9 Months Old Girl | Jan 9

Hii frnds.. 😊😊 We all want to be happy and live our lives but dont you all agree that many times the people around us dont allow us so.. They leave no stone unturned in order to make our lives complicated and worse!! I had answered a question yesterday regarding a woman who has 3 daughters but wanted a boy child so wants to opt for 4th conception.. Many of you liked the answer and appreciated me personally too.. The questioner too was satisfied.. then again i read her post which extended her grief as her family want her to get RID of one of her daughter so that she can go for boy child.. !! Frnds today i will share a story.. And thats for you my anonymous frnd and other moms who are in same situation... Plz take out some time to read this.. I wish it could at least relax your mind and help in making a better wiser and responsible decision.. Also to come out of the dilemma that you all are going through.. Continued in comment section..

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Jan 9

This story is of a 19 yr old girl.. who was ambitious hard working and doing really great in her life..
she married the love of her life early.. leaving all her dreams behind.. as for her.. her love of life and starting family with him was greater and first and foremost..!!
she delivered her first child at the age of 20.. she was a girl child.. everyone was not happy but was like..
ok she is just a first child.. and forced her to conceive again..
she delivered her 2nd child at the age of 22..
and the child was girl again..
this time extreme pressure of family changed her husband's attitude too towards her..
they continually used to fight and her hubby sometimes used to beat her up too..
yes that LOVE OF HER LIFE!!
she was clear that she wont have 3rd child for all the reasons that i had mentioned in my reply for that post..
her inlwas insisted her to give away her 2nd girl child so that she can try for baby boy..
due to which and no support from husband she did that.. !!
and gave away the piece of her heart to one of her relative..
they legally adopted her..
she delivered the 3rd baby at the age of 25 and that was again a girl child..
though her family tried thier level best to know the gender but couldn't!!
they now turned monsters and beating abusing was now regular for them..
due to negligence and bad health following that.. baby passed away when she was just 24 days old..
this time the lady couldn't take anymore and stood firm for her elder girl..
husband decided to divorce her!! when he couldn't prove her characterless he tried to prove her mentally disabled and took divorce..
her elder daughter caught typhoid in all these hustles and passed away at the age of 7 yrs..!!
her inlaws were sorted they got thier son married again.. and now karma had something else for them now.. as it was time to pay..!!
ever after 5 yrs they are childless..
after all treatments like ivf iui and everything known to the medical science they are unable to have child!! forget about baby boy.. !!
someday his mom went to a pandit to show the kundali of her son..
the most amazing thing came out of that..
he said..
"there is no child line and such blessing in the destiny of your son.. all that happened earlier was the destiny of your daughter in law that made that happen and atleast your son was blessed with baby girls to even called a father!! now nothing will help"
guyys.. can you all actually believe that.. !!
the woman of the story is none other but my cousin.. !!
we all helped her come out of that trauma... she married her childhood frnd 2 yrs back..
and now delivered a baby girl 3 mnths back.. i m helping her in her journey of motherhood.. and she is happiest now..
and we are now not bothered about that man and his monster family!!
frnds plz tell me how do you feel after reading this!!
dont you think we should go with the flow and let karma work!!
ladies who are in similar traumas.. plz stay strong and take firmer and better decision for your baby and yourself..
rest leave everything upto god..
and remember KARMA NEVER LOSES AN ADDRESS..
stay strong dear stay happy in all situations.. there is lot to come..
keep going and say..
"jo bhi hoga dekha jayega.. "
take care. lots of love to All😘😘😊👍

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Neha Gupta

Reading this filled my eyes..

