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Third Trimester
4m ago

hiii moms..main Africa main rahti hu..yaha pe to doctor bata dete hai ki beta hai ya beti..main confused hu ki puchna chahiye ki beta hai ya beti ya nai..please reply friends😊ye mera first baby hai to mere husband bolte hai ki nai puchna chahiye beti ya beta mere liye dono ek hai..to muje kya karna chahiye

7 Answers
Go as per what ur husband says dear he is right and he is so understanding as well. . He is absolutely correct it doesn't matter keep it as a surprise till u give birth. . god bless n tk care
Second Trimester
11m ago

Me and my husband have same blood group I.e a+ ... is I need to worry ??

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Third Trimester
38m ago

Hi .shall I take my 8 months baby nd move Dubai to stay with my Husband.now I'm n my mom home.it easy to stay without my parents care

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I think you should stay here for few more months, you will get bit more care and rest which you may not get if you move to your hubby...
Few Days old boy
53m ago

Meri c-sec ko 2 weeks hua hai. Meri room upar hai. So mujhe ab niche rehna padh rha hai. Main meri MIL ke sath soti hu baby ko le kar. Husband upar sota hai. Main bohat miss krti hu use. Woh mere saath bhi to so skta hai. MIL ne kaha hai 1 month tak niche hi sone ko. 😢😢😢😢😢

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your mil will tell is right frequent climbing and getting down you stitches will pain so they told
1 Year 6 Months old girl
1h ago

Sorry dear friends .. for this question but i really need help and suggestions.. actually my husband wants me to do oral sex but i hate it and i feel disgusted and also he wants woman on top position more but again i am unable to perform that.. is it normal as he gets upset and accuse me for not being a sport.. and i am like that from beginning only.. i have never liked this otherwise i enjoy being close to him... I have told him many times but he says it is his favorite position.. how to deal this.. pour your suggestions

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2 Months old boy
7h ago

Friends! I wanna share one thing with u. I hv a baby boy. He is just two months old now. I breast feed him. Whenever he cries or I m away, my MIL offers her breast to him n baby starts sucking her nipple. She is doing like this since he is born. Even my baby sucked her nipple first before me, because my nipples were flat, he was unable to latch n milk was also not coming.. whenever I see her feeding my baby, even though milk doesn't come, I guess she likes it. I don't know why but I don't like it. Mera khoon khaulta h aur main kuch ker nhi pati. One day I told that this way feeding the baby when milk is not coming, is not good, I heard. She replied that she had been doing like this with all my husbands' cousines n his neices. Plz tell me what I should do k wo ye krna chod den.

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@sanjana Singh, wahi to nahi Ho pa rha mujhse. Main direct kese mana Karun unhe. I can't express to her that I don't like her this activity.. kya mere baby ko koi harm to nahi, agar esa kuch ho to main logically mana ker dun k wo esa Na kiya Karen.. Na Jane unko kya maja aata h apna breast feed karane mein. Kabhi kabhi to main Samne hoti Hun fir bhi karati hn
Third Trimester
10h ago

My LMP is 26 January and dr.is saying wait till 29 Nov is this possible ?? As Dr. said I have late conception but I was with my husband till 21 Feb . And another Dr. report shows on 16th Nov I m pregnant with 34-35 weeks there are differences of 2 weeks I don't understand when I will be able to see my baby .... Please reply if u HV an Idea

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In late pregnancy it is possible to get due date after 1 month . Because your lmp is 26 january and possible that you have concieved late around your next lmp 26 fab . so all pregnancy process became late and sometimes baby growth also 1 to 2 weeks delayed in late pregnancy in that case you can get late due date. Difference of 4 weeks are very obvious in these case. So dont worry and if you have more dought discuss with your gynee again and clear it dont worry and most important thing is healthy baby not early baby. If you are healthy your baby growth is proper than need not to worry. In many cases baby born after 10th month . In the past if you heared very few womens delivered by c-sec in that case they were wait for labour pain till 10th month and delivery healthy baby by normal . So nothing to worry if your gynee taking responsiblity than its ok.
Second Trimester
11h ago

Hey frnds I m feeling frustrated....kuch din pehle mere husband se mera jhagda ho gya or unki mummy ne mjhe bola ki ye to mere bete se nafrat krti h or iska koi hoga tabhi ye lad rahi h, uske baad ladai baad gyi or unki mummy ne mjhe bol diya ki ye bacha yaha ka nhi h or wahi kisi ka hoga mgr inhone kuch nhi kaha or mjhe ulta sidha bolte rahe mai chup ho kr sunti rahi or usi din se ye mjhse baat nhi kr rahe h.....or us din ki baat ke baad maine sab kuch bhagwan pr chod diya ab mai apne mummy papa ke yaha hu or mjhe aaye hue 4 din ho gye h mgr inhone mjhse baat nhi ki.....mjhe samjh nhi aa raha ki mai kya karu or unki family mere piche unko bhadkati h mjhe smjh nhi aata ki mai inhe kaise smjhau....help me frnds....

