4 Year 6 Months Old Boy
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Hey all, wud like to share one more issue here itself. that this cudnt b the only reason for not getting answers to other parenting questions. it's been a previous problem as well, when all this mess wasn't there. I had been a user since long n I know people always complaining that they hardly get any answer,including me 😔 the thing is forum isnt sorted in a proper way it shud b.. firstly most hyped post Come up.. then v see the questions as per our frnd list or followers thirdly, there is no sorting criteria like it comes in latest to oldest. it just comes up randomly. so if one question is raised, it might go very low in the scrolling n once unanswered or less answered, it will remain the same. even I never got more than 2-3 replies wnever I put my question. so this mess wasn't the only cause to it, it's a general setback of tinystep which shud b looked after as well. thanks to all for ur helpful alliance in getting this mess end.
10 Months Old Boy
i have a strange problem with my baby.. he did not refused him food... whatever food i feed he eat.. sometimes its overfeed he take vomiting.. example 5 pm he ate small 2 bananas after 7 pm he take bm and 8pm i feed dhosa he happily eat.. 8.30 i make him sleep with bm he take vomiting. but after he happily active and again sleep with bm.. now my problem is how to know this is the food limit for baby.... because he did not refuse to eat so i think he is in hungry.. then i over feed.. please mommies tell me how to know
y r u frequently feeding baby...if baby had 2 bananas at 5 pl dere is no need of any food or bm for atleast 3 hrs. again dosa at 8 & bm at 8 30 is definitely overfeeding & too much mixing of meals. understand babys hunger ques ... he may become cranky or try to grab food u r eating wen he is hungry.. decide 3 meal times & 1 fruit & rest all milk on demand & may fixed time fr bm before night sleep or first thing in morning or before afternoon nap...
7 Months Old Girl
what if breastfeeding mom eats everything like chana.. rajma.. urad also fast food like momos..burger springrollsetc everydaybut baby is digesting ..does this effect baby in long term...baby is overweight
Hi, anything in moderation is fine. So enjoy your junk craving. Secondly moms junk junk food has no correlation with baby’s weight. Breast milk is formed from the blood and not from the gut and most of your food does not go to your blood as is. Junk should be avoided as it is of no nutritional value hence moms body does get the required nutrition and baby feeds hence nutrition to the baby is taken from moms bones and all.
9 Months Old Girl
One of my relatives dil did abortion because she is carrying girl baby. Already she have 2 girls. She is in 11 th week. She did scan in famous hospital in Hyderabad. Gender scanning is illegal still doctors doing for money. How a mother can do this. Feeling bad for that innocent baby.
5 Months Old Girl
Nw that I'm pregnant, I need to let out my long held grudge for those insensitive people who treat women with no children any different than women who have children. I once had to go through a disgusting situation since I didn't have baby even after 2 yrs of mrg(I was in clg at d tym of mrg and me n hubby decided not to hv baby for at least 2 yrs. So we weren't trying) I went to a funeral. It was an old man n he died of some disease and amnesia. In his last days he constantly threw up anything he ate n died of lack of food n water. They conducted a disgusting ceremony in which they gathered all the (infertile) women including me, as they say. These women were to wash the foot of the dead man and DRINK that water?! Because, he had 5 SON'S and 2 DAUGHTERS? What, like hell! But they did happily! I for one, had the sense to fake it, if not refuse all together. But totally enraged. EVERYONE in my family watched from distance including my MOTHER! Why do people do this? That's so CHEAP!
9 Months Old Boy
I donno how correct it is.. i heard that, actually v must not give oats to babies. Oats is dieting food,. as it will burn more calories to digest than it gives calories. That's y v use for dieting. So babies need more energy.. that's y ,v Don't give . nothing is there to not to give,the reason behind is that
Hi mom's, I posted about my abusive mother over excited about my pregnancy and got 3 replies. It was very helpful. Yes, I'm a mature independent woman, but my mom has got my whole family under her shadows. I'm afraid to loose a whole family as I'll soon give birth to a baby when I'd be needing all the help I can get. (I don't even know how to bath the baby). 1 of u asked about my hubby n in-laws. Hubby's a sweetheart. We have decided to deliver the baby at our place and he's completely supportive. In-laws don't often cross our path, but I sense they're not ready to offer ANY help. Which forces me to my maternal home where my mom is waiting for the moment to snatch my baby. And the whole family thinks that it NORMAL to separate baby from Mom as long as there's SOMEONE ELSE to look after. So that's my problem.