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Aakanksha Sharma

Jan 9

First of all @neha ur story was heartbreaking and at the same time enlightening.. my heart goes out to ur cousin that she had to suffer child loss not once but twice because of such monstrous people... And i hope and pray that may her life be filled with happiness now.. i too have a story..
My masi.. was married to a man, who on paper seemed quite perfect.. but wasn't..
They were also trying for baby since many years and had undergone many treatments... But her husband didnt want a child anyway..he didnt want any kind of responsibility towards wife or child.. but just fr d sake of society nd due to my masi's many urges and relatives pressure he agreed for another ivf...
This time she concieved twins...
She was very happy... That was around the time of my wedding so she couldnt attend because she was on bed rest..
now..she was facing some issue in her throat from long but everyone neglected nd didnt get her properly treated...
sometime slong the pregnancy it was found that she has cancer in her throat nd that it has reached critical stage already..
nd she couldnt be given treatment due to her pregnancy...
but she was determined.. all she wanted was to give birth to her children..
she soon became worse and was bed ridden...her rest of the pregnancy continued in government hospital....where no proper treatment was provided as the husband was hoping the soon she dies he gets rid of her and the babies altogether...but god always has diffrnt plans...
she gave birth to twin baby girls and was 17 kg at that time.. she died the next day..
her body survived along with the babies for nine whole months miraculously just because those babies were meant to be born...
she couldnt see them as they were in nicu and she died next day..
and ger husband and mil refused to take the babies ...as they were girls...again my mom and some relatives talked to the mil and tried to knock some sense...saying that she died to let them be born... please. just take them...
her sil and mil are now raising those babies..
they are the most beautiful angeks i've seen..
i just wanted to say..that babies are god's gift...and people sacrifice literally their lives to bring them in this world...pls.. fight fr ur girls..
🙏🙏🙏🙏

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Mahima Sangram Singh

Jan 9

hi Neha, your story is very heart touching and lesson too, for people who always demand baby boy. As I am expecting, since the day my in laws got to know about, they are always chanting " bhagwan Kare pota ho", I have been so fed up with these things that I always use to say, I want a baby girl, and I vl have the same. Me being the first daughter of my parents, my mother too never thought when she was carrying me, 26 yrs back that she wanted a boy, so these kind of things irritate me alot. The only reason my mil gives is as my husband is the only boy, who will carry out his name. Though my mil is very nice, but I get so much irritated whenever she says ki pota ho. My parents have brought me up really well, and they never discriminated between me and my brother. So I also want to be blessed with baby girl, there are people who say if its first baby boy, then you are tension free. And I really hate such mentality, I wish I could do something to change such people mentality, that girls are no less than boys, they are even better, in every field.

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Dr Akanksha Suman

Jan 9

Karma never loses an address, it’s an eternal truth. And feels happy for ur cousin dear. 👌👌👌. We all should praise n applause for the brave lady, that despite all the hardships she faced, she get up n leading a blissful life with her daughter. Hats off to your cousin👏👏👏👏👏👏. Convey my best wishes n good luck to her Neha. God bless her

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Ishani Punj Mehta

Jan 9

Such a heart touching story. People who get children easily dnt value them.nowadays there is huge line of people at hospital who r fighting infertility and pray for one healthy child. I have seen people going for Donar eggs/sperms, adoption etc just to have that feeling of being parent.
What ever karma did with her husband is well deserved. Such people who dnt value children should feel the pain of being childless....
May God give immense happiness to ur cousin...

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Jyoti Bk

Jan 9

heart touching ❤ feel motivated and fresh thanks for sharing☺☺
i am a mother of little princess and no matter what happens gonna fight for her
gonna give all happiness to my little princess😘😘😘

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Pratheeba Vasanthi

Jan 9

Omg...Good lesson for that monster family...how difficult for her to bear all those pregnancy complications and delivery pain and body weakness and at the end losing those little angels...how a women is responsible whether she giving birth to a girl or boy baby...scientifically speaking it is the sperm that decides the gender of the baby...first we need to educate this to those stupid people who r taunting women for not delivering a boy..😡 I wish ur cousin to have a haappieee and wonderful life😊😊😊

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NEHA SAINI

Jan 9

@mahima..
may god bless you with what you want and whats in your destiny..
leave rest.. world is already burning and is never happy..
you stay happy in your small world always..
god bless😊

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Rucha P Trivedi

Jan 9

ohhhh dear such a heart touching story.... lots of hugs to your cousin and appreciation for your family to bring your cousin out of the trauma.... I am blessed with a baby girl and if I got pregnant again I would ask God for again a girl... my husband is the only son but still my in laws never wanted a baby boy.... my sil also have a daughter. and due to severe complications in my pregnancy I don't think my in laws will anytime pressurize me for a baby boy.... I feel really luck to deliver a baby girl.....

