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Third Trimester
24m ago

Do u think my husband is right in sending his parents on foreign trip when we have need for money? My delivery is next week,first child's school admission will be in dec/Jan... school only will cost 1-2lakhs for admission and 80k fee.. above all this there is home loan and expenses of new baby, vaccines.. I get to compromise in everything.. don't buy clothes for years, don't tell my cravings,don't eat fruits or milk.. even cut down on tablets.. forget about my birthday gift or gift for having the baby..but sending his parents on foreign trip is very important that too now..they r not good with us.. have seen my 2 year old child only once.. don't even ask about our kid..what kind of ppl exist.. they only want money.. I have never opposed him paying insurance for them. .but trip is not important now..am I wrong?he acts like I am very bad for saying that..what more can I compromise in life? He has no time to msg or call me throughout the day..but can call them..I am fed up of life..

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Its totally wrong if u r being compromised even for ur food n tablets,that too in pregnancy. they r good with u or not, is a secondary thing but he shud b first responsible towards the necessities of the lives existing. having a trip is a luxury n not a necessity. be bold to confront him,as it's not just with u. it also includes compromises by ur babies too. if he even wish Dem to go on a trip, he can arrange it for any domestic place which wud cost him much lesser. but still, making u sacrifice for necessary things is still not justified for this. secondly I wud suggest u to opt for convent schools instead of private ones. they r just so in bcz of our generation thought that branded is the best n costliest is the best. ur child has its own mind, capabilities n intelligence. which needs grooming with the external environment. n according to me, private schools just make money. they might b good. but convents r much better n decent, disciplined n focused organizations. which focus lesser on unnecessary dramas as compared to privates. n it won't cost u more than 4-5k per month n annual fees of maximum of 11-40k.
Third Trimester
1h ago

Hello mommies... I don’t know this is right platform or not but I want to share my story bcoz sometimes I thought M wrong sometimes not m very confused..m 9 month pregnant mere husband mjhse bht pyar krtey h m apni Mummy k ghar hu or meri family itni rich nai ki mera sara kharcha Utha sakey my husband give me money every month he said ki Mummy papa p koe bojh mat banna jo b chahiye mjhse bolna I’ll give everything. He is govt employee mjhe is 9 month me kisi chiz ki unhone kami nai hone Di but prob is jb se m Apne ghar ayi hu Tb se mere room p inke kisi na kisi frnd ka aana Jana lga rhta h no girls only boys but still koe b aata toh wo 1 month 2month 15 days aise ruk jata h mjhe bht gussa aata h Keoki unke rhne se khrache b toh badhtey h m husband p gusa krti hu toh wo bolte h mehman Bhagwan ki tarah hota h koe baat nai rhne do. Sara khracha mere husband ka hota h mjhe bus yai darr lga rhta h ki koe unka fayda na Utha le Islye ladti hu but wo nai smjhte bs boltey h Bhagwan sb dekhta h

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Hey, see a coin has two faces. In your absence, he may be feeling lonely. When his friends are with him, it is easier to spend time. Don't take everything in monetary term.
2 Year 2 Months old girl
1h ago

I am getting legally separated from my husband .. because of his emotional abuse and he has discarded me and my daughter.. he is diagnosed as narcissistic personality disorder and psychologist told me he can not be treated .. i feel lonely and going in to depression.. i am into good job and having decent income.. i need your encouraging words

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6 Months old girl
6h ago

I am mother of 6 month old. My husband is a good person. But whenever he asks me for physical intimacy i dont know why i just refuse.

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Same with me I am mom of 2 years 3 months old baby, but now also I am not interested don't know why
Third Trimester
17h ago

Hello mommies.... I need a help.... guyz plzzz tell me jo godhbhrai k rasam hoti h wo kitni jaruri hoti h ... mera 7th month start hua h ... meri MIL or SIL mujh s baat n krte ... I m working women ... even though this stage m apna sb khud manage kr ri ... mere husband m sath h bt wo apni maa s baat n krte or na hi sb prblm ko solve krne m interested h ... wo bolte h hum mange kr leng sath m .... to plzzz mujhe y btao agar wo Meri rasam n krte h to kya mere baby ko us s koi harm hoga ... plz help

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1 Year old boy
17h ago

Good Morning please clarify my doubt I have 1 year old boy I'm feeding to him one of my neighbour told me to stop feeding milk since if we intercourse milk will loose its energy and it's waste to feed since I was stayed 1 year in my mother home now i returned back to husband house

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2 Months old girl
17h ago

I had my c section delivery on April 17th. After that bleeding was there for 35 days. Yesterday two days I had sex with my husband using condoms. But started to bleed after sex with stomach pain. So it any problem or started my period?