The best part is that your husband is supportive. U know every lady is scared about how she will take care of baby but once baby is in your hand U will slowly learn everything about your baby. U can even understand what they want only after listening the tone of their cry. Yes babies cry in different tones according to their needs like hunger, boredom, colic , want to go out etc. etc. God has given this inbuilt quality in every mother. So don't worry. For household work hire maid . Watch babies care videos. U will learn everything. If your mil is good enough you can ask to help you in taking care of her grand child for atleast 1 month. After that you can manage everything with help of maids. All the best..
7 Months Old Boy
Hi moms, suggest me a good FM . My baby is 7 month old and not accepting FM . I m giving him Similac
2 Months Old Girl
10 Months Old Girl
Hy mommies.. It's urgent plzzz reply.... Mere beti bed se gir gyi h... Uske Ek side swalling aa gyi eyes ke pss check n nose ke Kya kru..plzz bto....
Few Days Old Boy
I’m a breast feeding mom to 20 days baby.. plz tell what all things I should not eat.. I’m very confused.. Only option left for me is khichdi, daliya , lok , torai and moong dal.. plz tell what food to avoid
3 Months Old Girl
Dear Moms, Is anyone using tedibar soap and mamaearth body lotion for Ur baby to remove dryness of the skin? Does it workout well?? At present am using only tedibar...and not given any oil massage for my baby since my paed told not to be needed.Which is the best oil for baby massage? Should oil massage compulsorily given before every bath ???
Few Days Old Girl
Hiii...meri delivery c sec se hui hai 6 june ko muje tummy pr bahut hi jalan ho rhi hai aur stratchmarks b zyda hai kya kru??? jisse jalan kum ho jaye ...mujhse jalan sahen nhi ho rhi utni zyda ho rhi cloth b touch hota hai jalan hoti hai...plzzz rply
6 Months Old Boy
Want to ask one thing now a days people say never give cow milk before one year.. If want to introduce before 1 year only give fm.. But when we were children our elder were not known about fm I think mostly.. then hardly of us got problem.. Then why still many of us mainly me too depend on internet and dr.. don't understand sometimes what to do
hi dear during our childhood we used to get milk directly from animals but now a days we get packet milk which were collected from animals injected with hormones and all to get more production. but we humans are decreasing immunity, digestion ability generation after generation so just born may not have such capacity to digest all protein that is the reason doctors also suggest not to give animal milk till one year atleast
11 Months Old Boy
Husbnds r literally dogs,batmeejon m jra se bh senstivity ni hoti h,biwi bs sex k lie ya jhadoo poche tk k lie achi lgte h inko,bloody nonsence roj bhar ghumande marenge lekin agr saal m ek din biwi khin jana chahe apni friends k saath to maut pd jati h,khan jaege tu ,bcha chota h,paise ni h abi,shaam ka khana bna k jana Pyaar s bolne ko wqt ni h in logo k pass hr wqt mobil m friends k saath ghuse rhna,na bcha hndle krenge ,na he koi ghr ka kaam Kyk thy know we hv to live nd die here,we cnt go anywhere Plsss i beg u all mothers of boyz,srf raaja beta na bna k rkho apne boy baby ko,unhe akl do,sikhao k dusre maa baap bot lad se apni betiyon ko palte h,yun bekadre na kren humari,hume bh tkleef hoti h,hume bh pyar aur care chahie,hum bh insaan h Roke kismt ko kosne k elawa koi solution ni h aur,pls make ur babies gentleman to their wives
Hi dear, yes we treat son as very special that's y they behave like that, but that doesn't mean all men are same. After marriage my husband also behave same like u said about urs hubby. But do u know what it's ur life nd ur husband, posting here about him doesn't change his behaviour. Do u know what things will never be same, nd after doing so many things I just tired of my husband,he never listen to my words nor give any shit just few months back. But now he helps in household chores, playing wid baby, spending some quality tym wid me, he never forces me for sex, he understands me at every situation nd supports me as a good friend. He know very well about my short temper, but it's