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11 Months old girl
Perhaps my last question here I have 3 daughters, one toddler and twins My husband has been supporting me in family battles of giving away one of our daughter to others, specially to his sis. He is just hvng one concern in his mind that even wn v have 3,we will b empty once our daughters will b married. I know v all think,k tab tak kya bharosa kesa time hoga or ladke kon sa abhi b sath rehte h. Even i dont think of it Problem is, v r hvng arguments every single day har baat pe He complains of getting no time for himself n all. Always frustrated over everything.if i tc of him, he says i dont need to n just b there for kids. Wn i dont, then he starts complaining. Nowadays i give meals to all 3of them bcz my mil isnt giving proper meal to my daughter n she lost her weight I m trying to do wtever i can n think that nobody else b in pain bcz of kids. Even though i m d one who wasnt willing for thwse twins n these people were adamant to continue twin pregnancy Continued in comment
till date, every day of mine has a moment, when i regret about my decision of keeping both of d twins or even to tjink about second baby wn i see my toddler getting beaten n abused by mil she takes care of my toddler but abuses her a lot. bcz of her anger, my daughter has become so aggressive.she hits, she slaps, she shouts. she was remarked as the sweetest child in the whole extended family. i also feel guilty to think negative about my kids. i have no parental support at all, of any kind my marital life is becoming hell day by day all this may seem very common n just a matter of time, but i m failing to hold this anymore my hubby n i r just hvng the relationship of his financial responsibility for his wife n kids. i fear of spending any minute with him now, that it wud only burst into another issue have spoken to him many times but no use. he accepts for that moment n the same behavior again. what shud i do shud i just ignore him n let our relationship sunk or i shud b trying more, bcz i m already exhausted in upbringing 3kids. mera to kuch raha hi ni ab, kuch smj ni ata mje. sulking in depression plz help
1 Year old boy
Moms..please help meri life bohot easy ho jayegi..meri mil bohot tez hain jab bhi mere husband meri side hone lagte hai aur hamari bonding achi hone lagti hai to meri mil unko apni taraf khichti hai like hum tere MA baap h..apne rishto ka hawala de kar aur mere hubby mujhse chidne lagte h kyuki meri mil se bilkul Nhi banti aur hum alag rehte h obviously unka rishta purana hai ek is point se main weak ho jati hu kabhi jhagda divorce tak chala jata h to kya main apna ghar tod du mujhse sehen Nhi hota unke games
3 Months old girl
I'm in huge tension. Mere in laws ne apne ghar per cctv camera lagwa rakhe hai kiyoki woh meri galati pakdna chahate hai ki ye ghar ka kaam karte hai ya nhi..or mera husband ne mujhe ghar se bahar nikal diya hai bacchi ke sath isliye main apni maa ke ghar aa gayi mujhe abhi Kya karna chahiye ki main dubara apne husband ke pass ja saku.. Please suggest me ..
12 Months old boy
Hello moms mera baby 1 year ka hojaega 16 nov. Ko . Use cerelac dena chahti hun but husband mana karte hain kyunki ek baar dr. Ne keh dita tha . Kya isme ararot hota h kya? Cerelac acha nahibhota kya bache k liye?
4 Months old girl
9 Months old boy
Plz mommies answer ..agr kisi ka husband usko maare or gaali de bht ghr se nikale to aise me kya krna chahiye ghr chale jana chahiye coz self respect b kuch h or nafrat b ho chuki gali or is sb se..help me ..
4 Months old girl
C-section k 4 month bad Husband mere nipple suck krne ko bol rahe kya Mai kra sakti hu. Kya Isse Bby Ko infection hone ka chance h kya
12 Months old boy
Moms please tell am I mentally retarted or sick?1) I hate my mil to that extent that can’t see my husband and mil together..if he normally talks to her I get very angry2) My thoughts are my husband only loves his mother more than anything else not me not my baby3)I start hating my husband from that moment when he speaks a little about my mil in our conversation4) I don’t want my mil to get involved and live alone with hubby and baby5) she is snatching my husband and they (my mil and husband) don’t want to loose their love for each other..as per him if his home breaks then it’s fine 6) our fights goes to that level that we forget that we are husband wife and beats,says those words that you don’t want to hear7)she is reaching to his heart and I am falling down 8)my anger has reached to that level that I am absolutely ok with divorce and not seeing my baby face my in-laws and husband says i am mentally sick please advise as I can’t afford dr consultation due to financial crunch
hey! you know I also, think the same way about my mil and I feel that she is very much involved in me and my husband's decisions. but if you give her so much importance, to the extent that you are ready for a divorce, then you're definitely doing something very wrong which you will highly repent in the future. I'm absolutely in the same situation right now but your reaction will only increase happiness for your mil. you want that?
