Questions on Emotional Support
A Month old boy
Hi.. m really stressed out.. please dont judge me.. my baby is 1 month old.. me and my husband decide to hire nanny as we are alone.. this is my first baby.. MIL has other commitments but she s ready to take care of the baby during the day. I am planning to resume to work in few days.. i will be usually gone for max 4hrs in the evenings. But here the problem is i am not able to trust the nanny i am really really insecure. As my baby is exclusively on bm she handsover the baby to me only in the night even when he iz not even hungry. Sometimes in the night he s little cranky and my nanny is not even able to handle him. He keeps crying. He sleeps in my arms or my hubby's.. i feel its totLly waste of money keeping her. Bcz i have to constantly stay around my baby.. so many times it has happened that my baby s shirt is wet and she doesn't even notice it.. what do i do.. inpite of paying her so much me and my hubby are awake till 3.30 every night.. contd..
Hi! plz mujhe suggest kriye main kya kru. Mere husband bar bar mujhe rented house me bina rent diye samaan ke sath chhor ke chle jate hn... Kbhi toh boht achhe se rehte hn kbhi ekdam dushman jaise behave krne lgte hn, mere gharwalo ki aur meri har jagah boht insult krte hn, responsibility ke naam pe apne parents ke pass bhag jate hn, main agr inke parents se support ke liye bolu toh wo bolte hn ki humne ise disown kr diya h. Mere inlaws humesha mere parents ko jhukne ki condition rakhte hn. Ab main apna samaan lekr apne parents ke pass reh rhi hu kyuki mere husband ghar ka taala tod ke apna samaan le kr apne parents ke pas chle gye. Apni job bhi bar bar chhor dete hn, apne parents se meri aur mujhse apne parents ki boht burai krte rehte hn, sbke relations kharab kr diye hn. Mujhe in logo ke sath apna aur apne baby dono ka future boht insecure lgta h. Meri tabiyat puchne ke liye ek call ya msg bhi nahi krte. Main boht zyada depressed rehti hu. Kya kru meri life spoil kr di h...
A Month old boy
Hi moms , I am planning to hire a nanny for my 3 months old baby . I don't have anyone to help me .My husband also went London . I am all Alone to handle my son. Please suggest ur opinion.
11 Months old boy
Hubby k pass time hi nai h week days mei offce n weekend pe frnds n family k sath busy.. M pissed of my lfe handling alone my baby .. Smetyms feels like isey paida kyo kiya meri hi resposiblity thodi h sirf mere akele ka baby to h ni..he dnt hav tym fr us .. Kya kru sb tarh se samjha liya unhey roker pyar se daatker baat bnd kr k .. Bt nthng works.. Wt should i do??? 😭😭😭😭😭😭
4 Year 6 Months old boy
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Hey all, wud like to share one more issue here itself. that this cudnt b the only reason for not getting answers to other parenting questions. it's been a previous problem as well, when all this mess wasn't there. I had been a user since long n I know people always complaining that they hardly get any answer,including me 😔 the thing is forum isnt sorted in a proper way it shud b.. firstly most hyped post Come up.. then v see the questions as per our frnd list or followers thirdly, there is no sorting criteria like it comes in latest to oldest. it just comes up randomly. so if one question is raised, it might go very low in the scrolling n once unanswered or less answered, it will remain the same. even I never got more than 2-3 replies wnever I put my question. so this mess wasn't the only cause to it, it's a general setback of tinystep which shud b looked after as well. thanks to all for ur helpful alliance in getting this mess end.
4 Months old girl
Hi mommies I am a mother of 4 and half months old baby girl. I don't now what has happened but after delivery i have started getting irritated a lot especially with my husband. I get angry on small things. Is it postpartum depression??
