Hi experienced mom.. plz give me ur valuable answer .. i.m new mother my baby is 23 days old.. actually i want ask.. maine baby k 1st day s try kiya baby n feed nhi liya maine aj bhi baby jo feed krwana continue rkha hai. But baby 1minute me hi breast chhor deti hai bcoz mere nipple flat h. Nipple shield try kiya par koi jyada fayda nhi huaa.starting m maine baby ko bas feed p rkha tha jisase baby ka pat nhi bharta tha aur use jaundice ho gya vo soyi rhti thi so mere Huby n kha iska pet bharna jaruri h chahe jasie bhi so vo breast pump le aaye jisase mai milk store krke baby ko pilati hu vo achhe s pi leti h..nw problem is tht meri mil kh rhi hai aise pilane a milk supply band ho jaygi jb baby self feed lete h to supply increase hota h. Kya y shi h mai kya kru kuch smjh nhi aa rha.. baby ka pet bharna bhi to jaruri h..23 din ho gye jb vo self feed nhi le pa rhi h to kya kre.. kya sach me milk supply pe effect hoga plz reply soon.. m so tensed
If baby is recovered from jaundice then start breast feed him when he is hungry try 5 minutes for everytime. Baby will definitely suck if he is hungry later after five minutes give him your stored milk which you extract from pump. Both purpose will solve by this he will learn to latch & will not be hungry. One thing I am telling you it’s a very tough task to make him learn how to latch it needs lot of patience hard work & lots of tears for both of you child & you. But once when he will learn then it will be the most relaxing thing to a woman who can feed her child by its own. For at least one year you will be free from all tantrums & you baby will get best what he can,Nutrition & immunity.
Hello mom's.... Labour pains started... Since yesterday 11 mrng immediately after when my gynae had done my internal check up... Till now i m in labour... Every 10 mins i have pains then relax... Called my gynae... She told when pains come in every 5 mins then come to hospital.... What shall i do... Shall I go now as when the pain comes after 10 mins its unbearable...
Dear most of the time it happens. After internal check up labour pain starts in many cases. Same happened with my friend. Baby become nervous by this activity so due to restlessness of baby this labour pain begins. U have to bear pain in hospital too. Better to go when there is pain in every 5 min. At this time atleast ur family is with u. In hospital u r alone in labour room and they will not allow to meet anyone. Only for 2-3 times they allow only female members to meet u.. All d best dear. Share d gud news soon. We all are waiting 😊
5 Months Old Girl
plss answer my question frends...my baby is going to five months old in next two days...but from past one week.. she did not drink milk...neither formula nor bm ...when ever she saw bottle she started crying ..nd then i try with kotri nd spoon...nd then she drink only 3 ounce but in crying mood....nd whenever i try bm she again started crying and then i express my bm with the help of hand in kotri nd then gave her.. frends in nutshell nowadays she drank only 3 ounce fm nd only 1-2 bm with the help of katori nd also in crying mood... i m very tense plss suggest me wat i can do ..can i start fruit juice or dal water ..as she is going to complete 5 months within two days and 6th will start...plss suggest...and one thing more she is active as earlier ..and peeing 6-8 times daily but from face looking weak....
6 Months Old Girl
Hlo mommies meri baby bottle Ka milk bilkul b nhi pi Rhi h or Mera milk Uske liye sufficient nhi ho rha h Muje phle starting me to hota tha Bt Ab Km ho rha h maine lactonic granules powder b use kr liya Bt no effect what to do Muje meri baby Ka phle k according weight b Km LG rha h...
8 Months Old Girl
Why mommies?????why this happen always...😢 Society ko comments pass karne ke alva kuch ata hai ki nahi..aaj mai bohot bohot guilty feel kar rahi..meri beti 9 month ki vo thodi kmjor hai..weight bhi less hai..khati nahi ..roti jyada hai..but vo active hai..mere liye meri angel hi..aaj me 4 month bad mom ke ghar aai hu..yaha sab ne pareshan kar diya hai..baby bohot kamjor hai..ye khilao vo khilao..tum dhyan nahi deti..kundli dikhao..n all.. Aaj khilate samay vo bohot ro rahi thi..maine use jabardasti khilaya..aur chillayi uspe jor se.. bad me bohot rona aya..ma ke pass bohot roya bhi..pari ko bhi bohot sorry bola...sorrryyy baby...really very sorry😢😢 this society always trying to show hows u r bad mom😢😢
Next time when these people will say something else about ur child, will u again do this. No, a big no. Just because some tom, dick n Harry make comments we will loose our control n scold our innocent child. People will continue to do same, u cannot escape from this n cannot be rude to ur child. Relax dear, in this world people are not even happy with God also, they held God responsible for their problems, despite they themselves are responsible for this. So, raise ur child as u want, no one can be as responsible as mother. N no need to give justification about ur child to anyone. People are judgemental n will remain like this. So enjoy motherhood😊😊😊. And one more thing every child is different, growth patterns, body stature n behaviour. If she is active, achieving developmental milestones on time, don’t worry
Hi mommies! I have a personal question plz suggest me can't share it with any1.. Now I'm in 9 th week.. My Dr advised me not to have sex till 3 months.. I had 1 miscarriage so She gave me a susten(hormone pils) & mcbm69 pills & taking since 15 days.. from 2 days I'm very much interested in sex & in day time I sleep alone where my hus goes to Offc but in dream I feel to have.. Never ever happened for me like this.. Even for a Month I would b without sex but now.. What should I do.. My nxt visit for Dr is nxt week..