Hi moms Mai 31 week pregnant..pehle m bahut active feel karti thi job pe bhi jaati hu per abhi bahut thakaan hone lagi hai ..pairo m bhi dard hone laga hai..gale me bhi kuch fasa fasa sa lagta Hain ..kuch bhi khaane ke baad ,,, Jara sa chair p baitho to back pain ho rha ..baar baar letne ka man ho rha .. Aisa hota hai kya pregnancy me ..mere ghr p Mai or mere husband hi hai ..or y Meri first pregnancy hai .mere husband bahut help krte h Ghar k kaam me ..but thoda bahut kaam krke hi thakaan ho rhi hai..
Dear... 👉👉 Bilkul hota hai aisa Pregnancy me.. aapki pregnancy badh rahi hai. yaani Aapke fetus Ka growth bhi bahut achche se ho chukaa hai... 👉👉To body heavy ho jaati hai . jisse jaldi tiredness feel hone lagti hai jaldi koi bhi kaam Karne pe...aur isee wajah se paeron me bhi pressure padne se pain feel ho rahaa aapko.. 👉👉 Pregnancy me harmonal changes ki wajah se bhi jaldi thakaan feel hone lagti h... 👉👉Aap jyaada Der tak.. paer latka ke na baethe aur position change karte rahe.. 👉👉Aap rest le lekarke kaam kare... healthy food le..paani aur liquid cheezen jyaada le 👉👉Paer ke pain ke liye oil ko garm Karke massage kare ya gungune paani me sekaai kare..Saath hi simple food le. 👉👉Jyaada Der tak baethe nii thoda uthke walk Kar liyaa kare... ye Saari cheezen normal hai during pregnancy.. take care 👍
12 Months old boy
Moms mere husband sote time bohot zyada kharrate (aawaz ) nikalte hain uski wajahse mera baby uth jata hai aur phir 3-4 ghante se pehle Nhi sota..hamara ek hi room hai Aur mujhme energy Nhi rehti k isko ghooma ghooma kar sulaun ye har doosre din uth jata h Bohot pareshan hu please help me
5 Months old girl
Yaar mere in laws ko chahiye ki main unhe daily video call karu... mujhse nhi hota daily call and they feel bad and complains later ki call kyu nhi kiya... daily same talk nothing new... they are mostly interested in baby not me... and my husband fought with me why I don’t call them daily... I call them almost daily only some days I don’t call... I feel bad.. are my feelings wrong?
see grandparents luvs their grandchildren to the core.. why you are comparing yourself with baby.. their luv towards your baby and to u is unmatchable.. hope you are calling your mom n dad on daily basis.. similarly you have to call them too.. p. s. -atleast one video call or call is must to them this is my opinion rest is upto you.. 🙏
1 Year 8 Months old girl
Is the right time to put my baby in play school. She is 1year n 8 months. She is very stuban . my husband was telling me its better v put her in play school.
5 Months old girl
Hi Momies, my leaves are getting over on 31st Dec. now m thinking to call my in laws so that I can go to ofc and they are ready to come too but my husband says to take work from home for 4 months so that I can be with baby too. But if in laws are there and I have to take care of baby, I can’t concentrate on work plus my in laws think , fir kyu aaye h wo.. and if I take Loss of pay.. will be a loss for us.. what should I do? In laws aate h toh main free se nhi reh pati and kaam saara Mujhe hi krna padta hai.. baby ko wo rakh lenge apne paas and main sirf kaam hi karti reh jaungi... should I go to ofc so that baby bhi unke paas rahe ghr pe and main tension free joke of me reh Saku.. pls suggest me..
Hey mommy if I were you I would without a second thought choose loss of pay (Infact I am going to take it myself). Why is it a loss? Yes you don’t get pay but still get to keep your job and spend precious time with your baby! Unless you are in a dire financial state don’t miss it out (once you join back taking LOP will be difficult as I have seen in the case of other returning mothers). Once this is over take work from home if your company provides the same. At this time you will need someone at home to care for the baby so let in laws come. To make this work you need to be disciplined. Make one room your makeshift office and do your work there with the door closed. Go out as & when you need to feed the baby or only if she is crying continuously. This way you do not suddenly stop being there for the baby leaving her with others but slowly she gets used to spending less time with you. Not to mention the time saved from travel & traffic. Once this period is also over you can start going to office regularly by which time baby will be big enough to go to day care for a few hours (if required) & rest time be with grandparents! Always think & plan keeping baby as priority.
