Questions on Mom Nutrition
1 year 9 months old girl
13 hours ago
I m so hurt yar.. Rakshabandham krke main apne ghar gyi thi parso or meri dono nanad bhi yha aayi thi.. Pta nahi badi ko kya dikkat hai mujhse humesha bitch krti hai.. Meri saasu maa ache se rahe mere sath bardasht hi nahi hai usko.. Humesha bhadkati hai.. Saas ko khti hai ki mai koi kaam nhi karni.. Har Hafte mujhe na ye kapde chahiye.. Mai uski reeas krti hu jabki vo meri reeas krti hai.. Jeene hi nhi deti.. Itna ganda bolti hai.. Duniya ki aage aise show krti hai ki jaise kitna pyar hai mujhse.. Khegi ek hi toh bhabhi hai meri.. Or piche se itna ganda bolti hai.. Husband sun toh lete hai par unhe didi k bare me sunna acha nho lagta. Kya karu yaar stressed rehti hu. Dimag me ghumti hai baatein
I wld say k aap ki nanand v koi nanand hogi uske sath v aisa hi hota hoga actually fact is bahu is considered as naukrani but beti ghr aa kr maharani yehi prb h to sasural se chhot kr naukrani aati h mayka tb ja kr kuch din ka chutkara milta h n mauka milta hai to act like a maharani ek ye v baat hai k chahe apna pati kitta v pyar krta ho pr bhai agr wife k liye kuch kr le to nando ki fatt jati h k behen ko chhor biwi k liye kr rha arre yaar q na kre nw biwi is his respo nt u ... u r smbdy else respo har ek larki bhai se expecttn hata data hubby pr tikk kr rhe pr no bhai bhabhi ki waat lagani hi h kitte lig lalchi hote h k pati se v mile n bhai se v mile .... lalchi nande jahannam bana deti h ghar
14 hours ago
Hi frnds...last tym I told abt my husband and as u pple told dnt allow him for sex..i did the same bt thngs r getting worse..he stopped giving money also now...he comes n jst sleeps n leaves..vnever I ask him smthng he says I dnt hv money to give u...wht shld I do..frm 31st I vl b 7 months pregnant..i dnt knw wt i shld do..cn I do abortion I missmy parents bt i cnt go to them also..my parents r nt so rich..kya key me I feel to suicide really I'm totally broken nw I dnt vnt to live he cnt keep my baby also happy..aaj tk usne mje ek bhi baar nahi pucha wt I feel to eat or how is my health plz frnds hlp me me Kya kru..atlst pray for me to God..shayad tum log ka baghvan sunn le aur sb thik krde..😔😔😔
I feel very bad and helpless when i hear these kind of things. When people start realising imp of a women. We r the one who is resppnsible fr creating the universe. We r the one who left her parents home to run husb's home. Ur huby has mother and may be sis too. I think he fgt that. We do sacrifices in every phase of life. No one can understand what we feel. But dt ever think about suicide. U r not a coward. U r durga n kaali. U have enough power to deal with it. Be positive and strong. Baby is ur power. Live life n positive. Sex is not everything. Love is everything but ur huby dt understand this but pls dt go fr abortion.
18 hours ago
2 months old girl
19 hours ago
I have to travel with in-laws ( without husband ) for approx 4hrs by car with my 3 month baby. I am giving BM only to baby. But while travelling I won't be able to give BM. Should I start giving FM to baby? In-laws are not so concerned about baby. That's why I thought of FM. One more doubt, breast feeding in driving car is possible?
Your in laws are human and thy understand baby's need. wear clothes in wch you are comfortable to feed your baby. carry a nursing cover or duppata to cover if you feel awkward. Don't be ashamed or shy away from breastfeeding your baby in public. Be proud of it. I have fed my baby in all possible public places and in front of strangers. What is there to hide. Like everyone else eats food so is your baby having his.