7 Months old girl
When can i give bath to my baby without anybody's support..i mean til how many months i have to give bath in lying position...she is 7 months and not sitting yet
5 Months old girl
Hi guys.. my baby gonna complete 6 months happily. .. i am very much excited to start solid foods.... should I giv water for her? Which water is best? How many times hav to feed her initially? She is sitting wit support only.. so in which postion hav to giv the food? so share ur experience and giv some tips ...😊😊😊
hi u can give water boiled water is best u can feed 3 times in between u can give milk u have to give food in sitting position only u can give homemade cerelac raagi porridge banana boiled apple all boiled veggies ghee avoid too much salt n sweet while preparing don't give food forcefully u have to give 1 food for three days preferably in morning to notice food allergies don't give food in lying position
8 Months old girl
Hello all plz help Day by day my baby is becoming cry baby 😭 She don’t like to eat anything she don’t want to play alone she want only me with her. Agar usko nAi lu to bahot roti hai Mai akele rehti hu ghar mai hubby office jate Din bhar isko leke ghar ka kaam is not possible.. in fact sometime I have to skip my food 😓 bahot pareshan hu plz help
6 Months old boy
URGENT Moms.. Please please help..i posted question that my husband had Beatan me..my mom called him and mere husband Bilkul apni mom ki galti Nhi maan rahe hain interference ki wo meri mom ko bol rahe hain k main jhoothi hoon Aur unki mom general help Karne k liye suggestion deti thi baby ko Lekar (interfernce Nhi tha) aur bol rahe hain k unke Mummy papa hamesha meri meri help karte the Ek percent Mujhe support Nhi kar rahe hain na meri baat sun rahe hain bol rahe hain hum is topic par same page Par nhi aayenge to better hai close kar do topic what to do now.. Jab tak unko realize Nhi hai k main Sahi Thi tab tak wo samjhenge Nhi in laws k ghar Ja kar same Wahi hoga Sab.. Kya karu please batao Mujhe samjh nahi aa rhaa k unko Kaise realise hoga
6 Months old girl
Hello moms, help me. Till now someone used to assist me to clean baby poop. They used to hold baby. I used to clean baby poop. Now I'm leaving for my husband work place. I have to manage all alone. How to clean baby poop all alone single handedly?? My baby is rolling. Not yet sitting. So please suggest me accordingly.... Thanks ..
haha... reminds me of my days.. keep 2-3 dry sheets n wipes handy... if baby is wearing langot or pants n has pooped in it.. first try placing baby on mat.. with one hand hold baby's legs . n quickly with right hand.. remove wipes only after that remove the langot.. as baby myt mess up.. then clean baby properly first.. then place baby on some safe place.. I had got a playpen.. so I used to place baby in the playpen.. then clean all the mess.. if baby is cranky for sleep or food.. then I use to transfer everything as it is.. in bathroom n first attend to baby's need.. then do the cleaning stuff.. ps.. use baby wipes to clean your hands as well.. post cleaning.. as u can't leave baby unattended n rush to bathroom for cleaning your hands.. I hope my tips help you.. gud luck mumma
7 Months old boy
My lo has started eating semi solids. Someday he eats thrice, someday twice. Even his eating quantity is not fixed. He is only 7 kgs. He sits with support and not for more than 5-10 mins. He's active. But he feels comfortable being lying on his back. He can roll over but doesn't like to. I m little worried.. please help :(
5 Months old boy
Hi moms y does a women life so bad only inlaws family shd b taken care if v take care our parents its crime n even if parents r died inlaws n huaband will nt spare thm in tellng bad abt thm n a guy will luv n get married to a girl once marriage is done luv will vanish only a formality called marriage will remain but no luv n wen v giv birth to a baby it as said n treated as v r the only source of delivering a baby n hav no other rights on our kids n som times even hubby r inlaws strt scoldng to a small 6 months kid...y everythng on a girl y...???? Y such life whr parents r nt allowed to com to daughter house n inlaws no luv n even hubby selfish no care n no luv frm him neither financial support....😭😭😭
Hi all,Thank you for your support 😊 I delivered a boy theough c section after 3 days of hectic labour pain n different induced methods followed here in Norway 🇳🇴 All d pain n c sec mental n physical breakdown was worth bearing for d little heart vch use to once beat inside me now in front of me ❤️ love to all n all d best to all d expecting mommas 🤰pregnancy rocks😊🤰
At my home we are only 2 me n hubby...no family and family support...I came to my parents house my dad is retired army man, after retirement his pension is just 21 k salary was 65k...whatever he got in bulk amt he is investing in commity share market and wasting here and there...mom dad keeps on arguing on these financial issues...my expanses are not matter of concern my hubby will send money for me but I don’t want to listen all this nonsense...my dad is not listening to anyone of us and investing money here and there...my 6th month is running should I go back to my home??i can’t take mom with me otherwise my dad will waste rest of the money and my dadi will call Bua ji and give my parents house to her...earlier also my bua ji was staying in my parents house free of cost as we were in army quarter...now my dadi wants to give our ground floor to bua ji again...so when dad is not listening relatives are planning to occupying our house in this situation I can’t take my mom with me😞
i was alone throughout my pregnancy...not dat nobody cared but ppl have dere routine life...also pregnancy is not disease, just phase in life..so i would suggest to keep maid or help & return to ur home if u not getting mental peace at place u r currently staying & avoid undue stress. read good books, listen to music, go out with hubby on weekends & enjoy ...