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Apne huby se garwalu k same ladaye mut kiya Kro .. Phr sasural wale fayda uthate hai iss bat ka .. Dobara kbi aisa mut karna .. Aur aapko apne mil ko whe bolna thaa ye huby wife ka jagda hai aap ismai mut pado .. Aur bolna thaa apne bete sai he pocho ye kiska baby hai apne huby ko bolna thaa tere maa kya fozol baate krte hai .. Ab aik kaam Kro apne huby ko ph Kro usko bolo ki tmhe b shak hai kya ye tera baby nhi hai bolo phr mai DNA test krwawo ghee .. Bolo tere mom ko muje ye bate nhi bolne chahiye thee aur tm chup chaap dekhte rhe Kuch nhi bola usko .. DNA test krwana aur sasural Jana dobara sbke samne huby sai ladaye mut krna
First Trimester
19h ago

I am planning to conceive soon. I am 25 years old. And staying away from family. As me and my husband were cousins(second cousin, from father's side)..I am pretty much scared about the possibilities. Can I get a fertiliy checkup done ? Will it be late if I donot conceive as soon as possible. Please guide

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I dont think there is any need of checkup. In our culture marriage can take place between first cousines but rarely I have seen any problem. But still if you want you can consult a doctor for your satisfaction.
Third Trimester
21h ago

Baby ka birth hone K baad, baby humare haath me dete hai ya family ko de dete hai? Normal delivery ho tb kisko baby dete hai or c-section me kisko baby dete hai? Aur agar humare haath me dete hai to kb tak hum baby ko saath rakh sakte hai, dusre family members ko dene se pehle? Aur kya husband ko delivery K baad humse Milne dete hai? Meri ichha hai ki hum dono baby ko pehle dekhe. Kya aisa ho sakta hai?

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My delivery was through csection. Mere case me as baby was born doctor ne kaha baby looks healthy and was taken for checkup and oxygen and all before I could see him . Then they said any one family member can come see the baby so my dad went forward and he was the first one to see and carry my baby . My husband was traveling back to India at that time . Then after one hour or so they brought the baby to my room and placed him in my hands . That's when I saw him . Some hospitals may allow ur hubby to be with you. Hope it happens as you wish :)
6 Months old girl
21h ago

Hello mommies.... My baby complted successfully 6 months complted , actually mine is love marriage my hubby family dint accept me n my hubby but my family accepted me n my hubby after marriage now if v celebrate my baby 1 St birthday day oly my family friends relative vil attend and dey Al talk abt my hubby family so m not villng to celebrate grand in party hall n Al and my hubby says to celebrate home its self simple oly me hubby baby n my mom my dad but m not villng baby 1st birthday even my husband worry abt fanacially also plz help me wat to do give sum ideas n wid small budget we're n how I can celebrate birth day of my baby even wen she grown up she should not feel sad lik her birthday we dint celebrate properly lik dat plz help me friends how to handle wat to do

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Nothing to worry dr ... Ur love for ur baby is far enough than to celebrate a grand birthday... As u want to keep it simple so have a nice cake with balloons decorated and a cute dress for her and prepare foods which u like it... ( still 6 more months is left u can secretly gather some money and celebrate it as like.)☺
Second Trimester
Oct 22

I am six months pregnant. My husband is not considering me as wife i am just a servant to him. My father died seven years back. I completed my btech and my dad dreams was i should be in good position i mean I should get good job and settle. But my hus is thinking opposite that my education is very worse i may ve took medicine instead of btech. I am really in high stress because of him. What wil i do.

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Education doesn' mean to get job only but it broaden our views on everything thing. I think ur husband hqs worse education as he has got job but her thinking is so low. Tell ur husband that i m far much literate than u coz my views and perception towards everything thing is broader than him. He should care u in such situation but what he is doing is showing how much educated he actually is.
Third Trimester
Oct 22

Hi mommies..... I see here so many ladies suffering with husband or mil its very sad......😢😢😢

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Third Trimester
Oct 22

Today my mil said that as i was my husbands personal choice my father in law was not happy with me . She is saying this after 3 yrs of my marriage. What should i do yar? I am an educated software engineer and now 7 months pregnant. Being so educated and self earning i have to hear all this bullshit. I feel like giving it back on their face but i am bound by the values

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Oh.. just don't give heed to this. We can't make everyone happy nor we r here to do so. I think u should b more happy dat ur husband loves you so much. I like and respect u for ur values dat u don't give it back to her in d same way. But in case she does it repeatedly just tell her calmly dat u don't like these things. Secondly that was long back when fil didn't like and it is not same now, so no need to talk on this topic anymore. Tell her this politely. I understand during pregnancy we r higher on emotional side, but don't get affected by these stupid things and calm ur self down. It is OK, in life there r different people who treat us in many different ways but even then we have to find our own way to tackle it nd stay happy without getting affected much.
4 Months old boy
Oct 22

Hello friends, my son is 4.5 months old.he is almost bald, even though me nd my husband has gud hair. Which oil is better for his head massage?

