing that we should never complain about aur in laws to our husbands and never expect anything from in laws, then our lives would be much better. Why we fail to understand that in laws can never ever care about bahus of their family and they will always command respect come what may. Don’t try to belittle them in front of husbands because if someone had tried to belittle our parents then we would have also felt bad. Just go with the flow. Husbands are very bad at socialism. They are not conditioned like females. That’s why they don’t make calls to our parents unless we ask them to but that should not be a big deal. They atleast care about us and their children. You have to let go of many things to be at peace with life. Just make some changes here and there and you will see that all is not that bad. If your in laws feel superior when you call then just do it and satisfy their ego atleast you will be at upper level by doing it. Don’t harbour negative feelings about anyone. You are lucky that they are not staying with you. Calls will not do any harm to you so go ahead call them and just go with the flow.
3 Months old boy
9h ago

I want an answer. I ve two married sisters wa brother dng degree. I lost my dad eight years back. My husband always talk local words about my brother and mother to me. I dnt want to hear this. If i didnt look my brother and mother my dad is seeing all this. My question is who is more important mother or husband

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First of all y does ur hubby speak local words about your mother and brother.. who has given him this authority? if he thinks being married to you has given him that right then sorry to say my dear friend your husband needs to be confronted right then and there itself.. See every relation is important and holds a specific place in itself, there is nothing like this relation is more important, other is less important... both mother and hubby are important, there is no question of comparing them and finding out who is more significant than other .. But there is definitely no place for abuse in any relationship... So be firm and don't accept anything wrong... All the best..
Third Trimester
16h ago

Meri gynic boli jb ap comfortable feel kro husband k pas ja sakte ho (xxx) . Aunty boli 3 months ka gape compulsory h .google pr search kia..timing 4-6 wks gape ok hai. Pr koi btayega kaise pta kru sahi time or ki mai comfortable hu ? Ain time pr koi badi dikkat ho gyi to ? Meri baby 14/3/18 ko huyi h .

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Usually gynae ka first check up jab hota Hai after delivery. Uske baad you can have sex. Because the doctor checks the stitches and how it's healed. But how you feel is also important. If you feel alright and there is a gap of 4-6 weeks then go ahead. And if you don't feel OK while doing it then you can always stop.
9 Months old girl
17h ago

Hello frnds meri beti ki height nhi bad rahi..... me kya karu .....mujhe bht tension ho rhi he wo 9 month ki he or bas 4 munth ki lagti he .....meri or mere husband ki height bht achi he but beti ki nhi bad rhi kya karu me

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3 Months old boy
19h ago

Hello mommies i need suggestion plz help. I delivered 3 months ago. I am at my mom's place.. today my in laws n brother in law meet in an accident. They are not hurt that much. But my fil had 5 to 6stitches on head and my mil got hurt in her back my brother in law have fracture in leg. Mere husband n mai different city mai rahete hai. Hamne decide kiya tha k parso mere in laws muze lene k liye ayenge n Usk baad mai kuch din k liye in laws k yaha rahungi n wapas mere husband jaha rahete h waha jaungi but aaj k accident k baad situation change ho gayi hai. Mere father muze bol rahe h k hum sab lg unko kaal milne jayenge n mai mere in laws k yaha jaab wo log thik ho jayenge n muze lene ayenge tab jau. Bcz my baby is too small n my parents are worried how can I take care of baby when my in laws are not feeling well. Plz tell me what to do?? Kya muze in laws k yaha abhi jana chahiye ya unk thik ho jane k baad???

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A Month old boy
20h ago

Hi, I'm mom of one month old baby.i stay in my parents house after delivery and my younger sister is having exams during November and because of baby she is getting disturbed and sometimes she uses rude words like asking me to get out of the house.but my parents asking me to adjust as she is in exam stress..today again she did this in front of my husband and my husband got angry.he is asking me to come to my husband house.my husband is really caring and he does everything for me. But in my parents house sometimes they won't give respect to him and always they will tell fault on him..i don't know to what to do.. Struggling with stress and unable to take care of baby..i don't want to give up both my parents and husband..but both of them are not understanding and they put entire pressure on me.. Any advise for me?

