Questions on Emotional Support
1 Year 2 Months old girl
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1 Year 2 Months old girl
Feeling depressed and low at times, since I sit with the baby all alone the whole day. Yes MIL is there but after going for work for nearly 8 years this sudden break of 2 years feels like I lost the connectivity with the outside world. Doesn’t mean I don’t love being with by daughter . I love doing everything for her. Has anyone faced this ? What do u do to overcome such a situation
1 Year 3 Months old girl
Please don't close this app yaar..its very much helpful...feeling like one of my best friend is leaving me alone...☹☹
4 Months old boy
Hello mom's my baby 4 and half month ho gya wo Abhi 2,3 mint without support sa uske sitting a gye but hum usko sitting karva sakte h kya koi problem to nahi
3 Year 1 Month old boy
Good Bye Ladies... It was nice to be helped & to help others... keep supporting other moms & would be moms in whatever way u all can around you/online/on other apps... Share n spread good & useful information & try to stop others from spreading lies, myths & rumours...All d best & Happy Parenting 😊
10 Months old boy
Before tinystep closes the app, I wanna thank all those who have been of great help during my pregnancy and motherhood... Monika, neha saini, jass raman dehion ... Your responses made my pregnancy easy...also sharing ideas of motherhood with the few friends I made here made my journey of motherhood reelieee easy...... Apart from this a big thank you even to those who posted ridiculous questions on hubby, relationships , affairs etc etc... They kept the entertainment factor alive in the app.. I feel sorry for those who tried opening their online shop here, now even that ll closed... 😅good luck to each and every one.. Stay blessed! Feeling reeliee emotional 🙄
4 Year 6 Months old boy
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Hey all, wud like to share one more issue here itself. that this cudnt b the only reason for not getting answers to other parenting questions. it's been a previous problem as well, when all this mess wasn't there. I had been a user since long n I know people always complaining that they hardly get any answer,including me 😔 the thing is forum isnt sorted in a proper way it shud b.. firstly most hyped post Come up.. then v see the questions as per our frnd list or followers thirdly, there is no sorting criteria like it comes in latest to oldest. it just comes up randomly. so if one question is raised, it might go very low in the scrolling n once unanswered or less answered, it will remain the same. even I never got more than 2-3 replies wnever I put my question. so this mess wasn't the only cause to it, it's a general setback of tinystep which shud b looked after as well. thanks to all for ur helpful alliance in getting this mess end.
10 Months old boy
My boy s 10 month old but he s not sitting alone... Tillnow im placing pillow near him... Wat to do..
1 Year 5 Months old girl
Mommies am in more fear don’t know with whom to share am alone sleeping in room I kept my windows doors open just now suddenly I listened some genz voice in husky voice I don’t know what they pronounced getting more fear how can I stay alone in home n al ful day my hubby will come at 12 o clk .. my home in city surrounded my buildings I never felt this type of situations before
11 Months old girl
11 Months old girl
Perhaps my last question here I have 3 daughters, one toddler and twins My husband has been supporting me in family battles of giving away one of our daughter to others, specially to his sis. He is just hvng one concern in his mind that even wn v have 3,we will b empty once our daughters will b married. I know v all think,k tab tak kya bharosa kesa time hoga or ladke kon sa abhi b sath rehte h. Even i dont think of it Problem is, v r hvng arguments every single day har baat pe He complains of getting no time for himself n all. Always frustrated over everything.if i tc of him, he says i dont need to n just b there for kids. Wn i dont, then he starts complaining. Nowadays i give meals to all 3of them bcz my mil isnt giving proper meal to my daughter n she lost her weight I m trying to do wtever i can n think that nobody else b in pain bcz of kids. Even though i m d one who wasnt willing for thwse twins n these people were adamant to continue twin pregnancy Continued in comment
till date, every day of mine has a moment, when i regret about my decision of keeping both of d twins or even to tjink about second baby wn i see my toddler getting beaten n abused by mil she takes care of my toddler but abuses her a lot. bcz of her anger, my daughter has become so aggressive.she hits, she slaps, she shouts. she was remarked as the sweetest child in the whole extended family. i also feel guilty to think negative about my kids. i have no parental support at all, of any kind my marital life is becoming hell day by day all this may seem very common n just a matter of time, but i m failing to hold this anymore my hubby n i r just hvng the relationship of his financial responsibility for his wife n kids. i fear of spending any minute with him now, that it wud only burst into another issue have spoken to him many times but no use. he accepts for that moment n the same behavior again. what shud i do shud i just ignore him n let our relationship sunk or i shud b trying more, bcz i m already exhausted in upbringing 3kids. mera to kuch raha hi ni ab, kuch smj ni ata mje. sulking in depression plz help
7 Months old girl
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Dear moms....meri beti 3 months ki ho gai h..second baby h ye mera... C-section deliveries rahi dono n complicated bhi...meri beti raat bhar soti nahi hai bilkul bhi...phle to main mamma k paas thi...wahan din me so leti thi..bt ab main sasural me hun...ab manage krna bahot tough ho raha hai...main depression me ja rai hun...plz plz plz koi tareeka btaiye jisse iska din me sona or raat me rona km ho jaye...main ise colicaid pilati hun..nabhi pr hing pani me melt kr k lgati hun...mera doodh km ho jata h iske liye to extra fm deti hun..bt iske raat ko na sone ka or rone ka reason nai smjh aata...aisa hi raha to pagal na ho jaun...is pr bahot gussa aata hai...or din me so nai pati..plz help
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I am tired of my in-laws. They think that only their daughter has got all the problems. Don't take me wrong. I understand that it's normal to have concern about their daughter. But they never understand our problems or you can say they don't think that we have any problems. We both are working full time. I had one miscarriage and struggling to conceive again. Instead of supporting me emotionally,she spread the news about my misscarriage when nobody knew that I was pregnant. Whenever we go home they never give us importance. Only their daughter and her kid as they live in the same town. I feel so alone and depressed that will I be pregnant or be mother someday. But they never visit us because how their daughter will manage the kid. Jabki their daughter has full time 2 maids and she is a housewife . I don't feel like talking to them now. I have started to hate them now.