1 Year 6 Months old boy
Hi Mommies....my 18 months old premature baby not yet started walking....any suggestions how can I help him.....he walks with support
7 Months old boy
My baby is 7 months and five days I give him half apple in morning till 11:30 a.m. after that I give him banana half in afternoon anytime and in evening around 6 to 8 p.m. I give him Suji halwa .and breast milk any tym all day nd nite 8-9 tymd.his weight is 7.5 kg .he is very active baby .he still sits with support only,rest he is fine .he don't eat vegetable puree .is that ok or should I do something for his betterment please guide
10 Months old boy
Hi moms i m very unhappy and worried for my 10 month old baby.my relative have also 10 month old baby abd he is able to stand and walk.but my baby jst trying to stand with support.what should i do for his milestones.should i worried for this milestones!!!!
8 Months old girl
Urgent!!! Dear moms..i am the one who was beaten by her husband yesterday.. My Mom called him and said to visit alone to talk as he is mu daughter's father and we have to spend our lives together.. But he said I will not come let's have a mutual lawyer and get divorced.. I said I will not give you divorce do whatever you want to do.. Shall I pick his call and send pics of my daughter to him as I want to teach him a good lesson and want to minimise the intereference of my mil.. I am very much angry.. Pleaze suggest the next action..
4 Months old boy
Mommies my son is 5 months old. Touch wood he is calm and quite. I stay alone with my husband. He enjoy playing lying on bed listing to rhymes and I do my chores simultaneously. He never cries for feed. If I don't feed him in 4 5 hours still he never ask for feed and the moment I put FM or BM onto his mouth he starts sucking. He feels hunger but never cries. My supply got low from few days and I feed him more FM. His diet is also not much as per the months. He is active Healthy has Gud weight. Im confused how much and when to feed and Is it okay if he doesn't cry like other kids.
Hi all beautiful ladies.. I have been blessed with a baby boy.. He looks so like me.. Thank you for the support. Hoping the same in future.
3 Months old girl
Hi friends ... I want to share my experience of post delivery m first time mother ..my daughter is 3 months old I am taking care of my baby all alone from morning to night without help of anyone...my husband most of the time bzy over phone playing games and watching movies n all...Three months I went out only for only 5 to 6 times in a car and .that's only for half an hour not more than that bcoz my daughter is on BM n my husband don't like it if I feed in a car so I don't have any option to go out ...I have no one to talk ,😥😥😥don't have parents even my husband relatives don't call they don't ask about my daughter how's she .?? Nobody cares even my sil don't bother I don't have in laws too .... I feel very lonely n sometimes I feel m going into depression....whole day sitting in one room make me sick 😥😥😥pls moms helps me what to do how to make myself happy .... 😥😥 Before marriage I did a job also I have never been like this i had been always happy girl pls help ..😥
first lots of love and hugs to you😘😘 cheer up you are a strong lady. infact we all are really really strong as we all sail in same boat.. we are with each other.. you are not alone.. dear whatever you just wrote is the situation with almost everyone. being mother changes everything..most of the times we miss old days that freedom.. affection.. but dear remember when water gets stable it starts stinking.. for it to be pure it should keep on flowing.. same way our lives should keep on flowing.. but it doesn't guarantee a smooth sail.. these all are phases and shall pass. calm down you will acknowledge once you will get through. just dont expect anything from anyone.. keep moving.. be positive stay strong.. this will pass and we all will be a winner.. take care and rekax.. just listen to your fav music once baby sleeps.. and try to relax that time.. leave everything else.. 😘👍😊
Hi friends.., am at my mil's home now n am 6month ,she only preparing food but not all preparing food with any side dishes....am a vegetarian ...and my hubby supporting his mother ...in this stage how can i eat without any vegetables.... tell any solution plzzz
1 Year 1 Month old girl
Please help me...my mil is very dominating lady.ghar me unse puche bina koi patta bi nhi hil sakta hai. meri mil ka behaviour mere liye worst.she hates me.meri lo 1 year old hai.and meri mil roj subah 1 fixed timetable lejar khadi ho jati hai ki poore din me kis time par baby ko kya khilana hai.mai apni marji se apne babu ko kuch khila pila nhi sakti.agar mai apni marji se kuch bnati bi hu apni baby k liye to meri mil us chij ko fenk dwti hai par muje apni baby ko khilane nhi deti.she also decided ki mai baby ko kab nehlau kya kapde pehnau aand all that.my husband supports his mother.agar mai unhe kuch kehti to wo ulta muje hi baate sunate hai ki meri mummy teri beti ki achi health k liye ye sab kar rhi hai to jo bi wo kahe chup chap wahi karo.in logo ne mere room me camera lagwa diya hai taki har time mujpe nazar rakh sake. just hate my life.i am totally depresed.i feel like a maid who just care of their baby.please suggest me mai kya karu.....
1 Year 9 Months old boy