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Third Trimester
Oct 22

Guys I have a v stupid q prob. I was living alone with hubby for 2yrs n now MIL has come to stay after baby. I miss my old space n hate the fact that she does unnecessary household work while j struggle with the baby. She hardly ever woke up in the night during first month n my husband thinks it's fine m. I developed health problems because u never got to lie down n hubby thinks it was my duty n it's nothing great. I can't live with fake smiles when I'm not comfy with someone. Y do v have to sacrifice our happiness.

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From your statements it doesn't look like your mil is doing anything to trouble you. Regarding the loss of self space- You should be thankful to her that she chose to come and stay with you. May be she is not helping you with the baby day in day out but she is probably taking care of other chores. Regarding getting up at night- sweetheart welcome to mommy world! It was your and your husband's decision to bring a child, then why are you expecting anyone else to be there to handle the rough parts. Moreover your mil has already gone through this stage in her life (maybe multiple times ) is it right to put her through that phase again? NO! Grandparents are there to support you don't take them for caretakers. Be grateful of her participation. It is not mandate to be completely involved may be your mother might behave similarly. Yes as a new mom we crave for relaxation,if Nothing at least a hour long undisturbed sleep acts as boon but project these expectations to your husband and no else. More importantly these trivial issues are not because of your mil it's basically the exhaustion and sleeplessness taking a toll on you. This is what makes us irrational at times. Compose yourself. Keep your thinking clear. Getting irritated by someone means you are giving them power to control you. Do things as per your convenience, politely convey your thoughts to your husband and even mil. If you face any issue don't whine don't complain rather work to resolve it. And yes to a happy self zero down your expectations. You ll feel lighter and lot more happy. Stay blessed.
A Month old boy
Oct 22

hii mam muje ek questin karna hai... meri delivery ko 2 month huiee cizer mera husband ke saath physical hua hai maine ipl goli liya hai??? muje dar lag raha mai pregent to nhi hogi na??mai ky kru??? plz help me

8 Answers
Its good that you took ipills tablet. But still you may get pregnant. Its not 100% safe. So you should do home pregnancy test on 28th day. Thus you can remove your doubts. Its better to do pregnancy test after 28 days from the intercourse. Then only the pregnancy test result will be valid. So I recommend you to wait till its 28th day. Keep your fingers crossed. Take care. Don't go for unsafe sex again 😊
Second Trimester
Oct 22

Hi frnds...last tym I told abt my husband and as u pple told dnt allow him for sex..i did the same bt thngs r getting worse..he stopped giving money also now...he comes n jst sleeps n leaves..vnever I ask him smthng he says I dnt hv money to give u...wht shld I do..frm 31st I vl b 7 months pregnant..i dnt knw wt i shld do..cn I do abortion I missmy parents bt i cnt go to them also..my parents r nt so rich..kya key me I feel to suicide really I'm totally broken nw I dnt vnt to live he cnt keep my baby also happy..aaj tk usne mje ek bhi baar nahi pucha wt I feel to eat or how is my health plz frnds hlp me me Kya kru..atlst pray for me to God..shayad tum log ka baghvan sunn le aur sb thik krde..😔😔😔

84 Answers
I feel very bad and helpless when i hear these kind of things. When people start realising imp of a women. We r the one who is resppnsible fr creating the universe. We r the one who left her parents home to run husb's home. Ur huby has mother and may be sis too. I think he fgt that. We do sacrifices in every phase of life. No one can understand what we feel. But dt ever think about suicide. U r not a coward. U r durga n kaali. U have enough power to deal with it. Be positive and strong. Baby is ur power. Live life n positive. Sex is not everything. Love is everything but ur huby dt understand this but pls dt go fr abortion.
8 Months old boy
Oct 22

Hi friends this is my personal problem Iam very tensed about my MIL she wants normal delivery but I had c sec because I have no pain till the edd Iam going to mils place next month now my son is in 9th month she doesn't know how to handle my son that's why she want to put me in my moms house but my husband and father in law want to stay in their home they are good persons but y MIL is rude at me what I have to do now

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Second Trimester
Oct 22

I am 6 month pregnant , My husband ask me to take 1-2 peg of alcohol in party last night but I refused can I take beer or whiskey this time in little quantity plz guide me