12 Months old boy
Moms please tell am I mentally retarted or sick?1) I hate my mil to that extent that can’t see my husband and mil together..if he normally talks to her I get very angry2) My thoughts are my husband only loves his mother more than anything else not me not my baby3)I start hating my husband from that moment when he speaks a little about my mil in our conversation4) I don’t want my mil to get involved and live alone with hubby and baby5) she is snatching my husband and they (my mil and husband) don’t want to loose their love for each other..as per him if his home breaks then it’s fine 6) our fights goes to that level that we forget that we are husband wife and beats,says those words that you don’t want to hear7)she is reaching to his heart and I am falling down 8)my anger has reached to that level that I am absolutely ok with divorce and not seeing my baby face my in-laws and husband says i am mentally sick please advise as I can’t afford dr consultation due to financial crunch
hey! you know I also, think the same way about my mil and I feel that she is very much involved in me and my husband's decisions. but if you give her so much importance, to the extent that you are ready for a divorce, then you're definitely doing something very wrong which you will highly repent in the future. I'm absolutely in the same situation right now but your reaction will only increase happiness for your mil. you want that?
1 Year old boy
I need ur help mommies..recently we shifted to new flat and my elder son is behaving weird..it was an eve when we shifted here and there was no curtains in flat..so at nyt when we pit light inside we can see our own reflection in windows and he started saying there is ghost luking at all windows..he behaved like afraid and used to follow me wherever i goes..mrng when we wokeup there was sunlight everywhre so reflection in windows was gone and he became normal during daytym..my hubby bought curtains for windows so that at nyt he wont see reflections..bt now again he is behaving weird..following me always not sitting alone etc etc..in kitchen window we cant put curtains and he is sayung there is ghost..he is luking everywhre with big eyes which is making me also mad..daytym he was very normal..i told him its our own reflection..wht shld i do..he is walking behind me holding my clothes
1 Year 1 Month old boy
Hi roshni je.kaisi hai aap. Plz is baar aap is app se nhi haityega.we all r missing you. Har jagah acchai ur burai dono hoti hai. Jisne aapko jo kha use to mai nhi janti pr mai aapko janti hu. Maine aapki acchai ko parkha hai. Aapne jaha tak sambhav ho sabki madad ki hai. Sabko reply diya hai .wrna aaj ke date me kaun dusro ki pareshani ko smajta hai ur sunna chata hai .aapne sabko help kiya so we all r missing you .plz don't leave us alone. Aapke saath ek rista ban gya hai. Meri koi bahan nhi hai .isliye mai apni bahan manti hu .plz don't leave me.
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1 Year 1 Month old girl
Hi my daughter is spitting what ever I give like rice with curd, rice with anything she's spitting... Fruits alone she eats .... Very poor eater ..what to do? What to give for a fussy eater?
If it baby doesn't like rice then don't give.Give other meals , make pancakes with fruits & give or milkshakes .Start with small amount of home made meals & try to understand which food baby likes to eats it may take some days to understand her .Give different items to eat & keep trying .It may b difficult to make her eat but not impossible.So have patience & keep trying 😊
1 Year 7 Months old boy
I m feeling so alone this is tge only app where i share my feelings..husbnd hav no tym busy in office tours n work n at home he is busy wth mobile he have no intrest in me as well in physical reletion should i doubt on him?? 😢😢😢he sleeps in another room frm last couple of months..
these are not reasons to doubt him. how doubting him will solve your problem. you need to talk with him. if he has no time or interest you can take initiative. have proper conversation. tell him what you feel and what you are not liking. ask him if he is at home do not use mobile and spend some time with you and baby.
