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A Month old boy
2h ago

Hi.. m really stressed out.. please dont judge me.. my baby is 1 month old.. me and my husband decide to hire nanny as we are alone.. this is my first baby.. MIL has other commitments but she s ready to take care of the baby during the day. I am planning to resume to work in few days.. i will be usually gone for max 4hrs in the evenings. But here the problem is i am not able to trust the nanny i am really really insecure. As my baby is exclusively on bm she handsover the baby to me only in the night even when he iz not even hungry. Sometimes in the night he s little cranky and my nanny is not even able to handle him. He keeps crying. He sleeps in my arms or my hubby's.. i feel its totLly waste of money keeping her. Bcz i have to constantly stay around my baby.. so many times it has happened that my baby s shirt is wet and she doesn't even notice it.. what do i do.. inpite of paying her so much me and my hubby are awake till 3.30 every night.. contd..

13 Answers
your mil is ready to take care in day time and you are going to work in the evening for 4 hours then you can hire a maid just for 4 to 5 hours. when you are back let her go and handle your baby alone. you can get up late and plan your day accordingly.
2 Months old girl
3h ago

hi en baby ku 68 days aachu nanum en husband m color ah than irupom porakum pothu nalla color ah iruntha but ipo skine tone fulla kammiyakirichu skine tone increase panna enna pannanum evlo nall ku apram pannanum

1 Answer
hi dr babies epo erukratha vachi color predict pana mudyathu dr en ponnu porantga po she was blk but now she faded lookin pinkish at 7 mnth so dnt wry color increase pana babies ku ipo onnum pana mudyathu.. kulika soap la use panama kadalamaavu payathamaavu manjal kalanthu kulika vaninga sis pothum since ur brst feeding take fruits a lot and spinach tc..
8 Months old girl
4h ago

I am so much tensed. My baby is 8 months old. During 8th month pregnancy se hum dono me personal koi relation nhn h kyunki last pregnancy k 2 month me meri condition aisi thi ki muje sex kya hath bhi nhn lgvana acha lgta tha tb hum sath nhn sote the. Or ab uss vja se wo mujebulate hai pr husband wife wala relation nhn h. Maine bhut bar mnaya pr wo nhn mante. Wo bde bete sath sote h. Kya kru kuch smj nhn aa rha. Muje aisa feel hota sayad unka bahr ki trf dyan h. Pls give suggestions

2 Answers
What is there to be tensed you talk to him that you miss being intimate. Also explain to him that it’s not like last time and you don’t feel like keeping off him. Most importantly why do many wives assume that their husbands have affairs if they don’t show interest in sex! It can be the same reasons for which women say no namely tiredness, stress, added responsibility of kids etc. Maybe at this time he does not want it just like you did not last time; it’s not just women who don’t want sex sometimes but men too. Rather than assuming his intentions you need to have an open discussion with him on this.
Third Trimester
6h ago

Hi! plz mujhe suggest kriye main kya kru. Mere husband bar bar mujhe rented house me bina rent diye samaan ke sath chhor ke chle jate hn... Kbhi toh boht achhe se rehte hn kbhi ekdam dushman jaise behave krne lgte hn, mere gharwalo ki aur meri har jagah boht insult krte hn, responsibility ke naam pe apne parents ke pass bhag jate hn, main agr inke parents se support ke liye bolu toh wo bolte hn ki humne ise disown kr diya h. Mere inlaws humesha mere parents ko jhukne ki condition rakhte hn. Ab main apna samaan lekr apne parents ke pass reh rhi hu kyuki mere husband ghar ka taala tod ke apna samaan le kr apne parents ke pas chle gye. Apni job bhi bar bar chhor dete hn, apne parents se meri aur mujhse apne parents ki boht burai krte rehte hn, sbke relations kharab kr diye hn. Mujhe in logo ke sath apna aur apne baby dono ka future boht insecure lgta h. Meri tabiyat puchne ke liye ek call ya msg bhi nahi krte. Main boht zyada depressed rehti hu. Kya kru meri life spoil kr di h...