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Third Trimester
Jun 23

Hello Mom’s. Plz pour in your tips and suggestions.My husband is a frequent flyer which is a part of his Job. I stay at with my mom since my work place is nearby and my hospital is 5kms from here and my dad works abroad as well. My due date is on Aug17th(my first pregnancy) , since I’m nearing it I’m just worried how to manage alone with mom if my husband is on his travel. He can reach here on the same day if there is any emergency but do suggest me ways to manage things alone if I have to rush to the hospital with mom alone.

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hello....u have to start planning in.advance...like financial arrangements,there should be appropriate cash arrangement at d time.of hospitalisation,proper convyence, convince your neighbours regarding help u will require at that time, maintain a bag which is to.be taken to hospital...shud contain ur items and baby items post delivery, required documents...id proofs etc etc....,phone chargers etc..
6 Months old boy
Jun 23

Hi ladies I have always heard that a child makes the bond stronger between husband n wife but i am loosing my husband day by day. After 15 days of my delivery, things between us has changed drastically, gap between us has increased to a level where i feel being sleeping with a stranger vryday. Moms pls help, i really love him n he loved me too. Dont know what has happened now. I know its the consequence of the influence of my in laws since i was at my moms place for delivery and he was alone. But nvr thought while going for delivery i wud loose my husband. I tried discussing and figuring out things but he seems to be least bothered to even speak to me. Do help moms, is it what happens aftr baby??

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Hi, talk to your husband , may be he is also thinking like u, that u have changed, my baby is 1.5 months old, I did love marriage, we both love each other, after my baby was born, my husband becomes more caring, he doesn't allow me to stand even to do anything, but before some days suddenly my husband's behavior changed, he doesn't speak like before n all, I also did same, then after 3,4 days I talked to my husband and he said that u r Changed and u r not giving me tym, so it was misunderstanding between us,now everything is like before, may be same in ur case
3 Year 11 Months old boy
Jun 23

Endha month la irundhu husband kuda irukalam

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4th to 7th month safe month.. 7th month mela health reports vachi unga gyne solluvanga
3 Months old girl
Jun 23

Hi all I m asking stupid question but it serious. actually I have 4 months baby girl my delivery was normal. After that I m not interested in physical relation.my husband want to bt I don't want. I can't understand what's the problem.is it normal

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Hi Neha.. I don’t know if it’s a common prob or not but it happened with me also. We had big fights regarding this issue also.. then after some time I had to change my mind and accept when ever my husband wants to. One thing I understood is they get frustrated when they don’t get what they want. So slowly better change your mind.
A Month old boy
Jun 23

Hi Mai bahut pareshan hu mere husband mujhse nafrat karta hai.. sirf apni maa ki baat sunta hai aur mujhe 2 saal se koi baat tak nahi ki humare 2 bache hai par sirf bacho se pyar karta hai meri tarf tho dekhta hi nahi.. na koi humari sex life hai na hi koi happiness . Agar divorce ki baat karo tho bolta hai 2 bache mujjse dur kar dega.. mai uske sath hi rehna chahti hu apne bacho ke liye but usko apni tarf kaise karu kya karu .. uski maa bahut kuch janti hai sayad uske upar kuch kara bhi rakha hai. Usko mere dard tak nahi dikhta.. maine bahut kosish bhi ki hai ussse baat karne ki uske kareeb jaane ki but vo mujhe dant kar bhaga deta hai. Pls koi help batao. Mai kya karu.. baat chit pyar sab karke dekh liya.

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First Trimester
Jun 23

Husband kuda sex relationship irutha than normal delivery agum ma.ana na nalla vela seiven walk poga ennaku romba pudikum normal time la kuda na nalla walk pannuven normal deliveryku ithu pothum illa

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Elam k than ... but intercourse pans pelvic konjam relax agum nu enaku enoda nurse sonanga....
Second Trimester
Jun 23

My husband had done foot massage from a female in parlor, when I was not in town. He hide this from me coz he knows idont like this at all. When I came to know about this from that parlor girl i confronted him.. he said legs were paining isliye karaya n he forgot to tell me this.. what bothering me is i became pregnant through ivf coz he can't become a father. i took lot of pain n still taking through injections. Mera jara bhi khayal nhi aaya jabke he knows ki I don't like when any other women touches him. I m 4th months pregnant. What should I do. He had done this earlier also and we had a big fight. Q jana h spa when i m not home.. i fought with him yesterday earlier he was apolozing but i was saying rude things to him.. now he is not even bothering talking to me. What to do. M crying since yesterday

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hello dear understand one thing men are men... keeping any expectations with them only hurts... and now being stressed bcz of what he did is only effecting ur baby which u have got going through so much of pain... it's not at all good for the baby if you feel stressed nd cry full day... will ur crying change what has happened... you have confronted your hubby right... now it's up to you whether u want to forgive him or not... what I suggest is better you forgive him so that everything becomes normal... for you to be in peace... for your baby... Now the prime focus in ur life is ur baby... at this moment don't think of anyone else that effect your happiness... take care ... stay stress free...
Third Trimester
Jun 23