10 months old girl
20 hours ago
I always kept restricting my in laws n husband for not giving any outside food to baby. but they don't listen. even my sister In laws come n do the same,so I m left like an overthinking mom. but is that anyways right to give anything anywhere to a 10month old baby n who is already not gaining much weight. I always feared for any infection she might get from outside food, n not only outside they can give it wn it was already kept in fridge for 2-3 days. wtever n however I do, they do it. also they don't take care of AC, not even after I bath her.if I oppose I shud leave n den after taking care for hours, I will have to cook n all. now my baby got stomach infection just bcz my SIL gave her tandoori parantha made at a local dhaba n my MIL gave old fridged milk sweet. n even if my hubby listens all this, he doesn't do anything. in fact he proves me wrong like u r just excessively taking care of baby. guys tell me,if a 10m old baby should b given food like this n dt too in rainy season
Hey dear, I faced similar problems though much milder than yours. Try to take your in-laws to the pediatrician when going for next appointment to the doctor and ask the doctor as if curious in front of your in law's about what to give and not to give to ur baby. When doctor will put it firmly in front of them they will be able to accept the situation in better way. Normally parents have already given such things to their kids at that time and think it's good for today's kids too without understanding today's chemical laden foods and think mothers to be overly protective or rather stupid. And for ur husband, I am sure he might have access to Internet. Ask him to check on internet on whatever thing to feed the baby or not. He himself will slowly understand the situation. Try to be calm in such situations. I know it's easier said than done but there is no use losing temper over it and making situation worse. Take care.
4 months old girl
20 hours ago
Hi mummies......I am alone managing my twins baby whole day....my husband is making food for us with my little help...sometimes not possible by him..And I am filling hungry frequently....can't eat maggie, pasta and outside food during breastfeeding... please suggest me some healthy snacks or food names which we can prepare quickly and can store for few days....if possible please tell me recipe....please help me
Same situation with me....😐😐sach me bahut problem hoti h ....Main to khana v khud hi banati hu...Manage krna muskil hota h.. Husband ko office v jana hota h...All day baby ko attention dena...Ohh ..Soya h to thik warna ...,😂😂...maine poha ko peanuts ke sath bhun ke rkha hua hai..Iske alawa mathri v bana skte ho....Kaju fry krke rkho......maine kheer v ache se bana ke rkha hua h ..Usko freeze me rkha hua h...Iske awala fruits v rkhe h.. Morning me main aksar...Masala oats,Oats kheer,chura milk and gur mix krke,sabudana khichri,poha e.t.c ye sb recipe jaldi bnte... Dopahar me rice dal.. Veggies or salad ..,curd ,khichri,night me husband ke support se kuch v mood hua bnaa lete h...Agar need puri krni ho to baby jb soye aap so jao...Me aise hi kr rhi.....
21 hours ago
Hii frnd muze meri Ek personal bat share karna he mere husband out of India rehte he wo mere godbharai k function k liye aye the function hone k bad nxt day Maine mere hubby la me check kiya to muze kch mess dikhe ....it's a conversation with prostitute n mess are like ur charges n body type pic n address of that girl .....wo sb Maine pada n main shock ho gai wo sb dekh k n Maine hubby se bat krna band kr diya 2 din tk bat nai ki fr maine unhe bataya wo mess k bareme to wo chid k bole wo unke frnd ne kiye hoge unhe b us mess k bareme me kch pata nai he.......ar ghusssa ho k chale k Gaye ...frnds main 5 th month me mere mom k ghar agai n wo udhar Ek frnd k sth rehte he....meri shadi ko 1.5 yr hua lkn itne din me Maine aise kch observed nai kiya tha even wo sutti k din me b muze chod bahar nai jate he ....lkn wo messs dekh k muze bht upset lagta kch samaj nai raha ky kru plzzz help me
I would like to tell u that nobody in this world is own. All are just selfish. So u too be selfish. Ignore everyone just enjoy. Just keep urself happy. Jo karna chahti ho bs Kar lo. Unke saath Jana chahti ho to der mat karo. Agar vo nahi le k jaate to unko yaha shift hone ko bolo. Fir b koi natiza na nikle to araam se unko bula k bitha k baat clear krlo. Gussa mat dikhao.pehle smjhao. Fir jo sahi lge kardo.