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first of all if ur husband is supportive then u must move with him and u can't stay in ur parent's home forever. . u have to be independent and try to manage everything. . at ur home u can hire a nanny or maid who can help u if i dnt have anyone to help u.. because its universal truth that its not ur home now n sometimes people do not tolerate girls if they stay for so long.... its ur mistake that u depend upon them... secondly ur sister is wrong who doesn't even know how to behave with sister and bro-in-law.. it is ur home i know i m contradicting my statement. . but if ur parents r on ur side then no one can speak a word... she is having exams so what?? i had my exams after 40 days of c sec... i wasn't shouting at my family... i took care of myself n my baby.. studied... after 2 months i had classes i used to go to college.. i used to sleep for 2 hrz only... but i managed then why cant she?? my son used to sleep at 4 or 5 am.. n i used to sleep with him n at 7 i used to get up n get ready for college. . but i never spoke badly to anyone. . if she can't help u she must concentrate on her work only. . exams dont give her freedom to misbehave and insult others.... 😠u should just move and stand with ur husband for his respect..... we all had exams. . we are very well educated. . did we all used to shout at our family members??? ask her to behave properly as its needed after her marriage also... otherwise she will face problems there. . n u plz b strong u r a mother and a mother can do anything. .... tc
6 Months old girl
20h ago

Hi mommies, my baby is 6 months old. She put her finger in the mouth very frequently. Especially, after a feed if she does, she vomits the complete milk. I'll get angry like anything. I'm bothered of her growth. What ever the milk she takes in, everything she will spell out. I'll shout at her. Sometimes, she will stare at me with no Expression. And my husband will scold me, and he will say what if she gets panic and develop a kind of threat in her mind?? I'm worried now. How to control my anger in that situation.???

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children learn from what they see. if you keep on getting angry on her she will learn the same from you at a very small age. may be she is teething and because of itching she is putting her hand in her mouth buy a good quality teether and make sure she always holds it.
A Month old boy
20h ago

Hello friends.. I want to share something. Please mujhe galat mat samajhna. Meri shadi 2016 ki Feb me hui thi aur mere husband bohat loving and caring hai. I love him so much and he loves me more. Hum in laws ke saath rehte hai. Meri saas boht dominating hai aur ek toxic personality hai. Unko mujhse humesha se hi problem thi. Per problem kya hai woh ajtak pata nhi chala. To main and mere husband ne socha ke baby ke aa Jane se shayad unka Mann badal jaye. Toh humne baby le liya. Mera son one month old hai. Main aur husband ek dusre ko time nhi de pate. Hum dono aab guilty feel krte hai. Hamara life khatam. Abhi to hum enjoy bhi nhi kiye the life me. Kisi aur ke pressure me baby kabhi nhi Lena chahiye. Hum dono hi depressed hai. Baby hum bhi chahte the but itni jaldi nhi. Kya hua galat hai?

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If you two care mutually for the baby, i think it makes you come more closer. Life can be enjoyed with baby too, just you need to change your attitude towards it. All the best👍
Third Trimester
22h ago

yr mere cervical length 3.3 cm h aur mera 18 se 8th month starts hua h aur meri dr bol rahi ki delivery jaldi ho sakti h mai kya karu mai bhut tensn mai hu plzz help me mere Husband bhi bhut tensn mai h

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3 Months old boy
22h ago

Which one is best birth contraceptive method? Condoms or copper t. I had c section delivery 3months ago. Last week me and my husband had intercourse using condom. Is there any chance of pregnancy. I'm very scared. Please reply friends.

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8 Months old girl
Apr 20

Hi. My husband's behaviour is not good with me & also in laws I have a baby girl age of 9month he is totally mummas boy if I told him something he passes to his mom.n sisters I m feeling very low I m regrtting to getting married to him he doesn't respect me at all m educated girl more than average looking n he is not even average good looking v hve a age difference of 10 years pls suggest me m hopeless

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first of all calm down. you are educated women so be independent and first of all try for a job. your baby is a big girl now so she can easily manage in daycare. or in case you are not comfortable then try to take help from your parents . don't feel low. get a good job first and be independent and then see your husband will definitely change. but always be prepared for worst situations so have a job so that you can take care of yourself and baby.
Third Trimester
Apr 20

Momiess mine is 9th month running...puri pregnancy maine aur mere husband ne ek bar bhi sex nai kiya becoz he thinks it will b harmful for baby as i was having low lying placenta till 6 months n had spotting twice when i was 6week pregnant..but ab last month main mera bahut maan karta hain..n maine tiny steps per esa b padda hai agar breast suck karo to we can go in labour???pls suggest wat to do??

