4 Year 6 Months Old Boy
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Hey all, wud like to share one more issue here itself. that this cudnt b the only reason for not getting answers to other parenting questions. it's been a previous problem as well, when all this mess wasn't there. I had been a user since long n I know people always complaining that they hardly get any answer,including me 😔 the thing is forum isnt sorted in a proper way it shud b.. firstly most hyped post Come up.. then v see the questions as per our frnd list or followers thirdly, there is no sorting criteria like it comes in latest to oldest. it just comes up randomly. so if one question is raised, it might go very low in the scrolling n once unanswered or less answered, it will remain the same. even I never got more than 2-3 replies wnever I put my question. so this mess wasn't the only cause to it, it's a general setback of tinystep which shud b looked after as well. thanks to all for ur helpful alliance in getting this mess end.
6 Months Old Girl
Recently I am meeting loads of people who are full of lectures particularly baby sitter 🙁. Everyone is always ready to judge mother and think whatever the mother is doing is wrong, my baby sitter is like- u should give her banana, u don't give her any fruits, u should feed her cow milk blah blah blah. I want to go by my doc and in the same time I don't want the feeding session to b full of baby crying. I never feed my baby forcefully. If she doesn't want to have, I stop giving her and try giving the same food any other time. M I doing wrong?
4 Months Old Boy
It's totally different question..but plz do reply,,...I came to my mom's home but where my maa lives is industrial area..so here mosquitoes are like hell....I feel all-out is like no use,I can't use coils for baby n machhar ki agarbatti is also smoky n smelly.,odomos b lagaya but no use.. yesterday night mosquitoes ki wajah se my neend se uthh kar rone lagi and baby Ko net me daala tha but subah dekha k his legs are fully bited by mosquitoes...yaha bhabhiyo k bache b hy jinhe mosquitoes kaat rahe hy ..what to do for making our children safe from these mosquitoes..plz help dears..iam extremely in need
I hv suffered.. so lemme help with few things u must keep in mind.. keep windows n doors closed.. strictly by 5-6pm.. use mosquito nets.. and after entering.. use racket to kill few that may hv entered.. also.. coil sone k ek ghanta pehle room mei lagao.. Plus full sleeves clothing.. use AC for ventilation.. as ventilation us also important
2 Months Old Boy
Mri dlvry ko 3.5 month ho chuke h n Abhi tk period start ni hue h Mne bina protection k sex kiya h kya m pregent ho jaungi?
4 Months Old Boy
My baby is 18 month old, again im pregnant should i stop breast feeding, or can i continue till how many days i can
i delivered princess 13 march meri sister-in-law jo humare sath rhti thi with family mere 9th month ki starting m he sasural ghumne chli gyi aj aayi h 20 din bd mere mom mere paas aaye the mere naani b ab sb aagy toa naani chli gyi or mom b chle jaege itne din se meri mom ne sb kia or sb achha tha wo aate he care ki formalities krne lg gyi or mom ne puchha ka 45 days tk ap leave loage toa boli 5 days ki lungi mtlb k 5 days kr k ehsaan jatana h bs ab mere hubby b un k aate he change hogy mera munn krta h mr jau bs m sbse tang aa gyi hu mujhe kisi se bt krne ka b mun ni krta bs mun krta h roi jau or rote hue mun krta h k mr jau wo bolti baby ko 5 times malish krni h eye m kajal daalna h but m sirf ye jaan na chahti hu usse b or hubby se b k jb wo job pr jaegi tb tb b woa 5 times malish krne aaegi guys woa double face woman h just i know her.. i just want to die or toa or mere in-laws m yaha tk mere hubby ne mere baby ko only iss liye accept kia kuki koi option ni h boy chahiye
Hey yeh kya expectation setting kiya hai aapne?? Why should your SIL take 45 days leave to take care of your kid?? I see no logic here. You & your husband need to raise the baby & your in laws or parents can help. If that is not possible then get a maid. SIL has no obligation to take leave for more than a month for your sake! Your in laws/parents I assume are not working then why can’t they help you? You don’t have to follow your SIL or anyone else’s advise for your baby if you don’t want to. After 5 days she will anyways be gone then why you worry unnecessarily?
5 Months Old Girl
My daughter seems to be very hungry as she is on FM completely.. She will be 6 months on 7 Oct. I have to join back work on 2nd April.. Kindly suggest if I can introduce semi solid to her. If yes what all. She looks very hungry that she starts eating cloths... Suggestions needed.
might be due to teething..fm is equally nutritional as bm & fills baby Tummy for longer period of time since its heavier dan bm to digest...may b u need to increase quantity if u feel baby is hungry...u cn also start dal, rice water, diluted apple puree & boiled n cooled water.... wat was birth & current weight...??