if doctor has advised you not to go for sex then avoide it, because as you have already a tragedy before so be careful this time, take susten medicine this is progesterone which helps in your baby growth. I am also in the same condition like yours, I also had missed my baby before, and this time taking all the precautions. so listen to you doctor and stay safe
2 Months Old Girl
Few Days Old Boy
URGENT!!! My baby was born at 34 weeks thru c sec. He was having blood supply prob and there was a cord loop on his neck. His wght is 2.1 kg and i ws given meds n injections. His is a bit weak and having latching problem. How should i care for him ? And me ? Pls help me with ur valuable advice.
2 Months Old Boy
Hello moms..mera baby 2 months old h mei apni mumma k ghr pe hu abi kl usey meri mumma ne thoda upar ka milk diya jis se vo bhut roya i think usk pet mei dard ho gya phir usey ajwayn di oe hing lgyi tb thik hua ..or vo bottol bhi ni leta muh mei mujhey tension h mujhey august mei office join krna h kya vo rh pyega mere bina..☹☹☹☹☹
Hello mummies.. this is my first pregnancy..i m suffering from vomiting ,weakness till now (this is 5th month running 9f pregnancy) bt I feel so pathetic whenever I meet ppl..or they cm to meet me..everyone says u r going to deliver baby girl (which is perfectly ok fr Me, cz I myself is a sport person so this nvr mind in my case) but jst bcz they had same symptoms doesn't mean u can conclude the same.. I get terribly irritate cz of this.. does this symptoms really applicable to specific gender of a baby? What to do with this mentality???
People will say one one thing for everything...just ignore them...u can't make then shut their mouths...u will hear a lot more things after the baby is born... I had vomitting throughout my pregnancies...First was a boy ( miscarried at 5 months) and second is a girl...even with my present pregnancy I had vomitting a lot till 5 months...now also I have not occasionally...so I am sure it's not related to gender..
Hii moms asking this questiion with guilt...plz reply asap..my 2 months old baby sleeps around 1 am in the night....i use diapers at night as she n me both can have uninterrupted sleep....but from few days....she is sleeping continously for 6 to 7 hours in the night...and i also dont wake her up for breastfeeding coz i also become so tired....plz suggest m i doing right...coz i have heard baby should be fed every 2 hours
Hi frnds. .today while making idiyappam I applied pressure in my hand to make curls. .will it give pressure in uterus also? Please tell me. .m worried. .
5 Months Old Girl
Hi mommies, i am a mother of two boy , during my second pregnancy we both were expecting a girl but we again had a boy. I m actually ok sometimes with having two boy, but I still miss that if I could have a girl child. I m tensed, n feel that I would not be able to connect to a my second child. Mommies of two boy n others plz share your experiences. Do u really miss of having a girl child?
All of you will agree with me that there is nothing more rewarding or satisfying than the time spent with your child. I have always managed to have a one to one time with both my boys. Trust me, when I say that I have learnt life's best lessons from these talks. Kids always amaze us, surprise us and make us realize that there is so much to learn from them. Their innocence makes them look at world and its innumerable problems, complexities, issues, troubles etc., without any bias. Last night, when I was having my one to one time with my younger son, he asked me "mummy, why do all mothers and fathers nowadays want only girls?" I did not know what to say. I opened my mouth twice to answer but I didn't know where to start. So I asked him why did he think it was like that. He said because "I hear all the aunties say how lucky it is to have a girl, girls are so cute." This hit me so hard, I felt so guilty. Being a mother of two boys, I do long for a girl. When I go shopping and look at all the beautiful clothes for little girls, I wish that I had a girl. When I felt that my elder son was not understanding what I was feeling, I wished I had a daughter. When I looked at old people who were being taken care of by their daughters I wondered who would take care of me. I thought I was only thinking all this in my mind, but I never realized I was saying it loud and my little boy was listening to me. I took a deep breath. I started by saying "I am sorry". I continued "I love both you and your brother a lot.I am very proud and happy that I am your mom. I would never ever exchange this for anything in the world. I never meant that I didn't not want you. But if my words have hurt you then I was wrong and it was not my intention. I do not want a girl in place of you. Boys and girls both are important." I hugged him and kissed him. I did not want to give any explanation to him for the wrong I did, because I have taught him to accept when he is wrong. I believe in being an example for my kids. He fell asleep but I couldn't sleep. I was thinking and my thoughts took me back to the time when I was small. Those were the times when everyone wanted boys. The birth of a boy was celebrated. If only one child could be educated then it was always the boy who would be sent to school. We have moved from those times and how drastically. We are not as bad as them but we are now only thinking of girls and women empowerment. We are trying to celebrate every thing about women. Most of my friends, who are moms of boys, knowingly or unknowingly have said it atleast once that it would have been nice to have a girl. Why can't we bring up our kids without any bias. Every child is born equal apart from the physical difference. How wonderful it would be if we could bring up the kids without any bias because of their gender. Coming back to the question my son asked, It will take some time for me to get out of my guilt. But I hope whoever is reading this, will learn from my experience and will not make the same mistake as I did. read this article somewhere changed my outlook
Hi mommies.. I took my last scan at 37 weeks 5 days.. baby is in extended breech and doc told it has not come head down..actually even in my 32weeks scan it was in breech only. So they told to come again next week to check once more the position. If it's in same position then doc telling to fix date for c sec.. is there any chances that baby will turn within 2 weeks ?