11 Months old boy
I feel so alone..I am very emotional by nature..but my husband is v much practical..this is arrange marriage..I loved a guy who treated me the way I wanted after that another person liked me so much and approached for marriage but my sister was not agreed..now this is a result I am not happy and have told my husband my wishes too hundred times but he doesn’t give a F*** he says I am like this only from 30 years..how should I change..to whom I share my feelings mer hubby sirf mere sath ego me rehte h thodi si baat par bhi
dear you are comparing 2 different person in 2 different situation. what responsibilities your boyfriend had except loving and caring about you? does he earned for you? does he saved for you? does he need to think about your basic needs? real life starts after marriage. even though you had married same guy situation will be same that you are facing right now. men are always practical and women are emotional. that's the way they are made. women takes time to move on but men never take time. I am sure he must have find some other girl. be practical. I know you do not like your husband the reason is that you are comparing. stop comparing both. try to develop understanding with your husband. if he has ego then you take initiative to make things sorted. accept the way he is. stop living in dreams look after your family. enjoy with them. give yourself ME time. go out make friends. it's ok if you go for groceries or to buy daily needs. be independent. most important just be happy. tc
1 Year 4 Months old girl
Actually i have one doubt .. I know babies looks like their mother or father its all about genetics .. But my husband is not looking so good and am beautiful than him , im wishing to have baby like me .. .. If i wish always from my heart is it possible to have beautiful baby. Or its only genetics nothing can be done . If anyone is there and had beautiful baby like your wish..
9 Months old boy
Hello...Mere husband ne surprisingly out of station Jane ka program bnaya n hotel ki booking vgrah sab ho gyi h...For 14 Nov... By road jaana h...8 hrs...How I manage my baby... What he eat?? Plan is of 3 days...🤔please guide me...
Things you need to carry : 1. An ergonomically designed baby carrier 2. Food like Mumra, makhana, home made sugar free cookies, bananas, (fruits that your baby likes) basically all the dry food. 3. emergency medicines especially paracetamol. 4. Extra pair of cloths, socks, caps 5. Diapers and wet wipes 6. Your baby's favourite blanket 7.toys and teethers Breast feed on demand, let your baby explore, although u have to sit most of the time. Keep offering solids whatever you have and keep the baby hyderated .carry water from home for the baby. Change the diapers when you feel its full (a.c. will make the baby pee more) its better to offer water or breast milk more often. also, if you formula feed, carry extra sterilized feeding bottles like 4-5 . hope this helps you in some way! happy journey! 😀
11 Months old girl
2 Months old boy
I had a normal delivery .I want to have sex mere husband bahuth force kar raha hai ...mera bacha 3 months ka hey ....kya may mere husband key sath iltemate hona chathe hu ....can I???
Hi moms, I have a doubt i am currently in my early of 6th month. I am just obese. Other than that i am completely normal and healthy. Can i have sex with my husband?
Hi all need your suggestions badly. My baby is 7 months old (8th month running ) my in-laws will retire from offce this yr dec31st. She is forcing me to search for a job and she will takecare of baby. Before pregnancy i use to work but due to complete bed rest i quit my job because i can't get leaves for months. Now my in-laws is saying like this. But my inner feeling is i want to takecare of baby atleast for 1n half yr or 2. She is good only but her character is like from when my baby born she is like she only should takecare of baby such type lady slowly slowly i get out my baby from her . Aftrr she reach home frm offce she only shuld play without some times she will not give to my husband also. She want to sleep with baby in the nites but i not allowed her to do so. So looking at all this im little worried also. I just want to takecare of my baby atleast some more months. Please pour your suggestions . Our financial status is ok not that good nor bad
i must say you got such a caring mil. it's her love that's why she take care of her grandchild. here my mom never take that much care for my baby. although she loves my baby do massage but never told that she will take care at night or daytime so that I can take some rest. even she goes to her house no matter how I will look after and handle my baby. you are blessed dear. most of the working mom desparately want mil like yours. feel blessed na. and working or not working it's your choice and totally your decision when yo start. no one can force you.
5 Months old girl
Hi Moms, I just bought Activa and I m planning to go to my ofc by Activa from next month but I don’t know how to ride it. My husband wants to teach me but there is no one at home to take care of my baby. Do you think I can learn it by myself. What do you think? Pls share your experience..
9 Months old boy
Hi mujhe ek bat puchni hai pls help me mere husband ke ek side ka andkosh Kari bada hogaya hai wo bolte hai unhe kafi pain hota hai Kya unhone Dr ko dikhaya wo opretion ko bol rhe hai is pls koi ilaj batye jisse mere husband thik ho Jaye
10 Months old girl
Hi moms i need your help and suggestions. I have daughter 11 months. I don't want second child bcs there were lots of conflicts with husband in first pregnency.bbut some people says it's important to have sibling for baby. Mere husband bhi keethe hai ek baccha aur ho to accha hai bcs amare baad koi to ho jo beti ka apna ho jis se wo apni feeling shares kr sake. Nhi to amare baad wo akeli reh jayega then wo will here to look after her. Kya sach mein pehle baccha k leye dosta bacha hona jruri hai??? Pls aap batyo
one thing you will get easily and free is unwanted gyaan from people. people will judge in any situation. it's upto you how you handle that situation. ultimately you know your situation better. who knows kaun kiska aur kitna saath deta hai. sometimes our own blood relation never care about us and sometimes a stranger help us in our difficult situation. IMO wait for 2 more years now your baby is very small. after 2 years depending on situation of that time take decision. do not take decision to please others. it will never work. do what is suitable that time. after all no one, not even your husband help to raiSe your baby. you and only you have to manage.
1 Year 1 Month old girl