Hello everyone.. I am currently on my 30th week and I came to my mom's place and I am getting relieved from my office by June 29th.. I am feeling so isolated or depressed don't know what is happening to me.. my husband is not talking with me.. he is not responding to my calls or either pings.. he started going out on weekends and he is not telling me either where he is going what he is doing also.. I am so worried now... It's been hardly 10 days back I came to my mom's place... I am missing my husband so much but I feel he is ignoring me or doing something or hiding something from me... I am not able to do anything... I don't want to fight at this stage I am feeling so possessive don't know whom to speak about this... Suggestions please on this..

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oh no... please call him frequently n talk with him n about his activities.... please don't miss that... may be he ll tell everything whenever he get free please talk more about fast ...
Third Trimester
Jun 23

PLEASE HELP moms Me and my husband takecare of my 5 month baby. He leave office by 9 and reaches home by 8 pm. Till that i need to take care my baby. Kindly help me to prioritize the work. And how to manage time for baby and myself. how to enage with child in a active and intelligent and I don't want my child to tv additive. How to spend time to grow up my child. Feeling restlessness. Anyone facing Same situation. Tell how to handle. #Timemangent. #Hot whether

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2 Months old boy
Jun 23

Friends! I wanna share one thing with u. I hv a baby boy. He is just two months old now. I breast feed him. Whenever he cries or I m away, my MIL offers her breast to him n baby starts sucking her nipple. She is doing like this since he is born. Even my baby sucked her nipple first before me, because my nipples were flat, he was unable to latch n milk was also not coming.. whenever I see her feeding my baby, even though milk doesn't come, I guess she likes it. I don't know why but I don't like it. Mera khoon khaulta h aur main kuch ker nhi pati. One day I told that this way feeding the baby when milk is not coming, is not good, I heard. She replied that she had been doing like this with all my husbands' cousines n his neices. Plz tell me what I should do k wo ye krna chod den.

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I can understand your problem well. Tell your MIL that baby will become weak if he keep sucking and doesnt get milk as SUCKING REQUIRES LOT OF ENERGY AND BABY WILL LOOSE WT. if she still doesnt listen to you.visit your doctor alongwith her and take doctor"s help. I am sure he will help you. Try and inform your doctor before you visit with MIL.
2 Year 6 Months old boy
Jun 23

Hello mom's...I am 2.5 months pregnant and I have beta thalassemia trait but my husband doesn't have..So what are the chances that my baby can have beta thalassemia trait....TIA

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11 Months old boy
Jun 23

Pllzz replly plzzz Hello guys mere husband muje kharch krne ke liye kuch bhi paise nai dete muje direct yahi keht e he ki tum tumhari mom se maang lo me one child hu isliye tumhari mom ko or kisi k kharcha nai he to tumhara krne bolo mere dad ki death hui he to meree mom ko me hi hu bus nd mere hubby ke mom dad ghar ka pura kharcha like ration lite bills dekhte hubby sirf apna busiiness pr dhyan deta he jo kamaya wo apne me hi rakhta he yaar muje 100 rs tak nai deta naa hi job pr jane deta he mera baby 1 yr ka hone aaya he but muje naa bol diya he job pr jane de ab me kya har insaan ko paise ki jarurat hoti he plzz guyzz kuch idea do plzz

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Few Days old girl
Jun 23

Hello moms. Please don’t take me wrong. I delivered a baby girl on 16 jan. I love my princess very much but i find it very difficult to cope up with the routine. I feel very depressed and guilty because i am unable to give breast milk to my princess as my lactation (milk production) is very poor. No one is here to help me. I have maids around me but i cant trust them much. My MIL is a very toxic personality . She do not take care of my baby for a single minute. But start pretending as soon as my husband arrives at evening. I just want to know how much time it will take me to adjust in this new life. Is it normal or i am not a good mother?

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hello dear.. don't be so disappointed.. I m mom of a 7 month old baby and I exclusively breastfeed my baby for 6 months.. but for that I had to fight a lot n under go a lot of stress as my mil n my fil n my neighbor (who didnt bf her baby) kept on pressuring me for giving the baby fm.. according to them I wasn't producing enough my milk.. but I could understand that my baby wasn't crying out of hunger.. then I started doing frequent visits to my babies doctor n whenever I used to visit I kept on asking the doctor that is he getting enough milk or not n his doctor would tell me everything that ur child is absolutely alright n he is doing great with his weight (I mean gaining perfect weight).. but it was too tough for me to convince them.. they were like doctor talks no sense..my mil used to say I feed all my kids fm and they were so chubby n my baby is not.. whenever my baby used to cry they were like 'look he is not getting enough milk so he is crying out of hunger' then I started convincing my husband.. I told him everything.. initially he was supporting his parents saying they handled more babies n they will know better.. but I request him to ask his friends, colleagues and who ever he trusts that what is better for a baby bm of fm.. after his research he was convinced that I should continue with bf.. and he asked his parents not to force me in this matter.. n along with all this I used to have foods which r good for increasing bm and I used to drink 6-7 ltr water a day.. that's how I won my battle.. while parenting u ll get plenty obstacles which u ll have to cross with patience n determination.. good luck n be stress free.. stress could be a reason of low milk flow..
Second Trimester
Jun 23