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Hi I have problem of hubby n inlaws which one is correct suicide or divorce plz don't reply in harsh manner now my mind is not working to think positively I stuck in my life I discussed with hubby many times n no use n inlaws also wanted to separate me n my hubby they want only son to enjoy their life
I have no idea what you are going through what your problema are but if you have only 2 options left then go for divorce....suicide should not be ny option. we get only 1 life and we have to live it not for other but for ourself. everyone has problem in their life. many people do lots of struggle to earn so their family can eat properly at least once a day. even we are facing lots of financial problems sometimes i became very frustarted with all these problems and start thinking negative but my husband always positive he says that if he had no other option left then he will rather prefer to kill someone for his survival than quitting life. you know what happen if you quit only your baby will suffer. your parents will cry for few days your husband n in laws will forget you may be your husband will marry someone but what about your baby who will take care of him like you. no one will not even his own father or grand parents. just think about your baby. if your relationship with your husband is so bad then leave him be independent do struggle raise your child live your life find someone who can love you make your new family but never think about sucide.
A Month Old Girl
How to give baby good ettiquetes....as my baby 2 yrs old....mere ghr ka maahol pura typical Punjabi h
Hi.moms please boost me up. I am.feeling very depressed. I gave birth to my little angel on Jan 25. She is two months now. I feel like I am.not able to take care of her. No sleep at night. Not even day also. I am becoming sick day by day. I feel like my liberty of life is completely gone.
dear, it's normal,post partum blues n poat partum depression, happened with 15-20%women post delivery, but remains for max 2months if pist partum blues, but in your case it's more than 2months, so it's post partum depression, so better to consult pschologist, u r not mental pt, u just need some medicine some counseling some love care rest n sleep.i ve also gone through this n believe me i was thinking that i will become insane,bcoz no control of thoughts n over myself also. i want to escape from home, want sleep but can't due to overthinking. during that time also, my hubby not supported me as i was at my mom's place, even he didn't called me also. then i made my mind that if I'll become ill, there will be no one for my lil girl to take care. i gathered courage that if i can handle 9mth pregnancy then c section then this mental torture then I'm strong enough to come out of this situation,its not as big as my strength. i was about to go to consult psychologist but didn't go. what I've done i tell you 1.lack of sleep is the main reason, so sleep whenever baby sleeps, i used to sleep in another room during daytime atleast for first month, bcoz newborn baby makes lots of noises and slightest noise wake me up, so my mom took care of my baby, when need to feed, i go to feed her.my mother was n is my big supporter, thank god. 2.watch inspirational motivatinal videos on YouTube, i used to watch sandip maheshwari, shree krishna messages,and also watch baby caring videos, then gradually i start spending more time with my baby, doing massage, bath, tummy time, singing songs to baby 3.do yoga n exercise, believe me the best stress reliever, as ur baby is 4mths u can do any exercise u want. meditate, walking, yoga, aerobics. i also used to go at temple, sat there for some time .u can go to gardens with ur baby also.may be u've gain weight after delivery, so, set a goal of reducing weight n work on it. I've lost 16kgs total post delivery including baby weight also, it gives me positive energy to reach near my goal 4.talk with friends, enjoy, have some tasty food, do as per your hobbies, i used to cook my fav dishes, dance n reading 5.be positive, this time will also pass, onve ur baby will grow up, u'll cherish the memories, so collect good memories now, I'm even more strong and healthy mother. as it says that bad times makes u even a great better improved and mature person. u r mother and mother can do everything, happy motherhood to u dear.😊
10 Months Old Girl
Hi all My baby at night cries in sleep and moves.Then I hav to offer bf.she sucks for a minute and sleeps again.how to stop this.even if i pat she cries and moves.only Way to make her sleep is bf.I hav to b away from her for a month.How to make her sleep.please help
8 Months Old Boy
My baby is 8 month old his daily routine is as follows 1.7:00 .formula milk 2.8:30 boiled egg 3.11:00 apple puree 4. 1:30 rice with potato mash with homemade ghee 5. 5:00 formula milk 6.7:00 biscuit 7.8:30 chapati soaked un dal is it ok Ad anytime breatmilk
hieee.... feed ur baby on demand only means only when he is hungry..... that is how even adults should eat food.... feeling hungry is the signal that our body gives that it's ready with all the digestive enzymes trickled in our stomach to accept food..... when we eat after we feel hungry our body digests the food we eat and converts the food to appropriate energy we need.... let our babies understand this basic concept of eating.... let them feel hungry and ask for food... let them enjoy their food and eating..... routine time based eating habit may even bore them.... give ur baby varieties every single day or every single meal if possible.... slowly can start giving all vegetables fruits home made snacks.... in little quantity.. this way u 'll eventually find out what ur baby likes and what he doesnt... food/taste preferences in kids means a lot... it's our responsibility to get to know that.... and encourage self eating.... let him eat 10% and waste 90% too... but slowly baby will learn to eat become more interested towards food.... happy parenting :) :)
4 Months Old Girl
Animal milk nahi dena,honey nhi dena,salt and suger nahi dena,kajal nhi lagana,ear and nose mein sarso ka oil nhi lagana h ....so many baathein..jabki ham sab aise hi pale h ...hamre maa-baap se....ajkal ke baccho ko hum hi logo ne sensitive bana diya h..
