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Questions on Getting Pregnant
Few Days old girl
Feb 11
45 Answers
hey why are you sounding so depressed. these people either family, relative or society they have only one job to make depress, create every negative thoughts. my baby is on fm from day one. i never had bm inspite of every remedies and lactating tablets and what not but no results at all. people around me create such a scene like baby will be weak, ill all time, not grow proper, might not be average child, anemic blah blah list is too long. but my mom told me motherhood ia not only n only bm its also includes love, care, nurture, cherish, be a part of his innocence and list is very long. let bark the dogs and focus on baby. when baby will do good people have tight slap on their faces. thats what happening. his height, weight, hb everything is growing as per standard mark. one of my relative gifted pram to my son with the statement -" pity child cant even have mother feed. look he will sleep in it till one year atleast very easily as he is not having motherfeed so he will definatly not grow n so on." when my baby was 7 months old his legs can touch the prame boundry. and today he refuse to sleep as he is grown up and not fitted in while sleeping. this is the slap to her. baby who is on bm is also get attracted to other family member as they understane love only. so chill let them say whatever. focis on baby. thankful to god that you are a mother, still you can care, nurture your babies, see them growing. just go and consult doc for it. they dedinetly have some solution for inverted nipples. invest your time, thoghts, energy on right thing. look out for sultion
Third Trimester
Feb 8
43 Answers
oh god, I can't understand y a lady is blamed for such things. nobody wud like to lose her baby. even abortion gives guilt to many. firstly, as ur husband is supportive Enuf, be strong. tell ur mil n sil that it's ur womb first. it's not in ur control. n it's most devasting for urself to face miscarriages more than anyone else in this world. u have to say this once. n wnever u say such things to shut other's mouth, say them only In front of ur husband to ur in laws, n not in angry mode but in disappointed mode. so that no one can either accuse of or alter ur words. secondly, take a second opinion from another doc. about wt had been the reason for past losses n wt cud b done to prevent them. I too had one miscarriage,n my second doc suggested Bharglo(not sure about spelling) injections every month.they r started before or from wn u plan pregnancy, till 3months of ur pregnancy. this worked for me in my second conceiving. thirdly, definitely pick a job but make sure u can leave it as soon as u start planning. as when u r having fertility related scans medicines n other things, u r already too much stressed. n that really affects it. if not job, then join something of ur interest. it wud b easier too. u will enjoy it n wud b away from such people as well. n tat too without stress. my example- wn I get to know I have multiple issues I decided to quit my job n joined French classes. I went ahead until I got pregnant. n that was the best phase. I was partially occupied. rest was also there. I cud frequently visit my doc as well. n learning made me away from stress too.
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