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kareena

Jan 9

What goes around comes around. Her ex in laws wont pay in this life only, will also pay in future life as well. no idea where this world is going. Bless her baby girl and hope she will bring new hope for her mother.

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priyanka datre

Jan 9

very heart touching...we can conclude that we should b strong and no matter what face the world for our princess..in today's world girls r not less than boys in every field...b strong and raise ur girl childs with proud...I m proud to b mom of little angel🤩😘

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Nidhi Singh

Jan 9

really Neha I can hold my tears 😢😢
how c managed yr god bless her with all happiness .
it's really heartbreaking story .
really dil se dua h aise devils ko kabi aulad naseeb na ho ....

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Nirmala Vyas

Jan 9

Really heart touching Neha. no words to explain my inner feelings. I also have two girls.may god bless her and give her long life with lots of happiness to every child .

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Naina ACharya

Jan 9

heart breaking story.... :(
I hv baby boy but ppl still forcing me for onthr baby cz they want girl child.
......No one can satisfy this ppl

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Misha sharma

Jan 9

Got tears in my eyes while reading😭😭😭😭. I heartly pray k bhagwan g apki cousin ko itni khushiyan de k unko apni life ka wo bitter past kbhi yaad Na aaye. May god shower his blessings on the cute angel😘😘😘😘😘😘

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Shimona Endri

Apr 2

my husband n my MIL they treat me n my daughter as if we are doormats. they even try to take away my daughter from me. as of me I'm a doctor highly educated from a very good family where girl n boy are treated equally. n now here I fall into a family in such a pathetic condition. I hope n pray things will change soon😔

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NEHA SAINI

Jan 9

@deepa.. yes dear aap sahi ho..
ki thi police complain..
but again patriarchal society..
use hi characterless prove karne lag gaye sab..
and started blaming that she is mentally disabled.. and thats why lost children..
they hide all proofs which said that they demanded baby boy..
unlogo ne web buna ki use alimony ya maintenance kuch na dena pade..
she was that much mentally tortured that time ki hume darr tha ki koi koi suicidal attempt na kar le..
isliye kisi bhi tarah uss family se peecha chudana theek samjha..
unka kuch bhi claim nahi kiya and agreed the divorce..
bhagwan ne to de hi di saza dear unhe..
aur uski ab beti hai 3 mnths ki usme hi wo ab teeno betiyo ko dekhti hai..
may god always bless her.. 🙏

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pratibha sharma

May 5

story of my house is quite different but ya with two sisters. I m the eldest daughter. when my mother was pregnant with my sister, my chachi used to teach my cousin brother ( my taiji's son) tht my mom wud deliver a baby gal ( as it's said tht whatever kids say abt babies gender before their birth is generally true). my chachi didn't want my mother to have a boy. when my sister was born, no body was happy. my mother was worried. my chachi had delivered a boy a year ago my sis was born. today my sis is doing her PHD in IIT and my chachi ka that beta is doing some private job. both finished their graduation in the same year.

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Gayatri Bharti

Jan 9

dear neha...I am not able to say any word....it's a heart touching story...and a lesson too hats off to ur cousin...I pray for her happiness.

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Anjum Khan

Jan 9

hi Neha ye zindagi ki hakkikat h logo Ko khin bhi chain nhi boy ho to khte h ek beti ho jati to family complete hojati girl ho to khte h next time ladka hojai to achcha h Khandan badhega or ye sab jo girls k against Bolte h k areeeee ladki huye h to in me bolne wali zadatar khud ourat hi Hoti h jinhe ladki k hone se aitraz hota h ager hum ourat khud hi girl Ko boy k Barabar value den na to duniya me kisi mard ki himmat nhi k ladki hone pe apna muh khole ye hamare hath me thodi na h k ladka ho ya ladki areeeee uper wale Ko jo Dena tha de diya uski marzi paida karne me tklf to Barabar Hoti h Aisa to nhi k ladka hone pe kaam or ladki hone me zada Hoti ho to fir demond hum q krte h k ab ladka ho jai AAP perwarish per dhiyaan do na ki beta ya beti or god ne jo bhi diya h uska shukr Ada karo q k kuch logo k Naseeb me to wo bhi nhi..... ....

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