esa or b bot kuch hai jo pehle hota tha ab ni hota ya wese nahi hota. me na to old myths k against hu totally or na hi completely unke favor me. ap 1 baat socho. pehle Koyle se angithi jala k khana bnate the, Aj ki date me possible h K sab ese kre? ab to coal use krna b punishable h ese, cities me specially. or gas ane k baad to stove b koi use ni krta, angithi to bot pehle ki baat ho gai. 2) ladies pehle periods me Kapde use Karti thi. pads to the hi ni. jab pads ae to unke baare me sab negative thoughts n still they continued with cotton clothes. humari generation me aake clear hua h k Kapde se zyada infection hoti h. Aj Kal to biodegradable pads b ane lge h or unki replacement me menstrual cup etc b. jo Sab apne question me likha, wo Sab hota tha or Aj b hota h. tab doctors ni hote the,researches ni hoti thi, awareness ni hoti thi kon pehle baccho ko leke jaya Krta tha Ya koi b alternate? to jo Purane methods chalte are the, Wahi follow krte rehte h log. me ye ni kehti k Ye Sab galat h. but yes many of dem are rather harmful. n I wud like to mention facts that. infant mortality rate under 5years, India always tops the list in d world. never left top 5 list. needless to say, Pehle kitne babies ki death b hoti thi. Aj Kal pregnancy issues, immunity, sensitivity, yeah sab zyada h. i agree. but not deaths. Pehle under 5 babies ki death bot common thing, multiple reasons ki wajah se. hum logo K grandfathers k time pe, they used to birth 10 kids. hum Krenge Aj?? har koi cheez or har thought process ko evolve hona hota h with time. jo Sab apne btaya, un Sabke side effects h, scientifically proven. esa b h k sabko ni hote. but ho sakte h, isliye mana kiya jata h ab. I hope It made u understand dear.
Hi c-section moms, please share your successful stories in detail of reducing tummy after c section.
i had c section. my last weight on c section day was 70kg, after 10days of c section, it was 58kg, now recently my weight was 53kg. due to cs i can't do dieting but what I'm doing, i tell you 1.morning 1lemon with lukewarm water of 1glass 2.no oily food no junk food 3.lots of water atleast 10-14glass water per day and that to lukewarm water, it will increase metabolism 4.walking,yoga exercise 5.take healthy food but not in increased qty 6.suryanamaskar in morning 7.sleep enough as metabolism disturb due to lack of sleep 8.breastfeed more n more. it is said that breastfeeding mom burns 500-800 calories per day and remember, spot losing is a myth, in order to reduce tummy or any other specific area weight u've to do whole body exercise try it. I've start from walking when 2mths post caesarean, happy losing😊👍
5 Months Old Girl
Hi mommies. What r the minimum duties that a husband should do after returning home from Ofc(10to 5)I mean regarding household work or baby caring etc etc. What your husband's do?
my husband do almost everything i can do .. he takes care of my 6 month old daughter he prepares milk also made her drink too he sometimes change diaper also if required i m a total tea lover he makes good tea for me sometimes yummy yummy sandwiches also he also washes porch area when i was pregnant he also does all the laundry now he helps me in doing laundry he do every work related to our pet .. i never do it .. i think this gives me too much comfort because i m also working and he really believes in equality 😊😊😊
Hi momies. Kya Ist and secnd child k between 3 year ka gap thik hai?? Mera secnd baby unplanned hai so mujhe boht dikkat ho rhi hai sb handle krne mein. Mera beta( ist child) abhi bol bhi ni pata. Susu potty bhi ni bta pata. Uss wajah se boht tention hai. Can't understand ki 2 bche main akele Kaise handle kr paugi. Kya aap mein se bhi kisi k sath aisa hua hai??? Pls share ur experiences.
my 2 kids have 3 yrs gap..when i was pregnant my elder son needed me for everything..for bathing eating doing potty urine sleeping etc etc..upto delivery i did everything..after that one week my hus and my mom struggled a lot bcoz he was not willing to do these things with them..he wanted me..now again after rest of 2 months am doing everything and handling both kids alone..yes its really tough..but u knw its just feels like my life is complete seeing them growing together..this tough time will pass soon and once they grow up we will be free..dont worry dear..everything will fall in place..take care..
Hey mom , i knw depression occurs .. bt death is not the solution of everything.. u must have strong belief on god , and attempting suicide is a sin in every religion, this life is given by god and he will take it when he wants , and if u r trapped in a pb its a just a test from god , he is testing u , that how pateintly u r bearing it and how strong belif u have on god , after every night day comes , so in the same way if today u r in pb , it wont last forver .. i hope my peice of advice will help u out ..