3 Answers
don't mind.. but if u can financially secure yours n your baby's future, dump your husband.. kyuki aapne Jo bhi kaha agr wo sach h.. n this guy is seriously doing such stuff.. then m sry to say.. he ain't worth being yours or anyones husband.. leave him n live in peace
A Month old boy
14h ago

Hi moms , I am planning to hire a nanny for my 3 months old baby . I don't have anyone to help me .My husband also went London . I am all Alone to handle my son. Please suggest ur opinion.

2 Answers
I would suggest you to get a maid to do all household work & you alone take care of baby. Why a nanny when you are there? Delegate household works to maid but baby you take care.
3 Months old girl
19h ago

Hi moms.. When my baby will be 4.5 months old we will be going back to inlaws place. Thing is I have been Co sleeping with her in my bed since day 1. Put her in cradle only for day time naps. Even when husband comes visiting I give him another room. Now when I go back the bed there is queen size and how will we 3 sleep? Should I invest in a crib? How do you all manage?

4 Answers
Instead of crib buy a separate mattress for you and baby and put it on the floor.. It's very safe for baby as she will start to crawl very soon..
1 Year 10 Months old boy
20h ago

Hi mom's My son is crying a lot suddenly,I don't know reason,he is 2years old and he has 13000white blood cell count,my husband didn't bring antibiotic 4weeks before test it is,so I can't understand the reason

1 Answer
Third Trimester
Feb 17

Ladies this is bit personal pls share your views if u have experienced d same , I m mom of 4 mnth old girl she is completely on BM, is it d reason y my breast size has increased a lot, I m very depressed cz of tht, I used to be slim b4 nd I nvr bought large or xl clothes, now a days I feel not to buy anything 😏 is thr anyone who felt d same, will the size decreases with tym, please share right exercise link from YouTube if u know, my husband also don't like big breast though he nvr say anything bt i know 😒😒 pls share?

4 Answers
don't worry Dr this is normal when you are breast feeding even I was always underweight before my pregnancy after pregnancy and delivery I have gained lots of weight I used to search for XS size clothes now my clothes size became L. Brest size will be normal when you stop bm Don't take stress after 6 months you can do exercise and walking slowly if your mode of delivery is C-section. Till then enjoy with your baby take proper food baby will be healthy. Take care 😍
Third Trimester
Feb 16

My husband always wants me to talk dirty to him during sex. According to him, he gets arouses by dirty sexual talks. What should I talk to him?

9 Answers
That u and ur husband must b knowing what to talk.. How is this related to pregnancy or child care that u r asking here????? U both must not be newly married so u must b knowing ur husband and his demands from day 1 so now y r u asking such things here... Stop asking such questions if u r really a female...
4 Months old girl
Feb 16

Hi mommies I am a mother of 4 and half months old baby girl. I don't now what has happened but after delivery i have started getting irritated a lot especially with my husband. I get angry on small things. Is it postpartum depression??

1 Answer
it happens ... due to sudden burdern of new things.. new responsibilities... hormonal changes.. tiredness... it happens with me too...
12 Months old boy
Feb 16

Hei dears. Have you ever notice that whenever we came to our mom's place the baby is very active energetic and only needs our mamma. Because my little one was very energetic when im visiting my home. Every five minutes he goes in search of my mother. He only needs my mom for everything. Only comes to me when he is sleepy or hungry. His every milestone happens in my house. But when im going to my in-laws house he is not like this. He goes to everyone's hand but not that much energetic. He is not in search of my mil, whenever he goes with her after five minutes he in search of me. But in my house he always busy with my mom. Eventhough we meet her once in a month, but when my mom touch him he laugh like he miss her hugges her kiss her. Nothing happens with my mil when we go back to husband's house. Im very much happy that he remainds my mom he miss her. And their bond is very strong and lovable. Has anyone experienced this,?