9 months old boy
a day ago
Helloo moms .ek galti ho gai h mujhse .mere husband mere sasur ji k sath delhi gaye h .unka check up karwane .packing karte time m unki time m unki waste belt rakhna bhul gai kyuki wo jeans pehen kar Jane wale the.last minute par wo capry or t shirt pehn kar chale gaye .to belt reh gai .or jo maine 2 jeans rakhi h packing m 1 jeans m button ni h .Aaj unka ph aaya bole pehle belt ni rakhi ab jeans m button ni h .or sasu ma se bole ki mere sare kapde nikal k Dusre room m rakh do.to sasu ma ne rakh diye .ab jab wo aayenge tab m kya karu bahut gusse wale h .Aap sabhi suggestions dijiye. Or aapke sath kuch aisa hua ho to apna experience bhi share kare.plz help me kya karu 😢😢😢😢
2 year 1 month old boy
a day ago
Moms help me what to do.. I tried to stop my milk putting bitter and my mil took this as an advantage.. She from starting makes me far from my husband and kid. Now since morning my kid is not coming to me as m not feeding him and my mil taught kid chichi Amma dirty amma no Amma. My kid is repeating no Amma. I asked thn to stop teaching kid negative about me. So my husband said that our relationship is cut forever and he dnt need me anymore. Pls tell me how to make my 2yrs old kid to come to me. If he comes to me he is stubborn and asking for my milk. M very depressed..
Don't worry. I can understand ur feelings. Some Mils will do like this. But watever as ur kid grows up he will understand the reality. As ur hubby supports his mom ur kid will start supporting u. If possible continue feeding fr few more months but have some timings. Take ur kid out in d Eve and play wid him. Go for a walk wid him. U fees him food. It's ur right to do. Have some reading time together and sing rhymes funnily. As the days passes kids will come to u on his own. U don't restrict him to go wid ur mil. Let him go. Keep teaching him good things with patience. It takes time fr kid to understand don't mind ur hubby or mil.
1 year 4 months old boy
a day ago
Me,my son 1 year 5 months old and my husband....,my husband goes to office and myself taking care of home and my son...,i m not going out becoz of my overweight ..I'm not getting time to do exercise or go for walking.., my son is very naughty..,and I can't follow any diet..,all household things are done by myself..,now I'm feeling very stressful and depressed and getting so much anger..,before two months only we shifted to Mumbai so I'm new to this place..,I'm not getting time for myself...,pls suggest me some solutions..,
You ll hardly fond any mother saying 'I get time for myself '. its in between your busy schedule you have to find time for yourself. I don't blv in dieting so wouldn't suggest you that. But you can make slight changes. If you cook by yourself then reduce the oil consumption. Instead of cooking switch to baking and grilling. Add more of vegetables and dal in your diet. Hog on oats/wheat bran whenever possible. Switch your bedtea with lemon honey water. As for exercise. you can do it while playing with your son or doing household chores. while brushing my teeth I do squats. crunches when baby is crawling. lunges while working in kitchen etc Find out what suits your body and routine and do accordingly.
8 months old boy
2 days ago
Hi momies,When can we start pot training to my bby who z 8 mnth old?? My mil insisted & husband order pot for him?? Is this rite to use or not suggest plz🤔🤔🤔🤔
1 year 7 months old boy
2 days ago
Hi My second baby born after 18th month of my first baby. Both baby are born through operation. Now to make the balance after birth of my second baby I kept my first baby at my mothers home and I am staying with my husband. It is just passed one month. Only on weekend as my husband have off on saturday and sunday we calls our first baby also. It has been observed in my first baby since I have left my first baby at my mother's home he get angry very frequently and while he get angry he through any thingh he have in his hand. He used to keep a cow toy in his hand and like to watch religious program of god krishna, shiv, vishnu etc. He watch tv for these late night till he did not get sleep.some time he feels sleepy but fourse us to on tv and mobile to wath religious program. Is it due to got getting proper love from parents however my mother and father love him and take care for everything fot him.