11 Months old girl
I handle my twins alone at night n its not manageable to leave dem even for a second. Now they will be one year old soon. I wish to start normal milk which v r hvng, but going to fridge n kitchen isnt possible during night time. Once they r up, they dont even allow a second to make even fm Plz tell me if there is anyway or equipment, which can store milk without letting it spoiled in room and to heat it a bit when it needs to be given Right now, i m using flask of hot water for making fm.
Start animal milk to them slowly... in starting, give diluted milk. slowly decrease the water content, depending upon the digestion. I always used the good life tetra pack milk. They r not thick,but not watery also. They won't spoil all night. I used to buy small packs.. 1/4 ltr and 1/2ltr. If I need ,for both babies,I used to put milk in 2botlles and happily sleep . I used to give cold milk,. it is convenient for us. If my younger one awake 1min in night... if he see us, without sleeping,he will.become active.. and he will not sleep for next 3hrs. so.. I always keep bottles filled with milk.on.my bed. I give them in sleep,they will drink while sleeping. After growing up,they will drink warm,and hot milk slowly.. Now Wil do as per our convenience
1 Year old boy
Mommies plz help me. My elderone is 3 and half yrs and his weight is 15.5kg..my baby turned one year bfore 2 weeks and his wgt is 11.2kg. Still my neighbour lady tortures me that my kids luk so lean wht u are feeding them etc etc. She wants to make us feel that only she is a gud mom and we all else are waste. So i am avoiding her . I dnt talk to her now. My both kids luk very fair and she comments ohh ur kids turned black they are losing colour also. No other person says like this. I jst feel to slap her. When my mil came home aftr 2 months to visit kids she appreciated me she said am doing great job handling alone everything and kids also luks so healthy. Bt this lady is daily waiting to see me to demotivate me.
if your mil is praising you (which is very rare😂) then why you are bothering random person. next time tell her that she doesn't need to worry about your babies and you love them the way they are nd next time stop criticizing your baby. say directly on her face. if I were you I may be not tolerate her even 1 day.
1 Year 4 Months old boy
Hi I'm a housewife and Bf mom. Undergone c sec delivery. Handling kid alone. nowadays I'm very much depressed. Always I feel tied and I can't able to do daily works. I'm getting anger for silly things, taking things very seriously, crying , being irritated . Very big change in my character , sometimes I feel like I don't have anyone to concern about myself and baby and ill start to cry. Always I am trying to find out my character whether the problem is in my side . Why I'm like this? Is there any problem with me ? Plz help me mom's .
11 Months old boy
My 14 months old baby doesn’t sleep at night..it’s 4am and he is awake..I am going into depression have to wake up early..what to do maine suna tha bacche starting k ek year tak raat ko jaagte hai..ye week me se 3 din Raat ko Nhi sota..baki din theek rehta h..he has no pain not crying..today he played well..had dinner also..i really can’t take it anymore..bed par tikta Nhi hai raat ko agar main so jaungi to neeche gir jayega..
Don't allow baby to sleep after 4in daytime. u can put mat on the floor and sleep. lock the door.. and be careful that, nothing are available to him, which causes harm. put some toys to him.. he will play . u can sleep. and make him play in the evening.. he will get Tired and get sleep. Make room dark with no sound and nobody than u,and make him sleep. he will.cry for 10-15mns .. but will sleep. it worked for me
11 Months old boy
I feel so alone..I am very emotional by nature..but my husband is v much practical..this is arrange marriage..I loved a guy who treated me the way I wanted after that another person liked me so much and approached for marriage but my sister was not agreed..now this is a result I am not happy and have told my husband my wishes too hundred times but he doesn’t give a F*** he says I am like this only from 30 years..how should I change..to whom I share my feelings mer hubby sirf mere sath ego me rehte h thodi si baat par bhi
dear you are comparing 2 different person in 2 different situation. what responsibilities your boyfriend had except loving and caring about you? does he earned for you? does he saved for you? does he need to think about your basic needs? real life starts after marriage. even though you had married same guy situation will be same that you are facing right now. men are always practical and women are emotional. that's the way they are made. women takes time to move on but men never take time. I am sure he must have find some other girl. be practical. I know you do not like your husband the reason is that you are comparing. stop comparing both. try to develop understanding with your husband. if he has ego then you take initiative to make things sorted. accept the way he is. stop living in dreams look after your family. enjoy with them. give yourself ME time. go out make friends. it's ok if you go for groceries or to buy daily needs. be independent. most important just be happy. tc