5 Answers
Hi dear, my experience is different,today i came from my sasural. it was my daughter's first birthday and we visited that place after 1 1/2 years. my baby was so active there she played with everyone and really enjoyed her stay. my in-laws were so happy. my mom was also there for 4 days but she loved her dadi and nani equally. I think we are happy at our moms place because of that our baby is happy and energetic. sorry mai apki baat ko katna nahi chahti sirf Mera experience share kar rahi hu
8 Months old girl
Feb 16

Hi frds nenu coper t veyinchukundham anukuntuna yenni days wife and husband kalavakodadhu plz cheppondi

1 Answer
veyichukunataoudu me doctor cheptharu
5 Months old boy
Feb 16

Hi momies sorry to ask personal question but need help, I hv came to my mother home, my husband doesn't call me .. he rarly call just to see our baby.. but no phone calls to ask abt me.. I called him 3 times today he did not pickup. I told him I won't call him again he also dint call back . We have issue,, thanks to my mil and sis .. but I feel so hurt that he does not care about me..I am tired of caring him and nothing in return ! I also feel like not caring and not to call too.

7 Answers
leave him n enjoy with ur baby if u want go somewhere else then u go with baby be dynamic in my relative one aunt has same problem she leaved thinking of hubby she took her son everywhere that she wanted to go she is enjoying her life individually if her husband want to join with them she allows him if not she will enjoy
6 Months old boy
Feb 16

URGENT Moms.. Please please help..i posted question that my husband had Beatan me..my mom called him and mere husband Bilkul apni mom ki galti Nhi maan rahe hain interference ki wo meri mom ko bol rahe hain k main jhoothi hoon Aur unki mom general help Karne k liye suggestion deti thi baby ko Lekar (interfernce Nhi tha) aur bol rahe hain k unke Mummy papa hamesha meri meri help karte the Ek percent Mujhe support Nhi kar rahe hain na meri baat sun rahe hain bol rahe hain hum is topic par same page Par nhi aayenge to better hai close kar do topic what to do now.. Jab tak unko realize Nhi hai k main Sahi Thi tab tak wo samjhenge Nhi in laws k ghar Ja kar same Wahi hoga Sab.. Kya karu please batao Mujhe samjh nahi aa rhaa k unko Kaise realise hoga

2 Answers
6 Months old girl
Feb 16

I dunno this may sound silly .but I have seen many of u posting that u have been missing being with ur husbands and they are far away from u,either they stay abroad for work or they are at their home and wives at mom’s place during their initial months after delivery. Mine is a love marriage though,i do love my husband a lot.Been staying at in-laws place for few weeks & then few weeks at mom’s place .This time I really stayed here for a month at mom’s place and I really don’t feel like going away from mom and getting back to my in-laws. My mom keeps her home tidy and everything in place.But there everything looks messy all the time.Even if I try to keep it clean no one cooperates to maintain it the same way. I wish to move along with my husband and stay. So once a while even my mom can come stay with us as well as my in-laws .I just feel I need our own space. At my mom’s place I have the freedom to anything I want but @ in-laws even in terms of taking care of my baby I get criticised

2 Answers
I completely agree with you. same is with me too. whenever I visit mom's place I never feel like coming to my in laws place ..there is no proper sunlight also here.i hate staying here. I just come back as hubby can't stay without kids especially my older one..I miss my family so much. so had to come back. 😞😞
6 Months old boy
Feb 16

My baby is on top feed. I joined ofc after 6 months. My husband is using pacifier for my baby to make him sleep. But I heard using pacifier is harmful for baby. Kindly advice nd help me

2 Answers
Second Trimester
Feb 16

Hiii....mom's... Mai bohot Preshan hu...mera 5th month start hua h ...aur mujhe 1,2,3 aur 4th month mai vomiting nhi hui...but tb mai calcium aur folic acide ki goli khati thi...aur fir mai 4th month mai doctor ko apna 1st level wala ultrasound dikhane gai thi...to us ne dawai change kr k mujhe calcium aur ferrous ascorbate and folic acide ki roz ek goli khane ko di hai...aur jb jb mai ye goli khati hu us k 2 ghnte bad hi mujhe bohot vomiting hoti h jo bhi khaya hota h sb nikal jata h...maine apne husband se bol kr goli chng kra di but us ne kaha ye goli zaruri h...aur wahi medicine dusri company ki de di h...but usko lene se bhi mujhe vomiting ho rhi h..aur agr mai wo ferrous ascorbate and folic acide ki goli nhi khati to mera pura din acha jata h kuch b nhi hota.... Ab smjhe nhi a rha m kya kru...koi meri help kr skta h...k mujhe kya krna chahiye....??

