Third Trimester | Apr 2016

Hi I am in big confusion plz help me To day i want to hsptl and again they did pregnancy test and they confirmed that I am pregnant so nurse said com in evening doctor will come at 7.pm But now my husband relitevs saying to take time and do abortion but my husband saying of ur 4.or 5 weeks pregnant than do carrying if ur 2.3 wks then don't carry I don't know what to do plz help me after how many days this pregnancy will be confirmed rplz waiting for reply

114 Answers

Nov 2017

Generally, pregnancy can be confirmed by 45th day from the onset of the previous menstrual date. My cycle was 33 days and I waited 45 days before confirming it...

Mine too is an early pregnancy... We'd not even completed 4 months since marraige.

Yes it's wise to take time before a baby comes in... But we can still get close after an early pregnancy.

My husband and I are proof of the same. We too thought of ending the pregnancy in its early stages bt quickly decided against it.. Because, it's not the kids fault for growing in our belly.
We should have been careful. Now that she/he's here, give it a chance... If it's destined to grow along side your developing marital life, it will grow... Don't discard it...

After all, later who knows if we may regret the abortion... But surely, we would not regret continuing the pregnancy.

Trust me when I tell this, feeling the baby and your tummy grow, fighting against ever increasing dress sizes will bring you more closer... Cherish this pregnancy...

Relatives will have a whole load of craps and comments... You do what's right... Don't heed to everything they say..

There are people who end one pregnancy and worry later in that they don't conceive again. The mushroom like burst of fertility clinics stand proof for the same.

When you get a kid naturally, why would you want to risk a later conception with unnecessary medical aid and wastage of money, time, effort, self confidence and peace?

Think we'll before any decision...

Hope you take the right decision and have a happy pregnancy... 😊

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Komal Jagasia

Sep 2017

We never plan our baby. Its all gift of god to the lucky people as there are many ladies who all are waiting for this. Please welcome your child with full heart as it will increase love between both of you.

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Kinnari Solanki

Oct 2017

Dont go for abortion. consider it as god's gift and Carry your child. Abortion will lead to depression and many other side effects to u. Many times conceiving after abortion becomes difficult. Suggest u to continue your pregnancy. Everything will find way and your child will bring happiness to your family

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Saraswathi Ponmudi

Nov 2017

Don't abort your baby because I had also done the same blunder why I Am saying like this because in my 1st pregnancy everything went smoothly I had no problem it was very easy too and I had normal delivery for my 1st baby, after that I aborted after 5 years again I Am pregnant now but this time am facing lot of problems which I didn't expect am having low lying placenta doctor said not to travel and adviced to take full bed rest (24x7)and it is very difficult for me now,so I kindly request you to not to abort.

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Shagun Walia

Sep 2017

4 5 weeks or 2 3 weeks doesnt matter. both are same things. you and your husband sit and discuss why you must carry and why u must abort.. the logical reasons for both. and take a combined decision.

in early pregnancy anyways, abortion can be done only with medicines.
confirmation is very easy.
goto a chemist and get urine for pregnancy tests from 2 3 brands. test all of them with early morning urine sample.

these days, lal path labs are available near majority of places. just go there and tell them do your test for pregnancy, they give the report by evening if sample given in morning. and the report is accepted by all doctors. your doctor wont tell you to repeat the test if u do it in lal path.

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Sneha Singh

Jan 2018

its strange tht u dint think even a bit before having unprotected sex but u r thinking so much about aborting the baby... the baby has come to u because of ur mistake..its nt the baby's mistake so y r u even thinking of abortion?..how can u kill a tiny living being who is inside u and is ur own blood and flesh? i am sorry but i think u r being super mean instead of being a super mom

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Amola Darekar Sharma

Sep 2017

Hey dear, it's very difficult situation.. As others have said it's difficult after abortion to get pregnant again.. But it is also very much important to see whether you and your husband are ready to become parents.. If he is not yet ready then don't force him because then he will be unhappy all the time in future.. I have myself gone through the same situation.. My husband is not that much loving our baby.. Though we mutually planned pregnancy.. Its the most important decision of your life so choose wisely after going through pros and cons..

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Stuthi Bh

Oct 2017

if this is your first pregnancy and financially well off then don't abort as v don't know whether we ll conceive again.. if your hubby supports abortion then fine, if it's u who want abortion but not hubby then ull be blamed in future if u don't conceive...
I have seen cases where they conceive after abortion and miscarriages.. it depends on body reg conceive

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Sapana Nikhade

Sep 2017

Hi Swati, I disagree with all above advices. My best friend got preg aftr 2month of Marriage. But their emotional, mental n financial condition was nt suitable for the baby. She got the abortion done at 7th week.
If u feel u cnnt giv the best of u to the unborn life. It wld b injustice with unborn life as well as you n ur husband.
having baby is completely new phase of life, start it only when u r ready for it.