not a problem to him now. For all this It took 1 yr of tym after marriage. The only thing I did was, when ever he was in gud mood I used to tell about how I feel,and the hectic household chores, nd baby care etc at first he didn't tried to listen but I keep telling to him nd discuss about future plans etc etc.. Finally now the ball was in my court, the only thing I do when ever I dunt like something from him is just discuss normally on the end of the day. Quarrelling, pointing out those all just waste of time, if u quarrel vd husband it vl definitely effects on ur relation. Give him sometime to adjust or to understand instead of blaming him, just try to explain him ur problems
5 Months Old Boy
i was 55 kg before my first pregnancy..and after delivery i became 72kg..i didnt lose any wgt after c sec..and due to breastfeeding i ate a lot due to hunger..after one year i began to control my diet and when my baby became 2 yrs i came back to 55 kg without any exercise..bcoz i was not at all hungry and wgt began to reduce naturally..now afyer my second c sec am again 68kg..from past one month am following diet and exercise and became 65kg..still continuing diet and exercise to reach 55kg
5 Months Old Girl
Hello.. Please reply urgent.. My one csec stiche has opened today morning while carrying my elder daughter.. There is a small hole..doctor is out of station and asked me to apply ointment.. Please advice immediately..
1 Year 6 Months Old Boy
Dear mothers confused in personal life, hideing my name to avoid messages. I hv baby of 19 months since baby is born my husband has lost interest in me we are like a stranger in room I tried to provoke him but nothing is working no physical touch. I came across one person in office who is interested in me and we started dating he has caled me to his home tomo to spend sometime please help Shal I go or not go as I hv developed feelings for him
I dnt know how can we help a immature lady... ofcourse sex is important in a relationship but why the hell some ladies take it to ur head if not satisfied??? i came across the same situation question that she is thinking abt divorce bcoz "lack of sex"..but u r very advanced that u found amother man and ASKING SUGGESTION IN A PUBLIC FORUM...Wow......why to live as a stranger in the room??? only sex is carried on in the room??? and u r mentioning everything happened in "ur room"...anywaz...This place is not the caring room for couples... Juz tell ur husband that "since he is not interested in u, another man showed interest on u, and u too had developed feelings for him and u r gng to date with him"...Great future for u lady.. "Tinystep please dont approve des typ of questions in forum"..
Hi friends, anyone had a mom who tried to sabotage your mrg? Mocked you that your mrg will last no longer than 3 mnths? Said your child will never love you no matter what? Wished you get an abusive husband that sent you to your mom's home for yrs? Wished your mil was more cruel towards you? Yup, mine did! She was evil all her life. Now that I'm pregnant with my first baby, she's being so caring towards me. Calling me daily to ask how my day was(Normally she'd DEMAND me to do the same to her). She behaves like I'm carrying her baby. She has never been nice to me my whole life. It was all about her. When I was born 2 days after her due date, I did it to spite her. If I broke my knee and bleed, I did that to make her spend more. But all of a sudden, she's nice to me now! Once she casually joked that, she'll take my baby with her and bring up as her own, bc I CAN'T love it enough. It seemed like a joke. But given her BG, I don't trust her. Any suggestions to keep my baby safe from her?
You are a matured independent woman now with your own life. When you were a child you had no option but to put up with your mothers abuse. Now all that is in the past & you control your own life. Limit phone calls & discussions with her. Even after the baby is born you be the primary care taker. Don’t let her dominate you anymore, that horrible phase of your life is over. You have nothing to prove to her and nothing to make her understand. Just live the way you want and be happy that you are away from toxic relationships.