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Third Trimester
Apr 20

Hello All, I want suggestions...I have 2 months old baby..I m at my mom's place ...now a days my husband is behaving very rude with me and baby...fighting on small things...he is saying I want divorce...my parents said without going to court we will solve the problem internally... give some alimony for the baby's future then only we will sign on divorce papers...but he said I will not give anything...we will fight from court.if court orders to give alimony I will give otherwise no.. Please guide me how to handle this situation

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Second Trimester
Apr 20

Feeling bad..Meri tabiyat thik nhi rhti.. Na khana kha rhi hu thik se..Husband bahut dhayan rkte h bt job par hote toh main subah se shaam akele rhte hu..Dr ne complete bed rest bola hai..isliye husband ne mujhe meri mom k ghar chod diya tha..BT meri mom ka behaviour itna ajeeb..na unko mujhse koi concern na baat krti aur na hi mere khane ki ko chinta..she not even cooks for me..meri Sis aayi h toh usse bade achche se pesh aati h..BT mujse koi concern nhi h..husband mujhe lekar vapas aa gye toh unhone ek baar roka b nhi..main bahut royi..feeling very bad..

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Stop expecting from anyone, when ur husband is so nice to u. U r going to bring a new life to this world. So just focus on that and think how happy u will be when ur baby will come in ur life. Try finding happiness in urself , u just need to change ur vision dear. Life and pregnancy is beautiful. Cherish it, instead if worrying abt ppl who do nt care fr u . Stay positive and make ur husband blv that u r happy with just two of u in each others life.
Second Trimester
Apr 20

I m pregnant n alone no one is there to take care of me as my mom is also nt there she got expired n even my husband r inlaws they dnt support me r care i m worried i really miss mom alot

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stop.feeling your alone any more.... your mom is there in your womb... make her smile and welcome her happily..... speak to your baby.... defiantly he or she responds you...... love yourself.... think and be positive dear..... all goes good..... I wish all good showers come to u..
Third Trimester
Apr 20

I am 27 week pregnant and we got visa for going UK as part of my husbands work.Iam in a confusion that I can manage when I delivered my baby there or stay back here and after delivery to go there with baby. But it takes time for all the procedures. Nobody will come there at the time of delivery. Is can I manage baby after coming from hospital. Please give me an advice

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I would suggest you to stay back either at Ur mom's place or in-laws place..u can go after 3 months of delivery....it is tuff to handle baby and urself without any help for atleast first three months... Ur husband may help but still u need when leaves for work...
Third Trimester
Apr 20

Hello!! Time to ask help from all of u ☺☺I live alone with my husband and my in laws lives in India. Yes my relations are nood good with my MIL as she keeps following old wives tales. When I went to India last year she keeps fighting with me but now she came here to my place as my 9 month is ongoing. I am shocked that she is not teaching me anthing to do I can sleep as much I want , eat whaeva I want, do whateva I like. But its not the happy ending throughout the day she is not helping me at all but the moment my husband comes from work she will run to the kitchen like she does everything. I have very strong relation with my hubby but she is his mother afterall. She is trying to be very tricky. I tried to tell my husband but when u meet ur mother after years its obvious u dont listen anyone. So communication over here dsn work. Please tell me some good ways to deal with it.

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congratulations u r in 9 month running pregnant women now just days to meet ur lo, u know according to me u hv to ignore her , her behavior her thinking her masterminds everything coz why u r giving this much important to her, u hv to focus on ur baby, u tk proper foods , medicines n just think abt baby then definitely all other things u will feel small , if she is doing like working continuously let her to do its her mind v anyhow how much also v convince to our hubby they will not listen anything wrong abt mother so Im sure ur husband only understand ur mils behavior her tricky thinking so just enjoy pregnancy n hv healthy foods n tc
Few Days old girl
Apr 19

Hi .. my baby is 6days old.. me abhi mere mayke me hu... meri family or mere husband k bich ladai ho gyi hai or usi wajah se mere husband ne mere ghar aane se mana kar diya hai.. or mujhe meri family ya unhe dono me se kisi ek ko choose karne k liye bola hai... mere liye dono important hai... plz suggest me....

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Second Trimester
Apr 19

Hi moms,i am 25 weeks pregnant now.i'm staying with ma parents from the beginning of my pregnancy due to the problems in the marital home.mother inlaw and sister inlaw always harassed me in all things.They were made false and very ugly stories about me and told to my husband,but he believed me always he knows that i am not that kind of lady.one day his mother attempt to slabb my head with an emwrgency lamb and called me cheap words .These things are i am not disclosed with my parents.i am always tensed about my life was lost..and i feared that it will affect my baby.and iam always desired to the love and care of my husband but he visited me once in aweek or two times in a month.so i feel alone at every time.i feel sad all time .dear moms any tips give me for staying happy.

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you are not alone dear. just think about your baby . he is always with you. and after some months ,your baby will come in your lap, and believe me ,u will forget your all problems to see his smile. but for that happy moments ,you have to stay happy, because your worryness will totally effect your baby. so be strong, and enjoy your pregnancy. you can ask your husband to give some more time to you. do the things ,which you like most. u can listen music, when I was in this situation I used to see cartoons,which make me laugh. best of luck dear.
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