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Shivani Bariar

Oct 2017

Hi there, we could not make out your problem statement. Is it that you are still not sure if you are pregnant or is it that you are under family pressure to abort the child. Please note abortion is India is illegal and have to be done only before 20 weeks that too under certain medical conditions.

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Gayithri Gayee

Nov 2017

You are the Lucky person. Because my sister have married on five yrs ago still not she pregnancy. I have married on 30-05-2016 now I had one boy it means shows one time it comes only god gift not at all. we can't analysis when we want baby so you are tell him in clearly. God bless u . Everything is shows to many ways. please coming ur child bringing a lot of happiness to ur family.

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Poonam Sajotra

Apr 21

its a Gods gift...accept it with all the happiness. just imagine its such a miracles. people crave to get pregnant. consider yourself lucky that you are part of the creation of life. Please dont abort your baby .its amazing to see them grow and turn out to be such good human beings ...god bless you and your baby

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Priyanka Sutar

Dec 2017

being a mother is 3rd new beginning of a women.. i know its difficult for u and ur husband to manage every things in sudden cases but is these fault of ur unborn life?? why to kill him b4 seeing the world?? isn't u r taking it wrong decision?? many womens r eagerly waiting for these days bt only few r there who get this as god gifted?? plz accept it

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Shobhana Boobalan

Oct 2017

Don't get me wrong, but u pls don't listen to ur husband's words in this matter.

truth or not, conceiving is not entirely on our hands.. u say it science or god or timing or fate.. anything.. but u don't know what for sure.

I'm married for 7 years. n got conceived only last year. now mother of 8 month baby.

nothing we can do.. all depends on various factors. it's a gift. pls don't abort. u cannot just create a life whenever you want. that's all I can say.

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kiran chawla

Mar 10

Dnt worry about the future....... its a gift of god even my husband and i had an unplanned pregnancy, at once I thought of abortion bt thnxx to my husband he supported me in the best possible manner and now the word ABORTION seems like a curse..... welcome ur baby with big heart and unplanned pregnancies are the best and healthy one soo go for it 👍🏻👍🏻

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Priyanka Devendra Thakur

Mar 11

hey... i think this happen to soo many people... hmari shadi ko just 5 months huye the when i hav conceived.. me n my hubby both were not ready for this surprise.. then i went to dr. to avoid my child as some reletives suddgested.. bt when i met dr. she told me that dnt abort becoz 1st baby is gift of god.. she gave us time to think twice before any decision..
after two three days i saw some blood n i thought that i hav lost my baby.. i cried a whole night bcoz i was regreting.. it was like i hav killed my own baby.. next day we went to hospital n dr. said my baby is absolutly fine.. this was the best feeling ever...now i hav cmpltd almost 5 months and i am soo happy about everything...

i will strongly suggest you plz do nt abort ut baby otherwise u will regret..u r lucky to hav ur baby... think twice thrice before any decision... all d best

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Karishma Kotecha Kotak

Apr 29

hello dear ...even same wid me also we married nd after 3 months m pregnant m now 8 month pregnant ...we decided to carry baby as its god gift nd to have a child is so wondefull experience we both take it as previllage...nd child is the reason who makes the life more lovely...but after all its totaly on you both what u both going to decide rather ask anybody u both should seat nd think together nd than decide

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Divyashree Bharati

Jun 10

my case is typically similar...we had thought of having a full 2yrs for ourselves before planning for kids...but then i conceived within 6 months of marriage...and then we took whole 2days to decide whether to abort or proceed...my inlaws and also mu parents have advancely warned against abortion..moreover thinking about the might-be-complication ahead due to our decision over abortion may become the reason of regret later...so summing all these thoughts we decided to go with the flow. and now i am hardly a week away from my due date. and everyone is excited for the new member.

dont worry...everything jappens for a reason...we need to gain the strength and vourage to cope up with..

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Thilaga Prabu

Sep 2017

if less weeks or more weeks passed don't abort . because if u want to try conceive next time is impossible . god speaks to us in many ways but that ways is only babies.

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Sonal Soni

Mar 12

its god gift... don't go for abort this tiny one....i had miscarriage on my 1st pregnancy. ..n then m realy worried about the next conciveing....bt fortunately i pregnent again within one n half month....even Dr . suggested me to wait till 3 months after miscarriage n when i got it i was very shoked n tensed..bt after that all going normal. .. it's totly god gift when they wanted to serve us then only v get it...accept it what u have n be blessed...👍

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