I have two babies n their age difference is 2.4 yrs now my elder son is 2.8 yrs n my lo is 4 months n im staying away from my native place with my husband n my kids....my mom told me that c will keep my elder son with her until my lo crosses his 1 yrs ...but I didn't agree with her ...n I keep my boys with me...I know it's very hard to look after both n do others work but still I m doing with my own ....as I know it will effect my elder son ...he will not share about his feelings n will think he is not a member n my parents didn't love him...n it will effect his development in every aspect....I have maid for 4 hrs to manage n my husband helps me ...n..I know I'm right with my decision
2 days ago
Hi mommies i have ek quiery mera blood group o-negative hai nd nera husband ka blood group o-positive hai doc ne mera test krwaya hai ICT ka indirect combo testing wala usme mera test results negative aaya hai toh wo thik hai na nd usme koi injection lgta h agr results negative aaye toh plz rpy kro
Hello Rinki. I had the same thing. My blood group is O- and hubby's is O+. If ICT results are negative it's good and normal. A normal (negative) result means that the mother has not developed antibodies against the fetus's blood. A negative Coombs' test indicates that the fetus is not presently in danger from problems relating to Rh incompatibility. You need a shot of Rh immunoglobulin (RhIg, aka RhoGAM), which will prevent you from making the antibodies and prevent harm to your next baby (if you have one). You’ll get another RhIg shot within 72 hours of the birth (if baby is Rh-positive). Consult the doctor. I had the same thing.
2 days ago
Hi all, After marriage once I checked my Hubby's fb and I saw before marriage he used to chat with so many girls and he had chat with him one friend that he had sexually relations with one girl that boy also know abt this relation very well when I asked him abt this he replied me I told my friend just like & I didn't have any relations with girl later on I thought let me exam of my husband if he truly loves me so he will tell me everything' so I create fake id of girl and chat with him but he didn't told me anything abt this Should I trust on him or not ??what should I do plz suggest me???
Hii Nidhi... Speak him directly about the issue and tell him clearly that only trust is important than hiding things... also Just Say him ull forgive him for his mistakes not gonna accept his lies if he do so.... even then he says I dont etc... make a screenshot of his chat ad ask him ...dont make it a big issue and fight bcoz its just a alarming for u to kne about ur hubby and react according... hope if he dont accept too, he will get panic in heart and feel bad of his mistake and not to repeat again... also tell him about the fake id chat tooo... let him knw ur watching him in all ways and its not easy to make u fool
2 days ago
26 weeks pregnant hubby bhi abroad me kaam krte hai...shaadi hui uske ek mnth me hi mai pregnant ho gai..firr hubby abroad chale gye mai sasural me rehne laggi toh 3rd mnth mai muje thori bleeding ho gai hospital bhi admit thi...uss incidnt k baadse dr ne bed rest ko bolla tbse mom k ghr pe hu..jb meri bleeding hui toh mere sasural walo ne mere hubby ko bharkaya ki maine apne bache ko giraane k lye aisa kiya jbki koi maa aisa kaise kr skti h..aur mai toh aise hi itni emotional hu bht pyaar krti hu apne bache se..ussitym se mere r mere husband k beech mai prblms h..ladai jagra..mere family ko toh itni nafrat krne lagge hai...mujse thikse baat bhi nhi krte abb...itna miss krti hu apne husband ko ki kaash wo saath hota iss tym me bt wo baat bhi nhi krta.... R aaj bhi unhone ladai ki r kaha ki abb unhe kisi se bhi lagaao nhi r apne ghr walo se sb krwaao...mai kya kru...bht ronna aarha h...muje kuch bhi keh de sehen ho jata h bt jb kaha ki baby se bhi koi lagao nhi toh toot gai hu....