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U shouldn't take alcohol in pregnancy.. Not even occasionally because I read that if we r planning for baby at that time also both husband and wife should avoid alcohol or smoking, so that u may have a healthy pregnancy.. So, how u may have alcohol while u r expecting.. It will definitely harm ur baby and in some cases it causes disability in babies. So, please say no to alcohol, smoking or any type of hard caffeine.
Third Trimester
Oct 21

Meri shadi ko sirf 1 year hua tha aur main pregnant ho gyi thi. Meri saas ne baby ke liye pagal kar rakha tha. Woh mujhse bilkul pyar nhi krti thi. To socha chalo iss bahane pyar to milega. Mujhe beta hua hai. Pote ki aane ki khushi woh bohat khush hai. Magar main apni old life husband ko bohat miss krti hu. Uske saath so bhi nhi pati.. Guilty sa feel hota hai. Uska sapna tha hum pehle life ko enjoy karenge. But kya ho gya😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢 I am not happy for being a mom.. I can't believe myself

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Oh.. Trust me each woman feels d same just after delivery for sometimes and Dats is time when we also need our husband the most.but u know what everything in life has two sides positive nd negative! It depends what we look at more. see just in a year you got a baby, ur mil is happy nd she would b going gaga on him.. If she is so loving nd happy, you spend time with hubby. You baby we grow soon nd u would b still young nd hot.. Jokes a part but u didn't have any complication due to late pregnancy nd age issue. With experience I would say baby makes husband wife relationship stronger! So just cheer up and don't feel guilty for missing ur old life or not being happy, we r human nd have all kinds of feelings.
Second Trimester
Oct 21

Hello everyone Sorry for discussing such problem here but I feel helpless and don't know what to do I am 7 month pregnant and My MIL she is very sarcastic...like she shows she treats me and love me like her daughter and keep pinching me all time by saying you did this wrong or that..infront of my husband and my hubby to show his mother he start shouting at me.whnevr she talks to her daughter she always praes them and indirectly she tried to insult me.. She always try to prove that I am not good enough my family is not good enough She says bad at my back to my husband and my husband He loves me a lot but if it's about his mother or sister he don't even want to listen and his younger sister she always try to show that how she keeps good care of her family and I don't but here nothing is in my hand every dississon is taken by my MIL and hubby.. They even don't ask me abt money matters and keep saying you don't take interest in family.dey only ask me abt veges and household wrks.

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I think it's with all the mil.. mine acts very open minded and understanding over the phone but when I visit her place she becomes typical mil. She ll try to do all work when my husband is around but once he leaves she won't even lift her finger. Learn from my experience - Never ever say anything against your mil to your husband. Act smartly around her, if she find faults in your way very sweetly ask her to show her how to do it. Statisfy her ego, that's what their pea sized brain is filled with. Take full advantage of being pregnant.😉 Follow same for her daughters as well. And when it becomes to difficult to tolerate, calmly express your views. Avoid rona dhona and anger it makes you weak. Mend your ways before your baby comes or it will get tougher for you. Stay blessed.
Third Trimester
Oct 21

Meri 20 days pehle cesarean delivery hui hai..my mil says that I can eat gond ki pinni dry fruit ghee after 40 days of delivery else I will gain so much fat that cannot be reduced. Even my husband says so..Please suggest

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Third Trimester
Oct 21

Hi I am in big confusion plz help me To day i want to hsptl and again they did pregnancy test and they confirmed that I am pregnant so nurse said com in evening doctor will come at 7.pm But now my husband relitevs saying to take time and do abortion but my husband saying of ur 4.or 5 weeks pregnant than do carrying if ur 2.3 wks then don't carry I don't know what to do plz help me after how many days this pregnancy will be confirmed rplz waiting for reply

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4 5 weeks or 2 3 weeks doesnt matter. both are same things. you and your husband sit and discuss why you must carry and why u must abort.. the logical reasons for both. and take a combined decision. in early pregnancy anyways, abortion can be done only with medicines. confirmation is very easy. goto a chemist and get urine for pregnancy tests from 2 3 brands. test all of them with early morning urine sample. these days, lal path labs are available near majority of places. just go there and tell them do your test for pregnancy, they give the report by evening if sample given in morning. and the report is accepted by all doctors. your doctor wont tell you to repeat the test if u do it in lal path.
6 Months old boy
Oct 21

My husband doesn't do baby chores at all. If for 5 minutes I want to go to bathroom he keeps screaming my name to come back. If I ask him to take baby for some time he says he is tired after office work and can't deal with baby crying. He says when baby is older and sensible then he will do father duties. If baby is almost falling down trying to stand up, he calls me to look after baby but he won't pick up the baby. In whole 24 hours maybe he plays with baby for fifteen minutes. Are all husbands like this? I'm getting frustrated every day.

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