Mera 4 month running hai abhi. Mere husband kabhi kabhi relation banane ke liye jidd karne lagta hii wo kahane hai ki is time pe physical hone me problm ni hoti hi is time pe safe hota hii. Give me suggestion about that.

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dear second timmester yaani 4 5 6 month mei safe hota h physical relation...vo b tb jb apki pregnancy mei koi complication naa ho or ap comfort feel karo to...1 st nd 3rd timmester mei avoid karna chahiye... tc
A Month old boy
Jun 23

Hlo momims muje jannaa h ki meri dilvri ko 5 July ko 2 month ho jayege muje Janna h ki m bhaar ka kuch kha skti Hu ya nhi abhi muje 2 month hone me 10 din h jese golgape, chaumin,samose ,Maggi esi chiz kha skti Hu ya nhi or tummy bhut nikla C's k baad bhi Mera bby boy hua C-section se k kese andar Kru tummy ko or husband k sath relation kB bnana aeccha rahega mere liye abhi tako me bhi thoda jor pdte hi pain hota h please mere liye Jo aeccha h wahi sujest Kar k muje btaiye

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dear first of all congratulations... abahi ap Baar Ka khana kha sakte ho, koi dikkat ki baat Nahi.. bas Jada mat khana aur since baby abhi ,2 months Ka hai to koi hard Dal Jaise ki Chole rajma chana Dal 4 month hone tak mat khana... rahi baat relationship Rakhne ki kunki Aapka csection hua hai to ho sake to 6 months relationship avoid Karna Chahiye taki tanke acchi Tarah se sukh Jaye aur uspar jhor bhi na aye...
2 Months old girl
Jun 23

Hi I have my 2 month old baby girl. Mai bht tension mai hu reason behind my husband and my in law meri and meri beti ki koi fikr nahi krte. After my delivere meri bBy koi jaundice ho gya hospital mai bhi mai or mere mom the . ab mai aapne husband se devorce lna chahiti hu bcz mai jab pargnet thi tad v maine aapni job ki or us se aapna treatment krvya. Meri pay bi mere mother in law or husband use krte the. 9 month tak mane job ki. Operation ke 1 hr pehle mai office se ai this. In law bilkul koi tension koi fruit kosh nahi dete the. Nd hostipal mai bhi mere husband monther in law 3 din tak nahi ae 1 or 2 hr k lai day mai ati tthi. 2 month se mai aapne mom kol rah rahi hu . mere husband drug krte hai .. What should I do . plz help me plzzzz

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Dear .. do u seriously thinks like divorce is only way ????? Firstly just share with ur family while situation then they have to talk to ur husband nd mil too Then take a mutual decision dear Before anything u should hv to think about ur 2 months baby dear so dnt do any decision in anger
7 Months old girl
Jun 22

Hi all l m fed up with my life now I m being alive for my bby I get married on 2017 Jan 20.I got pregnant on March 25th 2017 My husband father scold me and make me to cry lottt now I have baby girl My husb is a mariner he leav me to my home whn I as in 1st month He come back aftr bby completing 3rd month to see baby I went his home and thr wer always problm I use to call my mom and cry My mom call his mom and say my daughter often frm whn the day of her mariage life his mom convey him like my mom scold him. one day my cousin enagemnt was thr thy invite him through phone call He said ok I will come aftr tht he said if my mom come I will come else i won't why shd i say someone enagment I ask him my relatives is someone but if ur mom come u cn come to some one engmnt I cried and came out frm his home on the day later his sis call and say mom tht I shud come his mom back so we went back now again he went back to work now sying my scold him like tht his mom say2 him he sy me tht my mom bad

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Third Trimester
Jun 22

Hello everyone, mere baby ki 31 may ko death ho gai thi delivery se pehle hi Dr ne operation kar K baby nikal diya, aub mere husband ne mujhe ghar se nikal diya hai Na pH utha raha hai Na msg ka reply kar raha hai, I m too dipress kya Karu mai, mere parents K yaha hu, jis ne hamara rishta karaya tha unko pH aaya ki Humne ladki ko leke nai jana Jo marzi ho jaye

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