Dont worry dear jab baby aa jayega tab ur whole world will change.kehte hai na bure din fir acche din bhi dikhata hai baghwan have faith in him and abhi ye time apne baby ke bare me sochne ka hai na ki us habby k jo is wakt tumhare pass bhi nahi.jus chill do shopping stay happy and u also avoid him for a while. Men will be men they dont love women but ha they definitely love d mom of ther baby,jab wo apne bacche ko haat me lenge he wil fall in love with you trust me.takecare dear.
7 months old boy
2 days ago
Hi all apse mene apne ex ke baare me share kia tha aur thnkx for all ur love and supportm But aap sab ne bola ke apne husband ko batao me ye kese karu uske pas mere photos msgs sab kuch he ye sab janne k baad mere hubby ne mujhe chod dia to koi b husband ye accept krega kya easily aur me apne abhi tak 3 no. Change kar chuki 4th sim jio ki but wo mere hubby ke call detail se mera contact nikal leta he aur obviosly me hubby ko nahi bol sakti no. Change karne ko. Bhut guilt feel hota he ander ke me us gatiya insan ki wajah se apne husband ko dokha de rhi hu aur mere pas solution b nahi he
Aap apne hubby ko bolo ko wo aapme interested tha... apko usne bahut bewakuf banaya h... Ar khud ko innocent batao apne hubby k samne ar maafi mang lo... bolo ab to galati ho gyi.. uski baato p vishwas kiya.. ab wo mjhe blackmail krta h... Par main apse bahut pyar karti hu... ar thoda pati ki kasam wasam kha k thoda emotional way me apne pati apne side karo... Ek aap hi jo baat bigadne se sambhal sakti h... thoda samjhdari se kaam ksrte hue.. ungli tedhi kijiye... Yaad rakhiye .. Aap khud ko innocent hi show karna ar sary galati us ladke k upar daal dena... Fir agar wo ladka kuch b kehna ya karna b chahega to wo uske hi against me jayega.. But apne pati kaise b ksr k.. apko apne side karna hoga.. Uske liye chahe aap sach bole ya jhut.. jo b karna pade karo.. apki shaadi ka sawal h.. Apko apne ko bachate hue apni shaadi b bachana h ar bahut samhdari se iss sab ko apne for me ar uss ladke k against me karna h... Apko bus apne pati ko apni baat unke jehen me utarni hai... wo aap socho kaise...
8 months old boy
2 days ago
hellli momiees .....yaar me bht chidchidi ho gai hu I hav. got d best husband in d world jiski mene umeed b nai kia tha waise h mere hubby pr fir b me.bewaja jhagra krne lagi hu choe chotw baat pr I need to hav patience n control in my anger kaise karu plssss. I dont wna aspoil my relation wit my hubby hes my.life n itne ache h qo.mere bewaja gusa krne k bawajud b kuch.nai bolte pyar se kiss kr ofc chale jate h aakr fir nrml behavior mje aisa lagta h q wo gussa nai h mere behavior pr ...pr achi baat h na wo gusaa nai h kya karu apne stupidity ka koi nai h jisse me baat kr saku islie yaha share kia hope koi mjse bat kre
Same with me...i also feel i hv best hubby n' i don't deserve such a nice person but m boht chhoti si bat pr b blast kr jati hu ya dusro ki galti pr unse ld jati hu or wo bs kiss krk kam pr chale jate.....its all bcz hm frustration kisi frnd k samne n nikal pate hmara loneliness he reason h Mene khud kp boht hdd tk smbhal liya h....ap b try kro....love d parson who loves u nd jisse itna pyar kroge uski koi chhoti moti bat which u don't like use ignore b to kr skte ho chaho to bad m calm dwm hokr apne mn ki bat bol do k ye bat apko psnd nhi aai thi Khud ka fault kaha h hme pta h frustration kis wajah se h wo b pta h to solve b khud he kr paoge Fir b jyada probs ho to go at psychiatrist fr depression nd counseling krwa lo wo b yhi btayge jo mene kaha h Changes to khudko he lana pdega behave m
A month old girl
2 days ago
can I change my FM nanpro to dexolac as my husband says he nanpronos very costly I can't afford once in 4 days,dexolac is little less I will get that ,or we will opt for cow milk in 4th month ,wat to to ladies plz suggest dexolac or cow milk
The more the cheaper brands the more less nutrients it has. No animal milk strictly before one year. You can change if it causing to much financial issues. But personally I wouldn't prefer you go for dexolac or lactogen or any such kinds as they comparatively contains lesser nutrients the others. Cow milk a big no. Why don't you express breastmilk and give?