7 Answers
dear same condition meri b h...mje 6th month chal rha h..mje b doc ne tablet di h use kha kr vomit aati h...aap us tablet ko kha kr kucch kha liya kro water piyo or thod walk kro..apko jrur relief milefa
6 Months old girl
Feb 16

How to become a SUPER MOM ? Rejoined office 3 weeks back. M in unsatisfying state now n feeling so guilty. Husband is in abroad. 7am : feed my baby BM8am : I will leave home to office9am : MIL gives Ragi Porridge to baby12pm : I come back n feed baby BM n I will go office again by 12:30pm : MIL gives cooked n smashed vegetables(small amount)4:30pm : I come back n Feed baby BM4:45 - 5 pm : Gym(since m overweight n want to shed off my pregnancy weight)5:15 - 6:15pm : walking along with baby6:30pm : I give her homemade cerelac 7-8pm : i play with baby8pm : baby sleep timeIn my maternity leave I was only oil massaging n bathing n doing all stuff of baby work. Now m missing all those. I m doing more than I can. But I want to give all my duty to my baby. Pls suggest me how can have more more n more more of bonding with her. When I m back home I can see her willingness to come to me.my state of mind is not explainable. No one to share all these.

15 Answers
hey dear u r already a supermom 🤗 you are actually doing all the right stuff. good that your baby has got a fix schedule by now. don't feel bad , u r earning for his safe future only. and feel lucky that u stay near to office that u can come home to feed him. all moms can't afford to do so. if u want to massage and give bath to him, u can do that at night before he goes bed. that might make u feel better. but be assured u r doing absolutely fine 😘😃
6 Months old girl
Feb 15

Hello moms, help me. Till now someone used to assist me to clean baby poop. They used to hold baby. I used to clean baby poop. Now I'm leaving for my husband work place. I have to manage all alone. How to clean baby poop all alone single handedly?? My baby is rolling. Not yet sitting. So please suggest me accordingly.... Thanks ..

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haha... reminds me of my days.. keep 2-3 dry sheets n wipes handy... if baby is wearing langot or pants n has pooped in it.. first try placing baby on mat.. with one hand hold baby's legs . n quickly with right hand.. remove wipes only after that remove the langot.. as baby myt mess up.. then clean baby properly first.. then place baby on some safe place.. I had got a playpen.. so I used to place baby in the playpen.. then clean all the mess.. if baby is cranky for sleep or food.. then I use to transfer everything as it is.. in bathroom n first attend to baby's need.. then do the cleaning stuff.. ps.. use baby wipes to clean your hands as well.. post cleaning.. as u can't leave baby unattended n rush to bathroom for cleaning your hands.. I hope my tips help you.. gud luck mumma
First Trimester
Feb 15

Hi aaj meri mil ki vjah se mere aur mere husband ki bahut fight hui and husband ne mujko thapad mare mujko kuch smaj nhi aa rha feel like dying

3 Answers
What a monster!!! No politeness to that man.. just eat your food and sleep and better ignore these animals who treat woman who is pregnant like this ! Shame on being a man and that too the man whose baby you are carrying..
10 Months old girl
Feb 15

Hello friends...My baby is 11 months old. I missed my periods so I took home pregnancy test twice and both came as positive. I don’t kw how this happened we took precaution during intercourse after delivery hardly we would have had 4 times intercourse. Also I delivered my princess after 4 years of trying. I am confused I kw I n my husband have decide. If any if you faced this situation Plz tell me wat all you considered to come to decision. I have given blood samples for beta hcg.