Congratulations !! Take a shower pack your bags eat what you want to eat take rest.. be positive wait pain will start after sometime... and when your active labour starts go to hospital. Symptoms- 1 Focused 2 can not walkor talk through contractions. remember labour is a journey of surprises your labour may b faster than you expected or may b slower. Your back hurt more than contractions do. And always remember your labour pledge.. i will work hard. Try my best. Focus on my baby. Share my wishes to people around. Use my voice don't hesitate to make noise. Move my body. Give myself a break. Do what i need to do and be present in this amazing life changing experience.. always have faith and positivity... i was indused and my labour was 18 hr long with long contractions and very frequently less than a minute but i was active and doing labour exercises for better delivery during labour I delivered normally after 18 hr.. eat healthy during labour or have energy drinks while pushing.. like nimbupani or any homemade drink juice... hoping for a good news soon stay blessed...
i don’t know should i ask this question or not.. i can’t share with anyone.. i know no one can understand it...!!😔 i am feeling alone .. very veryyyy alone... my husband has lots of friends.. some of them are my friends too... i was studying and and i would placed in feb if i was not pregnant... i feel very inferior... low confident... i don’t why i feel like my hubby is my life i love him alottg but i am just a part of his life... he z busy with his work... i live with his parents his sister and brother... i am feeling like i am still not mature sometimes i feel i should go somewhere and never come back.. i feel veryyy depressed some time... i am very emotional kind of girl i don’t know why i am like this i hate myself to be like this... i just want to ask can baby change ur life ? i mean after baby can i able to divert my mind.. will i feel better... ? i don’t know yrr kya puch ri hu but kya ye jo abhi akelapan sa lagta h ye thk ho jayga?????😔😔😔
my husband and I both are working in a govt setup and posted in different cities. my pregnancy is the first time I'm really getting to spend time with him alone (since none of our family members stay in this city). my husband loves and cares for me a lot but at times he just wants to fled away with his friends. initially I was a little taken aback by the fact and felt a little lonely since I have no friends in this city. and up of all I felt pregnancy is the time when he must stick besides me no matter what. but frankly speaking men are different. u can't just expect them to think in our ways. they will be hyper-emotional at times while at others they just want to run away from responsibilities and be that college kid again. I would admit fighting with him a few times regarding the same but in vain. Thus in my opinion the only right thing to do is to have your own life. find time for some hobbies, study if u still have your studies to finish, do yoga/meditation etc. the list is endless. but accept that your husband can love you without being next to you all the time and vice versa. Besides even as a pregnant woman you are never alone. you always have your little rockstar dancing inside of you. 😄
I am not able to understand why my husband is familier to hold the duties of a son only. M alone here and my husband is with his mom in Gurgaon due to some illness of my mil. He used to visit here once or twice in a month. And sometimes I feel that me and my baby we both r nothing for him in front of his mother. He is not caring, nd never ask abt my health. Our sexual life is not good, infact I am giving a second chance to my marriage, it really hurts. For him his sister and his mother is everything, me and my baby we both r nothing. M waiting for my baby and elders are advising me to wait, might be things gt change after baby's arrival. He is not interested in me nd m a working grl, working with a reputed University. Still I feel useless and helpless. We dnt want to stay together, And m really worried abt my delivery, nobody is going to stay with me except my mother. Really want to end up this relationship, I used to cry many hours. I used to wait for his call for 3-4 days.
Girl you deserve better ! Gone are the days where girls were looked down upon for standing up to such things... you are an independent woman .. you don't need him for anything except for companionship, moral support and to love. If he is incapable of any of these then you don't need him at all . And please please never ever think of ending your life or any such thing . Why should you be the one suffering .. if I were you I'll wait till baby comes , see if his behavior changes , if not tata bye bye . Yourbaby will give you all the strength you need . Rather your baby grows up with a strong single mom than living with a father who had not time no love no attention to give and who disrespects you . Opinion from my heart ...