2 days ago
Plzz help me mom's ...mene kuch aisa dead dekh liya h..Jo mere mind se jaa nhi RHA..uski wajhe se bp low aur breathing problem ho rhi h..mene meditation bhi kiya ..but koi fayeda nhi ...me akali rehti hu ghar pr ..husband ko bhi nhi bol sakti..mujhe apne mind se ye nikalna..plz help...
11 months old girl
3 days ago
Mei baby hone k bad bhot moti ho gai hu aur face bhi ajeeb sa ho gaya hai mujhe lagta ki mere husband ab mujhe pasand nahi karte aisa kyu hota h yaar husband kaise bhi ho jaye humare dil mei unke liye wahi pyar rehta lekin husband kyu badal jate hai unhe khubsurat ladkiyan hi kyu achhi lagti hai hum pure din ghar mei bachho k sath time bitate h sab kuch unhi ki khushi k liye karte h to wo kyu badal jate h
3 months old girl
3 days ago
My husband have changed a lot.... after baby he just ignored me.... not talking properly with me..... not being close to me... if I hold his hand na he ll leave my hand nd d0 other works..... my baby s 4 months old.. I'm breastfeeding..... dono Wat s making him to do so....I'm very much depressed. .. In anger I asked him dat u wanted to have a baby so u had xxx wid me.... now dat baby came ..u think ua work is over... so going away 4m me.... u just used me..... did I talk anything wrong .....pls help me
5 months old girl
3 days ago
After a baby I feel like me n my husband created some distance unknowingly. We got pregnant immediately after wedding. So there is still so much left to explore as couple of course along with baby. Need you guys advice on relationship.
3 days ago
My husband is too much inclined to my in laws. Its good that he loves them.But very often whenever my in laws talk against me he will never be in my support. If I talk anything against them he scolds me like hell. Ours is love marriage.What kind of love is this? This makes me hate my inlaws even more. Now its heights I am 7 months pregnant. I have concieved after 6 years of my marriage after so much struggle. My FIL doesnt want my MIL to come to me. My husband is blaming me for this. My mother is old and sick so she cant help me much. I cant take her support. Dont know whts going on in my life. My anger is increasing day by day...its not gud for my baby...
hello dear..mri bhi love marriage hui ..nd mere hubby bhi after marriage vo nhi rhe jo pahle the...maine bhi bhut mushkil tym dekha..bhut royi hu...khud ko pura bdlna pda...bhut dukhta ab tk mn...mee hubby to ab tk apne ghar valon se darte hai...isi dar ke karan vo mujhe khin ghumane bhi bhut km le jate hai..pahle bhut roti thi..ab rona km kr diya..kyuki kuch nhi milta rokr..nw i m a mother of baby boy..socha tha ab pyar bad jayega but he is always buzy with baby...meri taraf to koi dhyan nhi unka...bt i thank god to bless me baby....or dear wife kbhi vo jagah nhi le skti jo unki mamma ki hoti hai
4 months old boy
3 days ago
Meri mother in law muje sb me interfere kr rhi h Mere baby ko massage b thik se nai krne deti Nai nehlane deti Sb me jldi jldi kr k khatam kr deti h Or me agr unko nai krne du massage or bath baby ko to jgda krte h Mera baby proper massage na milne pr thik se so b nai pata.. Nehlane me b pani kam , bath me thik se body wash b nai krte Me kya kru Pareshan ho gai hu.. Husband kuch b bolte nai apni maa ko..how can i stop her..
3 days ago