9 Answers
Hi , I would personally ask you to keep the baby.. your first baby is 11 months old and by the time you deliver she will be 17 or 18 months and if you have help in the form of parents or in laws then it’s a blessing and should go ahead with the pregnancy..
2 Months old girl
Feb 15

Peehar se 2 months delivery ke baad bache ko lekar husband ghar gayi hu( not inlaws house) means jaha me mere husband ke sath rehti hu vo ghar... without visiting inlaws house and our kuldevi.. kya iss waja se baby ko health issues ho sakte h kya.. coz me jabse aayi hu yaha,, mere baby ko kuch na kuch ho hi raha h... Please please please answer.

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This depends on your belief system. Not going to in laws house will not cause any harm to baby. Even I have family temples where we need to take new baby; my nephew was born premature so we took him there much later and he was fine. So do make it a point to visit your Kuldevi but it can be at a time when you & baby can travel without discomfort.
8 Months old girl
Feb 15

Hi my baby is 7 months old.Im staying with my mom's till now and yet to move to my husband's place.Hes good enough but doesn't know or interested in baby activities.my mil is good but she's not quite healthy .I should soon go to my work and worried how to leave my baby with her.My mom is insisting me to leave baby with her (my mother in native) and you guys go to it work because she's not likely to hire any maid to look after.please help me out I'm sleep less thinking of this

1 Answer
you can go to your home and hire maid. if your mil is old not active then atleast she can manage baby with help of maid. else if you are comfortable leaving baby at your mom's place and doing job then it's your wish. in my opinion better to keep baby with you and manage your job as well. many moms are doing you can also do.
10 Months old boy
Feb 14

Hi frns plz na personal pbm ki solution evvandi meelo avaraina face chesi overcome ai undochu nakem cheyalo ardam kavatle.ma athama gayyali asalu orvatle nannu ma amma home povadhu antundi na husband ki leniponivi cheptu ataniki naapi prema taggela chestndi atanu manchodu kaani e madyala suffer ai nannu tittadam chestnadu aame valla alochana lekunda antunadu nenem chesina nachakunda chestallu na husband m aitado ani bhayamestndi naku

1 Answer
me husband cool ga unnapudu clearga cheppandi me athamma behaviour one day he will realise
Few Days old girl
Feb 14

Hello moms. Please don’t take me wrong. I delivered a baby girl on 16 jan. I love my princess very much but i find it very difficult to cope up with the routine. I feel very depressed and guilty because i am unable to give breast milk to my princess as my lactation (milk production) is very poor. No one is here to help me. I have maids around me but i cant trust them much. My MIL is a very toxic personality . She do not take care of my baby for a single minute. But start pretending as soon as my husband arrives at evening. I just want to know how much time it will take me to adjust in this new life. Is it normal or i am not a good mother?

78 Answers
hello dear.. don't be so disappointed.. I m mom of a 7 month old baby and I exclusively breastfeed my baby for 6 months.. but for that I had to fight a lot n under go a lot of stress as my mil n my fil n my neighbor (who didnt bf her baby) kept on pressuring me for giving the baby fm.. according to them I wasn't producing enough my milk.. but I could understand that my baby wasn't crying out of hunger.. then I started doing frequent visits to my babies doctor n whenever I used to visit I kept on asking the doctor that is he getting enough milk or not n his doctor would tell me everything that ur child is absolutely alright n he is doing great with his weight (I mean gaining perfect weight).. but it was too tough for me to convince them.. they were like doctor talks no sense..my mil used to say I feed all my kids fm and they were so chubby n my baby is not.. whenever my baby used to cry they were like 'look he is not getting enough milk so he is crying out of hunger' then I started convincing my husband.. I told him everything.. initially he was supporting his parents saying they handled more babies n they will know better.. but I request him to ask his friends, colleagues and who ever he trusts that what is better for a baby bm of fm.. after his research he was convinced that I should continue with bf.. and he asked his parents not to force me in this matter.. n along with all this I used to have foods which r good for increasing bm and I used to drink 6-7 ltr water a day.. that's how I won my battle.. while parenting u ll get plenty obstacles which u ll have to cross with patience n determination.. good luck n be stress free.. stress could be a reason of low milk flow..
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